Celibacy, How Long, Why, And How........

[DaleMabry]

Women are built different. I call it "the seal". Like if you out drinking and you have had to pee for hours but kept holding it then you got the seal on. You don't even really care if you pee or not and don't really have to. Once you go though, it will take forever to come out and then you have to keep running to piss for the rest of the night because you broke the seal.

This is brilliant. Your scathing character sketches (Rent A Dread, Good Friend, Broke Dick) were too

It's not just that. I just am tired of sorts of male behavior. Right now it seems that everything a man does annoys the shit out of me.

So in this stage, it doesn't make sense to be around a man. It's not fair to him and its not fair to me.

So very mature and responsible of you Fem.

In 2003 I did it for about six months and it was the hardest thing ever because I was use to having sex everyday with my ex.. I decided to not have sex, because when my ex and I broke up the next best thing for a guy to do when his or a female for that matter is to dog the next person that comes into your life and I didn't want to get caught in that cycle of dogging women or get dogged because of emotions so I decided to not have sex..

Yeah I clicked a year by accident but it was really a couple different six month periods. Same situation...I poured years into fixing shit with my ex (we had a kid together) and shit just wasn't working or meant to be...it left me so drained and depressed, and school at the time was so demanding, that I just stopped putting in work for stretches of time. And as I didnt have a woman push me to the ground pull it out and go to town, me putting in work just snowballed into a couple different six month stretches of celibacy.

I finally ended up hooking up with an out of town message board friendwho had seduced me with some hot PMs / IMs about how down for the crown she was...and she came up to NY to see me...

And uh...hell yeah she was down for the crown!! SO nasty, so intelligent, so willing to do...a whole LOT of thangs. I hope I thanked her properly.

 

[Chicutie]

I finally ended up hooking up with an out of town message board friendwho had seduced me with some hot PMs / IMs about how down for the crown she was...and she came up to NY to see me...

And uh...hell yeah she was down for the crown!! SO nasty, so intelligent, so willing to do...a whole LOT of thangs. I hope I thanked her properly.

details. ..

 

[DaleMabry]

BTW speaking of "as I didnt have a woman push me to the ground pull it out and go to town", I once tried to talk that same ex into abstaining from sex for a while early in our relationship because I felt we were starting to have too many fights and communication issues that sex was merely papering over...

...and one night she decided she wasn't feeling my strategy anymore and literally pulled my dick out of my pants (I was fighting her off like "stop, what are you doing?!" then I stopped fighting LOL) and stroked and sucked me until I came.

So much for that strategy LOL

What was that about ladies? Pride? Horniness? A sense of entitlement? All of the above, none of the above?

 

[380snubnose]

And U Women Say The Black Male Is The Problem....

'read This Post'......case Closed!

 

[femmenoire]

And U Women Say The Black Male Is The Problem....

'read This Post'......case Closed!

Who here said that the black male is the problem and what does choosing celibacy have to do with anything?

 

[Izayoi]

...and one night she decided she wasn't feeling my strategy anymore and literally pulled my dick out of my pants (I was fighting her off like "stop, what are you doing?!" then I stopped fighting LOL) and stroked and sucked me until I came.

So much for that strategy LOL

What was that about ladies? Pride? Horniness? A sense of entitlement? All of the above, none of the above?

My vote is 2 parts pride, 1 part horny. She was thinking "How dare this ninja resist me, trying to act all chaste and shit. Hellll no!" Lol!

 

[Mo-Better]

"Meaningless and completely unsatisfactory," that sums it up perfectly the feeling I had at that very time. Right in the middle of having sex I just stopped. For me I'm not sure if it was a "spiritual awakening" maybe it was just a personal awakening. Either way I've moved on with no regrets.

You didnt finish, thats COLD!! What happen after you stopped?

She was on some ego trip to begin with, she had aready had 2 orgasms now she was demanding I cum. Claiming she had somewhere to go, she didn't have all day so I better hurry.

That's not how I roll. I'm never in a hurry when it comes to having sex. I then showed her the door and told her to use it. For what ever reason her demand annoyed the hell out of me. I then told her I couldn't deal with her any longer. She has since apologized but I won't travel down that street again.

So yeah when sex becomes meaningless and unsatisfactory I can see where celibacy is considered an option. I can even see some slight advantages like meeting someone and not having the pressure of sexual contact without really getting to know the person.