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If Obama wins the White House in '08, will minorities stop using "the man is holding them down" as an excuse?
Wondering if it will give minorities (or the country) in general a paradigm shift. Will it actually break down racial tensions for the country?
the fact that black people think obama has a chance of winning is disturbing.....shows why the black community is in shambles.
If Obama wins the White House in '08, will minorities stop using "the man is holding them down" as an excuse?
Wondering if it will give minorities (or the country) in general a paradigm shift. Will it actually break down racial tensions for the country?
Nailed it in every way.Those are mutually exclusive arguments. "The man" holding us down doesn't just exist in Washington. It exists in hiring, housing, promotion etc and it's those responsible for holding us down who use the legal system to get away with these activities. What you are largely referring to when you say this are people who give up easy whenever opposition to their growth hits a wall.
No, that won't ever end.
On the other hand, you are correct that the benefits to Obama's ascension to the white house will be enormous.
-VG
We might stop using that explanation if "the man" stops fucking with us and shares the wealth. We want our 40 acres, the mule, plus interest.
Originally Posted by nittie
We might stop using that explanation if "the man" stops fucking with us and shares the wealth. We want our 40 acres, the mule, plus interest.
That's the attitude I'm referring to right there.
We as minorities have every opportunity to succeed. We have Affirmative Action (although it's not perfect) & Equal Opportunity shops in almost everything we apply for. In my hometown (KCMO), some high school students are even granted full ride scholarships to college just for graduating.
The time and place has come to where we have to stop using the excuses and wanting our 40 acres & yada yada yada.
It does nothing but make us look like we're asking for a handout. Sure the country was built on the backs of our people but it WAS our people. That was over 400 years ago. Things surely aren't perfect but at this point, we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Like Chris Rock says, that's not Ted Koppel (the media) robbing me at my ATM machine... "That's a nigga". That aint Wolf Blitzer bringing 76% off black babies into the world out of wedlock... "That's a nigga". The trend goes on & on.
EVERYONE has an opportunity to invest in themselves. Those that chose not to seek excuses.
Excuses are tools that build monuments of nothingness.
~Just sayin
40 acres is worth a lot of money in any state today. I own 25 acres in a southern state and it's worth a nice piece of change. Our people wouldn't need affirmative action or equal opportunity if the government paid us for our ancestor's labor. Everyone does not have the opportunity to invest in themselves. There are 2 million people in America's penal system most of them never had a chance they were destined for prison.
Another excuse.
Millions of people have made it happen despite the odds and not asking for handouts. I can understand experiencing physical/mental abuse but haven't we all at some point?
EO & AA is the white man's 40 acres to you/us. Take advantage of it.
Besides, lets say we do get our 40 acres... Why do you think the "give me something for free" people will responsibly take care of it or the $ it'd bring to them? As Chris Rock and D ave Chapelle says... "GM/cadillac's stock would skyrocket". Hell the millions of us on public assistance don't take advantage of opportunities it can create. Why in the hell would I give that same person 40 acres?
First of all it wouldn't be giving anyone anything. It would payment for 300yrs of unpaid slave labor. It would be a drop in the bucket for what Blacks contributed to this country. Every year this government gives billions to people who don't even need it but when it comes to minorities the game changes and it becomes a handout. If Warren Buffet can get 400 million every year I don't see why I can't get a million. The only reason we don't get it is some black people don't want whites to be mad at us they would rather forgive and forget.
NO!... It's because we can't blame slavery 100-500 years ago on our inability to succeed today. We want to be equals but we want a handout. You can't have it both ways.
If Whites aren't giving Africans 40 acres in Africa what makes you think USA should be different. For you or any other minority group to even entertain the idea that you're owed something because your ancestors built this place 400 years ago is literally stupid.
We want to be equals but we want a handout.
Now the problem we have in this country is that psychologically collectively we still have too much baggage from what was done to us and as a result we can't see the US as immigrants see it, which is why African immigrants do so much better than us, and even other immigrant groups.
They don't live in countries where they're a small minority embedded in a majority white population, also they haven't been filled with centuries of hatred of whites because of what was done to them, along with internalized self-hatred, and generalized digust with the way the country they live in is run because their own people run their countries.
