Ladies what did you all think of this???

[Baldhead_Digital]

I didn't see many if an female reactions the this thread on the other side. I'm curious as to what you all thought about this string of events....


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then this.....

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and then this...

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Ladies what's your opinion on this string of events???

 

[thighsneyez22]

You and I must be on the same wavelength...because I definitely was watching some of this girls stuff for some reason earlier today before you posted this...

HAHAHA....to me... This is B!tc# is REAL... REAL ENTERTAINING, REAL DRAMATIC, REAL INTERESTING and most of all REAL FUNNY.

Somebody needs to get her to join the forum... I can only imagine what find of stuff she would start.

Lets Break the vids down....


Video #1
Here Jia asserts that size really does matter when choosing a mate... according to her, the ability for a suitor to give her mind blowing sex trumps all other characteristics that she might evaluate when choosing a in a mate... I think that does something to shed some light on the reasoning behind such interesting pairings as:

And we can't forget...

Looks like somebody had their F--- Game RIGHT!

Video #2

She puts "little man" on blast and shows his picture all for getting involved with her while dating someone else...she chalks up his playeristic ways to his insecurities about his "manhood"...I think it kinda makes sense...the dude's trying to have as many backup chicks as he can because he knows he is going to get left or at least cheated on because of his vast anatomical inadequacy.


Video #3

As for the second vid where she actually confronts the dude on camera...thats an angry woman... this girl is funny... I can't even believe it's real (kinda sounds a little staged...the dude doesn't sound Trini...but either way- ITS COMEDY!)

If it is real... I am really curious as to who she is REALLY angry with (ie. absentee daddy, past lover, boss, kid who stole her candy bar in third grade...it seems like displaced anger).


On the whole... I think I have just found my newest form of entertainment for the next few weeks...

 

[Jam_Jam]

The shit is ridiculous. They went on one date and she's acting like they had a long-term relationship. She says she's 27 years old (which makes her so wise), yet she's acting foolishly. If she were really smart she would know that when you meet a man you should always assume that he's seeing someone or several someones. There is a good chance that he will lie about it because a man is visual and when he sees something he wants he will tell a woman whatever he thinks she needs to hear. What she did was wrong on so many levels. She should have just chalked that up to another bad experience and kept on moving.

 

[femmenoire]

Well I have to force myself to sit down and watch it.

 

[GT2BK007]

 

[Machete]

that was unexpected.

 

[thighsneyez22]

I was waiting for one of you dudes to bring that up...BUT I am curious...how does that really change what she is talking about in the vids? ... let me guess...standard BGOL answer, "you can't change a ho into a housewife" huh...

 

[femmenoire]

I wondered if that's the same chick.

And thighs, don't even bother expecting any logic from men regarding this.

 

[MissStarKitty]

Damnit is that the same chick?!?!
Either way she has a point.
Video #1: Sex on the 1st date isn't as taboo as people try to make it seem now and days, I mean it's not something that you do with every first date that you have but it just isn't as uncommon, or hush hush as people make it seem.
As far as the size thing, hmm I have mixed emotions about that. Yes I do agree with her as far as men with rather small on unaverage packages usually talk a lot of game if and only if they do not know what to do with it.
However; I have encountered a couple of small penis' in my lifetime and there was one who knew what the hell he was doing, he made up for having a small penis with technique and the best foreplay I had ever encountered from a man, on the other hand then there was the one, whose dick was the size of my infant son's pinky finger and he talked a good game but couldn't back it up.
She's right, you can have all the greatest shit in the world, education, intelligence etc. etc. but if you not doing it well in the bed then you ain't the whole package. Personally I feel like I should be stimulated all the way around.

I also agree with her on people that are trying to be slick as oil in a relationship, that goes for men and women. Why waste someone's time dating and spending time with someone,if all you are going to lie, and mess around? The was she went about putting that man on blast was pretty childish though, that was my only issue with the whole video blog, otherwise she spoke some truths.

LMAO at her little sidebar about her earrings and necklace

 

[APOPHIS]

This filthy porn bitch is an embarrassment to Black women everywhere.
She can barely speak properly.
No wonder she spreads her legs for a living.

DUMB BITCH!

 

[thighsneyez22]

Speaking of sidebars...she has quit pornography for a year now with no intentions of going back in back in the same capacity... How does that change things?

 

[Hey Julian!]

I thought the video was gonna start with a confident fairly intelligent woman. ......It went down hill from there. "I met this dude from Trinidad"...."I dont fuck uncircumcised dicks" She's a critical thinker.........

