Many White men date and marry Asian females but currently you don’t see a lot of white females marrying and dating Asian men. Part of the reason is because Asian men are seen as less masculine by Americans of all ethnic backgrounds. Not all Americans of various ethnic groups view Asian men this way but they have many members among them who do.
I am talking about Asian men of east Asian and northern Asian descent the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, Vietnamese, Cambodia, and other Northern and eastern Asian countries.
Asian men are seen as having less masculine bodies, and not so strong personalities, emotionless, silent anger that they seldom express, verbally not good communicators, and physically weak. White men, black men, Latino men, and men of other ethnic backgrounds are seen as more masculine than Asians men.
The reason basically for Asian men being more feminine in physical appearance is because of they produce more estrogen than men of other racial groups. Asian women are more feminine in appearance because they produce more estrogen than other women. This estrogen also influences personality and emotions this makes Asian men display characteristics that often are associated with women.
Some of the characteristics are they keep emotions hidden well meaning it can be difficult to tell when an Asian man is angry. The more testosterone a man produce the more he will show his emotions of anger, joy, sadness, happiness, etc. The less testosterone a man produces the more he is able to keep his emotions hidden.
But when he has kept these emotions hidden for a long time and bottled up whether these emotions are positive or negative when they come out they will manifest very strongly.
The estrogen allows Asian men and women to look younger for many years example a 40 year old Asian man who looks 27 years old.
Many women from various ethnic groups see Asian men as less masculine, and women in general prefer a masculine man. Asian men in America complain that white women don’t find them attractive enough to be dating partners or marriage. Yet Asian women are seen worth dating or marrying by white men. In the case with Asian women they are seen as very feminine and in the case with Asian men they are seen as less masculine by white women.
Asian men should understand themselves genetically (estrogen) and make a few changes to themselves. Changes that could be made instead of being introverted and passive excessively in personality become a little more extroverted. Stop being too shy around women regardless of their ethnic background. Do some exercise to build up your body, speak with confidence, use body language (hands, eye contact (not Staring,), a smile once in awhile (not goofy smile), walk with confidence and not as though you are afraid even if one is afraid still walk with confidence because it sends a message of manliness, put a little bass in your when you speak.
Asian men have many handsome men among them. Those that are seen as less masculine, and wish not to be seen that way — just need to make some changes about themselves.
White Girls Don’t Want Us
(This article is from the blog bitter asian men)
Point number one is quite simply this: White girls don’t want us. This might seem at first to be a ludicrous complaint: after all, isn’t it ‘natural’ for white girls to want white guys, and white guys to want white girls?
The part that the Asian man is bitter about is not just "White girls don’t want us" but rather "White girls don’t want us, but white guys are all over Asian girls". Plenty of white guys want Asian girls. When this happens, they usually call it a fetish. They might give it names they think are clever like "having the Yellow Fever" or "being rice-ist".
Sure, not all white guys are into Asian girls, but there are plenty that are. Let’s arbitrarily say that 5% of white guys have a thing for Asian girls. So, 5% of white girls should have a thing for Asian guys, right? WRONG. The answer is probably more like 0.05%.
I mean, when was the last time you saw a male Asian porn star? (In a porno from the US of course, not a porno from Japan). And yet, how many female Asian porn stars are there? Okay, so porn is mostly targeted towards men. It might not say anything about the wants and desires of the average white woman. How about trashy romance novels, then? Surely those are the equivalent of porno targeted towards women. I’d be willing to bet that you could scan entire racks of trashy romances at your local supermarket and not find a single one that depicts an Asian man seducing and romancing a white woman. (At least, I have to assume this from all of the cover art.)
So there is this inequity in the white-Asian interracial thing, and the group that ends up with the short end of the stick is the Asian men. This is especially hard for those American-born Asians (ABAs) who grew up in America, speak better English than their parents, grew up among white people, and most importantly, have white standards of beauty. These unlucky guys, having been exposed to the American media all his life, is more likely to want a white girlfriend than an Asian girlfriend. The ABA and his white buddy might both be longing for that cute blond girl next door, but that cute blond girl is going to look at the buddy more often than the ABA.
It boils down to the fact that most white girls don’t even think about Asian men when they picture a ‘datable’ guy. The Asian guy they know is a nice guy, is polite, can help them with their math homework - but is never somebody they would fantasize about wining and dining them. Again, critics will say immediately that it’s only natural for white girls to want white guys. To this I say bullshit. Plenty of white girls are into, say, Latino men as much as (or even more than) white guys. There are also white girls who are into black men as much as or more than white guys (leading some white guys to complain that black men are ’stealing their women’. These white guys think they might understand what Asian men are going through. In fact, they don’t. They’re complete morons.)
Now hold on, some of you white girls are saying. I’d date an Asian! I’ve got nothing against them! That’s great and all, but before you go patting yourselves on the back, take a good look at the Asian guy you’re picturing in your head as the datable Asian. Does he wear Abercrombie and Fitch and drink lots of beer? If so, he’s not a real Asian. He’s a Twinkie - yellow on the outside, white on the inside, and full of crap. (Also bad for you.) Does he wear Fubu and refer to himself as a nigga? Also not a real Asian. (Heretofore these guys shall be known as ‘Yellow M&Ms’ - thanks Kono). If, on the other hand, he’s got glasses and is more versed in chemical engineering than trendy clothes, you’re a saint. (Give me your number.)
So in summary, Asian men are bitter about white women not wanting them not because they believe that all white women should want them, but because the trend of white women not wanting Asian men is not similarly mirrored in the trend of white men wanting Asian women. When a white girl meets an Asian guy, she almost instantly categorizes him in the ‘not datable’ column - most likely done unconsciously, but done all the same. The Asian guy is a good guy to know, but apparently not a choice to date.
