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What were the best & worst movies? The best & worst songs? The biggest news? Etc.

What was the best and worst (if you care to share) in your own life?
 
My move to FLA was the best and the worst at the same time. Love it here, but have to get used to being without the fam
 
Best: I was forced to take a promotion at work after turning it down three times in the past. I'm hella good at it!

Worst: My daughter going back to live with her mother next year. BASTIDS!

Neutral: I didn't get the bigger house across the street that I wanted, but I can still keep an eye on it till the next time.
 
2007 was hands down the very worst year of my life ever. Thank God theres only a week left. I am trying to think hard for the best but I can't even remember anything good at all.
Hopeflly 08 will be better.
 
Most overrated but well promoted song

Umbrella la la la la la by Rihanna. That song plays like a stuck record and i just hate to hear it.
 
2007 overall wasn't bad, but it'll still be among the lowest years of my life, I started off the year living in New Orleans temporarily and working, then I began to split time between San Antonio and basicly various parts of South Louisiana, before coming back to SA and taking a break. I mean had worked continuosly after the storm with out stopping and I was tired. I also had some other things that happened here in SA that makes 2007 overall a pretty shitty year.

Good things are my relatives house is fixed and instead of 7 people in this apartment there are only 3 and my house is just about done, and I'll be home in hopefully Febuary. Overall I'm hoping that 2008 will be the end of a bad 7 year stretch from 2000-2007
 
Seems like the end of 2007 is the end of a 3 year battle with just about everything in my life. I may be getting a brand new job in 2008 *crossing fingers* and that will spark a bunch of other good things.

And I got to thank my BGOL buddies who did their best to keep my spirits up. They know who they are.
 
bigirl said:
2007 was hands down the very worst year of my life ever. Thank God theres only a week left. I am trying to think hard for the best but I can't even remember anything good at all.
Hopeflly 08 will be better.
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Why? :confused:

Care to elaborate?
 
femmenoire said:
Seems like the end of 2007 is the end of a 3 year battle with just about everything in my life. I may be getting a brand new job in 2008 *crossing fingers* and that will spark a bunch of other good things.

And I got to thank my BGOL buddies who did their best to keep my spirits up. They know who they are.
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Yep, Yep!;)
 
Esoteric1 said:
Why? :confused:

Care to elaborate?
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Basically I got betrayed abused and robbed by those I thought were my inner circle and they wreaked havoc on my life and nearly destroyed me. Not a group working togther. Seperate individuals who all chose to pull their fuck at the same time. Because of them I got stuck in this awful place and those I really looked out for shit on me in my hour of need too. Everyone I thought were my people were just user fair weather "friends". Add a court battle over a property on top of that and a harassing and shady landlord pulling all kinds of fuck all the time. 2 year boyfriend turned out to be one of those people too and made a point to kick me as hard as possible when I down. I have not had a moment of peace this year. All of this has made me beyond hostile and distrustful and like a ticking time bomb ready to explode and it doesn't take much to ignite the fuse at all.My health has suffered too. I understand how and why people become murderers and stuff. I didn't even tell you all only a brief synopsis. 3 family funerals in a months time too. So thats why in short.
 
bigirl said:
2007 was hands down the very worst year of my life ever. Thank God theres only a week left. I am trying to think hard for the best but I can't even remember anything good at all.
Hopeflly 08 will be better.
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I just came in here to say the same damn thing. This year has been one bad event after another, and I just can't wait to put it and every loser I've dealt with behind me.
 
Dang, sorry about all of those terrible things, bigirl. Hang in there, honey.

2007 started off weird, but it has ended on a very high, positive note. EArly in the year, I made an attempt to reconcile with my estranged husband. It failed...miserably!!! Then, I couldnt find a job. Consequently, I was mildly depressed for a while. But all those things forced me to grow some balls and step out on Faith like never before in my life. :) I went to Cancun in August. Messed around and caught a "vision". I then came back to the States with a new plan. It was scary, but I did it: I made some decisions, packed up, moved out and started fresh in DC. I got a good job, put my daughter in school and I'm doing just fine. Actually, I'm better now than I've been in the last 3 or 4 years.
 
bigirl said:
Basically I got betrayed abused and robbed by those I thought were my inner circle and they wreaked havoc on my life and nearly destroyed me. Not a group working togther. Seperate individuals who all chose to pull their fuck at the same time. Because of them I got stuck in this awful place and those I really looked out for shit on me in my hour of need too. Everyone I thought were my people were just user fair weather "friends". Add a court battle over a property on top of that and a harassing and shady landlord pulling all kinds of fuck all the time. 2 year boyfriend turned out to be one of those people too and made a point to kick me as hard as possible when I down. I have not had a moment of peace this year. All of this has made me beyond hostile and distrustful and like a ticking time bomb ready to explode and it doesn't take much to ignite the fuse at all.My health has suffered too. I understand how and why people become murderers and stuff. I didn't even tell you all only a brief synopsis. 3 family funerals in a months time too. So thats why in short.
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SinaminDelite said:
I just came in here to say the same damn thing. This year has been one bad event after another, and I just can't wait to put it and every loser I've dealt with behind me.
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I can't front. I've had alot of bad shit go down this year and even though the past 3 years I've kept men at bay there have been a few dudes who really helped me out without me even having to ask. Just good dudes. They are hard to find, but the ones that are out there are PRECIOUS.
 