Now as a result of this they can see the racism that exists against Blacks in this country, but it doesn't limit them, because psychologically they're not as limited so they don't believe they can't achieve anything they want and/or they don't believe that they're limited in their aspirations because of racism as many of us do because we've been here since day one, and given that it's almost impossible for us to imagine our condition as better than it is, because it's difficult for someone to see outside their condition.
Here's the problem. We want to be equals while our detractors want to be superior. They can't pay for slavery because it might level the playing field and eliminate that imaginary status they think they have.
If Obama wins the White House in '08, will minorities stop using "the man is holding them down" as an excuse?
Wondering if it will give minorities (or the country) in general a paradigm shift. Will it actually break down racial tensions for the country?
If Obama wins the White House in '08, will minorities stop using "the man is holding them down" as an excuse?
Wondering if it will give minorities (or the country) in general a paradigm shift. Will it actually break down racial tensions for the country?
I guess it would depend upon Obama's performance in office, wouldn't it?
Are you asking this in an effort to help or to attack blacks for not being born with the privaleges of whites?.....anyhow.....If your point is to say that by virtue of him being the President 'all should be well' in racial relations, I'd suggest that you must be a very limited thinker.
Shortly after reconstruction blacks were allowed to vote and run for office, it changed nothing in regards to the social status of African Americans. The ploy was seen by many to be what it was, and was soon reversed, enter Jim Crow. "The man" used by blacks and whites alike, represents not only the figureheads who wield positions of power over the masses but that term also speaks generally to the interest of the powerful.
As long as America maintains racial & class issues, as long as American blacks reside primarily at the lower rungs of that socio economic ladder through systematic good ole boy networks, "The man" will remain the villain.
Obama is helping to mend the fences which have divided Americans for so long, but please don't be under the impression that generations of unequality could or should be nullified because a blackman got a good job.
WOW!
Great points...
I was asking because I'm sick of seeing "the man" used as an excuse for the lazy to not get off their asses. I'm sick of people booing Bill Cosby because the truth is hurting them when it comes to THEIR kids. I'm sick of everyone jumping down the neck of some white person when they make a generalization/double standardish comment (yes Imus took it too far) while the black person gets the pass because ti's accepted as ok.
Hoping we can get to a point to where we can start looking at the content instead of the deliverer (no matter what the subject).
Overall I guess I'm sick of racisms and all that goes along with it. If we were all one color I'm sure it'd be the social class as the new "the man".
Oh well.
I guess it would depend upon Obama's performance in office, wouldn't it?
Are you asking this in an effort to help or to attack blacks for not being born with the privileges of whites?.....anyhow.....If your point is to say that by virtue of him being the President 'all should be well' in racial relations, I'd suggest that you must be a very limited thinker.
Shortly after reconstruction blacks were allowed to vote and run for office, it changed nothing in regards to the social status of African Americans. The ploy was seen by many to be what it was, and was soon reversed, enter Jim Crow. "The man" used by blacks and whites alike, represents not only the figureheads who wield positions of power over the masses but that term also speaks generally to the interest of the powerful.
As long as America maintains racial & class issues, as long as American blacks reside primarily at the lower rungs of that socio economic ladder through systematic good ole boy networks, "The man" will remain the villain.
Obama is helping to mend the fences which have divided Americans for so long, but please don't be under the impression that generations of inequality could or should be nullified because a blackman got a good job.
co-sign...
What white people as a whole..the "majority" just doesn't get or refuses to understand is the fact that we have to ask, beg, scream, threaten and be killed just for the same rights and privileges they take for granted. They think that just because we've gotten SOME of something we should have had 100 years earlier that we should be grateful and pat them on the shoulder.
Until they acknowledge not just the acts of injustice but the attitudes that feed the acts we'll never come to an agreement.
Here's where you've missed the mark.
