How many women on here have fucked for money ?

[Adam Knows]

Thank you for speaking on behalf of the women on this board. Im glad you and kissmyazz know me enough to say I would fuck you or someone else for money especially the money in your sig.

you can take it as an insult or you can see it for what it is reality.....

it doesn' makes you less of a person, it would be called survival.

especially for those with kids, or are you telling me now the phrase 'i'll do anything for my kids' stops when it comes to sex for money to put food on the kids or a roof over their heads? seriously, you'll die for them, yet will say no to sex as an alternative?


if you had kids and you were 24 hours away from being physically kicked out of your home due to nonpayment of rent/mortgage and no one could/would lend you the money nor let you stay with them and a stranger said i'll pay all of your back rent plus 2 months for intercourse your going to say no, hold your head high and kick it to the streets hoping their was enough beds at the local shelter for that night? are you going to tell the kids it was your morals that prevented you from staying in your house instead of traisping about in the snow?

this isn't about degrading you or anyone. Femme is no less a person (actually i think she's the bigger person). A woman's sexuality is marketable so it can be and will be used, abused, exploited, glamorized, etc. People do what they need to do to survive. If that's something beyond your comprehension, then i truly pray that no wrong befalls you that brings you to make such a decision.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

you can take it as an insult or you can see it for what it is reality.....

it doesn' makes you less of a person, it would be called survival.

especially for those with kids, or are you telling me now the phrase 'i'll do anything for my kids' stops when it comes to sex for money to put food on the kids or a roof over their heads? seriously, you'll die for them, yet will say no to sex as an alternative?


if you had kids and you were 24 hours away from being physically kicked out of your home due to nonpayment of rent/mortgage and no one could/would lend you the money nor let you stay with them and a stranger said i'll pay all of your back rent plus 2 months for intercourse your going to say no, hold your head high and kick it to the streets hoping their was enough beds at the local shelter for that night? are you going to tell the kids it was your morals that prevented you from staying in your house instead of traisping about in the snow?

this isn't about degrading you or anyone. Femme is no less a person (actually i think she's the bigger person). A woman's sexuality is marketable so it can be and will be used, abused, exploited, glamorized, etc. People do what they need to do to survive. If that's something beyond your comprehension, then i truly pray that no wrong befalls you that brings you to make such a decision.

I understand about the kids thing.But I have too much family for me to have to resort to that. I will never say never but right now I cant see it

 

[Adam Knows]

I understand about the kids thing.But I have too much family for me to have to resort to that. I will never say never but right now I cant see it

that's all i asked for....

 

[DigitalAngel2007]

Thank God I'm not the only woman on this board not liking what this cat has to say.

Props for speaking up @ Sexy_Scorpio and Lady Scorpio

For all the women on SOL who are gettin down like that more power to you. I can't judge you but until they come up with a "Super Condom" that shit aint safe and is damn sure helping spread some nasty shit around(AIDS).

now back to this ninja

Da Don: "Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah"

Your comment about women fucking to survive... You are really reaching on that one. McDonalds is an equal opportunity employer. And to put it point blankly they will hire anyone on the spot. There is no excuse to being unable to find a job. You may not find the job you want, but you can at least eat everyday. As I said earlier I ate beans and grilled cheese daily when I started nursing school. I could care less at that time cause I knew it was temporary. You obviously believed the game some chick ran on you about why she had to sell her body. Don't fall for the okie-Doke. But if you want to believe all women are like the women YOU fuck with go right ahead. But let me ask you a question??? If you think all women want is to sell their body for money, what made you take a picture with money on the table???? is that your way of propositioning the women of BGOL???? It would completely fuck your world up to accept that no matter how much money you "flash" there will always be things you can't buy.

Don't mind me I'm just dumbfounded by your naivity....

 

[Adam Knows]

Thank God I'm not the only woman on this board not liking what this cat has to say.