God waisted a lot of confidence and drive on this dumb broad.

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

Before i get banned, by femme and the other Mods on SOL, I just want to say that I didn't bring this up because I was trying to start an issue or argument etc..etc. I was curious as to how women saw this issue, because I had a feeling that the male out look, and the female out look on this issue might be different. I even went so far as to ask this same question on my yahoo blog. So don't ban me I'm just trying to digg a little deeper.
I think she does have a screen-name here there was the infamous Mustard joke( I roll over laughing every time I think about...sure it's crude and rude, and immature...but sometimes you just can't help but laugh)....
In any case, I wanted to see some female reaction to this before I gave my opinion particular view on this. I think her past as a pornstarlet is very important. To me that is what makes this whole thing trivial. Personally I think she's a pretty girl, even with her past a a porn star I would probably date her...probably. However what i find amazing is that she's complaining about the guy having issues in the first video, then she goes on and continues messing around with him... I'm wondering if the dude knew anything about her past. If not doesn't that make her just as bad as he is, maybe even worse? Opinions please???
I'll stop typing here, I don't want to get Collin Powell-ed

 

[Hey Julian!]

^^^ Dude if your gonna date a former pornstar, she better be working a PHd, can cook like Emeril, clean like Martha and handle finances like Jim Cramer. Dont be a simp, postin' shit like that. Seriously, stop it.

 

[thismybgolname]

I was waiting for one of you dudes to bring that up...BUT I am curious...how does that really change what she is talking about in the vids? ... let me guess...standard BGOL answer, "you can't change a ho into a housewife" huh...

Yea it changes what she said in the videos and proves that this girl
has a distorted sense of reality as well as her self worth.

How can you honestly expect for someone with EVERYTHING together when you have sucked and fucked for the world to see?

Had she not have been a whore (literally) in her former life (365 days ago) then I could understand how she could as well as should expect to be approached by grown men and not little boys.

She is honest, very attractive lady (esp. if that's her real hair but I don't think it is), has a personality the body is on point however the fact still remains that she is a whore.

The guy that she is fucking with is either dumb or was just looking for a nut.

If he is as small as she says that he is then it's his fault for not taking care of her in other ways UNLESS he just needed a nut which is probably the case in this situation.

You never give a bitch that is only there for a nut foreplay, you do what you have to in order to not beat off that night, period point blank mutha fuckin dot com.

What does she bring to the table besides a nut?

We've got another superhead in the making here.

 

[Lick]

The shit is ridiculous. They went on one date and she's acting like they had a long-term relationship. She says she's 27 years old (which makes her so wise), yet she's acting foolishly. If she were really smart she would know that when you meet a man you should always assume that he's seeing someone or several someones. There is a good chance that he will lie about it because a man is visual and when he sees something he wants he will tell a woman whatever he thinks she needs to hear. What she did was wrong on so many levels. She should have just chalked that up to another bad experience and kept on moving.

Thank you Jam_Jam You made some very good points...

 

[femmenoire]

Before i get banned, by femme and the other Mods on SOL, I just want to say that I didn't bring this up because I was trying to start an issue or argument etc..etc. I was curious as to how women saw this issue, because I had a feeling that the male out look, and the female out look on this issue might be different. I even went so far as to ask this same question on my yahoo blog. So don't ban me I'm just trying to digg a little deeper.
I think she does have a screen-name here there was the infamous Mustard joke( I roll over laughing every time I think about...sure it's crude and rude, and immature...but sometimes you just can't help but laugh)....
In any case, I wanted to see some female reaction to this before I gave my opinion particular view on this. I think her past as a pornstarlet is very important. To me that is what makes this whole thing trivial. Personally I think she's a pretty girl, even with her past a a porn star I would probably date her...probably. However what i find amazing is that she's complaining about the guy having issues in the first video, then she goes on and continues messing around with him... I'm wondering if the dude knew anything about her past. If not doesn't that make her just as bad as he is, maybe even worse? Opinions please???
I'll stop typing here, I don't want to get Collin Powell-ed

Why would I ban you?

I'm getting very tired of these false notions.

 

[the flash]

this chick is anoying

 

[lilsexii]

Well...it seems to me that she's really been hurt by her experiences with men, but she trying to con herself into thinking she's regaining power by exposing the men - saying that she doesn't care when she clearly does. In reality, she just looks pitiful. This only diminishes her level of respect in the eyes of others - but respect is where her power lies...in being able to hold her head high - not in how bad she can hurt/embarrass someone else. When she's done - she still hasn't dealt with her own issues, she's still hurt, tragic...and drunk.

