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Celibacy, How Long, Why, And How........
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In 2003 I did it for about six months and it was the hardest thing ever because I was use to having sex everyday with my ex.. I decided to not have sex, because when my ex and I broke up the next best thing for a guy to do when his or a female for that matter is to dog the next person that comes into your life and I didn't want to get caught in that cycle of dogging women or get dogged because of emotions so I decided to not have sex..
The krazy thing now is that I just met this female that is taking the she is waiting for marriage shyt so this thread is very interesting to me so I can get an understanding as to why females go celibate. It is also weird and if any females out there can help me with this, she know that I am very sexual she knew it before she met me and she still decided to f%ck with me and always want to lay up under me, kiss me, and get mad when I don't get dress in front o her what is that about.. She got mad when I told her ass she can't spend the night anymore and be all up under me knowing that I am going to want to have sex...
So she haven't been over my place in about two weeks, because we got into an argument when I said I am going to fuck someone else if u keep bullshyting.Was I wrong for that one??
The krazy thing now is that I just met this female that is taking the she is waiting for marriage shyt so this thread is very interesting to me so I can get an understanding as to why females go celibate. It is also weird and if any females out there can help me with this, she know that I am very sexual she knew it before she met me and she still decided to f%ck with me and always want to lay up under me, kiss me, and get mad when I don't get dress in front o her what is that about.. She got mad when I told her ass she can't spend the night anymore and be all up under me knowing that I am going to want to have sex...
So she haven't been over my place in about two weeks, because we got into an argument when I said I am going to fuck someone else if u keep bullshyting.Was I wrong for that one??
Well some women do like to tease and that's what she was doing. But it doesn't mean its right.
And personally, if you 2 have different views on sex before marriage, y'all ain't gonna last much longer unless she concedes.
Yea that's what she was doing and I think she is only saying that, because she was in a bad relationship, because of some of her ways.
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DANGEROUSBLACKMAN
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Sex Is Cool But You Shouldn't Let It Control Your Life, I Have Sex Partners But I Take Long Breaks At Times Cause Sex Is Not Fun When Doing It All The Time.
AlexandMorgan
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Over a year. Like Shadow said it was a physical and mental cleansing. It makes one a lot stronger on the inside. In my own experience anyways.
Interesting post
Never did that for me the lust just boils over sometimes but you gotta stand strong.
I however did realise that when a woman realises that you are not falling over yourself to sleep with them some of them can be a little less than complimentary about a fellow.
I was dating a chick and she got offended that i did not try to fuck her
. I was not feeling her on that level and i did not see the sense of complicating the issue with sex when i know i did not want to try to get into a relationship with her.
1. the wanna be gigolo domesticated rent a dread married to a 400 lb woman because she is the sole heir to the richest family on island but fucks any piece of shit cavebitch that comes along and actually gets protools hd and all kinda shit off them. the joke is he can't fuck at all. i helped his enormously with advancing his music in non monetary ways. season started again, a new flock of rich devil hoes showed up and he told me "i ain't bringing him bags of money so i am useless to him"
2. the 10 year old good friend booty call that has just become beyond boring. he is still a good friend tho and i got love but i just cant take it no more.
3. the mercy fuck guy i previously mentioned who know his dick broke and is still trying to play games
i could list more but these are 3 very good reasons to take a break for a while
2. the 10 year old good friend booty call that has just become beyond boring. he is still a good friend tho and i got love but i just cant take it no more.
3. the mercy fuck guy i previously mentioned who know his dick broke and is still trying to play games
i could list more but these are 3 very good reasons to take a break for a while
1. the wanna be gigolo domesticated rent a dread married to a 400 lb woman because she is the sole heir to the richest family on island but fucks any piece of shit cavebitch that comes along and actually gets protools hd and all kinda shit off them. the joke is he can't fuck at all. i helped his enormously with advancing his music in non monetary ways. season started again, a new flock of rich devil hoes showed up and he told me "i ain't bringing him bags of money so i am useless to him"
2. the 10 year old good friend booty call that has just become beyond boring. he is still a good friend tho and i got love but i just cant take it no more.
3. the mercy fuck guy i previously mentioned who know his dick broke and is still trying to play games
i could list more but these are 3 very good reasons to take a break for a while
That is fuckin hilarious.
But definitely a good reason to take a break.
not if you lived it its not
I meant the way you phrased it. Not the actual situation BG.
Cool then I got more jokes for you. Rent a dread kept harassing me thats his biggest fantasy in life to see 2 women together. I asked him why and how does he think he can handle 2 women when he can't handle one. He replied that he wants to hide in the closet and watch
Cool then I got more jokes for you. Rent a dread kept harassing me thats his biggest fantasy in life to see 2 women together. I asked him why and how does he think he can handle 2 women when he can't handle one. He replied that he wants to hide in the closet and watch
LOL @ rentadread. You are too funny.
And why hide in the closet?
Some dudes say the silliest things.
