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:rolleyes: yall know there is some real high school shit that goes on in there. I've even heard people talking about they hate blah blah blah. Shit was cool in the beginning but some fucked it up. Thats why some who have chatted before won't comeback.
 
I don't want to put nobody out there like that and it didn't seem all that serious to me so I may be way off base...

I'd rather wait for Lone to speak up on it though.

Word. I only remember Star being there twice while I was there, so I really have no clue what's going on. But as Andey said, if she has an issue with the chat and/or someone in there I'd rather hear (read) it from her...

...That being said...

i never got a pm so i guess it aint that serious! when u come ls29 we'll be waitn with open arms!
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Why does everybody have such a problem just coming in there, laughing, talking shit, listening to music and looking at videos and then logging off ? People need to stop taking themselves so seriously and learn how to have a good time. If you are too sensitive then it's probably best that you stay away because catching feelings over shit said in the chat is lame as hell.


True indeed. The times I've been there were all about having fun. We've got a nice group of people who come in there, so things are usually done in the name of fun. There are times when folks get in to it, but for the most part the BS stays out. I hope we can keep a positive vibe in there. If all else fails I would suggest putting people on ignore or staying away if things get too hot...
 
:rolleyes: yall know there is some real high school shit that goes on in there. I've even heard people talking about they hate blah blah blah. Shit was cool in the beginning but some fucked it up. Thats why some who have chatted before won't comeback.

Its all fun and games like Swat said if people dont like it you don't have to come in there plain and simple. I am cool with everyone in there and if I have a problem with them I let them know which is what other people should do if they have issues going on. I am still going to enjoy myself in there regardless


There is an ignore button if someone is bothering you that much also.
 
aww damn...say it aint so


HUGS for EVERYONE!!

its just commmmmmmmmmmmedy lol


nah but seriously...yall know i dig the chat..its cool

we have good convo's (yes we talk about more than sex), a lot of laughs, clowning all around, sarcasm and some peep shows...its all good

now granted...u have some that attention whore, or go too hard and it rubs ppl the wrong way after a while but that is to be expected. if they were like that on the board what would make u think they would be that different in chat?

i mean i have been annoyed by ppl and i'm sure i've annoyed ppl but i don't take it to heart.

we should have a pop off night...nah i'm kidding but seriously... if someone is annoying you to the point that you don't want to chill in a place that was once comfortable for you...pm them and talk about it or as someone said...put em on ignore.

i've gotten to know some people a lot better in there and they are cool, even the one's i was kinda iffy about...i got to know a little bit more about thier personality and they str8 too

for those who have NOT been in and aren't gonna give it a shot due to SOMEONE ELSE's experience....don't cheat urself, treat urself

LOVE PEACE AND HAIR GREASE PEOPLE


damn that was a lot...oh well...and heeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrreeee comesssssss COLLIN!! hahahahaha
 
Its all fun and games like Swat said if people dont like it you don't have to come in there plain and simple. I am cool with everyone in there and if I have a problem with them I let them know which is what other people should do if they have issues going on. I am still going to enjoy myself in there regardless


There is an ignore button if someone is bothering you that much also.



:smh: Aint no one bothering me. I'm pointing out what I and everyone else see. I go in there cause I enjoy chatting with the people in there but when or before the ignorant shit kick off I'm out. Yall in denial if shit is just fun why people talking about who they hate. I already confronted that shit when I heard it. When people speak up too some are quick to say oh you bringing negativity to the chat. Thats why I let my situation slide, I'm not there to argue with no one I'm there to laugh, joke and have a good conversation.
 
now granted...u have some that attention whore, or go too hard and it rubs ppl the wrong way after a while but that is to be expected. if they were like that on the board what would make u think they would be that different in chat?

i mean i have been annoyed by ppl and i'm sure i've annoyed ppl but i don't take it to heart.
You better preach ju!! My ignore button stays hit LOL
don't cheat urself, treat urself
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:smh: Aint no one bothering me. I'm pointing out what I and everyone else see. I go in there cause I enjoy chatting with the people in there but when or before the ignorant shit kick off I'm out. Yall in denial if shit is just fun why people talking about who they hate. I already confronted that shit when I heard it. When people speak up too some are quick to say oh you bringing negativity to the chat. Thats why I let my situation slide, I'm not there to argue with no one I'm there to laugh, joke and have a good conversation.

wait..did i miss something? who is hating someone? awww i hope they don't really mean that cuz that is a very strong word and requires a lot of energy towards a person who you supposed don't care for.
 
:smh: Aint no one bothering me. I'm pointing out what I and everyone else see. I go in there cause I enjoy chatting with the people in there but when or before the ignorant shit kick off I'm out. Yall in denial if shit is just fun why people talking about who they hate. I already confronted that shit when I heard it. When people speak up too some are quick to say oh you bringing negativity to the chat. Thats why I let my situation slide, I'm not there to argue with no one I'm there to laugh, joke and have a good conversation.