- High unemployment rates among Black Americans don't exist because of laziness, to the contrary, the reason Affirmative Action-esque programs were mandated in America, is because the powers that be, AKA "The Man", refused to retain the help of American Blacks in large measure. The idea was for many American companies to have at the very minimum, one minority on the books, be it a janitor or assistant of some kind. But don't get it twisted, if you were he, you would be well aware that your presence wasn't welcomed. And that acceptance in your working environment depended upon your complete assimilation and abandonment of your cultural identity. meaning that any display of your ethnicity, beyond the obvious would be frowned upon (this is changing).
For the past 30 or so years these programs have guaranteed blacks, women of all hues, and minorities in general jobs in America, but this doesn't mean that blacks aren't hard workers, well educated, or experienced in the field enough to deserve the job without this boost. It only means that many American companies have proven track records which suggest that they won't give blacks a shot unless they are forced to.
-Large portions of the black American population booed Bill Cosby, because a majority felt he was (1) out of place in his remarks, (2) ignorant of the current first person perspective, & (3) A turncoat.
Is it your contention that blacks don't have the right if not the moral obligation to at least protest against a wrong done, even when the offender is proven to be habitual?
the playing fields are more even...than what??I'm understanding his points but today the playing fields are more even. Why do we have to rely on "acknowledging" what we've had to do to get here? We're HERE... keeping "the movement" alive does nothing but perpetuate the, "hate the man" mentality.
the horrible crimes I'm talking about have nothing to do with slavery..STOP TALKING ABOUT SLAVERY..THE ISSUES AND ATTITUDES OF BLACKS HAS LITTLE TO DO WITH SLAVERY AND MUCH TO DO WITH HOW BLACKS WERE/ARE TREATED FROM 1900-2008..The time period that your grandfather, father and yourself live in...I don't care about slavery that's done and gone...as far as I'm concerned the 13th amendment was the did away with that. The issue is how blacks were treated AFTER after when we were supposed "full citizens".Of course what was done BACK THEN was wrong and shouldn't be forgotten but at the same time we shouldn't hold it around our necks because it was a horrible crime committed upon our ancestors.
because in america there is a document that guarantees the full RIGHTS of all of it citizens.Another question... If I'm "the man" (and I run everything) why in the hell would I just give someone something if they hate me? Why would I make them an equal just because they feel I owe them something? It (logically) doesn't make sense.
no I don't get your point.Have you ever realized that maybe the sacrifices your ancestors made back then for you is (kinda) payment enough? I know this won't be of the popular majority in sentiment but my ass has no business in Africa with dress shoes & sweatpants on. I know it's (relatively) developed over there but you get my point.
So basically my point is this... I have 4 kids. I'd be a slave for most of my life in order to make sure my legacy/family is better off. We're (every race) basically "slaves" now in corporate America to accomplish that very same thing. Isn't slavery somewhat the same? Of course they had no choice but you & I are better off because of it. Lets move on and think about how we can better ourselves instead of bringing up the past as a redundant excuse & relying on someone else to do it for us.
Now you're adding a 1 out of a 1,000 scenario. that's not the norm. Maybe 30-40 years ago or whenever but I find it hard to believe that anyone knows when AA is actively taking place in todays market/workplace.
He's a turncoat for speaking the truth? That's what I have problems with. PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY is what we lack as a people. Instead of throwing a college graduation party... we'll throw a coming home party for a family member that's been locked up. In my family I've been to 2-3 coming home mixers and NOT ONE college graduation party. On my dad's side, I'm the first and (so far) only person to graduate college. I didn't get shit (don't care about it) and those are the facts. On that same side of the family I've had 2 people come home from jail within the last 3 years and have had 2 mixers.
You read the transcript and tell me where he is/was wrong? I'm sick of all the points he addressed that exists within the black community. For anyone to attack the messenger instead of the message shows that 1) He's stepped on their toes or 2) The truth hurts.
See first response to your quoted post. They have the right but it was a wrong DONE. It's been over with for hundreds of years so lets not use it as an excuse as to why we can't better ourselves. Too many people have experienced success as a black person for ANY OF US to use it at all.
Plainman
Let me first say I appreciate you having the patience to share this information and to repeatedly respond to this topic.
