How do i know the baby is mine though?
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You are right, 10 months/40 weeks is considered full term.
This fool is crazy, unprotected with a complete stranger and this is like the 4th or 5th time this has happened to him?! WTF?! You NASTY! You are too old for this type of BS.
Technically full term is anything above 37 weeks (so 38 on up)
She is right.... full term is 40 weeks. Your due date is the first day of the 10th month. When you go over that, that's when they talk about induction. Your baby technically can be delivered from 2 weeks before 40 weeks to 2 weeks after healthily.
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You are both right ... full term is 40 weeks(10 months) but having the baby anytime after 36 weeks(9 months) is ok
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She is right.... full term is 40 weeks. Your due date is the first day of the 10th month. When you go over that, that's when they talk about induction. Your baby technically can be delivered from 2 weeks before 40 weeks to 2 weeks after healthily.
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You can deliver before then if you have a complication of pregnancy or fetal distress, but the fetus would need steroids to help mature the lungs. That's the limiting step - fetal lung maturity. I have personally delivered a baby as early as 24 weeks and it survived (in the ICU, of course)...some say even this is possible even earlier in pregnancy. Those kids don't do very well tho...But that happens only in cases where the mother's life was in jeopardy or she smoked cocaine or had a car accident that made her abrupt her placenta.
Also, her due date depend on how it was calculated. Is it by her Last Menstrual Period or by her ultrasound dates? (crown-rump length early in pregnancy or fetal head circumference or femur length later on) Periods are mostly unreliable - ultrasound is more accurate.
The other option for paternity testing is an AMNIOCENTESIS (or chorionic villi sampling earlier on) prior to birth, which is too risky for just routine paternity testing. But if there is a suspicion for a fetal anomaly (abnormal quad screen), it can be done to detect genetic defects. Some people can test the mother's blood for fetal DNA, which is usually present in small amounts, but not always.
Either way, mouth swab DNA testing is the "gold standard" nowadays..I wouldn't sign SHIT until that's done...
at 34 you telling me its ok to be living with moms in a apt. Man bye! All them mofo's up in that apt....I don't care how much it costs, and he said she ain't working so I don't want to hear that shit!
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at 34 you telling me its ok to be living with moms in a apt. Man bye! All them mofo's up in that apt....I don't care how much it costs, and he said she ain't working so I don't want to hear that shit!
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No I'm not. Look at it as is if it's ok to be in and out of jail. It's not ok but what's going on. The funny thing is that folks here need to have an impressive car over their own place and it's not ok to be on the train/bus unless you have a car. Fuck that.
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Man you are one of the slowest brothas I know...lol She emailed you to tell you she is pregnant but does not want any contact with you or allow you to see her. My brotha you have fell for her trap. She wants you to chase her. DONT DO IT.
This is what you do to stay out of trouble. Even tho she will not allow you to speak to her drop money off to her for prenatal care. KEEP ALL RECIPTS AND USE ONLY MONEY ORDERS. Continue to do this until the child is born. Once born go and get a DNA test to see if this is your child. If this is not your child. File a court order to receive your money back for prenatal care.
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Man you messed up by going Tic for Tac with her. Tic for Tac will get NOWHERE with a female. Just tell her something like this "I know that this child was not planned and poor judgment was made on both our parts. I am sorry for doubting you before. I was just being cautious and I admit I was a little scared. I want to express to you that I want to be apart of the childs life. If there is anything you need contact me so I can be there for you. Doctor appointments and other prenatal care I will take care of for you. I don't want you to stress about the situation at all in order that we have a healthy baby. Nigga that was all you had to say. You made it worst by going tic for tac
This is what you do to stay out of trouble. Even tho she will not allow you to speak to her drop money off to her for prenatal care. KEEP ALL RECIPTS AND USE ONLY MONEY ORDERS. Continue to do this until the child is born. Once born go and get a DNA test to see if this is your child. If this is not your child. File a court order to receive your money back for prenatal care.
