This is a spin-off of DeSire's thread.
Ladies how do you wanna be treated?
What do men neglect to do?
Ladies how do you wanna be treated?
What do men neglect to do?
Well ladies lemme ask you. . .
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LoneStar29
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I want:
- To be treated with respect ... have my opinions mean something and my feelings taken into consideration
- To be treated like an equal ... wether I am a stay at home mom or working or doing both I want him to know that I'm putting in as much work as him to take care of the homefront
- Alot of SEXXXXXXX
... I know I'm a perv
- I want him to be patient with me ... teach me as opposed to putting me down if I don't know something
- I like a man that can cook and clean as well ... don't expect me to work and then come home and do aaaaaaall the housework as well
- Don't feel cuz you are a man that automatically means you get the final say ... respect my opinion as well please
- It's not what you say ... it's how you say it ... don't talk to me like you're my father, boss, guardian, teacher etc ... if you try reasoning with me that'll work better
The one mistake the men I have been with has been neglecting me ... don't think cuz I'm in love with you I wont leave if you fuck up ... treat me the same way now cuz you wanna keep me that you would have when we first met and you were trying to get me
And I can't stand selfishness either
- To be treated with respect ... have my opinions mean something and my feelings taken into consideration
- To be treated like an equal ... wether I am a stay at home mom or working or doing both I want him to know that I'm putting in as much work as him to take care of the homefront
- Alot of SEXXXXXXX
... I know I'm a perv- I want him to be patient with me ... teach me as opposed to putting me down if I don't know something
- I like a man that can cook and clean as well ... don't expect me to work and then come home and do aaaaaaall the housework as well
- Don't feel cuz you are a man that automatically means you get the final say ... respect my opinion as well please
- It's not what you say ... it's how you say it ... don't talk to me like you're my father, boss, guardian, teacher etc ... if you try reasoning with me that'll work better
The one mistake the men I have been with has been neglecting me ... don't think cuz I'm in love with you I wont leave if you fuck up ... treat me the same way now cuz you wanna keep me that you would have when we first met and you were trying to get me
And I can't stand selfishness either
I want a man to treat me as his complement (not as equal, not less than- COMPLEMENT)- The yin to his yang and that basically requires that a man know his nature and love himself first because that reflects the most on how he will treat me or anyone.
...and oh yeah like a nasty freak slut but in a good way!
I think men--people in general- neglect primarily to be honest about who they are and what they want, and most what they need.
Almost every lack in a relationship is communication based.
I want to be treated like I am the 2nd most important woman in the world to him (1st would be his mother, grandmother). I want to feel like he can't live without me, even if he could. I need to be pampered.
Sometimes I feel like men forget that I am a woman and a woman just needs personal time. Also I want him to appreciate me putting in a long day's work and not treat me like I'm deliberately trying to neglect him.
Sound like y'all need some White men in your lives.
Thats understandable. Thats a problem men and women have tho. Sometimes we both need personal time and space to just relax. Some people dont know how to take that, its not me not wanting to be around you, just let me clear my head for a lil bit.
Plenty of good brothers out there! Now if I can just find one with the appropriate amount of leather whips...oh whoa is me 
LD quit playing... You know you wanna pamper me
LD quit playing... You know you wanna pamper me
Girl LD probably put a diaper on your head and call it a day!...I'm just funning LD
LD quit playing... You know you wanna pamper me
Shhh, girl. Don't be puttin us all in public like that.
Girl LD probably put a diaper on your head and call it a day!...I'm just funning LD
This is an interesting thread. I feel I know how to treat a lady, but it's always good to hear directly from women about this. So ladies, keep hollering at us. I've got my pen and paper ready just in case...
This is an interesting thread. I feel I know how to treat a lady, but it's always good to hear directly from women about this. So ladies, keep hollering at us. I've got my pen and paper ready just in case...