With that said I agree with most or your responses accept the angle on Cosby. I think that we have made this a class issue and overlooked a lot of the truths in his points and the fact that Cosby has for years monetarily and through the media supported in his way the uplifting of our people. I liken his statement to a grandparent telling a child to pull their pants up from around their thighs back to where they were intended to be.
Did he use harsh language and generalization, yes he did. This however is clearly a case where if it doesn't apply to you then don't be offended.
Now on to the topic that the OP laid out. First one has to not confuse slavery with the lingering effects of slavery which are two different things. Like it was pointed out the 13th Amendment effectively ended slavery but did not stop the racial or economic inequalities that exist in our society. I firmly do not believe in using race as an excuse to not achieve but American society has not reached a point where our racially divided past can be overlooked.
The fact the that the Civil Rights and the Voters Right Acts (which was renewed in 2007) exist should tell you that we are not living in an age of full equality and even with these laws in place there are still issues (i.e. the 2000 election).
I do not believe that we will ever be offered reparations and honestly I don't care if we are but you cannot deny that the wealthiest nation in the world became that way in large part by the cruel and inhumane treatment of our ancestors. To say we need to let slavery "go" is a slap in the face to our roots and culture both here and relating to the African Diaspora. Our people were done a grave injustice that had and still has far reaching effects and implications. Only in the past 2-3 generations have we seen some sort of equality and we are at a precipice where we dare not let the "movement" die when there are nooses still being hung as a tool of hate, fear and intimidation.
When our schools and neighborhoods are no longer underfunded and economically crippled, when we have true equal opportunity to achieve and succeed, when I can go anywhere in this country and not be prejudged (or attacked or racially profiled or arrested) based solely on my ethnicity, then and only then can we stop being worried about "the man".
As for being slaves to corporate America, again, please do not trivialize the slavery suffered by our ancestors with the droning of the mass populace by corporate Americas profit driven greed. If you apply for a job you did so by choice, you were not dragged from your homeland, shackled, beaten, killed, raped, or split up from your family to get a memo out by 8AM.
I hope that Obama's presidency can bring forth a lot of positive change, but what you are envisioning does not yet exist and will not be changed solely by Obama becoming president.
I take extreme exception at this post..Thanks for the response...
1) I'm not trivializing slavery.
- It was a horrible atrocity committed by whites & blacks upon our people. Even as recently as the 60's & 70's we've been dealt a hard hand to work with. We're still unequal (for lack of a better term) but were making great strides to where we need to be.
2) Even though slavery was a horrific act committed by white ancestors all I ask for current whites or "the man" is the opportunity to have a somewhat level playing field. - If AA is needed to make things level then I'm all for it... It could be nothing.
- If the black vote law of 2007 is needed to level the playing field then I'm all for it... It could be nothing.
We're all saying the same thing but you guys are asking why are these laws even needed while I'm asking what's wrong with them if they're going to level the field. I'd much rather get that handout than a 40 acres I didn't earn myself. That allows me to better myself instead of irresponsibly accepting what I feel is owed to me.
Its NOT a crutch thats the reverse psychological bullshit white people want you to beleive so that they can divert attention away from the real issues that systemic and cultural racism has created.Furhetmore, we all know we have to talk, write & act better than the typical W person if we want to get ahead in our positions.
Having said those 2 points... I don't know how old you are but I've noticed that my father uses "the man" a lot in our discussion. My father took care of his responsibility but he's used to his "the man" views because of his era.
I'm 31 years old. He's 51 and he grew up in the civil rights movement. I feel that more and more people will start seeing it the way I see things when most of this... "we must not forget" attitude dies away with the people that harbor it.
Not saying that we must forget... but we shouldn't rely on it (slavery or civil rights movement) as a crutch.
Background... I was born and raised in the hood until 5th grade... In 6th grade I was 1 of 3 black people in my entire 6th grade school. I had to fight virtually every day for being discriminated against.
What I've come to realize is... White people/ "the man" owe me nothing just as I owe them nothing. I understand that there's different racial makeups in different parts of the country & maybe I'm being ignorant to the facts based on my experiences here in KCMO.
