dunno what to say

nawlinsn931

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:eek:me an my wife are goin through a divorce and still on good terms now the guy shes decided to move on with is 49 and has 10 kids already :smh: now after i finished laughing at her and tellin her she was gone catch worms i told her she could do better than that cause she only 26 and i told her if she goes down the "i'm just gone keep gettin me sugar daddy" line im make sure she never sees my kids again just wanted to hear responses from the board
 
Why worry about it if you have custody? Just make sure the child support payments are on time.

Oh, and grown doesn't have an age, man. If that who she's with, then that's her business. You sure you ready to be a singl parent?
 
i'm in a relationship now where my current woman loves my kids as if they were hers and even if she wasn't there im a father 1st
everything else second and right now we have joint custody but she gets easily sidetracked and i refuse to let her take it out on the kids
 
Sounds like you still have true feelings for her.

Like shadow mentioned above, just be ready for the next stage in your life. Have you told the kids yet?
 
we was together for 8 yrs and i don't believe in hating on nobody that wastes too much time and energy that i can put toward good things and the worms thing is something that has been said in the south especially new orleans where i'm from for years do your homework before u jump my case and my babies are 2 and 1 so no i haven't told them
 
we was together for 8 yrs and i don't believe in hating on nobody that wastes too much time and energy that i can put toward good things and the worms thing is something that has been said in the south especially new orleans where i'm from for years do your homework before u jump my case and my babies are 2 and 1 so no i haven't told them

Dude, just take it easy. You'll be okay, but this shit is fucked up. Damn....
 
its like this whatever happens to her in reality is goin to affect my kids like i said they are babies and as i found out more about her the more i wanted a divorce but like i said 8 yrs so i dont hate her and don't wish no bad on her
 
we was together for 8 yrs and i don't believe in hating on nobody that wastes too much time and energy that i can put toward good things and the worms thing is something that has been said in the south especially new orleans where i'm from for years do your homework before u jump my case and my babies are 2 and 1 so no i haven't told them

FIRST OFF
YOU ARE FOUL FOR EVEN THINKING ITS OK FOR HER NOT TO SEE HER KIDS.
JUST BECAUSE YOURE PISSED OFF AT HER CHOICES.

SECOND YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF
ARE YOU AND YOUR WOMAN GETTING MARRIED ?
IF NOT THEN THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR YOU AS FAR AS BRINGING THE LIDS AROUND STRANGE PEOPLE THAT YOU SHARE AN EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH.

IF YOU ARE THEN WONDERFUL
MAKE SURE AS A COUPLE YOU DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES YOU
DID IN YOUR FIRST MARRIAGE....IT TAKES TWO AND IT TAKES WORK,
MORE THAN MOST ARE WILLING TO DO

ALL OF THE ABOVE WILL AFFECT YOUR KIDS , ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE
THE SAME IF YOU DONT STAY TOGETHER AS IF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE
WITH YOUR WIFE ONCE THEY HAVE ATTACHED THEMSELVES TO THAT OTHER WOMAN....SO I HOPE YALL ARE GONNA MAKE A GO OF IT

I TELL PEOPLE ALL THE TIME BE VERY CAREFUL WHO YOU BRING AROUND YOUR KIDS THE EFFECTS WILL LAST LONG AND CAN POSITIVE
HOWEVER THEY CAN BE JUST AS DEVASTATING.

FINALLY....... YOU SOUND LIKE YOURE EITHER JEALOUS (WHICH IS O.K. ITS NATURAL)
OR JUST HATING (WHICH IS NOT OK)
OTHERWISE WHY DO YOU CARE.

PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
WHAT IF SHE HAD THE KIDS AND TOLD YOU
THAT YOU CANT SEE YOUR KIDS BECAUSE OF THE CHICK YOURE DATING
BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT SHE DIDNT LIKE ABOUT HER
THAT DOESNT HAVE SHIT TO DO WITH HER ?

THINK MAN
YOU HAVE KIDS TO RAISE
YOU NEED TO BE ABOUT THAT AND LET HER GO HER OWN WAY.
KNOW THIS
KIDS ARE SMARTER THAN YOU THINK
AND THE FUTURE WILL REVEAL ITSELF TO THEM IN WAYS YOU WONT
THINK ABOUT UNTIL THEY ARE DAMN NEAR ADULTS AND THEY WILL MAKE DECISIONS
ABOUT THEIR UPBRINGING OF LACK THERE OF,
BASED ON WHAT THEY KNOW , HAVE SEEN AND FEEL.

