all i want is a dude that can love and respect me. treat me good. be loyal and honest. my best friend. and have time for me... thats not to much is it???
No... It is not... But will know how to recognize that man when you meet him is the question…
Thats basically it right there. I was going to write a real true companion. C'est la meme chose.all i want is a dude that can love and respect me. treat me good. be loyal and honest. my best friend. and have time for me... thats not to much is it???
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DANGEROUSBLACKMAN
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maybe I'm wrong...
but I think women want a sucker with money to be their man, a dude on the side to beat it up with no strings attached, and a freaky homegirl who can keep a secret just in case a threesome or some lesbo action goes down...
Yep That Sounds About Right I Know Some Females Just Like That.
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DANGEROUSBLACKMAN
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all i want is a dude that can love and respect me. treat me good. be loyal and honest. my best friend. and have time for me... thats not to much is it???
No That's Not Asking For Much If You Feel That Way Then You Must Be A Nice Person For You To Want A Good Hearted Guy.
I like a man who is an independent thinker and not a "cliche".
I like a man who is cultured and worldly, highly intelligent but loves to laugh. He absolutely must have a good sense of humor.
I do like open-minded men who can think outside the box.
I prefer men who are very driven, work hard and play harder, enjoys the finer things in life, is into fitness, knows that eating out can be more han Taco Bell and isn't afraid to go to the doctor and cares about his health. Oh and he must be well groomed and take care of his appearance. A good sense of style (not the cliche) is always a plus.
He has to be honest, loyal, caring and responsible and family oriented.
Physically, I prefer dark skinned men who are at least 6 ft tall but I've always made accomodations in that respect.
And lastly, he should have some sexual skills and love to eat pussy...if he fucks like Justin Slayer does on screen, I may try to lock him down.
Yeah, you left out age requirement Femme!!
Yeah, you left out age requirement Femme!!
You know me too well.
No... It is not... But will know how to recognize that man when you meet him is the question…
That's real talk Lick. I meditate and pray for clarity above all else. Sometimes we really are blind to the possibilities, because of our internal bs.
No truer words were ever spoken!
I'm tempted to ask you some more questions young lady...
No truer words were ever spoken!
Feel free to PM me anytime.
I'm on the Zen path now,... with just a few pornographic stumbling blocks dotting the road.
Hell, I thought sex was the path to Zen.
No... It is not... But will know how to recognize that man when you meet him is the question…
i think so lol
No That's Not Asking For Much If You Feel That Way Then You Must Be A Nice Person For You To Want A Good Hearted Guy.
i am and i want the same in my man lol
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DANGEROUSBLACKMAN
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You Will Find That Right Person Just Be Patient And He Will Come Along And Be Your Mr. Right.
Must find good dick while walking the middle path, lady grasshoppa.
Consider it done!
Wish granted! 
It goes both ways for this. A lot of men and women have someone that they can genuinely be happy with but they find some little shit thats wrong with them and end it. And then like my mans said on here too a lot of people demand too much sometimes shit that they lacking.
I guess my question to everyone on the board especially the ladies when it comes to their ideal mate is...."How do you know what you want in a mate especially if you've never had it...And by any chance if you have had it WHY didn't you keep it???? In reply "I just know" is not a sufficient answer either......JUST A THOUGHT
Commitment, in it's rightful term, when it's manifested, it is romantic and stellar...
Someone who loves God. Has a great relationship with his family. Has an upbringing similar to mine (preferable) - helps if you can understand where the other is coming from and value family and relationships the same way. Must be open and honest so he can treat me with nothing less than the utmost respect (reciprocal). Must be attractive to ME (not necessarily by society's standards) and sexual compatibility is a MUST. But most of all, we must vibe in a way that we are free to let our guards down and be ourselves around each other. He's gotta be my BFF 
Compassion, sex, family
I feel like we all have seen examples of what we want from other relationships. The only problem with this is that we don't see the other side--the problems that those couples have in their private life. So we may be longing for something that really isn't as it appears.
Also maybe we've had a little bit of what we like in different men and now we're looking for all of the important qualities in one man.
For me, I know what I want in a mate from the experiences I've had in relationships. I take things away from the relationships I've had...meaning I know of the things I liked in the relationships and some of the things I didn't like.
As far as why I didn't keep the ones I did like - you don't know what you had until its gone and you've run into someone who is opposite of the one you lost and/or left.
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