Funny and interesting article.
I am talking about Asian men of east Asian and northern Asian descent the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, Vietnamese, Cambodia, and other Northern and eastern Asian countries.
Asian men are seen as having less masculine bodies, and not so strong personalities, emotionless, silent anger that they seldom express, verbally not good communicators, and physically weak. White men, black men, Latino men, and men of other ethnic backgrounds are seen as more masculine than Asians men.
The reason basically for Asian men being more feminine in physical appearance is because of they produce more estrogen than men of other racial groups. Asian women are more feminine in appearance because they produce more estrogen than other women. This estrogen also influences personality and emotions this makes Asian men display characteristics that often are associated with women.
Some of the characteristics are they keep emotions hidden well meaning it can be difficult to tell when an Asian man is angry. The more testosterone a man produce the more he will show his emotions of anger, joy, sadness, happiness, etc. The less testosterone a man produces the more he is able to keep his emotions hidden.
But when he has kept these emotions hidden for a long time and bottled up whether these emotions are positive or negative when they come out they will manifest very strongly.
The estrogen allows Asian men and women to look younger for many years example a 40 year old Asian man who looks 27 years old.
Many women from various ethnic groups see Asian men as less masculine, and women in general prefer a masculine man. Asian men in America complain that white women don’t find them attractive enough to be dating partners or marriage. Yet Asian women are seen worth dating or marrying by white men. In the case with Asian women they are seen as very feminine and in the case with Asian men they are seen as less masculine by white women.
Asian men should understand themselves genetically (estrogen) and make a few changes to themselves. Changes that could be made instead of being introverted and passive excessively in personality become a little more extroverted. Stop being too shy around women regardless of their ethnic background. Do some exercise to build up your body, speak with confidence, use body language (hands, eye contact (not Staring,), a smile once in awhile (not goofy smile), walk with confidence and not as though you are afraid even if one is afraid still walk with confidence because it sends a message of manliness, put a little bass in your when you speak.
Asian men have many handsome men among them. Those that are seen as less masculine, and wish not to be seen that way — just need to make some changes about themselves.
White Girls Don’t Want Us
(This article is from the blog bitter asian men)
Point number one is quite simply this: White girls don’t want us. This might seem at first to be a ludicrous complaint: after all, isn’t it ‘natural’ for white girls to want white guys, and white guys to want white girls?
The part that the Asian man is bitter about is not just "White girls don’t want us" but rather "White girls don’t want us, but white guys are all over Asian girls". Plenty of white guys want Asian girls. When this happens, they usually call it a fetish. They might give it names they think are clever like "having the Yellow Fever" or "being rice-ist".
Sure, not all white guys are into Asian girls, but there are plenty that are. Let’s arbitrarily say that 5% of white guys have a thing for Asian girls. So, 5% of white girls should have a thing for Asian guys, right? WRONG. The answer is probably more like 0.05%.
I mean, when was the last time you saw a male Asian porn star? (In a porno from the US of course, not a porno from Japan). And yet, how many female Asian porn stars are there? Okay, so porn is mostly targeted towards men. It might not say anything about the wants and desires of the average white woman. How about trashy romance novels, then? Surely those are the equivalent of porno targeted towards women. I’d be willing to bet that you could scan entire racks of trashy romances at your local supermarket and not find a single one that depicts an Asian man seducing and romancing a white woman. (At least, I have to assume this from all of the cover art.)
So there is this inequity in the white-Asian interracial thing, and the group that ends up with the short end of the stick is the Asian men. This is especially hard for those American-born Asians (ABAs) who grew up in America, speak better English than their parents, grew up among white people, and most importantly, have white standards of beauty. These unlucky guys, having been exposed to the American media all his life, is more likely to want a white girlfriend than an Asian girlfriend. The ABA and his white buddy might both be longing for that cute blond girl next door, but that cute blond girl is going to look at the buddy more often than the ABA.
It boils down to the fact that most white girls don’t even think about Asian men when they picture a ‘datable’ guy. The Asian guy they know is a nice guy, is polite, can help them with their math homework - but is never somebody they would fantasize about wining and dining them. Again, critics will say immediately that it’s only natural for white girls to want white guys. To this I say bullshit. Plenty of white girls are into, say, Latino men as much as (or even more than) white guys. There are also white girls who are into black men as much as or more than white guys (leading some white guys to complain that black men are ’stealing their women’. These white guys think they might understand what Asian men are going through. In fact, they don’t. They’re complete morons.)
Now hold on, some of you white girls are saying. I’d date an Asian! I’ve got nothing against them! That’s great and all, but before you go patting yourselves on the back, take a good look at the Asian guy you’re picturing in your head as the datable Asian. Does he wear Abercrombie and Fitch and drink lots of beer? If so, he’s not a real Asian. He’s a Twinkie - yellow on the outside, white on the inside, and full of crap. (Also bad for you.) Does he wear Fubu and refer to himself as a nigga? Also not a real Asian. (Heretofore these guys shall be known as ‘Yellow M&Ms’ - thanks Kono). If, on the other hand, he’s got glasses and is more versed in chemical engineering than trendy clothes, you’re a saint. (Give me your number.)
So in summary, Asian men are bitter about white women not wanting them not because they believe that all white women should want them, but because the trend of white women not wanting Asian men is not similarly mirrored in the trend of white men wanting Asian women. When a white girl meets an Asian guy, she almost instantly categorizes him in the ‘not datable’ column - most likely done unconsciously, but done all the same. The Asian guy is a good guy to know, but apparently not a choice to date.
Funny and interesting article.