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Man you messed up by going Tic for Tac with her. Tic for Tac will get NOWHERE with a female. Just tell her something like this "I know that this child was not planned and poor judgment was made on both our parts. I am sorry for doubting you before. I was just being cautious and I admit I was a little scared. I want to express to you that I want to be apart of the childs life. If there is anything you need contact me so I can be there for you. Doctor appointments and other prenatal care I will take care of for you. I don't want you to stress about the situation at all in order that we have a healthy baby. Nigga that was all you had to say. You made it worst by going tic for tac
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Good looking out bro. I tried to call her bluff but she kept running with it this pregnancy thing.
Ever since high school (and i was a virgin all 12 grades up until 1999, i'm 34 now) girls have been running this pregnancy game on me, trying to scare the living piss out've me with it. I had a girl in high school that tried to get me to have sex with her, only to find out the she was 2 months pregnant already. Pissed me off. She was fast as hell and lived in the hood (Seat Pleasant) so she scared me from losing my virginity to her with her loud mouth an aggressive hood behaviour.
When i got my first apartment and was living alone (Greenbelt Md Brittany place) i had a lil jumpoff around my apartment complex that i would hit every monday evening, when i was off work and when she wasn't on her period. About a month into us being together, i'm walking by this restauraunt and i see her sitting in their with this ole thug cat and when she sees me she excuses herself from dude and runs after me into the pizza shop that was next door. ( i was going to get a slice) I told her to her face that i wasn't feeling our friendship anymore and that she should go back with that dude she was in the restuaraunt with. She blurted out to me in front of everybody that she was pregnant and that i was going to be the daddy and bopped out've there. I was shook and humiliated. Later that evening she called me around to her building and after i agreed to mend our relationship she finally broke down and told me that she wasn't pregnant, it was my attitude that pissed her off. Maan, i cutt that hoe off with the quickness after that. She would call begging me to see if she could come around around and take showers and borrow this and that but i never let her step foot back into my place after that.
Last year 2007, i got my heart broke by this younging. (21) She played me like a damn flute. She was messing with this cat on her job and got pregnant by this cat + contracted hiv from him. Before her dealings with him, ma was a virgin. She was so cute and petite. I loved her with my whole heart. (and still do) I think about her everyday (still do) but she tried to get with the kid and i'm so thankful i resisted (only because i wanted to marry her and had i hit before, i wouldn't have had no intrest in her like that) and she tried to hemm me up.
With this girl here, she taking this game to a whole nother level. I do beleive she is preggo, but i'm having doubts that it's mine. I've already burned bridges with her and to attempt to make anymore contact right this minute i feel, would be putting fuel on the flames.
I want to be the best daddy i can be, but i don't want to get my family hyped (you know how moms can be, especially a new grandmother & grandfather) only to find that it isn't mines.
Nigga, kill yoself, the more you talk, the more disgusted I become. Fucking with young girls, being just an idiot in general. I know this is the ladies side but nigga..........you a pathetic mess!
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Also, me and her went to high school together. It's not like i contacted her with absolutely no history between us. I was looking on facebook to see if any of my graduating class was on there, none were, but she was. She came out a year before i did. I graduated in 1992, she came out 1991.
She was baaad back in high school and my corny ass was no damn where on her level, besides, i was a virgin anyway. High school was some very awkard years lol! She was baadd back in the day. From her facebook photo's, i could see she had gained mad weight. I wasn't concerned about it though, as i just wanted some pussy from her phat ass.
We did the damn thing and i rolled out, dropped her back off and igged her. She wasn't going for that, as she thinks she can control me. (which she's doing btw) We were together on Oct 10, 2007 (exact date) She contacts me on Nov 14, 2007 to tell me she's pregnant. I get to arguing after a while because she's sticking to her script to good for the kid. I again cut off contact with her and bam on Jan 1, 2008 she emails me telling me that 'i shouldn't think my ass is gonna get away scott free like that from responsiblity' and that she's due in July.
Ok, we were together in Oct & you know for sure that you are pregnant 1 month later? Because of a missed period? It seems fishy but i went with it after i saw her sticking with her story. i kept trying to tell her that i was going to get a dna test, but then it dawned on me that that can't be, until the baby is here. So i'm stressing for 9 months.
I'm thinking the ladies here could interpret from her emails (womens intuition) whether or not this is a game or not.