femmenoire said:
I can't front. I've had alot of bad shit go down this year and even though the past 3 years I've kept men at bay there have been a few dudes who really helped me out without me even having to ask. Just good dudes. They are hard to find, but the ones that are out there are PRECIOUS.
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My friends are what's precious to me. I've known most of them for over 10 years, and quite honestly, if it weren't for them, I don't know where I'd be right now.

bigirl said:
perhaps this is a new york thing ? :dunno:
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I dunno. It might just be. I know a bunch of people going through it out here.
 
This was not a good year for me in a lot of ways. I do have my health and as long as I have my health, I can keep fighting to better myself. 2008 will be a lot better !! I'm a glass full type of person... :rolleyes::D
 
A year of considerable change for me. My professional life could not be better, my personal life is in pretty bad shape (but all things pass).

Two best things this year: I got a really nice piece of money from Corporate America for doing what I would do for free AND finding the SOL group. Am I the only one that finds these ladies absolutely captivating???? This frank discussion of sexuality without the accompanying bullshit is what we all need. In 2008, let's all spend more time enjoying each other (intellectually, spiritually, sexually), and less time with meaningless bullshit (these endless games we play with each other, what's the fucking point?).

As usual, the women are taking the lead in carrying us to new vistas of pleasure and intellectual stimulation. [Anybody know Jill Scott, I got something that belongs to her]..

Thanks, ladies.

[and the song is Crown Royal on Ice, Femme.... DAMN I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!]
 
IN RETROSPECT
I CANT SAY BAD....I CAN SAY TUMULTUOUS.
SHIT COULD HAVE BEEN A LOT WORSE.

HOWEVER THE BEST PART IS I HAVE DONN THE MOST WRITING TO COMPLETE MY BOOK THAN EVER THIS YEAR
SO THATS A GOOD THING.
I HAVE LAID THE GROUND WORK TO LEAVE ALL MY BAGGAGE AND USELESS WORTHLESS PEOPLE IN MY LIFE BEHIND ME FOR GOOD IN 08.
I AM VERY EXCITED ABOUT THAT.
I REFUSE TO ENTERTAIN ANY BULLSHIT IN THE COMING YEARS.:yes:

WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH A BAG OF SHIT .........
YOU MAKE SHIT SANDWICHES:lol:
 
gs01cws said:
A year of considerable change for me. My professional life could not be better, my personal life is in pretty bad shape (but all things pass).

Two best things this year: I got a really nice piece of money from Corporate America for doing what I would do for free AND finding the SOL group. Am I the only one that finds these ladies absolutely captivating???? This frank discussion of sexuality without the accompanying bullshit is what we all need. In 2008, let's all spend more time enjoying each other (intellectually, spiritually, sexually), and less time with meaningless bullshit (these endless games we play with each other, what's the fucking point?).

As usual, the women are taking the lead in carrying us to new vistas of pleasure and intellectual stimulation. [Anybody know Jill Scott, I got something that belongs to her]..

Thanks, ladies.

[and the song is Crown Royal on Ice, Femme.... DAMN I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!]
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I'm glad you like it. I'm hooked on it.

Whoever gets my goodies when I give up celibacy will be hearing that song continuously.
 
bigirl said:
Basically I got betrayed abused and robbed by those I thought were my inner circle and they wreaked havoc on my life and nearly destroyed me. Not a group working togther. Seperate individuals who all chose to pull their fuck at the same time. Because of them I got stuck in this awful place and those I really looked out for shit on me in my hour of need too. Everyone I thought were my people were just user fair weather "friends". Add a court battle over a property on top of that and a harassing and shady landlord pulling all kinds of fuck all the time. 2 year boyfriend turned out to be one of those people too and made a point to kick me as hard as possible when I down. I have not had a moment of peace this year. All of this has made me beyond hostile and distrustful and like a ticking time bomb ready to explode and it doesn't take much to ignite the fuse at all.My health has suffered too. I understand how and why people become murderers and stuff. I didn't even tell you all only a brief synopsis. 3 family funerals in a months time too. So thats why in short.
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Whomever your "higher power" is he/she have not given you more than they know that you can handle. I am sorry that you've had so much to deal with, but i am sure that 2008 will be a better year for you and yours. Stay Strong.
 
MTL said:
Whomever your "higher power" is he/she have not given you more than they know that you can handle. I am sorry that you've had so much to deal with, but i am sure that 2008 will be a better year for you and yours. Stay Strong.
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Thanx MTL. :) I can feel it I know this is all for a reason leading me to somewhere better, forcing me to change and making me see and cut the bullshit out of my life. Still sucks tho, LOL. Bless sisteren.
 
LeroyDibiase said:
Fixed. That man will have the best, and possibly LAST, orgasm of his life son.