However, I refuse to use anything that I've never experienced as an excuse for my downfall is all I'm saying.
That's the attitude I'm referring to right there.
We as minorities have every opportunity to succeed. We have Affirmative Action (although it's not perfect) & Equal Opportunity shops in almost everything we apply for. In my hometown (KCMO), some high school students are even granted full ride scholarships to college just for graduating.
The time and place has come to where we have to stop using the excuses and wanting our 40 acres & yada yada yada.
It does nothing but make us look like we're asking for a handout. Sure the country was built on the backs of our people but it WAS our people. That was over 400 years ago. Things surely aren't perfect but at this point, we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Like Chris Rock says, that's not Ted Koppel (the media) robbing me at my ATM machine... "That's a nigga". That aint Wolf Blitzer bringing 76% off black babies into the world out of wedlock... "That's a nigga". The trend goes on & on.
EVERYONE has an opportunity to invest in themselves. Those that chose not to seek excuses.
Excuses are tools that build monuments of nothingness.
~Just sayin
Thanks for the response...
1) I'm not trivializing slavery.
- It was a horrible atrocity committed by whites & blacks upon our people. Even as recently as the 60's & 70's we've been dealt a hard hand to work with. We're still unequal (for lack of a better term) but were making great strides to where we need to be.
2) Even though slavery was a horrific act committed by white ancestors all I ask for current whites or "the man" is the opportunity to have a somewhat level playing field.
- If AA is needed to make things level then I'm all for it... It could be nothing.
- If the black vote law of 2007 is needed to level the playing field then I'm all for it... It could be nothing.
We're all saying the same thing but you guys are asking why are these laws even needed while I'm asking what's wrong with them if they're going to level the field. I'd much rather get that handout than a 40 acres I didn't earn myself. That allows me to better myself instead of irresponsibly accepting what I feel is owed to me.
Furhetmore, we all know we have to talk, write & act better than the typical W person if we want to get ahead in our positions.
Having said those 2 points... I don't know how old you are but I've noticed that my father uses "the man" a lot in our discussion. My father took care of his responsibility but he's used to his "the man" views because of his era.
I'm 31 years old. He's 51 and he grew up in the civil rights movement. I feel that more and more people will start seeing it the way I see things when most of this... "we must not forget" attitude dies away with the people that harbor it.
Not saying that we must forget... but we shouldn't rely on it (slavery or civil rights movement) as a crutch.
Background... I was born and raised in the hood until 5th grade... In 6th grade I was 1 of 3 black people in my entire 6th grade school. I had to fight virtually every day for being discriminated against.
What I've come to realize is... White people/ "the man" owe me nothing just as I owe them nothing. I understand that there's different racial makeups in different parts of the country & maybe I'm being ignorant to the facts based on my experiences here in KCMO.
However, I refuse to use anything that I've never experienced as an excuse for my downfall is all I'm saying.
I take extreme exception at this post..
How DARE you as a black man say all I ask for current whites or "the man" is the opportunity to have a somewhat level playing field...thats fucking WEAK
As an AMERICAN CITIZEN you have the RIGHT to have AS MANY opportunites as they do.
and AA isn't a handout...its just a trickle of opportunity and a move to placate the victims of racism...its an insult..especially coming from the people who are constantly harping about the value of merit...
Its NOT a crutch thats the reverse psychological bullshit white people want you to beleive so that they can divert attention away from the real issues that systemic and cultural racism has created.
sooo..you've been the victim of prejudice and discrimation but then you say you never experienced it...which is it...
I'm 38 and I DO NOT feel the same way you do on this matter at all.
I see your point but, I can't quite agree with you. The inner city school systems are a mess. You can not tell me in good conscience that the quality of education is equal across the board. Not when you have children that graduate from school who can't even read. I'm not saying all but, even one is too many. The playing board is not level yet. It's better but, it's not level. And yes, yes, yes. parents DO have something to do with it but, it's a teachers job to teach. We pay taxes so that teachers can teach our children. many inner city schools don't even have computers. How can a child compete in the information age when they don't have ANY computer skills. I'm not trying to tear your comment down but, IMHO, the playing board is not level.