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Fellas, does it make you mad when your woman masturbates?

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This is clearly a piggyback thread...

but I just thought that there have to be some men out there who get totally turned off by this.

(probably the same men who don't masturbate themselves or see the need for it at all)

Guys- Tell us your thoughts on female masturbation and how it might relate to or effect you, the mate. what about it turns you on or off? Have you ever told a girl "not now" and left her to her own "devices"? How do you feel if a woman brings toys in the bed? How do you feel if after you have done your thing, you are awakened by a dull yet persistent humming/buzzing in the bathroom (is that out and out disrespect)?

Females- Does your man like it when you touch yourself (and forbid him too) does the sound of a jackrabbit turn him on? have you had a guy tell you that you couldn't touch yourself and that was his job?


(On a sidenote ladies (and gentlemen for that matter)...what are your thoughts on the theory that vibrators act as vaginal desensitizors?)
 
If I lucky enough to witness this action, I always do some sublte assisting.

Licking inside the thighs, slowly working my way up her body

Kiss, lightly suck and squeeze her nipples and then move right back down when she's about to pop....

The stick my face right in and enjoy the tidal wave ride to ecstacy....

mmmmmmmmmmm.........ecstacy.... :yes:
 
Can't say my lady does it alot, comes from a very non affectionate home, thus she views alot of sexual things as.....taboo due to her up bringing, yet I find that she's an undercover freak and wants to try things. She has done self stimulation...and i took the supportiv role, touting "well dont be ashamed type deal and support," if she wants me to join in I do, if not, I don't. As far as vibrators, dildos, and the likes....shes only had one, and of course I got it for her...in the hopes of extending her boundries, she didn' take to it again citing how it was viewed in her house hold.....man thats a topic right here (going off task charge it to adult ADHD). All in all I can only say I dont mind the thought of the situation, however It has yet to be put in practice as you mentioned. I can see myself feeling a bit outted if she where to tell me that the vibrator does the job she needs done and my services are no longer needed, who wouldn't be. No one likes to be replaced.....:lol:
 
This is easy..I'll take the questions in order: LOVE IT! Nothing. No. LOVE IT! Reinvigorated. No. Not concerned....:lol: :lol:
 
KTonic said:
Can't say my lady does it alot, comes from a very non affectionate home, thus she views alot of sexual things as.....taboo due to her up bringing, yet I find that she's an undercover freak and wants to try things. She has done self stimulation...and i took the supportiv role, touting "well dont be ashamed type deal and support," if she wants me to join in I do, if not, I don't. As far as vibrators, dildos, and the likes....shes only had one, and of course I got it for her...in the hopes of extending her boundries, she didn' take to it again citing how it was viewed in her house hold.....man thats a topic right here (going off task charge it to adult ADHD). All in all I can only say I dont mind the thought of the situation, however It has yet to be put in practice as you mentioned. I can see myself feeling a bit outted if she where to tell me that the vibrator does the job she needs done and my services are no longer needed, who wouldn't be. No one likes to be replaced.....:lol:
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She would have gotten it one time, and if she pulled that bullshit, it was a wrap.

Sound like sex is pretty fucking boring around your way.
 
black again said:
This is easy..I'll take the questions in order: LOVE IT! Nothing. No. LOVE IT! Reinvigorated. No. Not concerned....:lol: :lol:
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thanks for being so thorough

For those of you who cant keep up:

Tell us your thoughts on female masturbation and how it might relate to or effect you, the mate
LOVE IT!

What about it turns you on or off?
Nothing.

Have you ever told a girl "not now" and left her to her own "devices"?
No.

How do you feel if a woman brings toys in the bed?
LOVE IT!

How do you feel if after you have done your thing, you are awakened by a dull yet persistent humming/buzzing in the bathroom (is that out and out disrespect)?
Reinvigorated.

What are your thoughts on the theory that vibrators act as vaginal desensitizors?
Not concerned.

Frank, straight to the point, self-depricating AND thorough- How could you ask for more? (I am convinced you are a great lover- I have a theory about the way people respond on here (and in life in general) and how it might relate to their prowess... ahem... elsewhere...but that is another thread.)
 
Thanks Thighs (yes I love thighs as much as ass) ..:lol:sorry I was being silly, but to the point. And I THINK I'm GIB..at least I've got about a 90some % approval rating :lol:..no seriously. WHAT MAN ISN'T COMPLETELY TURNED ON BY WATCHING A WOMAN PLAY WITH HERSELF??? Those are my fave XXX scenes. The only thing better is having sex with a woman and having another woman watch & masturbate...OHHHH GOD!! :yes::yes::D
 
KTonic said:
I can see myself feeling a bit outted if she where to tell me that the vibrator does the job she needs done and my services are no longer needed, who wouldn't be. No one likes to be replaced.....:lol:
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heheheh

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(btw-I saw ur new thread: TnE22...inspiring freaky self-reflective threads one day at a time...lol)
 
Shadow said:
If I lucky enough to witness this action, I always do some sublte assisting.