Props for speaking up @ Sexy_Scorpio and Lady Scorpio

For all the women on SOL who are gettin down like that more power to you. I can't judge you but until they come up with a "Super Condom" that shit aint safe and is damn sure helping spread some nasty shit around(AIDS).

now back to this ninja




Your comment about women fucking to survive... You are really reaching on that one. McDonalds is an equal opportunity employer. And to put it point blankly they will hire anyone on the spot. There is no excuse to being unable to find a job. You may not find the job you want, but you can at least eat everyday. As I said earlier I ate beans and grilled cheese daily when I started nursing school. I could care less at that time cause I knew it was temporary. You obviously believed the game some chick ran on you about why she had to sell her body. Don't fall for the okie-Doke. But if you want to believe all women are like the women YOU fuck with go right ahead. But let me ask you a question??? If you think all women want is to sell their body for money, what made you take a picture with money on the table???? is that your way of propositioning the women of BGOL???? It would completely fuck your world up to accept that no matter how much money you "flash" there will always be things you can't buy.

Don't mind me I'm just dumbfounded by your naivity....

and i'm amused by your unwillingness to see the bigger picture.

sure mcdonalds hires everyone....

but that doesn't mean their hiring everyday.

and i stand by what i said. just like another poster said 'never say never' cause you never know where and how you'll end up.


and 'no' chick told me anything. it's not even about you being a woman. it's about when your faced with the decision, you WILLchoose to survive another day.

 

[Adam Knows]

but if it makes you feel better, i'll say

'no, i cannot see you doing it' i wouldn't want to see any of you put into that predicament. i would like to say that there would be someone to be able to help you out in an extreme time of need' And that is an honest to god true statement from me, but, i know that doesn't always happen.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

but if it makes you feel better, i'll say

'no, i cannot see you doing it' i wouldn't want to see any of you put into that predicament. i would like to say that there would be someone to be able to help you out in an extreme time of need' And that is an honest to god true statement from me, but, i know that doesn't always happen.

I agree not everyone has it like some of us do

 

[DigitalAngel2007]

but if it makes you feel better, i'll say

'no, i cannot see you doing it' i wouldn't want to see any of you put into that predicament. i would like to say that there would be someone to be able to help you out in an extreme time of need' And that is an honest to god true statement from me, but, i know that doesn't always happen.

I feel like I'm talkin to a politician or something. You know you wrong for trying to twist your words to make it sound like your said befor what you are saying now.

I wasted my good solid ass argument and you gonna end it like this

 

[Adam Knows]

I feel like I'm talkin to a politician or something. You know you wrong for trying to twist your words to make it sound like your said befor what you are saying now.

I wasted my good solid ass argument and you gonna end it like this

i'm not twisting my words...

i'm just gonna put it to you until 'reasonable doubt' enters your mind.

if a person tells me 'they never would' i'm gonna give you every reason why 'you would'

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

I feel like I'm talkin to a politician or something. You know you wrong for trying to twist your words to make it sound like your said befor what you are saying now.

I wasted my good solid ass argument and you gonna end it like this

 

[Adam Knows]

*rubs hands in an evil maniacal manner


now if i can put enough doubt in her to make her get on the cam and show both tittays........

 

[p5ych3]

Interesting thread. I have come across the struggling female trying to pay bills, rent
school, feed their kid(s) type. Even when my fam moved from GA to NYC, within a mth
she was asking me about escorting and craigslist because she wasn't landing jobs. I think
its a mental thing. Some won't bat an eye to giving up the pussy for cash, while some chicks will not do it regardless of how much they are scraping the bottom of the barrel.

 

[LuckyHungWellington]

Hell I thought they all did.
- Walk up to one of em and say U got no money, no job, no prospects and they'll have no mo' time for u

- Walk up to one of em and say Ur the CEO of a Fortune 500 and they'll hand the booty out to u like spam emails

Can't blame em. In my time i've fukked for less ... much less. I fukked a toothless girl on a dare. Don't tell nobody. College and weed ... dem some trippy days.

