GUYS: So, you meet a woman who is wifey material...

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lilsexii

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She's perfect for you in every way - mentally, physically and spiritually...what would make you say no to marriage?

Too sexually experienced?
Too old?
She has a child(ren)?
She's been married before?
You're not ready?
You don't want to be married?
You don't want children/more children and she does?
Not pretty enough?
Too pretty?
You're already committed to someone else?
You want to play the field a little more?

Also, would you tell her the truth or just ride it out till she gets fed up and leaves?

Just curious...
 
In my case, i'm only 23, so I'm too young to get married. That's why i'd say no.

But going off your list there, i'd have to say, the whole having kids thing would shy me away a bit. Call me old fashioned, but what's mine is mine. And them kids sure as hell aint mine. Don't know if I could look at em without thinking, "they aint my kids" and then look over to mine, and favor them. That divide is detrimental to a happy household I think.
 
Meedaf33 said:
Ladies, No man wants a woman who has slept a lot of men. TRUTH!!:smh:
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So, if that's the ONLY drawback and your sex with her is incredible, that would be enough for you to walk away?

What about that 80/20 thing? ("Why did I get married?")
 
lilsexii said:
Too sexually experienced? nope
Too old? nope
She has a child(ren)? nope
She's been married before? nope
You're not ready? yup
You don't want to be married? n/a
You don't want children/more children and she does? yup
Not pretty enough? nope
Too pretty? nope
You're already committed to someone else? yup
You want to play the field a little more?nope
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when it comes down to it isnt a relationship an compromise in some ways. so some of this wouldnt matter, but the huge think for me is if im not ready thats reason enough no matter how good it is not to go further. And if either of us was committed to someone else then it wouldnt be a relationship that could even ge to this point; why stay with someone that isnt really yours unless its just a matter of convience and benefts?
 
In my case , I'm not married and here is why :
I love my freedom + a little some more , I would say in your answers
"She's been married before"
"You're not ready"
"You don't want to be married"
&"Not pretty enough"...
all that can be a break. :yes:
 
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TOO OLD AND NOT PRETTY ENOUGH FOR ME. I AM VERY INTO THE WAY A WOMAN LOOKS . I KNOW ITS WRONG , BUT I LIKE WHAT I LIKE. THE AGE THING IS COOL FOR A FLING BUT NOT FOR THE LONG RUN. I WOULD LET HER KNOW IF SHE WERE TO OLD WHAT IT IS. I WOULD NOT BE WITH A WOMAN THAT I WAS NOT ATTRACTED TO SO THE OTHER THING DONT MATTER. AS FAR AS KIDS I LOVE EM , SO I DONT CARE IF THEY AINT MINE AS LONG AS SHE RAISES THEM RIGHT AND I HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. BUT THE SECOND THE KID IS OUT OF ORDER AND I HEAR DONT TALK TO MY KID THAT WAY , I AM OUT.

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Too old?
She has a child(ren)?

Might be an issue for me.

Also, no ambition or vision is a deal breaker.

I take marriage seriously so I am picky.

Of course she has to be pretty in my eyes.
 
She has a child(ren)?

More like where the baby daddy at? and what's the relationship between the 2 of them.

...and I would be honest about it
 
lilsexii said:
She's perfect for you in every way - mentally, physically and spiritually...what would make you say no to marriage?


Too old?
She has a child(ren)?
She's been married before?
You're not ready?
Not pretty enough?
You want to play the field a little more?

Also, would you tell her the truth or just ride it out till she gets fed up and leaves?

Just curious...
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If she can stand the truth I'll tell her so but if I feel she can't handle the truth, I"ll let it ride till she gets fed up and leaves.
 
I don't care one way or the other about how experienced she is. It only means she's more comfortable with her body which is by no means a bad thing. Just don't bring me a disease.

The fact of the matter is that I'm still young and I'm playing the field. Also, I'm extremely picky about wifey type women. If this is someone I'm going to chill with on a level above physical, she had better be tight. Everyone has their flaws, but if we're going to be staring each other in the face past 1 or 2 nights have something going for yourself and long term goals, take care of your body, please..please be open to new experiences (sexual or otherwise), be down for me through it all, and most importantly - have a life outside of me - I can't stress that enough. There's nothing worse than a clingy woman. :smh: Do not let a man be the center of your world, let him be a partner and a friend.

The truth comes out if she's willing to listen..sometimes a woman already has her mind made up before a man can open his mouth and that can make it difficult to tell the whole truth.
 
AristotlesOwn said:
I don't care one way or the other about how experienced she is. It only means she's more comfortable with her body which is by no means a bad thing. Just don't bring me a disease.

The fact of the matter is that I'm still young and I'm playing the field. Also, I'm extremely picky about wifey type women. If this is someone I'm going to chill with on a level above physical, she had better be tight. Everyone has their flaws, but if we're going to be staring each other in the face past 1 or 2 nights have something going for yourself and long term goals, take care of your body, please..please be open to new experiences (sexual or otherwise), be down for me through it all, and most importantly - have a life outside of me - I can't stress that enough. There's nothing worse than a clingy woman. :smh: Do not let a man be the center of your world, let him be a partner and a friend.

The truth comes out if she's willing to listen..sometimes a woman already has her mind made up before a man can open his mouth and that can make it difficult to tell the whole truth.
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CHUUURCH.
 
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