Differences between grown women and girls

[Jam_Jam]

I received this in my e-mail a few years ago and then I received it again a few days ago. Thought I would share it.




Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.


Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.


Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.


Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.


Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.


Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.


Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.


Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.


Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.


Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.


Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.


Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.


Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends

 

[onyxfemme]

**CLAPS HANDS**

 

[Chi Shot Caller]

**CLAPS HANDS**

CS

 

[ron2k7]

AMEN TO THAT, BROTHER JAM JAM!! SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE MAN!!

 

[mcguyver]

AMEN TO THAT, BROTHER JAM JAM!! SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE MAN!!

You gonna get cussed out.

 

[Jam_Jam]

AMEN TO THAT, BROTHER JAM JAM!! SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE MAN!!

I am not a man, thank you. I am a woman....not a girl.

 

[Arctic Sun]

There are a lot of "girls" in the field these days

 

[mcguyver]

I am not a man, thank you. I am a woman....not a girl.

You know whats up.

 

[Black Limey]

So true!

 

[xfactor]

Sure are a lot of girls over the age of 21 then.

 

[gray9644]

Good Post.
Merry Christmas to all.

 

[Pussy Krook]

Great post.

 

[fourth_retired]

u know how much girls are gona agree with this 100% and call them selves grown lol.

 

[Cinamiss]

We always expect girls to gradually mature—physically, intellectually, and emotionally. Unfortunately, while many girls mature physically and intellectually into a WOMAN, others emotional growth lags far behind. They still view the world as they did when they were babies, existing primarily for their own well-being. When things do not go their way they react in some infantile way, by crying, pouting, pitying themselves, or throwing a temper tantrum. They choose the wrong men and may try to attract attention to themselves by boasting of their accomplishments or criticizing others. She bases her worth on what men think of her. Also, only a immature GIRL or WOMAN pursues the temporary benefits of a relationship at the expense of long-term responsibilities..... Someone once told me that the only difference between a man and a boy is that a man’s toys cost more!.. Mature Woman don't need a man to validate them and are so secure that men do not quickly win their hearts. They base their sense of worth on knowing they are loved and these women are “harder to get” but have twice the allure to men—particularly the right men. They don’t lack a desire to be wifey, but they can’t imagine and wouldn't dream of getting involved with the wrong kind of guy.

 

[blackmouth]

u know how much girls are gona agree with this 100% and call them selves grown lol.

there are a LOT of truths in that post above. a LOT of women are still girls or at least they act like it.

 

[Jam_Jam]

Mature Woman don't need a man to validate them and are so secure that men do not quickly win their hearts. They base their sense of worth on knowing they are loved and these women are “harder to get” but have twice the allure to men—particularly the right men.

I agree with this 100%

 

[lilsexii]

Thanks - great post

 

[thoughtone]

Thank you Jam_Jam. If I had posted this I would be accused of "covert" bashing.

 

[SinaminDelite]

Good post. I have to send this to some silly ass broads....

 

[DaTakeOver]

Good post and much respect to you Jam_Jam for posting this truth!

 

[Adam Knows]

Sure are a lot of girls over the age of 21 then.

same thing i was thinking....

 

[Madfish]

Good shit...

 

[Adam Knows]

Thank you Jam_Jam. If I had posted this I would be accused of "covert" bashing.

only from the "girls"

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I'm tired of these women-bashing threads myself.

The main difference between a woman and a girl is that a girl would write something like this and a woman would be doing more important things than worrying about what someone else thinks of her.

 

[MCP]

Nice post and thanks for sharing.

Will be passing this on....

 

[500_grams]

I love this,It should be a hand book to the thirty and up.

 

[dashriprock]

standing O

 

[thalastdynasty]

lots o women on the board...good and interesting to see.

 

[modagr8]

By a show of hands, where are the real women????

 

[eagle force]

i met and recently dumped a 41 year old who thought like a"girl"

 

[lilsexii]

GENTLEMEN:

You know, we could use a similar thread on "The Differences Between Grown Men and Boys"...but to keep it fair, it should be written/posted by a "Grown Man"...any takers?

 

[sexylegz33]

Exactly!

 

[LeroyDibiase]

GENTLEMEN:

You know, we could use a similar thread on "The Differences Between Grown Men and Boys"...but to keep it fair, it should be written/posted by a "Grown Man"...any takers?

To be honest, a grown man would consider it a waste of his time to write such a list. Why would anyone grown need to write out the differences between themselves and someone else? Unless they were being egotistical and pretentious, which ISN'T a grown characteristic.

i'll consider posting a list(yeah right) if you give me one of your naked sextapes.

but

 

[lilsexii]

i'll consider posting a list(yeah right) if you give me one of your naked sextapes.

Puhleeeze! Not even if you kissmyazz
ADDENDUM: A grown woman knows who she could trust with a sextape...a girl finds herself on BGOL Blast and wonders why (just jokes)

To be honest, a grown man would consider it a waste of his time to write such a list. Why would anyone grown need to write out the differences between themselves and someone else? Unless they were being egotistical and pretentious, which ISN'T a grown characteristic.

I thought the list for women was unbiased and informative for both men and women. What's so wrong with having one from an alternate perspective? This would only be for the purpose of continuing the conversation. Posting a biased egotistical and pretentious list WOULD be a waste of time, and that's not what I asked for...besides, some would even consider being a regular on a porn board a waste of time to begin with. But it's no biggie - we've got a "no" from Leroy. Next!

 

[Jam_Jam]

To be honest, a grown man would consider it a waste of his time to write such a list. Why would anyone grown need to write out the differences between themselves and someone else? Unless they were being egotistical and pretentious, which ISN'T a grown characteristic.



but

I don't know if this list was written by a man, a woman, a girl, or a boy. All I know is that the information is good and very accurate. There are differences between women and girls and men and boys. There are a lot of people who need to be reminded of that fact.