Question For the Ladies....
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First listen to this song.... then read between the lines...the guy who wrote this I feel was in the same "predicament" you are in.
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Its all about compliments and making your women feel like you need her like fire needs air... thats for anything... be it getting her to balance your checkbook (who even has those anymore)...to getting her to watching the game with you (without talking)... or even listening to you babel on and on about something that doesnt normally interest her... you have to let her know that you LOVE it when she does it(positve reinforcement)... make her feel like she is the best and by the time you look up... you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand... or wherever else you'd like her to be feasting.
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Its all about compliments and making your women feel like you need her like fire needs air... thats for anything... be it getting her to balance your checkbook (who even has those anymore)...to getting her to watching the game with you (without talking)... or even listening to you babel on and on about something that doesnt normally interest her... you have to let her know that you LOVE it when she does it(positve reinforcement)... make her feel like she is the best and by the time you look up... you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand... or wherever else you'd like her to be feasting.
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To be honest with you,if someone ask me I get turned off. It just has to be something I feel.
For me it'a all about doing what turns my man on. If he tells me sucking his dick will make him cum faster or that it really turns him on, it almost becomes a game to me. I will do it just for the reaction. But hey, that is how I get off.
Just communicate w/ her at a time when you are not having sex. Let her know your likes and dislikes. You fantasies and such. You will be suprised.
Just communicate w/ her at a time when you are not having sex. Let her know your likes and dislikes. You fantasies and such. You will be suprised.
I'm with SS on this. For some reason if you don't ask, I'm more willing.
If you do ask, I'm just turned off.
But how does "Would you be interested in orally servicing me this evening?" sound?
If you do ask, I'm just turned off.
But how does "Would you be interested in orally servicing me this evening?" sound?
I'm with SS on this. For some reason if you don't ask, I'm more willing.
If you do ask, I'm just turned off.
But how does "Would you be interested in orally servicing me this evening?" sound?
I c/s this statement. It just makes the moment very awkward...
Hit the nail on the head. If you've mentioned it to her, and she's the type that likes to do what turns you on, she'll do it, no questions asked.
I'm with SS on this. For some reason if you don't ask, I'm more willing.
If you do ask, I'm just turned off.
But how does "Would you be interested in orally servicing me this evening?" sound?
I'd be too busy laughing at that to do anything else.
I mean lets break it down here.
Im talking about when you're in the "mask" faze. You are getting to know each other and you are hinting around the sexual fantasies things, having the soft porn phone conversations, you know in that period. I just do not feel comfortable when it gets to the point where she asks "What do you Want"
I can't make, "some head" sound presentable to save my life, so I digress and never ask, just let it happen naturally.
I was just wondering if, (if it was at all possible) to do it respectably (sp)
Thanks for the input!
Im talking about when you're in the "mask" faze. You are getting to know each other and you are hinting around the sexual fantasies things, having the soft porn phone conversations, you know in that period. I just do not feel comfortable when it gets to the point where she asks "What do you Want"
I can't make, "some head" sound presentable to save my life, so I digress and never ask, just let it happen naturally.
I was just wondering if, (if it was at all possible) to do it respectably (sp)
Thanks for the input!
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don't ask me to do SHIT, let me initiate giving you head. 
You are a true woman, God bless you and the FEW others like you.
I mean lets break it down here.
Im talking about when you're in the "mask" faze. You are getting to know each other and you are hinting around the sexual fantasies things, having the soft porn phone conversations, you know in that period. I just do not feel comfortable when it gets to the point where she asks "What do you Want"
I can't make, "some head" sound presentable to save my life, so I digress and never ask, just let it happen naturally.
I was just wondering if, (if it was at all possible) to do it respectably (sp)
Thanks for the input!
If she asked, be a fucking man and tell her!! How else do you think she gonna know what you want? No offense but, you seem like the type of guy who puts his woman on a pedastal like she's never had these conversations before. Believe me she has! And done all the shit you want done.A shy dick doesn't get sucked! Speak up for yo dick, son! And don't listen to these woman talking about they get turned off you you ask. That's bulllshit! When you are making love to someone, you are there for that person. To please them. If you both go in with that attitude, then everytime you do it, it will good fro both parties. But when you get a selfish bitch(and that just what they're acting like) telling she gets turned off because you ask for the very thing every man walking the planet loves the most, it's just her way of trying to control you in bed. If she gets turned off by you asking for it leave her selfish ass alone. I'm quite sure that's not the only aspect of your relatioship she gonna try to control.
And Femme, aren't you the same woman who said in another thread that you were "submissive" to your man when he wants sex? But not submissive enough to suck his dick if he asks?
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I never said I didn't do it hon. I said I get turned off when a dude asks for head. I don't ask for head. I'd rather you just do it because you want to and I'll do it when I want to.
But how does "Will you lick mine if I lick yours?" sound?
I agree with Onyx. Talk about it outside the bedroom. Thats some shit that shouldn't have to be asked in the heat of passion.
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Pull you dick out and slap her upside her face with it and in your best Wesley Pipes imitation say suck it bitch.
But wait some women actually like that.
Or light some candles and put them around the bedroom with her favourite scent and run her a bubble bath. Massage her slowly until she is all relaxed and carefree with some nice scented oils.
Lay her down on the bed and yam out(eat) that pussy like a true Connoisseur until she does not even have the strength to push your head away but can only beg weakly for you to stop.
Give her some time to recover and while you do lay down beside her with your dick close but not too close to her lips. Gently caress her and whisper loving words to her during this time.
If you do not get the best head you have ever had in your life kick her ass to the curb.
What you shakin your head for?
It sounds weak. I'm the type that's going to let you know I want my dick sucked. And you don't have to ask me to go down on you, that's done automatically because I enjoy doing it and like oxyfemme said that discussion will be had waaayy before we get to the bed. Commmunication is the key to good sex.
I've never had to ask a new chick to do it... but then again I mess with mostly bi chicks and they are very oral to begin with... if we are in the heat of passion and she doesn't initiate some head action on her own then I've chosen the wrong woman...and she never hears from me again...
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