Sistas Do You Still Love Black Men???

Black men stopped loving black women some time ago, blame it on disco or rap, hormones in food or welfare.


Of course, I still have love for bro bros, silly question...!!!

I'm glad you're still down with the brothers! I still love my sistas so we're together on that one...:yes:



P.S. who is that in your avy???
 
That's GYH Ct- where you been? :)

What up Iz? Are you asking where have I been in the sense that I didn't know that was GYH or that I haven't been around :dunno:? If it's the latter, I've been around... I've been here and on the main board. I've also been posting on the new BAS board...
 
What up Iz? Are you asking where have I been in the sense that I didn't know that was GYH or that I haven't been around :dunno:? If it's the latter, I've been around... I've been here and on the main board. I've also been posting on the new BAS board...

Lol- I was referring to you not knowing that was GYH. I thought her avi was quite famous by now as you can imagine! ;)
 
Lol- I was referring to you not knowing that was GYH. I thought her avi was quite famous by now as you can imagine! ;)

I thought that's what you meant. :lol: I don't know why I didn't know that was her. Whatever the case I may have to do some research on her... Thanks for enlightening me, and thanks for replying to the topic.
 
The man I admire most is my father. My parents had 9 children. My father worked and my mom stayed home. I had a good upbringing. Having a father who was hard working and dependable showed me what to expect from a man. I don't tolerate bullshit because of the positive influence my father has had on my life. He wasn't the most affectionate father but I never doubted his love for me. He was very protective and this spared me from some of the events that plagued the lives of my friends. My grandfather (father's father) was the same way. He was an alcoholic, but he still managed to take care of business. Because of his drinking I didn't get to spend much time with him as a child, but by the time I was a teenager he was clean and sober and I got a chance to really know him. He introduced me to black literature and showed me how to play poker. Having positive males in your life is very important in my opinion. The first man you ever love is your father and when you miss out on that you can sometimes spend the rest of your life searching for it.

This has to be one of the deepest lines I've heard in a long time. Its so true and I wish more men, black or white or whatever, realized this before they decide or decided to walk out on their young girls.
 
I love my black men!!! How can you not love a strong black man?? There is just something about the swagger of a black man that no other race has!!!
 
This has to be one of the deepest lines I've heard in a long time. Its so true and I wish more men, black or white or whatever, realized this before they decide or decided to walk out on their young girls.

Very true but, it's not just the men at fault here. Woman need to be more responsible with whom they lie down with and decide to have a child with as well.
 
I dislike all men equally :hmm:

The only reason I came into this thread was to see the amount of hate you would pure into it. Please, for your own well being, log off BGOL and spend that time on a therapist couch! You obviously need it.

By the way, did you hate all men when you were knowingly, sleeping with a married man? Seems like youo hate woman too.
 
^^^Dude, what planet are you living on?:smh:

PLANET OWL to be exact...last time you had some pussy homeboi?

See, how fast we can take a thing and make it was not what it could be?


Naw, I don't really feel like it today, my point though was we black men have much higher numbers of dating and marrying outside of the race, most black women don't even respect men outside of our ethnicity, (think about that). Most black men, and I'm assuming, because I don't deal with a lot of the types of males you find on bgol outside of bgol, that the misogynistic trend is from men dealing with aggressive women, or immature black women...and they couldn't handle them...
 
The only reason I came into this thread was to see the amount of hate you would pure into it. Please, for your own well being, log off BGOL and spend that time on a therapist couch! You obviously need it.

By the way, did you hate all men when you were knowingly, sleeping with a married man? Seems like youo hate woman too.

I don't deal with no babylon witch doctors and a marriage where the people sleep in separate beds and stay together only for the child and both people fuck around anyway is just a word. You know where you can shove your sanctimonious bullshit.
 
So ladies, my question to you is do you still love us? Who are the (positive) men in your lives? How important do you think it is for young girls to have positive male role models? Holla back...

Had to come back to read all the other questions.
Always have loved black men, never loved a man of any other color.