 

[DigitalAngel2007]

Hell I thought they all did.
- Walk up to one of em and say U got no money, no job, no prospects and they'll have no mo' time for u

- Walk up to one of em and say Ur the CEO of a Fortune 500 and they'll hand the booty out to u like spam emails

Can't blame em. In my time i've fukked for less ... much less. I fukked a toothless girl on a dare. Don't tell nobody. College and weed ... dem some trippy days.

 

[ladyscorpio]

.......

At least femme is honest. As for the rest of you your morals can go out the window when faced with the proper dilemna. I could become a cannibal even thogh the thought sickens me if faced with conditions that would give no other choice (as in the movie alive). Most of you are aren't even looking at the big picture just the part you can comprehend cause it hasn't gotten to that point. Do you think every prostitute out there do what they do out of enjoyment or to survive? They do it to live. And if 15-60 minutes of sex will allow them to eat another day or keep them from living under a bridge in a cardboard box I'm sure you would too.

And I have no doubts any woman who had to do it for survuval moral's are the same as yours


Any typos forgive I'm doing this from my phone

Don while I comprehend what it is that you are saying I again can say that as dire as a situation may seem I can NOT see myself selling my self sexually for monetary gain.
How does it make me less honest than Femme? I have the utmost respect for Femmenoire and I give her her due props for being real.
We all do what it takes to survive, to live. Some take the road less traveled, others do not.






Peace

 

[LeroyDibiase]

*rubs hands in an evil maniacal manner


now if i can put enough doubt in her to make her get on the cam and show both tittays........

I'm with Da Don on this. Make the world a better place DA.

 

[Shadow]

Hell I thought they all did.
- Walk up to one of em and say U got no money, no job, no prospects and they'll have no mo' time for u

- Walk up to one of em and say Ur the CEO of a Fortune 500 and they'll hand the booty out to u like spam emails

Can't blame em. In my time i've fukked for less ... much less. I fukked a toothless girl on a dare. Don't tell nobody. College and weed ... dem some trippy days.

I would laugh, but in high school I fucked a girl with no voice box. True story.

I was the official "nasty nigga" for the better part of my senior year.

 

[AlexandMorgan]

I would laugh, but in high school I fucked a girl with no voice box. True story.

I was the official "nasty nigga" for the better part of my senior year.

I doubt it was rape and if she wanted it what was the big deal. Cause she can't talk don't mean she doan like sex. IMO

Now if she was really obese or something along those lines then that was nasty.

 

[Adam Knows]

Don while I comprehend what it is that you are saying I again can say that as dire as a situation may seem I can NOT see myself selling my self sexually for monetary gain.
How does it make me less honest than Femme? I have the utmost respect for Femmenoire and I give her her due props for being real.
We all do what it takes to survive, to live. Some take the road less traveled, others do not.






Peace

this right here proves my point:

I can NOT see

yes, you 'cannot see'

nevertheless if brought to that point you would. and no, you haven't been at that crossroad yet to be able to make the decision that you wouldn't.

 

[DaleMabry]

Da Don, just playing devil's advocate here...

...is there anything about your theory that is unique to women?

I mean hypothetically you could make the same argument about a man, right?

Perhaps even yourself?

Dont construe this as a personal attack but I'm trying to be fair about the conclusions one could logically draw about your post.

If you keep moving the goalposts: "Well what if you couldnt sell bootleg DVDs? What if you couldn't wait until McDonald's cuts the check for your first two weeks? What if you didn't raise enough cash with rent parties?" sure you can make the ultimate point that with NO other options whatsoever a woman would sell her body to survive.

But what makes that different from what a man would do, if faced with NO other options whatsoever?

Because as strongly as a man feels about preserving his manhood ("I ain't doin no faggot shit son, I'd rather starve, straight up and down") some women feel that way about being a sex worker.

And if it applies to anyone regardless of gender then what is the point really? That humans will do anything to survive, including eat each other? Nothing particularly or inherently female about that right?

And NO I am not putting no cape on. Just engaging an interesting point.