I had to ask becuz different women like different stuff
True indeed. We've got to handle our relationships with women in a case by case manner, but it's always good to hear different opinions from them. The info we get from the sistas here combined with what we see and hear from the women we actually deal with out here in the world will help us with this man/woman thing. Like the folks at NBC have told us...
...about women the better you will be in dealing/relating to them...
This is a tough question... I might have to update my answers... One thing that is important... even if I'm not the only woman in your life, when we are together, I like to feel that way. It makes things go so much smoother. I usually adapt a don't ask don't tell policy early on just to keep it this way. I hate women blowing up your phone while we are together or awkward moments while we're out.. that's soo unattractive..
More to come. . . .
More to come. . . .
I usually put my phone on silent or vibrate when I am with a woman. I hate being with a woman and she is constantly on the phone.
Be respectful. Be understanding. Be tolerant. Be open. Be willing. Be patient. Be HONEST. Be sexual....everywhere.
I want:
- To be treated with respect ... have my opinions mean something and my feelings taken into consideration
- To be treated like an equal ... wether I am a stay at home mom or working or doing both I want him to know that I'm putting in as much work as him to take care of the homefront
- Alot of SEXXXXXXX
- I want him to be patient with me ... teach me as opposed to putting me down if I don't know something
- I like a man that can cook and clean as well ... don't expect me to work and then come home and do aaaaaaall the housework as well
- Don't feel cuz you are a man that automatically means you get the final say ... respect my opinion as well please
- It's not what you say ... it's how you say it ... don't talk to me like you're my father, boss, guardian, teacher etc ... if you try reasoning with me that'll work better
The one mistake the men I have been with has been neglecting me ... don't think cuz I'm in love with you I wont leave if you fuck up ... treat me the same way now cuz you wanna keep me that you would have when we first met and you were trying to get me
And I can't stand selfishness either
The bolded part is probably the most important one to me. I had a father, a good one who raised me right. I understand a man may see how I could do things differently in my life or want to help me with a certain situation. But, reason with me...talk it out with me. Don't treat me like I'm some 8 year old child who needs constant supervision or something...or beat me upside the head with the ideas until I get it right... I've seen a lot of men try to run their women, instead of letting them do them and being their compliment...you don't want a woman running your life, so why should I have a man running mine...
I think women want to be treated fairly, with consideration and respect and often times that requires you, as the man, to think unselfishly and to put yourself in her shoes.
Yes, I know for most of you that's hard to fathom.
Also, I think women want to really be the "apple" of their man's eye which I think is practically impossible for most men.
C'est la vie.
Soon we will be able to build our mates from the ground up, one cell at a time.
Yes, I know for most of you that's hard to fathom.
Also, I think women want to really be the "apple" of their man's eye which I think is practically impossible for most men.
C'est la vie.
Soon we will be able to build our mates from the ground up, one cell at a time.
Will I be the prototype!?
Just kiddin'...Maybe us men (as well as women) need to be open-minded as well as good listeners. Sometimes guys just need to shut up and listen, even though we'll be there for a while!...
I feel that I can do all that for whoever my woman is. There are still good men out there just like there are good women out there.
This is what I want. Thanks for putting it into words.
I want a man to treat me as his complement (not as equal, not less than- COMPLEMENT)- The yin to his yang and that basically requires that a man know his nature and love himself first because that reflects the most on how he will treat me or anyone.
...and oh yeah like a nasty freak slut but in a good way!
I think men--people in general- neglect primarily to be honest about who they are and what they want, and most what they need.
Almost every lack in a relationship is communication based.
Yo i completly agree that us black me should do that. By the way i like that u like Bleach.. where did u get those Yuroruchi jpg's
i like
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You're close babe.Will I be the prototype!?
Maybe us men (as well as women) need to be open-minded as well as good listeners. Sometimes guys just need to shut up and listen, even though we'll be there for a while!...