I saw her at Strokers a while back...she looked sad just walking around the club - the videos just confirm my first impression.

 

[SuperGenius]

My analysis:

Seems to me she's was a little salty with dude because she felt he played her. I think she gave up the nappy dugout on the first go round, and even though she said he "came up short" she was willing to give him a chance untill she got that phone call and found out that dude got wifey...and especially when wifey quoted dude as saying that (jia) "she's nobody"....don't agree with her puttin him on blast like that though. You are a self proclaimed "intelligent" sista, (which I think she is) so she should have took the high road or atleast kept it "in general".

Personally I have no problems with Jia aka Kina Kara..., and if I saw her in the street i'd push up. She's no different then most women out here except she fucked on video and got paid for it while so called "regular woman" do it behind closed doors (for the most part) and most never receive nothing.

Dudes on here are quick to call her and other porn chicks bitches and hoes cause they saw them perform on video but, behind clolsed doors has had mutiple masturbation sessions watching them. and yet still they call these King/show/eyecandy models and tv/movie actresses dimes and wifey material....little do they know that a lot of them are bigger hoes than the ones they see on video....I guess what u don't know what hurt u.

...and I wonder how many of these same dudes would cut theirs girls/wifeys off if they found out their true sexual history

 

[Harbinger]

First off, funny, thought I was watching "I love New York". As I watched I kept thinking the girl had deeper issues, and was insecure, with serious self esteem problems. If the dude was tryin' to play her (as it appeared), the mans game was extremely weak. She on the other hand shouldn't have gotten so wrapped up in a guy she just who didn't "measure up". I think a couple of other women touched on this.

Her background in porn apparently has an enormous impact on her perspective, and view of men, and if she's all caught up about being honest, this might be something she'd wanna mention.

When you first meet someone, men AND women usually have somebody in the background or on the side. This is the standby, until the right/better person comes along, then they distance themselves from the standby. She may have been his upgrade, but now she'll never know.

 

[Crown&Coke]

If she didnt care she wouldnt have exposed him like that, she would have kept it moving. The other thing I saw wrong with that is: if the dude wasnt packing enough and she knew that from the start, how can she talk shit to him about it and she kept fucking with him for a while? And I find it hard to take her serious doing videos from her mama bathroom. She say she 27 but acting 17. ​

 

[thighsneyez22]

And I find it hard to take her serious doing videos from her mama bathroom. She say she 27 but acting 17. ​

Lets see... ever since this video was posted and even a little before I started to watch the vids one by one... I am not even close to finishing all 155... but I can honestly say this is entertainment to me (is it sad that I know that this is not her mom's house but her she lives with a roomate...her folks live in a whole other state?)

 

[Chicutie]

Hmm. . . so many thoughts about this. . . all I'm gonna say is. . .

 

[Chicutie]

Lets see... ever since this video was posted and even a little before I started to watch the vids one by one... I am not even close to finishing all 155... but I can honestly say this is entertainment to me (is it sad that I know that this is not her mom's house but her she lives with a roomate...her folks live in a whole other state?) ... I am curious as to what the thread starter actually thought about the whole thing... is he holding out or did I just miss it?

This is definitely entertainment!. . . I think it's kinda funny. . I wanna see more.

 

[thighsneyez22]

. . I wanna see more.

Your wish is my command...

The Rules of Fuck Buddy-ism al a Drunker than a Skunk Jia... surprisingly she makes perfect sense.

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[thighsneyez22]

^^^^i turned that shit off at like 1:20......this bitch needs some serious help before she ends up on heroin.

ok....will someone else actually take the time to watch the whole thing... then make a comment?

I admit...she blabs until about 1:40 but thats just exposition... she gets into the real rules after that...

 

[shanebp1978]

I have always had a sneaking suspicion that there are people whom, when they are not talking. There is simply a quite hum in their head.

Because they obviously don't think. Unfortantly, I believe she has spent most of the waking hours of her life with her mouth running, but I am sure when she eats, there is a hum in her head.

I remember sometimes BGOL's response to her would be, " She's hoe, but she makes sense! "

That makes me very sad to the state of affairs with African Americans. To even be able to endure such BASE rants more than a minute, much less find some common ground, or logic . . . that scares me as to the amount of purely ignorant people that are breathing in this country.

I can not fathom being able to claim any relation to such an ignorant and unadvantageous attitude towards life as she possess.

Everything she's talking about, her presentation of herself, her motivations for presenting these meaningless idiotic divinations of events in her life, cause me to place her somewhere slightly below a highly trainable but self unaware animal. Such as a parrot, or German Shepard.