She was baaad back in high school and my corny ass was no damn where on her level, besides, i was a virgin anyway. High school was some very awkard years lol! She was baadd back in the day. From her facebook photo's, i could see she had gained mad weight. I wasn't concerned about it though, as i just wanted some pussy from her phat ass.
We did the damn thing and i rolled out, dropped her back off and igged her. She wasn't going for that, as she thinks she can control me. (which she's doing btw) We were together on Oct 10, 2007 (exact date) She contacts me on Nov 14, 2007 to tell me she's pregnant. I get to arguing after a while because she's sticking to her script to good for the kid. I again cut off contact with her and bam on Jan 1, 2008 she emails me telling me that 'i shouldn't think my ass is gonna get away scott free like that from responsiblity' and that she's due in July.
Ok, we were together in Oct & you know for sure that you are pregnant 1 month later? Because of a missed period? It seems fishy but i went with it after i saw her sticking with her story. i kept trying to tell her that i was going to get a dna test, but then it dawned on me that that can't be, until the baby is here. So i'm stressing for 9 months.
I'm thinking the ladies here could interpret from her emails (womens intuition) whether or not this is a game or not.
Nigga, kill yoself, the more you talk, the more disgusted I become. Fucking with young girls, being just an idiot in general. I know this is the ladies side but nigga..........you a pathetic mess!
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Firstly, this 21 year old was going after me, not the other way around. I wasn't paying absolutely no attention to her. She pursued me intially. I admired her persistence, as i'm not all that and i'm sure she could've done much better than myself, or at least find someone on her level.
Her intentions were to play with my feelings, and infect me with hiv + put a pregnancy on my head. ARE YOU READING THAT PART?
The hiv rate in this area, md/dc/va is something like 1 in 20, is infected with it.
Sweetie I can read and comprehend but you can't it seems. What the fuck is a 34 year old nigga doing messing with a 21 year old. Whether she chased you or not. Everything you say, screams that you asked for it for your damn self. Fucking bitches with no condoms, runnin around with girl who just got the go ahead to drink alcohol legally, oh and lets not forget all the other misfortunes that have befallen you with other girls. Chasing pussy on facebook at 34.......your a sad excuse for a man. Now you coming here, crying about how you are the victim, nigga please, your old enough to know 'what could happen' when you make dumb choices and its not like its a first for you, you said you have been through this multiple times. So muthafucka, I can read, its your comprehending of your sad excuse for a life that is your problem. Stupid nigga!
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Cool, i won't argue with you Mz Million.
I'm sorry, you right, i'm wrong. (typical simp move on my part apologizing)
These ladies out here, give a damn less about someones feelings, the same ways niggas do you'll. It's all a damn game. 21, 35, makes no difference, a hoe gonna be a hoe, real talk.
These youngings coming straight out've college scheming to get some footiing in the world, and will use whatever tactics and avenues are available.
I trusted her (the 21 year old, she's 22 now) as i'm not into second guessing someones motivations. She got caught up on her first go around and like a woman scorned was gonna make a simp pay as she evidently got played by ole boy.
I don't feel sorry for her in the least, only thing is, is that i allowed her to get into my heart. I'm not one of these cats that is unfeeling. I care about her welfare, but to an extent. I have my own situation, not as dire as hers though, so i can empathize with her. I'm still angry that she tried to twist my life up like that but i should been on guard
Because females swear 'i'm sooo nice' they get that twisisted that i can't peep game.
I'm sorry, you right, i'm wrong. (typical simp move on my part apologizing)
These ladies out here, give a damn less about someones feelings, the same ways niggas do you'll. It's all a damn game. 21, 35, makes no difference, a hoe gonna be a hoe, real talk.
These youngings coming straight out've college scheming to get some footiing in the world, and will use whatever tactics and avenues are available.
I trusted her (the 21 year old, she's 22 now) as i'm not into second guessing someones motivations. She got caught up on her first go around and like a woman scorned was gonna make a simp pay as she evidently got played by ole boy.
I don't feel sorry for her in the least, only thing is, is that i allowed her to get into my heart. I'm not one of these cats that is unfeeling. I care about her welfare, but to an extent. I have my own situation, not as dire as hers though, so i can empathize with her. I'm still angry that she tried to twist my life up like that but i should been on guard
Because females swear 'i'm sooo nice' they get that twisisted that i can't peep game.