I wasnt referring to you Mc, so kill that.I was saying "you" in a general sense. If you want to leave,ok cool with me. If I really gave a damn about someone not liking me in there then I would have a problem. No one can expect everyone to get along as there are many different personalities. I don't know what convo ya'll had about who hates who. Yes people annoy me but that happens in everyday life,its a part of life so why complain. Either keep it moving or check them plain and simple which is how I handle it.
 
I wasnt referring to you Mc, so kill that.I was saying "you" in a general sense. If you want to leave,ok cool with me. If I really gave a damn about someone not liking me in there then I would have a problem. No one can expect everyone to get along as there are many different personalities. I don't know what convo ya'll had about who hates who. Yes people annoy me but that happens in everyday life,its a part of life so why complain. Either keep it moving or check them plain and simple which is how I handle it.

This is true. I mean it may seem like some hateful shit if you just walk in but everybody that is on there reg has love for one another and we welcome newcomers with open arms as long as you are not on some bullshit.

I hate that lone feel like she do though. I mean you start to feel a sense of community after a while and to see somebody not feel wanted makes it kind of fucked up ya know.
 
high school hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

let me break down what that really means...........

high school is an institution...right?
an institution of learning and preparing you for the "real world".......ok ya following me?
this is the 1st place we get experiences of life and people away from home.........
some peeps had more bad experiences than good in highschool , and vice versa.........

now your job, gym, and even the chat is an institution....
this is why some people equate bad experiences to high school because thats the 1st and usually the most embedded experience!

now knowing this you can tell who had a tough time in highschool and can't let it go..........:lol:

institution

1: an act of instituting : establishment
2 a: a significant practice, relationship, or organization in a society or culture <the institution of marriage>; also : something or someone firmly associated with a place or thing <she has become an institution in the theater> b: an established organization or corporation (as a bank or university) especially of a public character; also : asylum


the next time you hear the highschool, depending on the context in which it was used, reference think about that guys and girls.




I hate that lone feel like she do though. I mean you start to feel a sense of community after a while and to see somebody not feel wanted makes it kind of fucked up ya know.
 
Let me add that a lot of the people who are complaining about the culture of the chat had no problem dishing it (when it came to the comedy), but couldn't handle it when the tables turned and it was time to receive...
 
I wasnt referring to you Mc, so kill that.I was saying "you" in a general sense. If you want to leave,ok cool with me. If I really gave a damn about someone not liking me in there then I would have a problem. No one can expect everyone to get along as there are many different personalities. I don't know what convo ya'll had about who hates who. Yes people annoy me but that happens in everyday life,its a part of life so why complain. Either keep it moving or check them plain and simple which is how I handle it.


No need to get like that SS we having a discussion arent we? And no one expects everyone to get along but you gotta admit there was/is a certain level of immaturatiy and I'm not talking about the jokes.
 
Ok. I know this is way off topic, but, I got a question about baked zitti.
Ight, so after you boil the water and add salt, do you add the sausages before or after the cheese?? Does Stouffers make baked zitti??
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Ok. I know this is way off topic, but, I got a question about baked zitti.
Ight, so after you boil the water and add salt, do you add the sausages before or after the cheese?? Does Stouffers make baked zitti??
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OMG :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: You are insane!
 
Ok. I know this is way off topic, but, I got a question about baked zitti.
Ight, so after you boil the water and add salt, do you add the sausages before or after the cheese?? Does Stouffers make baked zitti??
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:lol::lol::lol::lol: Sean you something else yes....gotta love it :lol::lol:
 
Ok. I know this is way off topic, but, I got a question about baked zitti.
Ight, so after you boil the water and add salt, do you add the sausages before or after the cheese?? Does Stouffers make baked zitti??
:confused:

LOL you brown the sausages in a separate pan :lol:
 
high school hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.



now knowing this you can tell who had a tough time in highschool and can't let it go..........:lol:

institution

1: an act of instituting : establishment
2 a: a significant practice, relationship, or organization in a society or culture <the institution of marriage>; also : something or someone firmly associated with a place or thing <she has become an institution in the theater> b: an established organization or corporation (as a bank or university) especially of a public character; also : asylum


the next time you hear the highschool, depending on the context in which it was used, reference think about that guys and girls.
Of course, if you could understand that when people say high school, it is being used as a colloquial term that conveys an immature, cliquish, condescending, pack of wolves mentality. There are not referring to their own personal high school experiences. The more you know.
 
aww damn...say it aint so


HUGS for EVERYONE!!

its just commmmmmmmmmmmedy lol


nah but seriously...yall know i dig the chat..its cool

we have good convo's (yes we talk about more than sex), a lot of laughs, clowning all around, sarcasm and some peep shows...its all good

now granted...u have some that attention whore, or go too hard and it rubs ppl the wrong way after a while but that is to be expected. if they were like that on the board what would make u think they would be that different in chat?