 

[Adam Knows]

Da Don, just playing devil's advocate here...

...is there anything about your theory that is unique to women?

I mean hypothetically you could make the same argument about a man, right?

Perhaps even yourself?

Dont construe this as a personal attack but I'm trying to be fair about the conclusions one could logically draw about your post.

If you keep moving the goalposts: "Well what if you couldnt sell bootleg DVDs? What if you couldn't wait until McDonald's cuts the check for your first two weeks? What if you didn't raise enough cash with rent parties?" sure you can make the ultimate point that with NO other options whatsoever a woman would sell her body to survive.

But what makes that different from what a man would do, if faced with NO other options whatsoever?

Because as strongly as a man feels about preserving his manhood ("I ain't doin no faggot shit son, I'd rather starve, straight up and down") some women feel that way about being a sex worker.

And if it applies to anyone regardless of gender then what is the point really? That humans will do anything to survive, including eat each other? Nothing particularly or inherently female about that right?

And NO I am not putting no cape on. Just engaging an interesting point.

no, your right. it's a survival instinct. if i was on my last leg with one foot in the door of death's maw....and some ugly balloonistic (new word) hog maw looking female said she'd give me the money to save my life if i fucked her...i'm gonna suck it up and break her off well like she was angela bassett..........


seriously it doesn't apply to any one necessarily (gender), but, a woman's sexuality is far easily exploitable if the circumstances are met. (example, the scenarios i listed)

and there are individuals who are usually waiting to take advantage of it

 

[Eva Hornae]

What's the point of this thread, are you soliciting your dick?

 

[Duece]

a ban is in order.

 

[SinaminDelite]

Don while I comprehend what it is that you are saying I again can say that as dire as a situation may seem I can NOT see myself selling my self sexually for monetary gain.
How does it make me less honest than Femme? I have the utmost respect for Femmenoire and I give her her due props for being real.
We all do what it takes to survive, to live. Some take the road less traveled, others do not.

Thank you LS. This past year I've been through some SHIT financially and mentally. My friends always joked "well you can go shake your ass for cash." Yeah I can, but I didn't. That may be their frame of thinking, but it's not mines. I don't give a fuck if I gotta work like a Mexican (no offense)but fucking for money, stripping, etc is one thing I wouldn't do. And believe me, I have access. I live in NYC; do you know how many opportunities I have to do it? I got two strip clubs within 20 minutes of my place. I just had some random guy on MySpace offer me a handsome amount to stomp his balls and give him a JO. My dignity will not be compromised

What's the point of this thread, are you soliciting your dick?

I mean, really.....

 

[Adam Knows]

Thank you LS. This past year I've been through some SHIT financially and mentally. My friends always joked "well you can go shake your ass for cash." Yeah I can, but I didn't. That may be their frame of thinking, but it's not mines. I don't give a fuck if I gotta work like a Mexican (no offense)but fucking for money, stripping, etc is one thing I wouldn't do. And believe me, I have access. I live in NYC; do you know how many opportunities I have to do it? I got two strip clubs within 20 minutes of my place. I just had some random guy on MySpace offer me a handsome amount to stomp his balls and give him a JO. My dignity will not be compromised



I mean, really.....

no disrespect sin...

you just haven't hit that point.......'financial woes' is nothing...

 

[Adam Knows]

What's the point of this thread, are you soliciting your dick?

i didn't create this thread, i'm just repeating what i learned to get my b.s. in beh. science.

 

[SinaminDelite]

no disrespect sin...

you just haven't hit that point.......'financial woes' is nothing...

No disrespect taken hun. It's not just "financial woes". I was looking at losing my place (shit, my landlady was showing my apt last night). Bankrupcy. Defaulted loans. Credit fraud. Tuition. Etc. I'm not gonna get into all my shit here, but believe me, if all I had was "financial woes" right now, I'd be ecstatic.

