Rape Fantasies - lets get into the dark side

geechiedan

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Ladies...ever have any rape fantasies?
if so...what about it was a turn on.


I understand (so should anyone else on here) that its a FANTASY and NOT something that you want to really happen to you.

But still..have you ever thought about it?
 
Ladies...ever have any rape fantasies?
if so...what about it was a turn on.


I understand (so should anyone else on here) that its a FANTASY and NOT something that you want to really happen to you.

But still..have you ever thought about it?

Nope. I'd be terrified to have a stranger take advantage of me unwanted.
 
I have heard of a lot of men and women with this fantasy, but I don't get it, but to each it's own.
 
I don't think he's talking about fantasizing about ACTUALLY being raped by a stranger...but role play with a trustworthy partner, right?
 
I have heard of a lot of men and women with this fantasy, but I don't get it, but to each it's own.

i know a few females who had this fantasy. they are the same females who like role playing in general. other fantasies usually turn them on too, like playing a cop, their boss, a pimp, or a school teacher. fo'real fo'real ..shit is kinda fun :lol:
 
I don't think he's talking about fantasizing about ACTUALLY being raped by a stranger...but role play with a trustworthy partner, right?

Yeah the terminology bothers me, always has. No sane woman fantasizes about being violently victimized by a criminal. Rape is a crime of violence not lust.

Geech is referring to what I call extreme submission fantasies. Have I- sure! They are quite common. :yes: but I'm in to D/S. Anybody into d/s has a safe word so there's no real risk of violent injury unless again you are insane and playing games you shouldn't play with strangers or other insane individuals.

Rape- hell no! :smh: I'm pretty sure I would turn into Lorena Bobbitt and Hannibal Lector's baby on a ninja.
 
i know a few females who had this fantasy. they are the same females who like role playing in general. other fantasies usually turn them on too, like playing a cop, their boss, a pimp, or a school teacher. fo'real fo'real ..shit is kinda fun :lol:

Role playing can be fun!

How are you Caddy? Long time no see!
 
i know a few females who had this fantasy. they are the same females who like role playing in general. other fantasies usually turn them on too, like playing a cop, their boss, a pimp, or a school teacher. fo'real fo'real ..shit is kinda fun :lol:
Oh I'm all for role playing, it spices things up, I don't knock it, but its just sort of creepy for me.
 
As women, we are taught to not be sexual beings. If we do express any type of overt sexuality, then we are construed as bad.

So as to allow for an outlet for the expression desires frowned up because of the sexual repression inflicted on a woman through societal pressures, it would make sense for someone to turn to having this kind of fantasy of someone pulling your sexuality out of you "against your will"...then its not "your fault".

weird huh?
 
Any woman that asks me to simulate a rape fantasy will see my ass going thorugh the door or she will be put out of my house.:hmm:

It is easy to get into jail but really hard to get out. If something goes really wrong how will your story hold up in court. "Excuse me your honor she told me to pretend to rape her":smh:

Some fantasies need to remain just fantasies.
 
Any woman that asks me to simulate a rape fantasy will see my ass going thorugh the door or she will be put out of my house.:hmm:

It is easy to get into jail but really hard to get out. If something goes really wrong how will your story hold up in court. "Excuse me your honor she told me to pretend to rape her":smh:

Some fantasies need to remain just fantasies.

:lol: You know some people videotape exactly for that reason, but to me you shouldn't be requesting acting out that kind of stuff with strangers anyway! In a real d/s situation things don't just go wrong, because the sub has control. If one is going to throw his/her dark fantasies out to strangers to act out :smh: then prepare for possible trouble because most normal people DON'T give up that kind of control to random ninjas. I wouldn't.
 
Geech is referring to what I call extreme submission fantasies. Have I- sure! They are quite common. :yes: but I'm in to D/S. Anybody into d/s has a safe word so there's no real risk of violent injury unless again you are insane and playing games you shouldn't play with strangers or other insane individuals.

Is this like really aggressive sex or what? Because that I like :D Or is it with weapons or something?
 
Is this like really aggressive sex or what? Because that I like :D Or is it with weapons or something?

It's usually aggressive Honey B , maybe restraints, but not necessarily. Its really as Thighs mentioned creating the feeling like you are being made to do sexual things BUT you really do want to do them anyway!

Weapons- well some people want to make it feel scary so they may have fake weapons , but I never really understood or got into that :dunno:.

Real weapons absolutely should not be used (that's crazy shit!) but you know Honey B there are some soul sick people out there and that's why I say you can't play those "games" with everybody. With someone you know and trust, it's really just more extreme role play like Caddy mentioned.
 
It's usually aggressive Honey B , maybe restraints, but not necessarily. Its really as Thighs mentioned creating the feeling like you are being made to do sexual things BUT you really do want to do them anyway!

Weapons- well some people want to make it feel scary so they may have fake weapons , but I never really understood or got into that :dunno:.

Real weapons absolutely should not be used (that's crazy shit!) but you know Honey B there are some soul sick people out there and that's why I say you can't play those "games" with everybody. With someone you know and trust, it's really just more extreme role play like Caddy mentioned.

Well I have always wanted to be tied up, but I don't know if I can trust any man to do it until I get married..... But no whips or paddles for me. Well maybe a paddle on my bottom
 
I used to date a lady that loved to role play where she would turn the lights out and hide, and she wanted me to find her and then have sex..usually a lil rough. But ya can't do stuff like this with just anybody...I ain't catching a case.
 