Yo i completly agree that us black me should do that. By the way i like that u like Bleach.. where did u get those Yuroruchi jpg's
i like
Thanks, Aristotle deserves all the credit for the siggy and the jpgs! I'm just getting caught up with all the Bleach!
Yes maam he is
I want someone who is:
-honest
-loving
-respects his mother and other females,to me that says alot about a man's character
-funny
-someone whose personality balances mine out
-I want to feel like I am an important part of your life
-very sexual(because I am).
I might have more later
-honest
-loving
-respects his mother and other females,to me that says alot about a man's character
-funny
-someone whose personality balances mine out
-I want to feel like I am an important part of your life
-very sexual(because I am).
I might have more later
Thanks, Aristotle deserves all the credit for the siggy and the jpgs! I'm just getting caught up with all the Bleach!
Yes maam he is
Thank you both!
I want to have a relationship that is based in friendship. I find those are the relationships that work the best.
I want not only honesty, but loyalty... not too many people these days understand the concept of loyalty
Like someone else said, I want us to complement each other. . . that's extremely important
I want not only honesty, but loyalty... not too many people these days understand the concept of loyalty
Like someone else said, I want us to complement each other. . . that's extremely important
I want:
- To be treated with respect ... have my opinions mean something and my feelings taken into consideration
- To be treated like an equal ... wether I am a stay at home mom or working or doing both I want him to know that I'm putting in as much work as him to take care of the homefront
- Alot of SEXXXXXXX
- I want him to be patient with me ... teach me as opposed to putting me down if I don't know something
- I like a man that can cook and clean as well ... don't expect me to work and then come home and do aaaaaaall the housework as well
- Don't feel cuz you are a man that automatically means you get the final say ... respect my opinion as well please
- It's not what you say ... it's how you say it ... don't talk to me like you're my father, boss, guardian, teacher etc ... if you try reasoning with me that'll work better
The one mistake the men I have been with has been neglecting me ... don't think cuz I'm in love with you I wont leave if you fuck up ... treat me the same way now cuz you wanna keep me that you would have when we first met and you were trying to get me
And I can't stand selfishness either
heres how i like to be treated....
respected...we may not agree but at least respect my point of view...respect me as a woman and a human being and do not voilate my trust or belittle me
included...im not saying i have to tag along with you and your boys...but if you are going thru something at the job...or something is bothering u let me in...maybe i can help...i want to celebrate success and lift in defeat...i dont like be closed out
dicked down on a regular basis...my sex drive is out of control
supported and motivated....dont critize me on what im doing wrong or what i could be doing better...instead help me find the way to get to where i want to be...i have enough ambition for the both of us
cherished....dont take me for granted...when i give i give freely..however i dont like to be taken advantaged of...i love going out of my way for my man...i just ask that he enjoys it and never takes it for granted
thats all i can think of right now
respected...we may not agree but at least respect my point of view...respect me as a woman and a human being and do not voilate my trust or belittle me
included...im not saying i have to tag along with you and your boys...but if you are going thru something at the job...or something is bothering u let me in...maybe i can help...i want to celebrate success and lift in defeat...i dont like be closed out
dicked down on a regular basis...my sex drive is out of control
supported and motivated....dont critize me on what im doing wrong or what i could be doing better...instead help me find the way to get to where i want to be...i have enough ambition for the both of us
cherished....dont take me for granted...when i give i give freely..however i dont like to be taken advantaged of...i love going out of my way for my man...i just ask that he enjoys it and never takes it for granted
thats all i can think of right now
I want a man to treat me as his complement (not as equal, not less than- COMPLEMENT)- The yin to his yang and that basically requires that a man know his nature and love himself first because that reflects the most on how he will treat me or anyone.
...and oh yeah like a nasty freak slut but in a good way!
I think men--people in general- neglect primarily to be honest about who they are and what they want, and most what they need.
Almost every lack in a relationship is communication based.
Ok...so I like all yall other replies...but I'm feelin this, here. Speaks to me on a few different levels
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