i mean i have been annoyed by ppl and i'm sure i've annoyed ppl but i don't take it to heart.


we should have a pop off night...nah i'm kidding but seriously... if someone is annoying you to the point that you don't want to chill in a place that was once comfortable for you...pm them and talk about it or as someone said...put em on ignore.

i've gotten to know some people a lot better in there and they are cool, even the one's i was kinda iffy about...i got to know a little bit more about thier personality and they str8 too

for those who have NOT been in and aren't gonna give it a shot due to SOMEONE ELSE's experience....don't cheat urself, treat urself

LOVE PEACE AND HAIR GREASE PEOPLE


damn that was a lot...oh well...and heeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrreeee comesssssss COLLIN!! hahahahaha

Hmmm...I'm wondering who you could be referring to...lol

The attention-whoring concept, I just don't get...I'm a flirt and I have girlfriends that are flirts... I know many women that flirt on the main board, and it seems, when they do it in chat, it's like a big 'ole catastrophic event, all of a sudden...maybe it's hard for some people to not be the popular one anymore? :confused:

I think it's funny and playful-like when people flirt and chat about shit in the chat room...it's not like people are taking it off the board/chat or something...it's all in good fun...

For me, chat has been like putting out there the person I can't be at my job, at church, etc...I've opened up a lot through chat, and, if people get pissed off by it, so be it...this isn't nursery school and everyone isn't going to get along. I like the arguments and debates that people can have in real time on there...

For me, it was hard getting settled into the chat, but now that I am, I have fun with it...I suggest everyone give it a try again...just get in where you fit in...
 
now granted...u have some that attention whore, or go too hard and it rubs ppl the wrong way after a while but that is to be expected. if they were like that on the board what would make u think they would be that different in chat?

Ain't that the truth! Co-sign on your whole post Ju. If you put yourself out there like that, be prepared to take it...
Also, like Follow said, the ignore button is your friend!

But its all good...it's JUST a chat people! Welcome to life...not everyone is going to love you...deal and move on. I love Xat. :)
 
Hmmm...I'm wondering who you could be referring to...lol

The attention-whoring concept, I just don't get...I'm a flirt and I have girlfriends that are flirts... I know many women that flirt on the main board, and it seems, when they do it in chat, it's like a big 'ole catastrophic event, all of a sudden...maybe it's hard for some people to not be the popular one anymore? :confused:

I think it's funny and playful-like when people flirt and chat about shit in the chat room...it's not like people are taking it off the board/chat or something...it's all in good fun...

For me, chat has been like putting out there the person I can't be at my job, at church, etc...I've opened up a lot through chat, and, if people get pissed off by it, so be it...this isn't nursery school and everyone isn't going to get along. I like the arguments and debates that people can have in real time on there...

For me, it was hard getting settled into the chat, but now that I am, I have fun with it...I suggest everyone give it a try again...just get in where you fit in...


I was going to discuss this on the board but I will just talk to you in chat.It has nothing to do with anyone not getting attention,I will leave it at that for now
 
one more week and I'll be out of this hotel and at my house. Then I can participate nightly.

Looking forward to it.
 
Had fun in chat last night.............as usual. Those 20 questions was something serious!

:lol::lol:

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Hmmm...I'm wondering who you could be referring to...lol

The attention-whoring concept, I just don't get...I'm a flirt and I have girlfriends that are flirts... I know many women that flirt on the main board, and it seems, when they do it in chat, it's like a big 'ole catastrophic event, all of a sudden...maybe it's hard for some people to not be the popular one anymore? :confused:

I think it's funny and playful-like when people flirt and chat about shit in the chat room...it's not like people are taking it off the board/chat or something...it's all in good fun...

For me, chat has been like putting out there the person I can't be at my job, at church, etc...I've opened up a lot through chat, and, if people get pissed off by it, so be it...this isn't nursery school and everyone isn't going to get along. I like the arguments and debates that people can have in real time on there...

For me, it was hard getting settled into the chat, but now that I am, I have fun with it...I suggest everyone give it a try again...just get in where you fit in...

hmmm you seem a lil defensive when there were no names mentioned darlin...and who said i was refering to a female? who said it was just one person? lol

I was going to discuss this on the board but I will just talk to you in chat.It has nothing to do with anyone not getting attention,I will leave it at that for now

did i miss this conversation?

Had fun in chat last night.............as usual. Those 20 questions was something serious!

:lol::lol:

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awwww when i popped in it seemed like yall were having fun but i just couldn't hang...i was stressed and had a major headache

i guess i'll just have to catch it another time
 
Of course, if you could understand that when people say high school, it is being used as a colloquial term that conveys an immature, cliquish, condescending, pack of wolves mentality. There are not referring to their own personal high school experiences. The more you know.

That's not true. When I say refer to high school I don't think of cliques or pack of wolves mentality because my high school experience wasn't like that and if that is true you encounter cliques and packs of wolves youe whole life in any institution including work institutions. The more you know.

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