My dad was around when I was younger, but he wasn't worth a damn. I almost wish I had been raised without him. The good thing is that he always told me not to worry about boys and focus on my education and I can't thank him enough for that. But luckily I saw examples of what I thought good fathers & good men were (extended family). I guess I only recognized them based off of TV (Bill Cosby show, the Brady Bunch). Right now, I would say I do not have many positive black men in my life. My dad is better, my brothers are finding their way, my male friends are decent. It was important for me to have positive male role models because it showed me at a young age what I could have in a husband and father of my children. I expect more from a man than some men my age are willing to give.
 
Had to come back to read all the other questions.
Always have loved black men, never loved a man of any other color.

My dad was around when I was younger, but he wasn't worth a damn. I almost wish I had been raised without him. The good thing is that he always told me not to worry about boys and focus on my education and I can't thank him enough for that. But luckily I saw examples of what I thought good fathers & good men were (extended family). I guess I only recognized them based off of TV (Bill Cosby show, the Brady Bunch). Right now, I would say I do not have many positive black men in my life. My dad is better, my brothers are finding their way, my male friends are decent. It was important for me to have positive male role models because it showed me at a young age what I could have in a husband and father of my children. I expect more from a man than some men my age are willing to give.

Thanks for addressing the other questions. As you can see they have been overlooked by most...:lol:
 
I am a light skin, sweet, honest, caring, hard working black woman. I am height and weight proportionate. A college graduate. No kids. I drive an SUV and about to purchase a 3 bedroom 2.5 bathroom townhome. With that being said, I dont love black men. My father had his flaws but is the one I truly love. I hate most of the black boys of today. Liars and filthy ones at that. Have fifty kids they dont take care of. Wear slouchy clothes and overall just arent worth a damn. As of late even ones who dont follow that trend, are the same way. In fact I have just had yet another one to prove that point. I just think black men are completely stupid and hopeless. In fact, I have a sister and a friend who date white men who are encouraging me to try it. It may now become an option.
 
I am a light skin, sweet, honest, caring, hard working black woman. I am height and weight proportionate. A college graduate. No kids. I drive an SUV and about to purchase a 3 bedroom 2.5 bathroom townhome. With that being said, I dont love black men. My father had his flaws but is the one I truly love. I hate most of the black boys of today. Liars and filthy ones at that. Have fifty kids they dont take care of. Wear slouchy clothes and overall just arent worth a damn. As of late even ones who dont follow that trend, are the same way. In fact I have just had yet another one to prove that point. I just think black men are completely stupid and hopeless. In fact, I have a sister and a friend who date white men who are encouraging me to try it. It may now become an option.

Who gives a fuck......
 
I am a light skin, sweet, honest, caring, hard working black woman. I am height and weight proportionate. A college graduate. No kids. I drive an SUV and about to purchase a 3 bedroom 2.5 bathroom townhome. With that being said, I dont love black men. My father had his flaws but is the one I truly love. I hate most of the black boys of today. Liars and filthy ones at that. Have fifty kids they dont take care of. Wear slouchy clothes and overall just arent worth a damn. As of late even ones who dont follow that trend, are the same way. In fact I have just had yet another one to prove that point. I just think black men are completely stupid and hopeless. In fact, I have a sister and a friend who date white men who are encouraging me to try it. It may now become an option.

Please stop posting this BS all the time. Do you have this exact same first 3 sentences as a macro??? Just stop. Seriously. Go to the White man. Please.
 
Okay. And I dont post this all the time. Stop stalking my font if you dont like it.

Caramelcute, and I say this with stalwart restraint, you don't want it with me. Please. Not the one.

YOU FUCKING POSTED THE SAME SHIT IN THE MIDDLE OF A THREAD ABOUT DAVID GARRAUD, A FOOTBALL PLAYER. Kick rocks, nigga.