The more i think about how i'd really would've been hemmed up if we would've been intimate as she was pushing hard for, the more sinister i see that her actions were.
To me, that's the same as premeditated/attempt murder, to try and intentionally infect someone, as once a female finds or suspects she's preggo, you'll more than likely take the home pregnancy test (from a drug store) and then confirm it with your OBGYN.
In our area (as the hiv rate is sky high) when they test the ladies for pregnancy, they also screen them for hiv, so ole girl knew she was infected and was on a vendetta.
I cried for 3 days when i found out her situation, i couldn't eat or sleep, i loss weight too. This was my first time ever getting my feelings caught up and being reminded of how cruel women can really be.
It took my heart, for the remainder of 2007, to heal back up. (I was notified of her situation in April 2007 by her sister in law as she wouldn't speak to me) From April til about December i looked at females as nothing more than sex objects until i started to come around to my senses. (as i have a mother & sister)
To me, that's the same as premeditated/attempt murder, to try and intentionally infect someone, as once a female finds or suspects she's preggo, you'll more than likely take the home pregnancy test (from a drug store) and then confirm it with your OBGYN.
In our area (as the hiv rate is sky high) when they test the ladies for pregnancy, they also screen them for hiv, so ole girl knew she was infected and was on a vendetta.
I cried for 3 days when i found out her situation, i couldn't eat or sleep, i loss weight too. This was my first time ever getting my feelings caught up and being reminded of how cruel women can really be.
It took my heart, for the remainder of 2007, to heal back up. (I was notified of her situation in April 2007 by her sister in law as she wouldn't speak to me) From April til about December i looked at females as nothing more than sex objects until i started to come around to my senses. (as i have a mother & sister)
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4th Or 5th Time!!!! Youare A Dumb Ass And U Get What You Dish Out. You Can Get A Blood Test Before The Baby Gets Here And Then Redo Once The Baby Arrives.
But Other Than That. Wear A Condom.
But Other Than That. Wear A Condom.
Nigga, kill yoself, the more you talk, the more disgusted I become. Fucking with young girls, being just an idiot in general. I know this is the ladies side but nigga..........you a pathetic mess!
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So is this the same story as this?
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=209803
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=209803
Damn. I don't post a lot on here, but nigga wtf is wrong with you? Fucking fat bitches raw in the park or whatever, getting sprung over somebody 13 years your junior, etc. Damn, you simpin'.
Check it; you start preparing like the kid is yours. Stack some paper, chill and leave girlie alone. No calls, no emails, no contact. When the baby is born, use that loot for a paternity test. If it is yours, take the rest of the cash and go buy some diapers and shit. If it's not, go buy some fucking condoms!
And since your 34 year old ass still doing high school shit, put one of them motherfuckers in your wallet...
Quit being a simp.
Check it; you start preparing like the kid is yours. Stack some paper, chill and leave girlie alone. No calls, no emails, no contact. When the baby is born, use that loot for a paternity test. If it is yours, take the rest of the cash and go buy some diapers and shit. If it's not, go buy some fucking condoms!
And since your 34 year old ass still doing high school shit, put one of them motherfuckers in your wallet...
Quit being a simp.
If you touch or even think about your dick near a woman and she gets pregnant sorry to say son it is yours.
Even thinking about having unprotected sex with someone you met off the internet and know nothing about them makes you
Reading anymore of these replies will make meand
my way out of here now.
I'm just gonna be prayerful and get some spirtiual help. I have some emails with her telling me that she is thinking about giving me full custody of 'my son' as she has 2 other children of her own that's she's tryna raise. I take her word for it that it mustn't be easy tryna raise kids in 2008, by your lonesome.
I was in LandMark Mall getting something to eat last week and as i was riding the escalator up the stairs, i was looking down at a grown man stealing change out've this wishing pool full of quarters, dimes & nickels (security is mad lax in there) and i started shaking my head thinking that i might possibly be bringing a child into a world like this. It's frightening really. A son needs his daddy, (as does daughter too )point blank.