NEVER SLANDER THEIR MOTHER IN FRONT OF THEM
IN THE END IF YOU ARENT CAREFUL
YOU WILL BECOME THE VILLAIN OVER TIME .
RAISE THEM RIGHT AND LET OL GIRL DO WHATEVER IT IS SHE DOES.
IF YOU ARE A GOOD FATHER IT WONT MATTER THAT MUCH.


NO DISRESPECT BRAH JUST REAL TALK.:hmm:
 
i'm not sayin she can't see her kids because of who shes dating u misread me and thats cool i'm sayin i will stop her from seein our kids if she becomes a ho and have a different man infront my kids everyday and me an my lady are gettin married and once again im not hatin or jealous cause my relationship i have now is the best thing to happen to me im totally happy but i know until she is totally happy she gone make life hell for me and my kids thats y i care y is it that when a brother is not spiteful evil or that nigga that dont care society turns it around on him
 
FIRST OFF
YOU ARE FOUL FOR EVEN THINKING ITS OK FOR HER NOT TO SEE HER KIDS.
JUST BECAUSE YOURE PISSED OFF AT HER CHOICES.

SECOND YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF
ARE YOU AND YOUR WOMAN GETTING MARRIED ?
IF NOT THEN THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR YOU AS FAR AS BRINGING THE LIDS AROUND STRANGE PEOPLE THAT YOU SHARE AN EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH.

IF YOU ARE THEN WONDERFUL
MAKE SURE AS A COUPLE YOU DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES YOU
DID IN YOUR FIRST MARRIAGE....IT TAKES TWO AND IT TAKES WORK,
MORE THAN MOST ARE WILLING TO DO

ALL OF THE ABOVE WILL AFFECT YOUR KIDS , ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE
THE SAME IF YOU DONT STAY TOGETHER AS IF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE
WITH YOUR WIFE ONCE THEY HAVE ATTACHED THEMSELVES TO THAT OTHER WOMAN....SO I HOPE YALL ARE GONNA MAKE A GO OF IT

I TELL PEOPLE ALL THE TIME BE VERY CAREFUL WHO YOU BRING AROUND YOUR KIDS THE EFFECTS WILL LAST LONG AND CAN POSITIVE
HOWEVER THEY CAN BE JUST AS DEVASTATING.

FINALLY....... YOU SOUND LIKE YOURE EITHER JEALOUS (WHICH IS O.K. ITS NATURAL)
OR JUST HATING (WHICH IS NOT OK)
OTHERWISE WHY DO YOU CARE.

PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
WHAT IF SHE HAD THE KIDS AND TOLD YOU
THAT YOU CANT SEE YOUR KIDS BECAUSE OF THE CHICK YOURE DATING
BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT SHE DIDNT LIKE ABOUT HER
THAT DOESNT HAVE SHIT TO DO WITH HER ?

THINK MAN
YOU HAVE KIDS TO RAISE
YOU NEED TO BE ABOUT THAT AND LET HER GO HER OWN WAY.
KNOW THIS
KIDS ARE SMARTER THAN YOU THINK
AND THE FUTURE WILL REVEAL ITSELF TO THEM IN WAYS YOU WONT
THINK ABOUT UNTIL THEY ARE DAMN NEAR ADULTS AND THEY WILL MAKE DECISIONS
ABOUT THEIR UPBRINGING OF LACK THERE OF,
BASED ON WHAT THEY KNOW , HAVE SEEN AND FEEL.

NEVER SLANDER THEIR MOTHER IN FRONT OF THEM
IN THE END IF YOU ARENT CAREFUL
YOU WILL BECOME THE VILLAIN OVER TIME .
RAISE THEM RIGHT AND LET OL GIRL DO WHATEVER IT IS SHE DOES.
IF YOU ARE A GOOD FATHER IT WONT MATTER THAT MUCH.