Licking inside the thighs, slowly working my way up her body

Kiss, lightly suck and squeeze her nipples and then move right back down when she's about to pop....

The stick my face right in and enjoy the tidal wave ride to ecstacy....

mmmmmmmmmmm.........ecstacy.... :yes:
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...what if she didnt let you touch...
 
Thats the shit, I let her do her thang and if she needs asst, she will ask...I like to watch her face and body motions. U know watching her throb until she reaches and smashes my face in it. Thats when I punch the clock and go to work
 
Only if i just put in what i thought was a hard days work to realise it was only an appetizer for her or if she was using a dildo the size of my hand to get herself off.:rolleyes:

Other than that no.
 
AlexandMorgan said:
Only if she was using a dildo the size of my hand to get herself off.:rolleyes:
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so are u saying that unless the dildo is more endowed than you, you dont see the point... or are you saying that you like to see your woman stretched to the max like that... or are u saying both?
 
I love to see my woman masturbate! That's one of the sexiest things to see a woman do, her pleasing herself. As long as I can join in for the fun, Im all for it! As I matter of fact, I would kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, then slowly squeeze/suck her nipples, just to get her more aroused and let her continue to do her thing. Yep!
 
thighsneyez22 said:
so are u saying that unless the dildo is more endowed than you, you dont see the point... or are you saying that you like to see your woman stretched to the max like that... or are u saying both?
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What i am saying is she better be a Kegel pro. If i just did my best and she takes up a dildo measuring ten inches around to finish the job somehow i believe that sooner or later i will be no longer required.:smh:

I don't mind a woman who loves sex but if she is in love with sex then i would mind and you can tell the difference. One is a freak:yes: and the other is a nymphomaniac:smh:.
 
AlexandMorgan said:
If i just did my best and she takes up a dildo measuring ten inches around to finish the job somehow i believe that sooner or later i will be no longer required.:smh:
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a blow to the ego as anyone could understand


AlexandMorgan said:
I don't mind a woman who loves sex but if she is in love with sex then i would mind and you can tell the difference. One is a freak:yes: and the other is a nymphomaniac:smh:.
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true true
 
DaTakeOver said:
I love to see my woman masturbate! That's one of the sexiest things to see a woman do, her pleasing herself. As long as I can join in for the fun, Im all for it! As I matter of fact, I would kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, then slowly squeeze/suck her nipples, just to get her more aroused and let her continue to do her thing. Yep!
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but you would be a little heated...if every morning before she got out of bed she reached for a vibrating toy instead of you... I am sure of it...am I not right?
 
thighsneyez22 said:
but you would be a little heated...if every morning before she got out of bed she reached for a vibrating toy instead of you... I am sure of it...am I not right?
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Hmmm....yeah, but if she was doing it, every once in a while, I would be cool, but no, not everyday.
 
thighsneyez22 said:
This is clearly a piggyback thread...

but I just thought that there have to be some men out there who get totally turned off by this.

(probably the same men who don't masturbate themselves or see the need for it at all)

Guys- Tell us your thoughts on female masturbation and how it might relate to or effect you, the mate. what about it turns you on or off? Have you ever told a girl "not now" and left her to her own "devices"? How do you feel if a woman brings toys in the bed? How do you feel if after you have done your thing, you are awakened by a dull yet persistent humming/buzzing in the bathroom (is that out and out disrespect)?

Females- Does your man like it when you touch yourself (and forbid him too) does the sound of a jackrabbit turn him on? have you had a guy tell you that you couldn't touch yourself and that was his job?


(On a sidenote ladies (and gentlemen for that matter)...what are your thoughts on the theory that vibrators act as vaginal desensitizors?)
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Turned off? Hardly! If I catch her masturbating with or without toys I'm turned on and I'm going to do my best to help her out or I might just sit and watch. You can learn alot about how to use her toys the way she might prefer. I'm all for toys in bed and no I'm not intimidated by her usage of them. I don't feel any toy can replace or do what I can.

If a woman brings her toys to bed all the better. I like a women who is free of hangups. So yeah if you got them bring them its all good. :yes: I've brought toys for my women in the past so that should tell you something.

As far as being awakened by a dull yet persistent humming/buzzing is concerned, sometimes you just want a little more. Hell I've masturbated after sex. (no reflection on the woman) Sometimes you just need a little more. So I don't see it as disrespect. If she still needs more I might just join her again.