If it's mine, them i'm rejoicing, because i know with God's help and backing, that's all i'll ever need. The bible brings out that a man that doesn't take care of his own household is worst than a person that has disowned his faith. (1 Tim 5:8)
I was in LandMark Mall getting something to eat last week and as i was riding the escalator up the stairs, i was looking down at a grown man stealing change out've this wishing pool full of quarters, dimes & nickels (security is mad lax in there) and i started shaking my head thinking that i might possibly be bringing a child into a world like this. It's frightening really. A son needs his daddy, (as does daughter too )point blank.
If it's mine, them i'm rejoicing, because i know with God's help and backing, that's all i'll ever need. The bible brings out that a man that doesn't take care of his own household is worst than a person that has disowned his faith. (1 Tim 5:8)
Am I the only one who is shaking my head at this nigga
First he is the victim, then he is trying to make the mother look worse and worse by saying, she fat, she trippin, and so on(eventhough she is just as no good, living with moms at 35), and now he is half excited and spiritual about the situation.
This all within a week.
Nigga, every stand you took on this situation is that of a bitchmade nigga! You don't sound smart or manly. You sound stupid and bitchmade...
ehhh!
First he is the victim, then he is trying to make the mother look worse and worse by saying, she fat, she trippin, and so on(eventhough she is just as no good, living with moms at 35), and now he is half excited and spiritual about the situation.
This all within a week.
Nigga, every stand you took on this situation is that of a bitchmade nigga! You don't sound smart or manly. You sound stupid and bitchmade...
ehhh!
thank ya, thank ya.....I'm tryin to keep up with DA
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you might want to fall back with that tough typing dear, when you looking real ms. piggyish your damn self..Also, when you factor God into any equation, all things are indeed possible and what might've apreared grim at the outset, can turn into a blessing with his hand an providence in matters.
I'm not trying to portray myself as 'a victim' whatever you meant by that. I simply spoke on situations of craftiness by females that i've encountered, these are my own truths.
You sounding really scorned & judgmental. Lemme guess, you another lonely, desperate bbw down there in north carolina, putting dimes in your signature as a daily does of sweets? Please, grow up. Unless you bi, that's some real 9th grade ish, lol.
You a phone madame? That's laughable as well. Get a real job before you start fault finding, ok?
If that's you
Also, when you factor God into any equation, all things are indeed possible and what might've apreared grim at the outset, can turn into a blessing with his hand an providence in matters.
I'm not trying to portray myself as 'a victim' whatever you meant by that. I simply spoke on situations of craftiness by females that i've encountered, these are my own truths.
You sounding really scorned & judgmental. Lemme guess, you another lonely, desperate bbw down there in north carolina, putting dimes in your signature as a daily does of sweets? Please, grow up. Unless you bi, that's some real 9th grade ish, lol.
You a phone madame? That's laughable as well. Get a real job before you start fault finding, ok?
WHOA there hoss.
MzM can defend her own damn self, but YOU need to FALL BACK.
Your silly 34 year old ass is fucking random chicks raw and actually NUTTING IN THEM (WTF???WHY??) and coming on SOL boo hoo crying about what your dumb ass should do, and when someone gives your deserving ass the business, you can't take it?? GTFOH.
You need to GROW UP and be a man. Stop posting your business on public message boards if you can't take the heat. Your post is filled with bitchassness. EPIC FAILURE. You're a clown.
Get your girl Princess. She dishing it out real wrecklessly, but i betcha she can't take it, like all her ducks in a row.
I'm posting anonmously (sp?) so my virtual business that you vested in reading about, goes no further than this.
Everything i've done, i'm sure your boyfriend/husband/fb has done the exact same things, then ran up in you raw.
Be honest with yourself, everybody has gotten caught up in the throws of passion/has had a condom bust/slipped up on that birth control medication and been on edge because of the known consequences that's out here.
I'm posting anonmously (sp?) so my virtual business that you vested in reading about, goes no further than this.
Everything i've done, i'm sure your boyfriend/husband/fb has done the exact same things, then ran up in you raw.
Be honest with yourself, everybody has gotten caught up in the throws of passion/has had a condom bust/slipped up on that birth control medication and been on edge because of the known consequences that's out here.
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