Ladies...ever have any rape fantasies?
if so...what about it was a turn on.


I understand (so should anyone else on here) that its a FANTASY and NOT something that you want to really happen to you.

But still..have you ever thought about it?

I've always liked rough sex. . . but rape is a hell no. :smh:
 
Well I have always wanted to be tied up, but I don't know if I can trust any man to do it until I get married..... But no whips or paddles for me. Well maybe a paddle on my bottom

Honey B,

Izayoi has it 100% right. You are also correct that it is all about TRUST.

Role playing and bondage are not beginner sex acts. Definitely NOT something you do with someone you just met. There should be an ongoing intimate relationship already in place.

When I talk about intimate relationship Im not talking about sex. The one where you can talk about anything. The one where you bathe each other and just cuddle sometimes.

Being tied up can be fun. Some do's and dont's...

DO NOT...

use handcufs

ignore a safe word

Do...

have some scissors handy.

Strips of cloth make good restraints. Tie your man up first, then blindfold him. Some light tickling, some whipped cream. Climb on top of him for a min then get up and leave. It will drive him crazy.

Expect the same when he ties you up.

Thats intermediate level. If you want to try advanced level bondage google the word shibari
 
Honey B,

Izayoi has it 100% right. You are also correct that it is all about TRUST.

Role playing and bondage are not beginner sex acts. Definitely NOT something you do with someone you just met. There should be an ongoing intimate relationship already in place.

When I talk about intimate relationship Im not talking about sex. The one where you can talk about anything. The one where you bathe each other and just cuddle sometimes.


Being tied up can be fun. Some do's and dont's...

DO NOT...

use handcufs

ignore a safe word

Do...

have some scissors handy.

Strips of cloth make good restraints. Tie your man up first, then blindfold him. Some light tickling, some whipped cream. Climb on top of him for a min then get up and leave. It will drive him crazy.

Expect the same when he ties you up.

Thats intermediate level. If you want to try advanced level bondage google the word shibari

Hi Raptor!

:yes::yes::yes: My brother! You know what's up.
Thank you....I was starting to feel like the lone rangeress on this board.
 
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I used to date a lady that loved to role play where she would turn the lights out and hide, and she wanted me to find her and then have sex..usually a lil rough. But ya can't do stuff like this with just anybody...I ain't catching a case.

Bruh thats off the hook. What a brilliant idea. I cant say Im not gonna steal that one at some point LMAO :D

Is this like really aggressive sex or what? Because that I like :D Or is it with weapons or something?

I once met this (white) couple that was HARDCORE into sex, S&M, all kinds of stuff. They had a real dark gothic energy and truth be told, gave me the willies.

They told a story about a woman with a rape fantasy that asked them (planned ahead of time) to surprise her one night and tie her up and threaten to kill her while making her do nasty sex acts against her will.

Now Im not sure if this was a part of the request (have to believe it was!?! :smh: :eek: :confused: ) but they pounced on her, tied her up and then put a (fake?) gun to her head.

Apparently the woman started hyperventilating, crying and had a nervous breakdown, so they called the whole thing off and untied her.

:hmm: Talk about be careful what you wish for.
 
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I used to date a lady that loved to role play where she would turn the lights out and hide, and she wanted me to find her and then have sex..usually a lil rough. But ya can't do stuff like this with just anybody...I ain't catching a case.


Wow hide n go get it...I aint played that since i was like 10:lol:
 
I've always wondered about women and their fantasies. Like those who willing submit to gangbangs. Is there an underlying desire to be violated? To be manhandled and have no control over who takes you next? If so where does this darkside of a woman come from? Is that possiby a turn on for women?

Every woman is not Patty Hearst. She was kidnapped, disappeared for a few months and resurfaced holding an assault rifle and a new member of the Symbionese Liberation Army. Now you know they laid much dick into her to turn her from a rich heiress to doing a bank robbery.

I think most women want to be dominated in bed but rape is extreme. Knowing a rape victim I can tell you that is not what they really desire. Let's further put this into prespective. As a man how would you feel if you were raped? I know it would fuck me up in the head big time. It would be no less devasting for a women.
 
I once met this (white) couple that was HARDCORE into sex, S&M, all kinds of stuff. They had a real dark gothic energy and truth be told, gave me the willies.

Yeah its a lot of them out there into that :smh:.
That's why I never got into S&M clubbing, because some of the people are just bizarre and well rather nasty (in a bad way nasty!)and wear too much leather. :puke: I'd rather keep my freak shit at home. :)
 
Yeah its a lot of them out there into that :smh:.
That's why I never got into S&M clubbing, because some of the people are just bizarre and well rather nasty (in a bad way nasty!)and wear too much leather. :puke: I'd rather keep my freak shit at home. :)

:D:yes:

Personally though, I'm not sure if this falls into domination/submission, but I like to pull hair and put my hands around the neck gently sometimes. Sometimes put my hands or something over the mouth the woman's mouth during deep penetration. That's just me though...
 
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:D:yes:

Personally though, I'm not sure if this falls into domination/submission, but I like to pull hair and put my hands around the neck gently sometimes. Sometimes put my hands or something over the mouth the woman's mouth during deep penetration. That's just me though...

Now that's sexy! :yes::yes:
 
Like Luke...somebody else is goin over to the dark side..is this something new you're experiencing Thighs? Like it a lil rough, eh?
 
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