It does sweetie. I wont lie, I do get tired of the interracial. But I also get tired of the generalization of black women. I stand 5 7, light skin, caramel tone, shoulder length hair, straight teeth, real cute:D, ample c breasts, wide hips, thick thighs, weight about 1 fiddies, big butt but I remain alone. I drive my own SUV and live on my own with a great salary too. It just saddens me knowing a cute woman like myself is passed up for someone who has blue eyes, blonde hair and whatnot. I swear yall need to see Goodbye Uncle Tom. That movie will enlighten you on alot of shit.
 
Who the fuck asked you to?

You put your bi out there. I think i can type for most black men on this board when i type "WHO GIVES A FUCK". You came off as self righteous, due to materialistic shit you've acquired. Your lack of self knowledge will place you in the bed of your oppressor and deem you right to degrade black men. I look past hoes like you, but i'll still bless you with a reality check.
 
Caramelcute, and I say this with stalwart restraint, you don't want it with me. Please. Not the one.

YOU FUCKING POSTED THE SAME SHIT IN THE MIDDLE OF A THREAD ABOUT DAVID GARRAUD, A FOOTBALL PLAYER. Kick rocks, nigga.

Then move along. Dont start none wont be any. You dont know what I have been through to make me the way I am.
 
You put your bi out there. I think i can type for most black men on this board when i type "WHO GIVES A FUCK". You came off as self righteous, due to materialistic shit you've acquired. Your lack of self knowledge will place you in the bed of your oppressor and deem you right to degrade black men. I look past hoes like you, but i'll still bless you with a reality check.

I degrade them because they love to degrade me. Look at what you just said based off of one paragraph I wrote. I am very pleased to say I am far from a hoe. Reality check that one.
 
You put your bi out there. I think i can type for most black men on this board when i type "WHO GIVES A FUCK". You came off as self righteous, due to materialistic shit you've acquired. Your lack of self knowledge will place you in the bed of your oppressor and deem you right to degrade black men. I look past hoes like you, but i'll still bless you with a reality check.

:eek: Ouch!
 
I am a light skin, sweet, honest, caring, hard working black woman. I am height and weight proportionate. A college graduate. No kids. I drive an SUV and about to purchase a 3 bedroom 2.5 bathroom townhome.
It does sweetie. I wont lie, I do get tired of the interracial. But I also get tired of the generalization of black women. I stand 5 7, light skin, caramel tone, shoulder length hair, straight teeth, real cute:D, ample c breasts, wide hips, thick thighs, weight about 1 fiddies, big butt but I remain alone. I drive my own SUV and live on my own with a great salary too. It just saddens me knowing a cute woman like myself is passed up for someone who has blue eyes, blonde hair and whatnot. I swear yall need to see Goodbye Uncle Tom. That movie will enlighten you on alot of shit.

Analyze yourself, how many times are you going to mention that you are light-skinned?? Twice in one sentence and you list that as a positive attribute. And it's in your s/n? You're color struck, that alone lets me know you are messed up in the head. With the rest of your description, you ideally sound like a real catch (if accurate, IIRC, some of these are doubtful, especially in the looks department, but I digress), you know what's fucking you up, your attitude. You wonder why you will have your "townhome" and those other two bedrooms will remain empty? Your attitude. Oh, you can stuff them full of teddy bears, far as the eye can see, but that won't replace that hole in your heart. You drive an SUV, looks like you're planning for kids. Won't happen until you change up your attitude. And if you think some White man, who really only looks at sistas as sexual conquests, is gonna take your mouth?? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

You place all this value in what you drive, what you live in, what you look like, what about YOU? What does "caramelcute" bring to the table? Why is "caramelcute" still single? Why can't "caramelcute" keep a man? Is it the White women? No. Is it the Black men? Heck no. You claim that they are all dirty, shiftless and good-for-nothing, yet your vagina hurts whenever you see them with White women. But we ain't good enough for you, why do you care who we fuck? You take that BS somewheres else with your hen circle, go on.
hens2004.jpg
:D

AND THIS GOES OUT TO THE REST OF Y'ALL, I KNOW SHE IS AN ABERRATION, I KNOW, HELL WE KNOW, Y'ALL GOT LOVE FOR US AS WE DO FOR YOU
 
