Differences between grown women and girls

I don't know if this list was written by a man, a woman, a girl, or a boy. All I know is that the information is good and very accurate. There are differences between women and girls and men and boys. There are a lot of people who need to be reminded of that fact.

But my whole thing is WHY? Why does a man care about the difference between him and a boy? How does that serve him better? Why does a woman care about the difference between her and a girl? How does that serve her better? This to me seems to be written as one of those ego-boosting emails that people write so they can say, "Yep, I'm a woman." Which to me is being pretentious. Which is not a womanly, or manly, trait.

lilsexyii said:
besides, some would consider being a regular on a porn board a waste of time to begin with.

Well FUCK those some. I've gotten more software here, movies here, music here that I can flip and sell. Do you know how many bootleg copies of Photoshop I've sold at 100 dollars a wop? Microsoft Office? Man please, anyone who thinks BGOL is just a porn board is a fool. I don't see what that has to do with the list at all. :smh:
 
But my whole thing is WHY? Why does a man care about the difference between him and a boy? How does that serve him better? Why does a woman care about the difference between her and a girl? How does that serve her better? This to me seems to be written as one of those ego-boosting emails that people write so they can say, "Yep, I'm a woman." Which to me is being pretentious. Which is not a womanly, or manly, trait.

You're looking at it from only one perspective. Maybe someone will look at that and say hey, maybe I should change my ways. Maybe I should give my man some space. Maybe I shouldn't be so insecure. Maybe I've got a lot of growing up to do. If one person reads it and decides to analyze a few things then the author's mission is accomplished.

If someone writes a book about improving your sex life, does that mean the author is bragging about his/her sexual prowess? We read so we can learn. A learning tool is a learning tool. Some people need them more than others.
 
But my whole thing is WHY? Why does a man care about the difference between him and a boy? How does that serve him better? Why does a woman care about the difference between her and a girl? How does that serve her better? This to me seems to be written as one of those ego-boosting emails that people write so they can say, "Yep, I'm a woman." Which to me is being pretentious. Which is not a womanly, or manly, trait.

Well FUCK those some. I've gotten more software here, movies here, music here that I can flip and sell. Do you know how many bootleg copies of Photoshop I've sold at 100 dollars a wop? Microsoft Office? Man please, anyone who thinks BGOL is just a porn board is a fool. I don't see what that has to do with the list at all. :smh:

Dude - you could accomplish that as a lurker, but you have over 2K posts since May. Clearly you have opinions and share them frequently, but that's neither here nor there. Since we ARE here and we talk about every damn thing else, why not pass on a lil wisdom? Just like there are women who may not have realized that they are still engaging in girlish behavior, there may be some boys who call themselves men but they're still engaging in boyish behavior. But if you're not interested, you're just not interested...
 
Dude - you could accomplish that as a lurker, but you have over 2K posts since May. Clearly you have opinions and share them frequently, but that's neither here nor there. Since we ARE here and we talk about every damn thing else, why not pass on a lil wisdom? Just like there are women who may not have realized that they are still engaging in girlish behavior, there may be some boys who call themselves men but they're still engaging in boyish behavior. But if you're not interested, you're just not interested...

I don't believe in taking and not giving back. Also coming on and cracking jokes is a stress-reliever after work, but why the hell should I have to explain that to you. Why are you on my sack about how many posts I have? How does that concern you in the least? The fuck?

I stated my opinion on the list idea. And it was THAT, my opinion. Why couldn't you have just left it at that or come and respond in an intelligent manner like Jam-Jam did above? No, you wanna come with some extra shit that has nothing to do with the topic, trying to throw subliminal shots. Look both ways before crossing. :smh:
 
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I don't believe in taking and not giving back. Also coming on and cracking jokes is a stress-reliever after work, but why the hell should I have to explain that to you. Why are you on my nutsack about how many posts I have? How does that concern you in the least? The fuck?

I stated my opinion on the list idea. And it was THAT, my opinion. Why couldn't you have just left it at that or come and respond in an intelligent manner like Jam-Jam did above? No, you wanna come with some extra shit that has nothing to do with the topic, trying to throw subliminal shots. Look both ways before crossing. :smh:

I'm just saying that you DO share your opinion and this would be no different. I'm not taking shots at all, or at least that wasn't my intent.
 
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But my whole thing is WHY? Why does a man care about the difference between him and a boy? How does that serve him better? Why does a woman care about the difference between her and a girl? How does that serve her better? This to me seems to be written as one of those ego-boosting emails that people write so they can say, "Yep, I'm a woman." Which to me is being pretentious. Which is not a womanly, or manly, trait.

You're looking at it from only one perspective. Maybe someone will look at that and say hey, maybe I should change my ways. Maybe I should give my man some space. Maybe I shouldn't be so insecure. Maybe I've got a lot of growing up to do. If one person reads it and decides to analyze a few things then the author's mission is accomplished.

If someone writes a book about improving your sex life, does that mean the author is bragging about his/her sexual prowess? We read so we can learn. A learning tool is a learning tool. Some people need them more than others.

I disagree certain knowledge is best attained when the students seeks it and not when it's handed to them.;)
 
I received this in my e-mail a few years ago and then I received it again a few days ago. Thought I would share it.




Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.


Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.


Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.


Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.


Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.


Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.


Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.


Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.


Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.


Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.


Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.


Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.


Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends

AMEN TO ALL THAT !!!:yes::yes::yes::yes:

And to all the Grown Ladies, please pass this on to ALL of your GIRL friends who think they are grown. So they can LEARN something. :lol::lol::lol:
 
What you THINK you said and what you ACTUALLY said were two different things.

A thousand apologies, Leroy-San...u still my homie?

AMEN TO ALL THAT !!!:yes::yes::yes::yes:

And to all the Grown Ladies, please pass this on to ALL of your GIRL friends who think they are grown. So they can LEARN something. :lol::lol::lol:

This is all I was asking for...something for the grown men to pass on to their homeboys who think they're grown so they, too, can learn something...
 
:o:p: (we need a smiley that kisses)

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