Sex or Personality

[UnoBetter2]

Sex or Personality / VOTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Been checking out a few threads here and there and this question is naggin at me. Not only for the ladies but also for you brotha's that lurk on the Sistas thread. Whats most important.......Great Sex or Personality / Communication? Personally I would rather have grrreat sex but, I been married so long until intellectually I have never known what its like not to have both. Post opinions and reasons why, ok?

 

[t0k3]

I had to go with sex.
Never found anyone yet that I click with on personality.

 

[onyxfemme]

I am going to go w/ personality and communication because if I can communicate w/ him and he has a great personality we will end up having great sex-Does that make sense? Also a guy that has a great personality and is intellectual is sexy ass hell....AHEM DALEMABRY

 

[buck_ya_bitch]

It's not that easy
you need them both..
sorry but that's the truth...

I've had bad sex with women with great personality
the relationship didn't last long..

never had sex with a woman who personality I didn't like
if I didn't like her personality we not going to make it to the bedroon....

you need both...

 

[SWATLANTA]

I selected communication and humor because nothing turns me on more than a female that can hold a strong coversation and make me laugh. I like the mental fourplay almost as much as the physical affection (almost ). I can have good sex without communication, but truly great sex requires it.

 

[LILGROWN1]

I selected communication and humor because nothing turns me on more than a female that can hold a strong coversation and make me laugh. I like the mental fourplay almost as much as the physical affection (almost ). I can have good sex without communication, but truly great sex requires it.

I agree with SWATLANTA here. I think it would be VERY hard to stay in a relationship with someone without some good communication. You can work on the sex part also.

 

[femmenoire]

A woman can get any big dick dummy to fuck her well. But a man with a great personality will always keep me coming back for more.

 

[fourth_retired]

what if u know somebody that has both..... should i step it up?

 

[UnoBetter2]

A woman can get any big dick dummy to fuck her well. But a man with a great personality will always keep me coming back for more.

Femme, Love it when your suttle,

 

[UnoBetter2]

what if u know somebody that has both..... should i step it up?

Thats rare, I'd jump on and stay on it!

 

[SWATLANTA]

what if u know somebody that has both..... should i step it up?

Thats rare, I'd jump on and stay on it!

I agree with UnoBetter2...

 

[SinaminDelite]

A woman can get any big dick dummy to fuck her well. But a man with a great personality will always keep me coming back for more.

Very very true! I'm gonna have to go with a great personality on this one. Dick is a dime a dozen, but to find someone that you vibe with on an intellectual level is someone worth building with.

 

[Izayoi]

Very very true! I'm gonna have to go with a great personality on this one. Dick is a dime a dozen, but to find someone that you vibe with on an intellectual level is someone worth building with.

Exactly. I can become totally infatuated with a quick and insightful mind...and it gets me horny too! So you see from great mind solo orgasms may spring as well.

 

[AlexandMorgan]

Sex can be great when you are having it but when the show is over you are going to need someone who you actually want to talk to and can get along well with.

Otherwise you end up with a lot of late night booty calls and not much else.

But personality aside and great communication i will never be able to commit to any woman who believes in only one sexual position, no oral, no experimentation and no more than ten minutes on top of her before you gots to get off i.e. BORING SEX.

I say this because i know a gal who believes it is wrong/disgusting to put a mans nipples, penis in her mouth and yes they are some of them out there.

 

[inkone]

depends on rather im in the mood to fuck or talk if your convo is good we can talk about anything but honestly speaking i just want a good mind to stimulate me first.

 

[Iron]

Sex can be great when you are having it but when the show is over you are going to need someone who you actually want to talk to and can get along well with.

Exactly!

You can get good sex from damn near anybody but finding someone that you actually enjoy spending time with when your not fucking like wild rabbits isn't as easy.

 

[fourth_retired]

the sex will even better if u can click with that person on a more deeper level.

 

[Mt. Yukon]

Its not really as simple as either or. First off, If I choose personality does that mean the sex HAS to be wack and also in reverse??? Is there no happy medium??? I mean Id gladly take avg sex for someone I alway got along with. Sex can be worked on and people can get better, assuming they have what it takes package wise ofcourse(applies to both sexes) I say as long as I like being with her and Im attracted to her Im straight. Ive never had (bad) sex with any chick. It was either good, or goddamn. Buy even goddamn sex wasnt enough to deal with the chick attached to it more often then not. So I say Id take personality over sex as long as they arent mutually exclusive. I mean because if its either or, Id take personality and just cheat on her ass.

 

[ladyscorpio]

I selected communication and humor because nothing turns me on more than a female that can hold a strong coversation and make me laugh. I like the mental fourplay almost as much as the physical affection (almost ). I can have good sex without communication, but truly great sex requires it.

You and I would have great sex


Communication Communication Communication. That is a necessity in most areas of ones life. Sex is no different.

 

[Mo-Better]

A great personality and can last a lifetime. Great sex means nothing without the ability to communicate. What good is great sex if your partner is an asshole?

 

[lilsexii]

Great sex is really not that hard to find (if you know where to look) and personality is a plus, but not required for a booty call...

Great sex with someone you vibe with mentally is harder to find, but not impossible. Problem is that person could be enjoying mind blowing sex with quite a few people and is enjoying their freedom...bad timing.

So, if I could find great sex with someone I vibe with mentally who is ready to to actually settle down and build something, I'd be straight. Usually, they wake up later and tell me later that I'm the one who got away....if I hear that one more time, I'll scream

 

[HoneyDip]

I love to have good interesting conversations

 

[Eva Hornae]

mental stimulation is the BOMB, from a man can stimulate me mentality without even touching me, then i'm hooked LOL

as previously stated, gr8 sex or just plain sex can be found anywhere, it's just the personality and the intellect that really gets me.. DAMN (thinking abt him)

 

[DaTakeOver]

Im greedy, so I prefer my ideal woman to have a great personality, someone who can have a great conversation with me, make me laugh/and think, and a mean sex game!

 

[MTL]

I am going to go w/ personality and communication because if I can communicate w/ him and he has a great personality we will end up having great sex-Does that make sense? Also a guy that has a great personality and is intellectual is sexy ass hell....AHEM DALEMABRY

co-sign

 

[blackmouth]

for me, it's a dynamic transition from one to the other.

first, it takes sex appeal to get my attention.
second, it takes some mental stimulation to know you have more.
third, it takes the back-breaking, headboard shattering sex to get to know you physically.
last, it takes more mental stimulation to keep me around.

in short, sex can get me but it takes mental stimulation to keep me.