NO DISRESPECT BRAH JUST REAL TALK.:hmm:

:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
 
i'm not sayin she can't see her kids because of who shes dating u misread me and thats cool i'm sayin i will stop her from seein our kids if she becomes a ho and have a different man infront my kids everyday and me an my lady are gettin married and once again im not hatin or jealous cause my relationship i have now is the best thing to happen to me im totally happy but i know until she is totally happy she gone make life hell for me and my kids thats y i care y is it that when a brother is not spiteful evil or that nigga that dont care society turns it around on him

AT THE END OF THE DAY
YOU CANT STOP HER AND USING THE KIDS AS A TOOL WILL ONLY END UP BACKFIRING IN YOUR FACE.....TRUST ME.

I HAVE A HOMEY WHOS WIFE ENDED UP FINALLY BECOMING
A CRACK HEAD WHORE.
HE STILL DOESNT KEEP HER FORM THE KIDS BUT HE DOES REGULATE THEIR VISITS.
I WAS THERE WHEN THE FIRST ONE WAS BORN
THE SECOND ONE ISNT EVEN HIS AND HE STILL RAISED HIM AS HIS OWN FROM BIRTH

THOSE BOYS ARE DAMN NEAR GROWN NOW
AND THEY KNOW THE SCORE YET HAVE BEEN RAISED WELL AND ARE YOUNG MEN.

THATS THE EXAMPLE YOU NEED TO FOLLOW.

GOOD LUCK BRAH AND TRY TO MAKE GOOD SOUND RATIONAL DECISIONS.
 
FIRST OFF
YOU ARE FOUL FOR EVEN THINKING ITS OK FOR HER NOT TO SEE HER KIDS.
JUST BECAUSE YOURE PISSED OFF AT HER CHOICES.

SECOND YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF
ARE YOU AND YOUR WOMAN GETTING MARRIED ?
IF NOT THEN THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR YOU AS FAR AS BRINGING THE LIDS AROUND STRANGE PEOPLE THAT YOU SHARE AN EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH.

IF YOU ARE THEN WONDERFUL
MAKE SURE AS A COUPLE YOU DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES YOU
DID IN YOUR FIRST MARRIAGE....IT TAKES TWO AND IT TAKES WORK,
MORE THAN MOST ARE WILLING TO DO

ALL OF THE ABOVE WILL AFFECT YOUR KIDS , ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE
THE SAME IF YOU DONT STAY TOGETHER AS IF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE
WITH YOUR WIFE ONCE THEY HAVE ATTACHED THEMSELVES TO THAT OTHER WOMAN....SO I HOPE YALL ARE GONNA MAKE A GO OF IT

I TELL PEOPLE ALL THE TIME BE VERY CAREFUL WHO YOU BRING AROUND YOUR KIDS THE EFFECTS WILL LAST LONG AND CAN POSITIVE
HOWEVER THEY CAN BE JUST AS DEVASTATING.

FINALLY....... YOU SOUND LIKE YOURE EITHER JEALOUS (WHICH IS O.K. ITS NATURAL)
OR JUST HATING (WHICH IS NOT OK)
OTHERWISE WHY DO YOU CARE.

PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
WHAT IF SHE HAD THE KIDS AND TOLD YOU
THAT YOU CANT SEE YOUR KIDS BECAUSE OF THE CHICK YOURE DATING
BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT SHE DIDNT LIKE ABOUT HER
THAT DOESNT HAVE SHIT TO DO WITH HER ?

THINK MAN
YOU HAVE KIDS TO RAISE
YOU NEED TO BE ABOUT THAT AND LET HER GO HER OWN WAY.
KNOW THIS
KIDS ARE SMARTER THAN YOU THINK
AND THE FUTURE WILL REVEAL ITSELF TO THEM IN WAYS YOU WONT
THINK ABOUT UNTIL THEY ARE DAMN NEAR ADULTS AND THEY WILL MAKE DECISIONS
ABOUT THEIR UPBRINGING OF LACK THERE OF,
BASED ON WHAT THEY KNOW , HAVE SEEN AND FEEL.

NEVER SLANDER THEIR MOTHER IN FRONT OF THEM
IN THE END IF YOU ARENT CAREFUL
YOU WILL BECOME THE VILLAIN OVER TIME .
RAISE THEM RIGHT AND LET OL GIRL DO WHATEVER IT IS SHE DOES.
IF YOU ARE A GOOD FATHER IT WONT MATTER THAT MUCH.


NO DISRESPECT BRAH JUST REAL TALK.:hmm:

Good answer long .....you were wrong for saying anything to her about her new relationship just be a dad to your kids and leave the rest alone
 
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