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Perfection in a SoulMate....

mzmillion

mzmillion

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If I could tell you guys that I can make the perfect soulmate for you, what would they be like? Not what would they look like, not how big the ass or dick, or physically, but what would their attributes to you be? For your perfect soulmate, describe there personality and the things that they would have to have to be the one for you......(hope I worded it right)...and be detailed damnit.


EDIT: FOR EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THIS IS A 'WHAT IF' QUESTION, IT IS. I'M NOT SAYING SOULMATES ARE REAL TO YOU OR THAT IT IS ONE PERSON, ITS A QUESTION OF WHAT IF. WHAT IF I CAN MOLD YOU THE PERFECT PERSON, WOULDN'T YOU CALL IT YOUR SOULMATE?


I'll go:

He would be older, maybe 28. He would have to laugh, a sexy low, smooth laugh. He would be creative, an artist(writer, poet, painter, etc) we would explore each other creatively. He would be a loner, all about me, damn near pussy whipped. He would be a reader, love to books and fiction. He would definitely like to do things cultural with me. Museums, festivals, art shows, spoken word. He would be goofy, fit in with my family, laughing and running around with all the kids in the family, and be ok that me and my sisters are all up in each others business all damn day. To him, there would be nothing better than me, no one who smells great like me, no one who feels as good as me, no one laughs like me, smiles likes me, so he has no need or want to go to anyone but me.

Thats all for him right now I can think of.....
 
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I see posts like this and I remember when I was single all the things I thought my man would have....Then I found my soulmate and he was even more than I'd hoped for...there's nothing like being in LOVE.;)
 
I'd say a black woman(which is more than a physical quality) who is socially conscious, loving, similar taste in music. She would be loving without being overly emotional. She would be out-going to balance out my being anti-social. Smile not laugh but smile a lot. A nice brilliant broad smile. She would be stern and professional also honest and blunt.

I'll add more later on.
 
DarkCity said:
I'd say a black woman(which is more than a physical quality) who is socially conscious, loving, similar taste in music. She would be loving without being overly emotional. She would be out-going to balance out my being anti-social. Smile not laugh but smile a lot. A nice brilliant broad smile. She would be stern and professional also honest and blunt.

I'll add more later on.
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thank you, you seem to be the only answer I'll get...
 
boro said:
PERFECT SOUL MATE?

How old are u?
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what does my age have to do with it....its a 'what if' question just like asking what if you could fuck a porn star, who would it be? do I need to tell you my age for that one too?
 
Black, intelligent, kind, handsome, socially conscious, and well-employed. Yeah I think there's more than one "soulmate" for all of us
 
first off there is no such thing as a perfect mate, that's the problem with people today, chasing perfection.

too many people caught up on the physical and material aspects of a mate rather than the real things that make up a stable relationship.
 
infamous-online said:
first off there is no such thing as a perfect mate, that's the problem with people today, chasing perfection.

too many people caught up on the physical and material aspects of a mate rather than the real things that make up a stable relationship.
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Soulmates do exist but they are not perfect. A perfect person is as likely as the perfect car. A Soulmate is someone you simply click with. You tend to enjoy the same things is life, probably share the same beliefs on religion, politics, maybe even sports or some other issues.

In all likelihood that soulmate may not be handsome or beautiful. Like it or not they maybe just someone very ordinary. But as time goes on you grow to appreciate them even begin to love. Why? Because that's the way life really is. Sorry Mzmillion, your living in a dream world if your in search of what you described. I'm not saying it can't happen all I'm saying is if you meet that soulmate they may not be who you described. I wish you luck in your quest.
 
mzmillion said:
..... and be ok that me and my sisters are all up in each others business all damn day. ....
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I have to point this out: you do not want a bunch of women (sister, friend, mother) in your relationship. And, if you have a man worth anything, he's not going to have that. If something happens between you and your mate, and you run to your sisters and tell them everything that happens, you're destroying the trust that you and your mate have. He'll clam up, then you'll wonder why he doesn't want to share anything with you. Your sisters are your sisters, you grew up with them, and you going to share things. But you got to set boundaries.

Soul Mate:
I don't look for perfection, I think it's an asinine pursuit. I don't day dream about it either, it doesn't make sense to me. Plus, a long ass list of qualities kills your chances of finding someone great.

She Must:
- have a good work ethic
- intelligent
- respectful (of herself and others)
- class
- desire children
- enjoy going out
- socially aware
 
mzmillion said:
If I could tell you guys that I can make the perfect soulmate for you, what would they be like? Not what would they look like, not how big the ass or dick, or physically, but what would their attributes to you be? For your perfect soulmate, describe there personality and the things that they would have to have to be the one for you......(hope I worded it right)...and be detailed damnit.


I'll go:

He would be older, maybe 28. He would have to laugh, a sexy low, smooth laugh. He would be creative, an artist(writer, poet, painter, etc) we would explore each other creatively. He would be a loner, all about me, damn near pussy whipped. He would be a reader, love to books and fiction. He would definitely like to do things cultural with me. Museums, festivals, art shows, spoken word. He would be goofy, fit in with my family, laughing and running around with all the kids in the family, and be ok that me and my sisters are all up in each others business all damn day. To him, there would be nothing better than me, no one who smells great like me, no one who feels as good as me, no one laughs like me, smiles likes me, so he has no need or want to go to anyone but me.