As for vibrators desensitizing the vagina I don't think so. That's why you have "toys." :D You might get bored with the same vibrator the same way you would get bored with some guy who always touched you the same way and always said and did the same things to you in bed. Bored and desensitized is two very different things.
 
Mo-Better said:
I don't feel any toy can replace or do what I can.
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Dude...U must have put that Katt Williams vid on repeat because you are definitely exemplifying some serious "esteem of your mothaf*ckin self"

Mo-Better said:
Bored and desensitized is two very different things.
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I agree but I think we are talking about two different things, myself.
In terms of desensitivity, I actually was referring to vibrators wearing down the intra-vaginal nerve ending through the rapid vibration making the nerve endings no longer sensitive to normal penetration.
 
Fuck the toys....Bang her out as much as possible.....If you eat the pussy properly....masturbation is usually not necessary......However, a woman's appetite is her appetite....you either need to fuck or move out.....or let me fuck and shut up!!!
 
LOVE to watch a woman get herself off. That is intensely erotic!!

Was reading a book called "Post Secrets" with wifey and one woman said "I masturbate for pleasure, I have sex to feel wanted". She asked me if i'd ever gotten myself off and I said yah, occasionally. She gave me a mean and surly look right after that, then the "how could you..." questions started. I asked her if she ever touched herself and I was met with a resounding HELL NO!!!

Her strict upbringing coming(pardon the pun) into play.
 
thighsneyez22 said:
Dude...U must have put that Katt Williams vid on repeat because you are definitely exemplifying some serious "esteem of your mothaf*ckin self"



I agree but I think we are talking about two different things, myself.
In terms of desensitivity, I actually was referring to vibrators wearing down the intra-vaginal nerve ending through the rapid vibration making the nerve endings no longer sensitive to normal penetration.
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i guess thats the equivalent to how male masturbation de-sensitizes
 
JEverettL said:
LOVE to watch a woman get herself off. That is intensely erotic!!

Was reading a book called "Post Secrets" with wifey and one woman said "I masturbate for pleasure, I have sex to feel wanted". She asked me if i'd ever gotten myself off and I said yah, occasionally. She gave me a mean and surly look right after that, then the "how could you..." questions started. I asked her if she ever touched herself and I was met with a resounding HELL NO!!!

Her strict upbringing coming(pardon the pun) into play.
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wow...so I guess its true then... when u are married u do find things new out about your mate everyday, huh? thats kind of a biggie though.

on another note...I think it is soooo cute that you and your wife read together :) (another idea for the rucksack)
 
Shadow said:
If I lucky enough to witness this action, I always do some sublte assisting.

Licking inside the thighs, slowly working my way up her body

Kiss, lightly suck and squeeze her nipples and then move right back down when she's about to pop....

The stick my face right in and enjoy the tidal wave ride to ecstacy....

mmmmmmmmmmm.........ecstacy.... :yes:
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:eek: Nice. If you ever need someone to practice your technique, give me a holler. I'll take one for the team. ;)
 
Men have gotten vex with me when they didn't get me off and I had to get myself off after the fact. They generally love it if its before or sometimes during.
 
thighsneyez22 said:
Dude...U must have put that Katt Williams vid on repeat because you are definitely exemplifying some serious "esteem of your mothaf*ckin self"

I agree but I think we are talking about two different things, myself.
In terms of desensitivity, I actually was referring to vibrators wearing down the intra-vaginal nerve ending through the rapid vibration making the nerve endings no longer sensitive to normal penetration.
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Not at all, I'm very secure in who I am. Your the one keeps referencing Katt Williams. I never bothered to listen to the clip. So other than my reference to him being a messenger there was nothing else to it.

As for a desensitized vagina I would hope no woman is that obsessed with pleasuring herself, to that degree. That would be not only a self-esteem problem but a case of self abuse. By what your describing I would think that would take an extremely long time ot occur.
 
How can any dude have a problem with his woman masturbating unless he just ain't gettin it done for her, in that case, too bad for him.

I personally love it, and I'm not offended by toys because I'm not in a competition with any toys.

I may have left a woman to her own devices if I'm extremely busy.

If she wants to use the toy she doesn't need to sneak off to the bathroom. I will gladly assist.

I don't think toys desensitize unless she's running with them several times a day everyday, that would speak to a completely different issue then.
 
Blu Diablo said:
How can any dude have a problem with his woman masturbating unless he just ain't gettin it done for her, in that case, too bad for him.

I personally love it, and I'm not offended by toys because I'm not in a competition with any toys.

I may have left a woman to her own devices if I'm extremely busy.

If she wants to use the toy she doesn't need to sneak off to the bathroom. I will gladly assist.

I don't think toys desensitize unless she's running with them several times a day everyday, that would speak to a completely different issue then.
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Thank you! I almost get the feeling were supposed to get angry. :smh:
 

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