Cool then I got more jokes for you. Rent a dread kept harassing me thats his biggest fantasy in life to see 2 women together. I asked him why and how does he think he can handle 2 women when he can't handle one. He replied that he wants to hide in the closet and watch
Cool then I got more jokes for you. Rent a dread kept harassing me thats his biggest fantasy in life to see 2 women together. I asked him why and how does he think he can handle 2 women when he can't handle one. He replied that he wants to hide in the closet and watch
Oh dear.
Cool then I got more jokes for you. Rent a dread kept harassing me thats his biggest fantasy in life to see 2 women together. I asked him why and how does he think he can handle 2 women when he can't handle one. He replied that he wants to hide in the closet and watch
I swear to god you are hilarious!
Whoa,
This is almost my exact same situation. Major relationship, broken heart, immediately met someone else and had a rebound jumpoff ... realized it wasn't fulfilling emotionally and mentally so I took a break from sex. Stayed celibate for about 6 -7 mos. Tight quarters so no self pleasure.
But it allowed me to get my mind right, my money right, my businesses right and once I felt I was healed IT WAS ON!!!!!!!!!!!!! I met a young lady and made HER wait. It was easy since I had already gone without for so long. I tried to DESTROY the first chick I got with after that. She lives in another state and still tries to holla from time to time.
1. the wanna be gigolo domesticated rent a dread married to a 400 lb woman because she is the sole heir to the richest family on island but fucks any piece of shit cavebitch that comes along and actually gets protools hd and all kinda shit off them. the joke is he can't fuck at all. i helped his enormously with advancing his music in non monetary ways. season started again, a new flock of rich devil hoes showed up and he told me "i ain't bringing him bags of money so i am useless to him"
2. the 10 year old good friend booty call that has just become beyond boring. he is still a good friend tho and i got love but i just cant take it no more.
3. the mercy fuck guy i previously mentioned who know his dick broke and is still trying to play games
i could list more but these are 3 very good reasons to take a break for a while
Damn your life sucks...
I did and it lasted for 4 months...longest and most frustrating 4 months of my life...I want to get to the point where I can do that again and not feel frustrated. That's what I'm aiming for...any suggestions???
By the way, I want to try to go without masturbating and sex for a year...
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AlexandMorgan
Banned
One thing i will say about coming off of a dry spell that your partner will remember that sex good or bad.
My partner at the time was scared I would make her pregnant even with the condom on.
When she said this some primitive switch inside me came on but Durex saved me from that fate.
My partner at the time was scared I would make her pregnant even with the condom on
. When she said this some primitive switch inside me came on but Durex saved me from that fate.
I completely overstand MB we all have differing methods of how we deal with situations. Sex at that time would have been meaningless and completely unsatisfactory for me so instead I chose not to have it.
A personally spiritual awakening of sorts
Peace
"Meaningless and completely unsatisfactory," that sums it up perfectly the feeling I had at that very time. Right in the middle of having sex I just stopped. For me I'm not sure if it was a "spiritual awakening" maybe it was just a personal awakening. Either way I've moved on with no regrets.
Don't you know were having a water shortage?
Lean against the washing machine or something. Guarantee you'll always have clean laundry. Just messing with ya.
When I tried, it lasted about 6 months before I HAD to masturbate. At that time I was working out faithfully 5 days a week an hour per day. I think working out helps a lot with the frustration.
I agree with Femm, unless she flips the script soon it might be a sign that you just need to move on and find someone who has the same views you have about sex. Theres nothing worse than to be in a relationship/marriage with someone your not compatible with. Its infidelity waiting to happen!!!!!
1. the wanna be gigolo domesticated rent a dread married to a 400 lb woman because she is the sole heir to the richest family on island but fucks any piece of shit cavebitch that comes along and actually gets protools hd and all kinda shit off them. the joke is he can't fuck at all. i helped his enormously with advancing his music in non monetary ways. season started again, a new flock of rich devil hoes showed up and he told me "i ain't bringing him bags of money so i am useless to him"
2. the 10 year old good friend booty call that has just become beyond boring. he is still a good friend tho and i got love but i just cant take it no more.
3. the mercy fuck guy i previously mentioned who know his dick broke and is still trying to play games
i could list more but these are 3 very good reasons to take a break for a while
DAYAM, I think you had some bags to check at the celibacy counter!! Hopefully they lost them like they always do, huh?
I've heard that if you go a really long time that it's difficult to start back again. Has anyone ever had that problem? Getting back in the grove again or is it just like riding a bike, you never forget?
For me its always been that I fuck with a vengence just like I ain't had it in a year or 2 or however long. I can't get enough at those times. Maybe the first minute or 2 is a lil awkward but thats it.
Girrll you makin a brotha..........hmmmm...ok...ok...I think I need to go to....hmmm, ok, ahhhhhhhh!!!!!
UGH the more posts I read from men on BGOL the less I want to have anything to do with a man.
So what are you options? Hope it's nothing I've said.
UGH the more posts I read from men on BGOL the less I want to have anything to do with a man.
So what are you options? Hope it's nothing I've said.
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