 

[DaleMabry]

no, your right. it's a survival instinct. if i was on my last leg with one foot in the door of death's maw....and some ugly balloonistic (new word) hog maw looking female said she'd give me the money to save my life if i fucked her...i'm gonna suck it up and break her off well like she was angela bassett..........


seriously it doesn't apply to any one necessarily (gender), but, a woman's sexuality is far easily exploitable if the circumstances are met. (example, the scenarios i listed)

and there are individuals who are usually waiting to take advantage of it

Well that's an entirely different argument altogether.

And, I mean, *gulp* if you wanna keep it funky (gross), gay male porn is the best paying market of the different genres (Girl-Boy, Girl-Girl, Boy-Boy). If we make the assumption that there is a whole world of closeted homo Republicans waiting for the next Jeff Gannon, you could conclude that a man's sexuality pays a pretty penny if you are willing to exploit it.

I see you went to the ugly female analogy but I'd compare a man's unwillingness to go gay for pay, to many a woman's unwillingness to sell ass for cash.

I would postulate that if there were any other possible hustle, some women would do it over sex work as a final alternative, just like we would look for any other out over booty banditry.

Conversely, there are plenty of women who would explore some form of sex work far sooner than they'd be willing to admit publically--but that has nothing to do with survival, but instead with impatience.

"Why should I fuckin scrub toilets 15 hours a day for $450 a week after taxes when I can make that in one night stepping on some guy's balls until he busts all over my stripper shoes?"

For some women, that option is more seductive than others. I agree.

But shit, there are plenty of top Hollywood actors who found it seductive too.

See: Reeves, Keanu; Cruise, Tom; maybe even Smith, Will

 

[Adam Knows]

No disrespect taken hun. It's not just "financial woes". I was looking at losing my place (shit, my landlady was showing my apt last night). Bankrupcy. Defaulted loans. Credit fraud. Tuition. Etc. I'm not gonna get into all my shit here, but believe me, if all I had was "financial woes" right now, I'd be ecstatic.

i'm going to assume that there is family or friend that will help you in some way though. your not out there, and i have no doubts you'll pull through........

but i'm (and it is an 'if') referring to if you didn't have family or friends to help you and it was eviction day and you had literally no where to go except the street. add in a bonus of a child or two your raising. police are right there to kick you and your kids out..

then a tenant from next door pulls you to the side and says i'll give you the money needed for you and your kids to remain in your apt in return for sex....

would your answer be no and you and your kids are on the sidewalk or yes and your back in your house because you took his offer?

*EDIT

don't answer to that....again i'm not trying to put you there i'm just giving you a reason as to how and why it could happen.

___________________________________________________


like i said you aren't there yet. and please i'm not wishing you or anyone to ever be at that point. as cold and heartless as i sometimes do come across as,(which i'm not, i completely analytical and do not waste emotion on such decisions) i myself even go against what i believe from time to time to help people...just helped a black woman last night, she pumped her gas then went to pay for it by credit card, went to pay it and her card was declined...from what i took she was there for 20 minutes trying to find a way to get some money off of it and some other cards...the attendent called the police on her and they were about to take her, i just charged it to my card for her....


off topic - did you know it's a crime to do that?(helping someone like that) i found out last night.

 

[Adam Knows]

Well that's an entirely different argument altogether.

And, I mean, *gulp* if you wanna keep it funky (gross), gay male porn is the best paying market of the different genres (Girl-Boy, Girl-Girl, Boy-Boy). If we make the assumption that there is a whole world of closeted homo Republicans waiting for the next Jeff Gannon, you could conclude that a man's sexuality pays a pretty penny if you are willing to exploit it.

I see you went to the ugly female analogy but I'd compare a man's unwillingness to go gay for pay, to many a woman's unwillingness to sell ass for cash.

I would postulate that if there were any other possible hustle, some women would do it over sex work as a final alternative, just like we would look for any other out over booty banditry.

Conversely, there are plenty of women who would explore some form of sex work far sooner than they'd be willing to admit publically--but that has nothing to do with survival, but instead with impatience.

