I've seen it all damn near. Hell I'll even tell you that I've found myself on the tricking end of the deal. Mind you, I've always got what I want, and I've never went to the depth ole dude Ace's guest was describing. I would go on, and tell you that every man has done something they now describe as tricking. Its called "charging it to the game". To my story.....
It was Christmas 05, I had just got hired on at the post office *as a mail man...yes I'm a fucking mail man*. To celebrate this, I decided I should buy me something nice, and get my new girlfriend of four months something at Zales. Before you think *nigga I know you didn't get this bitch a ring* no the fuck I didn't buy her a ring. However, I did get her a nice $150 necklace that came with a big ass bear. Yea...yea...I know I'm a romantic.... Of course, she was happy like an old lady getting an orgasm when christmas hit. After two weeks of love making *no joke, I was off for two weeks, and all we did was lay in the bed. Its a miracle that I don't have an actinanass jr right now...* the problems erupted. She start wanting to go to the club with her cousins *2 of them wanted that dick from me, but me being the good nigga didn't play the game. * Her being the gullible black chick, listening to her cousins, getting drunk, and bopping on random niggas at the club, she decided she wants to cheat on me. Word gets back to me *from one of the cousins that wanted me to fuck*, the shit hurt the fuck out of me. From that day forward, I vow not to ever be put in that place again.
The lesson I learn was this....
1. Do not ever spend more money on a girl, that do not spend the amount of money on herself. Meaning, a real INDEPENDENT chick would really appreciate the smallest of things a dude can do. However, a hoodrat would go crazy if you buy them a half assed necklace. BTW, you can't be an independent hood rat. Its an oxymoron.... Hood rats will do hood rat things. A hood rat could be working, however, she is scheming to the highest degree to find a dude that would allow her to go back to her hood rat ways. Reference old girl from Ace's show, and my ex gf....
2. Notice I said *I was laid up with her for 2 weeks*....yep you got it, she didn't have a job. Her wish was for me to knock her up. Thank god I didn't...
3. Her cousins. Gold Diggers, hood rats, and hoes tend to run in packs. They tend to tell you what your girl is actually doing. This goes for dudes too.