Well . . . scratch that, I have a lot of respect for German Shepards.


In any event. She's about as useless as an asshole, right here . . .

An she is a part of the board BTW.

 

[thighsneyez22]

In any event. She's about as useless as an asshole, right here . . .
.

I get it... she is asinine and anyone who is amused by her is dense... understandable.

I am really curious now... does ANYBODY... anyone at all find her rant about "F Buddy-ism" entertaining?

 

[HoneyBerry]

LOL @ her "fucking on the first night". Shoot, she fucks at first sight. She fucks on cue. WTH is she acting like she's saying something we don't know??

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

I don't think anything is WRONG with sex on the first night...or morning, however I thought the series of vids were interesting. She knew this man had some shortcoming in her opinion yet she still figured she'd "give him a chance". It's ironic how she starts talking about character traits of men with shortcomings etc...etc. I mean if she knew all this stuff already why go down the path?? I will admit my first thought was I winder if this dude knew he was hooking up with a porn star? That's the kind of thing you should tell somebody. Maybe she's used to porn penis, maybe for her regular sized men don't do it. So if this is true maybe she should have let him know she was a professional. He might have had a different kind of interaction with her. In anycase my reason for starting the thread was to see what the ladies thought about her reactions, and the line of events as they play out over theses three vids. It's interesting...very interesting. one thing I noticed, the ladies didn't really read much about her past as a porn star in to her behavior, while on the other side pretty much every reply made some kind of reference to it. It's an interesting comparison of how men see things, and how women see things. Which was the reason I made this post. I've learned something

 

[thighsneyez22]

I've learned something

Boxers...Ive learned something, too. It is quite easy to see the difference of opinion between the men and women... one thing that I would like to know, though, is why... I thought about it and the only thing I can come up with kinda scares me...

Go with me here...

If I were a dude I would put down "hoes" every chance I got... especially if I was a dog... because if we didnt keep these "broads" in check by berating "skank-like" behavior each and everytime we got...we might turn around and one day and be supporting a kids that we thought were our own that really weren't, all because of the normalization of scandalous behavior from these "broads"...."Mommy's baby daddy's maybe" is a B!TCH!

Please forgive my over-simplificationIs that not what it eventually boils down to?... Fear...men wanting to be assured that their offspring is their own based on the categorization of women into either the "chaste" group or the "hoe" group and having a clear separation of roles between the two groups.

**I know that must have been out of left field, but that's the only way I can make sense of these comments from dudes that cannot let down their "hoe-dar"long enough to see the comedy that is this woman's material... I wonder how this conversation might have changed if a man said and did all these things and not a woman. **

 

[shanebp1978]

Who are you? Danny Ray to her James Brown?

Stop tossing the cape on her shoulders.

I read through the responses, no one hardly mentioned her past. There is no discrepancy between male and female answers.

She's as dumb as Souljah boy, or anyone, male or female, promoting some high school, he said, she said, I fucked who, I'ma expose you on the internet laffy taffy bullshit as if this is how ALL BLACK PEOPLE LIVE.

It's embarrassing and sad.

Stop trying to root out some elusive deeper meaning when your in the kiddie pool to begin with!



Seriously?

Boxers...Ive learned something, too. It is quite easy to see the difference of opinion between the men and women... one thing that I would like to know, though, is why... I thought about it and the only thing I can come up with kinda scares me...

Go with me here...

If I were a dude I would put down "hoes" every chance I got... especially if I was a dog... because if we didnt keep these "broads" in check by berating "skank-like" behavior each and everytime we got...we might turn around and one day and be supporting a kids that we thought were our own that really weren't, all because of the normalization of scandalous behavior from these "broads"...."Mommy's baby daddy's maybe" is a B!TCH!

Please forgive my over-simplificationIs that not what it eventually boils down to?... Fear...men wanting to be assured that their offspring is their own based on the categorization of women into either the "chaste" group or the "hoe" group and having a clear separation of roles between the two groups.

**I know that must have been out of left field, but that's the only way I can make sense of these comments from dudes that cannot let down their "hoe-dar"long enough to see the comedy that is this woman's material... I wonder how this conversation might have changed if a man said and did all these things and not a woman. **

 

[thighsneyez22]

I guess u are right Mr Mod... she is in no way shape or form funny.

Back to the kiddie pool I go...

 

[shanebp1978]

I guess u are right Mr Mod... she is in no way shape or form funny.

Back to the kiddie pool I go...

Me being a mod has about as much to do with my opinion, as entertainment with her.



Miss Thighs.