I am a light skin, sweet, honest, caring, hard working black woman. I am height and weight proportionate. A college graduate. No kids. I drive an SUV and about to purchase a 3 bedroom 2.5 bathroom townhome. With that being said, I dont love black men. My father had his flaws but is the one I truly love. I hate most of the black boys of today. Liars and filthy ones at that. Have fifty kids they dont take care of. Wear slouchy clothes and overall just arent worth a damn. As of late even ones who dont follow that trend, are the same way. In fact I have just had yet another one to prove that point. I just think black men are completely stupid and hopeless. In fact, I have a sister and a friend who date white men who are encouraging me to try it. It may now become an option.

That's really sad. I don't think the actions of a few people should sour you on black men completely. The negative qualities you see in us are present in other races as well. Assholes, jerks, etc. come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. I honestly think if you happen to like someone from another culture that's fine, but don't cut the black man completely off because you may have had some bad experiences. I also think you and any other black person who has issues based on complexion need to give up that separatist attitude. We are all black and we should not be caught up in bullshit like skin tone. Whether you believe it or not, no matter how light your skin, or how straight your hair may be to some people you're still a n*gger! That won't change no matter how many white men you date...And for the record I am a light skinned man who drives an SUV and has his own place. I also love all my brothers and sisters regardless of complexion. I love the black woman and I will never leave her no matter what...
 
Analyze yourself, how many times are you going to mention that you are light-skinned?? Twice in one sentence and you list that as a positive attribute. And it's in your s/n? You're color struck, that alone lets me know you are messed up in the head. With the rest of your description, you ideally sound like a real catch (if accurate, IIRC, some of these are doubtful, especially in the looks department, but I digress), you know what's fucking you up, your attitude. You wonder why you will have your "townhome" and those other two bedrooms will remain empty? Your attitude. Oh, you can stuff them full of teddy bears, far as the eye can see, but that won't replace that hole in your heart. You drive an SUV, looks like you're planning for kids. Won't happen until you change up your attitude. And if you think some White man, who really only looks at sistas as sexual conquests, is gonna take your mouth?? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

You place all this value in what you drive, what you live in, what you look like, what about YOU? What does "caramelcute" bring to the table? Why is "caramelcute" still single? Why can't "caramelcute" keep a man? Is it the White women? No. Is it the Black men? Heck no. You claim that they are all dirty, shiftless and good-for-nothing, yet your vagina hurts whenever you see them with White women. But we ain't good enough for you, why do you care who we fuck? You take that BS somewheres else with your hen circle, go on.
hens2004.jpg
:D

AND THIS GOES OUT TO THE REST OF Y'ALL, I KNOW SHE IS AN ABERRATION, I KNOW, HELL WE KNOW, Y'ALL GOT LOVE FOR US AS WE DO FOR YOU

PREACH!!!
 
That's really sad. I don't think the actions of a few people should sour you on black men completely. The negative qualities you see in us are present in other races as well. Assholes, jerks, etc. come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. I honestly think if you happen to like someone from another culture that's fine, but don't cut the black man completely off because you may have had some bad experiences. I also think you and any other black person who has issues based on complexion need to give up that separatist attitude. We are all black and we should not be caught up in bullshit like skin tone. Whether you believe it or not, no matter how light your skin, or how straight your hair may be to some people you're still a n*gger! That won't change no matter how many white men you date...And for the record I am a light skinned man who drives an SUV and has his own place. I also love all my brothers and sisters regardless of complexion. I love the black woman and I will never leave her no matter what...
You are an upstanding black man. I commend you for what you do. My post was meant for two things. I was a poor kid from a rough neighborhood but I over came that mostly for me and to meet a respectable black man Every one I meet come across as bogus people. I dont ask for much other than loyalty honesty and trust. I am now at a point when where a nice looking respectable man approaches me for what i accomplished and allows me to do the same for him. My opinion will then change about black men. Hopefully one day will come that allows that to happen. So far its been one heartache after another. It makes me think of all the good blessed things i have accomplied in my life why wont black men take a chance to be honest and enjoy things with me.
 
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