"Why should I fuckin scrub toilets 15 hours a day for $450 a week after taxes when I can make that in one night stepping on some guy's balls until he busts all over my stripper shoes?"

For some women, that option is more seductive than others. I agree.

But shit, there are plenty of top Hollywood actors who found it seductive too.

See: Reeves, Keanu; Cruise, Tom; maybe even Smith, Will

then i guess there is a difference between men and women...

because i would to the extreme, choose option 3 and kill a man and just take his money.

 

[DaleMabry]

then i guess there is a difference between men and women...

because i would to the extreme, choose option 3 and kill a man and just take his money.

What if there was no man to kill? (Getting my Bunny Colvin on LOL)

At the risk of going back and forth, I think the point I am making is that sure, hypothetically there might be "no other option" but where there is a will, there is a way. You're a hustler, you know that.

So it really depends on the person's values and what they will resort to in a crisis.

Some people will do all kinds of McGuyver / Robinson Crusoe shit, other times, the person in question says "you know what, it's not worth going through all these changes. Alright fine, fuck it, you can hit for an hour. Leave the $5K on the table."

Anyway I get the feeling you're not really interested in debating ME, your average everyday hard-leg, about this issue so I will bow out gracefully and let you get your, uh, debate on.

 

[Adam Knows]

What if there was no man to kill? (Getting my Bunny Colvin on LOL)

At the risk of going back and forth, I think the point I am making is that sure, hypothetically there might be "no other option" but where there is a will, there is a way. You're a hustler, you know that.

So it really depends on the person's values and what they will resort to in a crisis.

Some people will do all kinds of McGuyver / Robinson Crusoe shit, other times, the person in question says "you know what, it's not worth going through all these changes. Alright fine, fuck it, you can hit for an hour. Leave the $5K on the table."

Anyway I get the feeling you're not really interested in debating ME, your average everyday hard-leg, about this issue so I will bow out gracefully and let you get your, uh, debate on.

but look at the scenarios i used as an example. a women is less defenseless on the streets then a man so a man can handle being on the streets while a woman especially with kids will look at the alternative....if it will keep her and her kids off of the street.

use an example to make that point...there's not really any...i can come up with hundreds on the other hand....

 

[DaleMabry]

Well if the crux of your argument is the kids, what if the man is raising kids?

but i'm (and it is an 'if') referring to if you didn't have family or friends to help you and it was eviction day and you had literally no where to go except the street. add in a bonus of a child or two your raising. police are right there to kick you and your kids out..

then a tenant from next door pulls you to the side and says i'll give you the money needed for you and your kids to remain in your apt in return for sex....

would your answer be no and you and your kids are on the sidewalk or yes and your back in your house because you took his offer?

How would this not apply to a single dad?

If your answer is "the single dad can just beat the tenant up and rob him" there are plenty of women who could do the same. Again I don't see anything inherently female about selling one's body in desperation, aside from social conditioning maybe.

 

[Adam Knows]

Well if the crux of your argument is the kids, what if the man is raising kids?



How would this not apply to a single dad?

If your answer is "the single dad can just beat the tenant up and rob him" there are plenty of women who could do the same. Again I don't see anything inherently female about selling one's body in desperation, aside from social conditioning maybe.

but which one would be more realistic?

 

[DaleMabry]

LOL no disrespect but given the plethora of "ifs" and qualifiers in your examples, "realistic" is not only out of the bag, but it scampered off to some shadowy alleyway to munch on fishbones in peace and quiet LOL

If you mean what is more realistic: single mom or single dad, I'd choose A but there are definitely some B's out there--see Will Smith's Pursuit of Happyness. Those circumstances would have caused many a person, male or female, to compromise their values and do something immoral--selling ass, robbing, stealing, etc.

If you mean what is more realistic--male robbing the neighbor, female robbing the neighbor, sheeeeeeeeeit!!!!!!!!!!! (LOL) don't sleep on females.

Plenty of females out there jumping fools, jacking fools, putting in work. That too is rare but realistic.