2007? It was a better year than 2006. I had a great year.
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:lol::lol::lol:

You're a nut.


But hey I forgot that the Iphone was the biggest gadget of 2007.

No one could stop talking about the movie 300.

And 2 of the most irritating songs I've ever heard "Irreplaceable" and "Umbrella" were #1 hits.

I think the dumbest quotes of the year go to Lil Wayne.
 
basically 07 was just the set up for 08 for me..
07 was a lot of the same for me..
08 will bring a lot of changes..
I'm very excited about 08...............
 
Best - moved into a great new home, started a new job with a significant pay increase. Worst-ended my long time relationship and had my heart broken.

Looking forward to 2008. Wishing you all much love, happiness, and success!
 
femmenoire said:
I'm glad you like it. I'm hooked on it.

Whoever gets my goodies when I give up celibacy will be hearing that song continuously.
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See that's why I love this board!

I have this image in my head of Femme with candlelight/firelight as a backdrop, a knowing smirk on her face because she knows this poor cat she has stretched out across the rug in front of the fireplace is about to be completely fucked up for the rest of his days. "Crown Royal" is on loop playing continuously in the background, damn near driving dude insane (a man can only take so much ecstasy), as Femme decides if she wants his hands bound together above his head, or if a “drawn and quartered” configuration best suits her too long awaited release from celibacy. Small beads of sweat pop out on dude’s head, cause he was talking big shit earlier about how he was going to bring it, and now the bitch starts to come out in him because it has dawned on him that he is in way over his stupid fucking head. Too late! Femme almost has a tinge of pity for him, but he makes for such a delicious toy so completely in her power. Poor bastard. Poor lucky bastard…

Hey, anybody ever seen “Citizen Kane?” The dude that Femme breaks her celibacy with will be saying “Crown Royal” when he checks out instead of “rosebud.”

Take your time, Femme. Enjoy the anticipation!
 
gs01cws said:
See that's why I love this board!

I have this image in my head of Femme with candlelight/firelight as a backdrop, a knowing smirk on her face because she knows this poor cat she has stretched out across the rug in front of the fireplace is about to be completely fucked up for the rest of his days. "Crown Royal" is on loop playing continuously in the background, damn near driving dude insane (a man can only take so much ecstasy), as Femme decides if she wants his hands bound together above his head, or if a “drawn and quartered” configuration best suits her too long awaited release from celibacy. Small beads of sweat pop out on dude’s head, cause he was talking big shit earlier about how he was going to bring it, and now the bitch starts to come out in him because it has dawned on him that he is in way over his stupid fucking head. Too late! Femme almost has a tinge of pity for him, but he makes for such a delicious toy so completely in her power. Poor bastard. Poor lucky bastard…

Hey, anybody ever seen “Citizen Kane?” The dude that Femme breaks her celibacy with will be saying “Crown Royal” when he checks out instead of “rosebud.”

Take your time, Femme. Enjoy the anticipation!
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Damn we may need to co-author a collabo effort!
 
bigirl said:
Thanx MTL. :) I can feel it I know this is all for a reason leading me to somewhere better, forcing me to change and making me see and cut the bullshit out of my life. Still sucks tho, LOL. Bless sisteren.
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I feel what your saying. In '04 I made a new year's resolution to cut the dead wood from my life (users and people that take kindness for weakness). Plenty of people were like "where you been?". You can't eliminate all of the drama from your life, but the people that were constant sources of it got cut loose. Left the city and that mindset, then started fresh. Don't let other people's weakness bring you down. Let your light shine and the good and positive will be attracted to you.
 
"What does not kill me makes me stronger “​
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe​

"The best revenge is massive success. “​
Frank Sinatra​

"2008 will be great! “​
thoughtone​
 
worst song! solja boy! that song was utter bullshit. but because it was forced on the air.... he gave a cute dance, people fell for that shit.

my vote Soldier boy
 
2007 was not so good of a year for me. From a bad break up, to being in the hospital for a while, and losing a lot of friends. . . it seemed to be disappointment after disappointment. But I'm thankful for God and family who kept me strong during those hard times and I'm looking forward to a new year and new beginning.
 
2007 - finished up decently. Survived 15 months in Iraq. Daughter is fine and the move for permanent custody is underway and looking good. Plus I'm not in debt. That's always a plus.

I agree about Solja Boy. Fucking Rubbish. Another sad thing is that one of my friends, a rich white kid I enlisted while a recruiter, was killed in Iraq while I was in country. I found out after his funeral. He passed on Duke Law to serve. Rest in Peace, Jimmy.

2008 will hopefully turn out to be a good year for me. Hopefully things will continue moving upward. I might just find that good woman (any takers?).

:dance:
 
femmenoire said:
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And 2 of the most irritating songs I've ever heard "Irreplaceable" and "Umbrella" were #1 hits.

I think the dumbest quotes of the year go to Lil Wayne.
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:eek: Of the songs that got major play, "Irreplaceable" was one of my favorites, hands down the best for R&B!

I did dislike "Umbrella" and the whole repetition trend in general... eral... eral...
 

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