Need some advice Fam. Dating a lady with 3 kids. (sorry no porn)

[kurrupt]

Wat u want with a used truck? Your 31 with no kids! That means your stock is high! You know how many chix looking for a dude wit no kids??? We prime meat right now! Rare species if I may say.
If you smashing..make sure u jimmy up extra tight...wat u dont want is a mishap...other then that, keep it moving!
You held out and have no kids, u deserve a pat on the back and the same in return.. a chick wit no kids!

 

[harlem1nyc]

Keep the condem on no matter what.....Smash as much as possible and then keep push'n along......you are in treacherous waters playa....................

 

[babalou]

[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/nNI21aIK8mA&rel[/FLASH]​

 

[youngturbo]

Smash get the cash, DASH

 

[gameboy]

you haven't even hit the pussy yet,,, so why are you even contemplating about getting serious?

your question leads me to believe that,,, if the pussy is good,,, she's going to have your ass in there simping & paying bills

 

[The Show]

Maybe I don't understand but I did not really see a mature question in that story. If you are asking for advice on what to do Nigga you 31 time to start making grown up choices and decisions. Why add to this woman's burden by running some game on her to smash why not try the honest approach. Tell her that because of the three kids from a previous marriage and the fact that you don't have any at all you have some serious reversations about entering into any type of emotional relationship with her, but if she just wanted to do a friends with benefits type of arrangement then you would not have a problem with that. Worse thing you could do is lead her on just to get the pussy it just ain't worth it.

Co Muthafuckin sign!

 

[razza8503]

Why you even thinking like this after knowing her for 3 days.

I say leave that joint alone NOW, your mentals aint strong enough to deal wit her, she gonna have you being replacement daddy of the year out here

 

[ak_rep]

Riiiiickyyyyy!

 

[Wootten Hathaway]

Why you even thinking like this after knowing her for 3 days.

I say leave that joint alone NOW, your mentals aint strong enough to deal wit her, she gonna have you being replacement daddy of the year out here

That guy is Pussy whip material. She is going to book him like Dan from hawaii 5' 0.



Wootten Hathaway

 

[mbgxxx]

Why dont you just ask her? Communication is the key to a relationship or just a booty call. You already thinking about hitting and quitting because you dont want to take care of somebody elses kids. She is probably thinking i need someone to beat up this pussy. Just remember she is a woman first, and she may just be looking to fuck. yOu may never meet her kids...You over thinking it

 

[johniz]

Have you giys even kissed or discussed getting together and NOT merely as friends/co-workers (you guys don;t work together)?

I will never talk to a woman w/a kid because I will always be 2nd. Imagine 3 kids!?!

Remain friends with her if you can.

 

[freakd]

it's hard, i'm in the same situation, she has two kids, and we live together. there is a lot of questions, why can't she (the mother) be happy, have sex, have funny, have a life, she can't because she was married to some loser? that's not fare. why can you (the dude) be happy with her? but to me it's all about the kids, if they don't love you, and i'm sorry, they have to love and cherish and respect you (and vice versa) then the relationship with her is not going to work. it sounds like you two are set, the rest of the relationship all rest with the kids, if they're assholes, your time with her is going to be a living hell.

 

[atl4thward2k6]

it's hard, i'm in the same situation, she has two kids, and we live together. there is a lot of questions, why can't she (the mother) be happy, have sex, have funny, have a life, she can't because she was married to some loser? that's not fare. why can you (the dude) be happy with her? but to me it's all about the kids, if they don't love you, and i'm sorry, they have to love and cherish and respect you (and vice versa) then the relationship with her is not going to work. it sounds like you two are set, the rest of the relationship all rest with the kids, if they're assholes, your time with her is going to be a living hell.

 

[black12in_mamba]

Whats good to be real with you I have never been the type of dude to holla at a chic with kids either. I will tell you this one thing if she is a professional woman then she is a no nonsense type of person that means that the attempt to play games will do only one thing FUCK SHIT UP. What I suggest is that you sit down and discuss what she wants in the relationship and what you want. Don't go into the convo half assed though determine what you want first. That way there isn't any misunderstanding and then go from there good luck dude holla.

 

[destrehan]

Riiiiickyyyyy!

x 10000000000000000

 

[LAZARUS216]

Wat u want with a used truck? Your 31 with no kids! That means your stock is high! You know how many chix looking for a dude wit no kids??? We prime meat right now! Rare species if I may say.
If you smashing..make sure u jimmy up extra tight...wat u dont want is a mishap...other then that, keep it moving!
You held out and have no kids, u deserve a pat on the back and the same in return.. a chick wit no kids!

yup he right. All I can add t is " PLAY IT 100% SAFE", you don't wan't this chick trapping ya because for one, you aint go no kids, and she probably looking atchoo coz of that with potential...potential to be the next. It's a double edged sword, be her friend, beat it up, don't get attached to the Kids, play it safe.

 

[Adam Knows]

don't do it
reconsider
read some liter...

 

[LAZARUS216]

On second thought's hold off on getting the pussy, even if she throws it atchoo, coz it could be a trap to drag u in gradually, know her first, why did the marriage end up? was somebody creeping? was she a nagging, infidelity prone, crazy demented chick? Ask questions bruh, if she hesitant to answer, RUN LIKE HELL

 

[VegasGuy]

I think it was said you should make your own decisions as to what you should do but what's on her mind? Is she sizing you up assuming you are a good responsible brother able to help guide her youngun's or is all of this something you are assuming about this woman you speak pretty hightly about?