Thats all for him right now I can think of.....
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May Your Quest end in Success :D
 
infamous-online said:
first off there is no such thing as a perfect mate, that's the problem with people today, chasing perfection.

too many people caught up on the physical and material aspects of a mate rather than the real things that make up a stable relationship.
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and if you can read i state a 'what if' question and also ask for the NON physical and material wants.....
 
This thread is pissing me off...lol. It was a fun, what if question. People are so damn scared to say what they look for in a person if they could have the person of their dreams, maybe I should have said that. IF you could have the person of your dreams, what would they be like, maybe then someone would answer...

If I started this thread with "Who would you fuck..." the answers would be endless and detailed....
 
mzmillion said:
This thread is pissing me off...lol. It was a fun, what if question. People are so damn scared to say what they look for in a person if they could have the person of their dreams, maybe I should have said that. IF you could have the person of your dreams, what would they be like, maybe then someone would answer...

If I started this thread with "Who would you fuck..." the answers would be endless and detailed....
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Maybe you should do that... As a twist you could even restrict it to (or at least include) BGOL/SOL members, e.g. "Who would you fuck from BGOL/SOL?" Set your criteria and see what happens...



*Waits for Million to start that thread...* :lol:
 
She would be black, and a bit younger. About 18 or so. She would already have a career, preferably as a professional musician. She would do for self in all regards. We would fuck for hours and have deep discussions in the afterglow. We would also pick up our instruments and have jam sessions that we're more intimate than God intended for two humans to be. So deep that recording would only cheapen the experience. She would have a family I could relate to and a mother I could get drunk with. She would be an atheist like me. She would be tolerant of most things and people and have a strict policy of live and let live. Very creative too. The kind of woman who would paint butterflies on the back of my rocking chair while we're growing old together.

She would also be insanely loyal and trust worthy. The kind of woman that could tell you to jump off a cliff and you'd actually do it knowing full well that somehow she would have a plan to make your life better once you hit the ground. A woman that was so intuitive that she would seem more like an extension of myself than an actual parter. Someone who would rip your best friend's balls off for trying make a pass at her, just to set the example for the next man.

Now I'm fully committed to bachelorhood, but if I ever met a woman like that i would have to break those vows yesterday.
 
Dannyblueyes said:
She would be black, and a bit younger. About 18 or so. She would already have a career, preferably as a professional musician. She would do for self in all regards. We would fuck for hours and have deep discussions in the afterglow. We would also pick up our instruments and have jam sessions that we're more intimate than God intended for two humans to be. So deep that recording would only cheapen the experience. She would have a family I could relate to and a mother I could get drunk with. She would be an atheist like me. She would be tolerant of most things and people and have a strict policy of live and let live. Very creative too. The kind of woman who would paint butterflies on the back of my rocking chair while we're growing old together.

She would also be insanely loyal and trust worthy. The kind of woman that could tell you to jump off a cliff and you'd actually do it knowing full well that somehow she would have a plan to make your life better once you hit the ground. A woman that was so intuitive that she would seem more like an extension of myself than an actual parter. Someone who would rip your best friend's balls off for trying make a pass at her, just to set the example for the next man.

Now I'm fully committed to bachelorhood, but if I ever met a woman like that i would have to break those vows yesterday.
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Perfect.....she sounds perfect...lol. You feel about music like I feel about having a creative writer...
 
mzmillion said:
and if you can read i state a 'what if' question and also ask for the NON physical and material wants.....
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i see you modified your original content. to answer your question, i wouldn't want perfection, and to be perfectly honest what would you know what is perfect and whatnot? seriously not trying to rain on your fantasy. :cool:
 
infamous-online said:
i see you modified your original content. to answer your question, i wouldn't want perfection, and to be perfectly honest what would you know what is perfect and whatnot? seriously not trying to rain on your fantasy. :cool:
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The answer is easy .... what is perfect TO YOU!!!! That is how you know......not perfect as in no flaws but perfection in the attributes that you think are supremely attractive for you. Do you like jazz, poetry, would you want her to be goofy, serious, what attracts you in that way. It's not a difficult question and you are trying to be funny....
 
mzmillion said:
The answer is easy .... what is perfect TO YOU!!!! That is how you know......not perfect as in no flaws but perfection in the attributes that you think are supremely attractive for you. Do you like jazz, poetry, would you want her to be goofy, serious, what attracts you in that way. It's not a difficult question and you are trying to be funny....
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seriously, i wasn't trying to be funny. but if i had to choose a perfect mate, she would be easy-going, someone i don't have to feel like i'm in iraq all over again with, someone who will can be my friend first, then work her way up to the other titles.

is this an answer you were looking for mill? :hmm::lol:
 
She would be laid back like me. A person that loved to have fun, loved music like I do, wants to travel the world like I want to. My perfect woman would not be a negative person, would be down for me like one of best friends, we would be able to talk like she was my best friend. She would be a freak like me.....I guess I will think of more later.​
 
mzmillion said:
Perfect.....she sounds perfect...lol. You feel about music like I feel about having a creative writer...
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Yes. I'm a musician too and it seems that the only women who don't try to kill those dreams are other musicians. Besides, making music with someone is the most intimate bond you can ever share.
 

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