Based on what you say your delima is, leave her alone and let a more mature brother get at her. Somebody who isn't afraid of kids. She ain't for you.

-VG

 

[SpiritualPorn]

Maybe I don't understand but I did not really see a mature question in that story. If you are asking for advice on what to do Nigga you 31 time to start making grown up choices and decisions. Why add to this woman's burden by running some game on her to smash why not try the honest approach. Tell her that because of the three kids from a previous marriage and the fact that you don't have any at all you have some serious reversations about entering into any type of emotional relationship with her, but if she just wanted to do a friends with benefits type of arrangement then you would not have a problem with that. Worse thing you could do is lead her on just to get the pussy it just ain't worth it.

Exactly!!!!

Remember she will always have a side man (the children's father) as security. When things get tough between her and yourself you better believe she will run to talk to him for comfort.

 

[legendof84]

it's hard, i'm in the same situation, she has two kids, and we live together. there is a lot of questions, why can't she (the mother) be happy, have sex, have funny, have a life, she can't because she was married to some loser? that's not fare. why can you (the dude) be happy with her? but to me it's all about the kids, if they don't love you, and i'm sorry, they have to love and cherish and respect you (and vice versa) then the relationship with her is not going to work. it sounds like you two are set, the rest of the relationship all rest with the kids, if they're assholes, your time with her is going to be a living hell.

nail on the head. i'm in the exact same situation and a product of the same situation. my dad bounced on me and it took another man to raise me. and now my girl has two lil girls and i love them to death and vice versa. it hasnt been easy and i had to ask myself the same questions about her being happy and having a life and i came to the same conclusion. why should a sweet, generous person miss out on someone just because she has kids?? and why should i miss out on her just because of some hang ups other people put on me? not to long ago we had this discussion and my girl said "it takes a really special person to date a person with kids." i didnt think so and still dont but its how she feels.

you're not marrying the woman and its not written in stone you will be with her forever. so why not see where it takes you??

 

[Genocide]

Under NO circumstances do you establish a relationship with a woman with more than one kid, EVER!

If she does have one kid, then she better be on point! I mean a dime! Not a nine! Have a good job, and be 112% cooperative.

If you wanna hit that be straight up with her about it. Tell her you not looking for a relationship. You need to hit in less than 72 hours like K-Flex says, but if you don't then nigga BE OUT!!!!

 

[brohammus]

Dont muthafuckin do it!!!

 

[DAYNE]

Wat u want with a used truck? Your 31 with no kids! That means your stock is high! You know how many chix looking for a dude wit no kids??? We prime meat right now! Rare species if I may say.
If you smashing..make sure u jimmy up extra tight...wat u dont want is a mishap...other then that, keep it moving!
You held out and have no kids, u deserve a pat on the back and the same in return.. a chick wit no kids!

My man...

 

[tanks1]

I'm dating one now with 3 kids. I already told her i'm not getting married. I'm cool with the kids. Their dad's remarried, but is always mentioned and in the background. You're going to have to deal with that. At 31, you're too young. In my opinion.

Ask her this question. "Am I supposed to make you happy?" If she says yes, it's your job to make me happy, get out!

 

[DAYNE]

Under NO circumstances do you establish a relationship with a woman with more than one kid, EVER!

If she does have one kid, then she better be on point! I mean a dime! Not a nine! Have a good job, and be 112% cooperative.

If you wanna hit that be straight up with her about it. Tell her you not looking for a relationship. You need to hit in less than 72 hours like K-Flex says, but if you don't then nigga BE OUT!!!!

yep

 

[rage]

3 Kids=​

DON'T DO IT!​

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[Manny Styles]

My man, you are giving off a lot of "young" vibes, and I'm not that much older than you.

The replies from the young cats in this thread are evident, but not everything they say is completely off base. You got a lot of mature responses and you need to pay attention to those.

Cats kill me with that "women with kids = run". Does the same apply to a man who was married and only had children with his wife; should all the single women possibly interested in him run as well?

BTW, when you are talking about one female, the singular word is what you should use: woman.

 

[Kazoo]

the Fam dropped some great advice on you playboy

I'm at the point in my life ,I dont get involved with women that arent what I want - its a waste of my time

i'd stay friends with her , but distance myself from her
and look for other females to date

 

[ethnocentric]

post a non nude pic of her

 

[Adam Knows]

soon as i finish writing/illustrating this e-book i'm gonna post it for ya son....

i'm up to page 4 right now....

 

[King D]

Leave now!!!
Leave before she ends up having a fourth child by you, which will eventually happen if ya'll get real close and the relationship progresses. After that, the real drama will come because she'll be mad that you're treating her kids different than the way you treat your baby. Then, you will have to deal with her ass on some babymamma drama.....Trust me, i've been there and still going through it right now!

 

[Brown Bear]

-dead-


But seriously, I got a buddy of mine going through almost the same thing. It all boils down to what it is you want from her.

If you're looking just fora fuck buddy, might as well bounce while you're ahead. She will end up wanting more from you. She is a creature of stability, and will want you to commit to a monogamous relationship.

If you don't want to commit, you might as well let the next Man, that is willing to settle down, make her happy.

If you ARE willing to settle down for a few, and ride the wave of a relationship with her, then cool. Stay where you are.But be forewarned: You might get as attached to the kids as they will to you. Kids are just like that.

 

[BHZ83]

soon as i finish writing/illustrating this e-book i'm gonna post it for ya son....

i'm up to page 4 right now....

 

[pookie]

From your responses about her physical features i say if she doesn't have a snapback body once you see the damage those 3 kids have done on her NUDE body you'll be outta there