My Ex had a black Eye!!! (No-LOL)

aint nobody, i mean aint nobody above an ass whooping.
i dont know where black women get this attitude that they
can attack a man and not get a smack.

out of all the animals on the face of the earth, every female
respects the power of the male. only one animal choose
to ago against her male counterpart-- that is the black woman.

yall black women better learn some respect from the discovery channel.

:confused: wolf packs, those meerkat things, elephants etc...

And all women are argumentative to a degree. Maybe youve only dealt with black women .
 
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this pic reminds me of an old joke a coworker once told..." what do you say to a woman with two black eyes ?...............answer: nothing, you already told her twice. i know its in bad taste.
 
Many of us who have sisters know.

My sister had to have the last word knowing my mother was
gonna pop her dead in her mouth.

She used to go through the motions to prove she was right.

We have all seen women/people who are dead ass wrong but
stand behind the fucked up things they do.

That same woman goes and gets married and she does not
change and you can't call her mother to correct her.:smh:

I never liked arguing.

I was only with 1 that this problem occurred.
 
What you was should have done was mentioned her eye to her like,"DAMN...what the fuck happened to you?"The reason is to let her know.You said it yourself,she put you through some shit.Y'all niggas got to stop letting these hoes off the hook.I had a bitch who fuck around on me with a cop.And that bitch threw it in my face every chance she got.Until, she got pregnant and the nigga bounced.Now the bitch is calling my sister,trying to find out what's up with me and shit.When I finally saw the bitch after she had the baby,this hoe was 30lbs heavier and looked 10 years older.All I could do is laugh at that hoe.I went it on her that bitch with no remorse.And that's the problem with you SWEETBACK ASS NIGGAS.Stop with that Ralph Tresvant "Sensivity" bullshit.For real,Cut that SUCKER FOR LOVE shit out because a Bitch will get killed out here,my nigga.CHUUCH!!!:cool:
 
Sorry I should have been more clear..What do you, as a woman, think of the actions brought on by the women who ultimately end up in a situation such as Thick was describing? When does a woman become somewhat culpable for what transpires in an abuse situation?

Reason Im asking is because we all know in some abuse situations, someone got provoked which led to someone else getting their ass beat down...you have already stated that respect should always be present (which I agree with)regardless of disagreements in relationships but you make it seem like women have a no fault policy when it comes to domestic abuse situations and that us men should keep our hands by our side when the woman gets "out of pocket"..thats where it seems like you and other people who have commented in this thread seem to be in disagreement about...I agree that if it comes to a point where physical violence is a thought that crosses the persons mind due to a "mouthy female" then its time to get out of dodge and leave her to her own devices..when a female threatens my person then thats when force is warranted...questions and thoughts at the same time...

I don't believe violence is the answer. If she doesn't raise a finger, then you don't raise a finger.

Sounds pretty simple to me.
 
How do you know she was getting what was coming to her? And when does having a smart lip warrant a beatdown?

If that's the case, 90% of BGOL should be in IC fuckin U.


Most of the time a women with a smart lip does alot more than just talk shit....they scratch up cars...put hands on you trying to bait you to snap and fuck them up...call the cops on you for no reason...ect... and they think they can do ALL this shit WITHOUT repercussions...that is until they get their ass checked...now real men dont snap and fuck them up but there are the weak dudes who will knock that chick out....what goes around comes around...heres a short example...true story....

two parents are arguing over feeding the baby...father want the mother(who talks shit all the time and more) to nurse the baby ...mother not wanting to father asks 8 yr old daughter (who is in the living room playing with her 6yr old cousin who father is also in the living room[and who is also the cousin of the mother]) to get a bottle from the fridge so he can feed the baby...mother trips talking bout 'no' trys to snatch up baby from the father....father tell mother to chill he got this and gets uyp with the baby....mother goes into the kitches and comes out with a knife raised up and goes toward the father WHILE HE IS HOLDING THE BABY....father get mother to put doiwn the knife ...SHE calls the cops on the father and they come and end up arresting her ass for felony assault.....charges got dropped after they made her go through counsiling.......she aint acted up since
 
Most of the time a women with a smart lip does alot more than just talk shit....they scratch up cars...put hands on you trying to bait you to snap and fuck them up...call the cops on you for no reason...ect... and they think they can do ALL this shit WITHOUT repercussions...that is until they get their ass checked...now real men dont snap and fuck them up but there are the weak dudes who will knock that chick out....what goes around comes around...heres a short example...true story....

two parents are arguing over feeding the baby...father want the mother(who talks shit all the time and more) to nurse the baby ...mother not wanting to father asks 8 yr old daughter (who is in the living room playing with her 6yr old cousin who father is also in the living room[and who is also the cousin of the mother]) to get a bottle from the fridge so he can feed the baby...mother trips talking bout 'no' trys to snatch up baby from the father....father tell mother to chill he got this and gets uyp with the baby....mother goes into the kitches and comes out with a knife raised up and goes toward the father WHILE HE IS HOLDING THE BABY....father get mother to put doiwn the knife ...SHE calls the cops on the father and they come and end up arresting her ass for felony assault.....charges got dropped after they made her go through counsiling.......she aint acted up since


That is a totally different situation. She started with the violent act (which again, I am totally against) by picking up the knife.

Arguing is no reason to hit anyone, whether you are male or female.
 
That is a totally different situation. She started with the violent act (which again, I am totally against) by picking up the knife.

Arguing is no reason to hit anyone, whether you are male or female.


NOT a totally different situation...we are talking about women who (to put it in lamens terms) be tripping too much...the same mother described in the second part of my post ...is the same female who did the things i described in the 1st part of my post...im going to put it in perspective for you.....after she scratch up dude's (which he had just bought) car HER mother told dude and I quote "i'm surprised you didn't beat her ass"...her SISTER said the same thing after the knife incident...think about that...her mom AND sister said this...now dude aint put no hands on her.....but if he did...he would have been in the right to do so:yes:...i dont condone men hitting women but just because she got a pussy and some titties doesnt mean she cant get fucked up when warranted. In her case it took her catching a case to wisen up...she got lucky it could have been worse
 
Not warranted but inevitable like a dude going around talking
shit to random people....

Sooner or later.............Boom!!


exactly!

i feel u tho

she talked shit to the wrong person

as much as you wouldve loved to slap the shit outta her, u didnt

a human is a human, i never beat a female but once or twice the same female

made me wanna fuck her up, and what i noticed is when i had those feelings

i wasnt thinking of the female as a female anymore, she was just another person

some females love pushing those buttons, almost as if they momma taught em that shit

wtf is that about, even if shit is all good a female will always ruin it
 
So the fact that you have 5 brothers means you can "run game" and talk "sideways" to men folk because you got your own personal security force to get yo fanny out of a bind? Oh I get it.... you should realize that your brothers ain't got nothing to do with your interactions with men..... some sisters jeopardize their male siblings every time they get in a bind because of they mouth.

I got a sister that lives/used to live by this logic, gotta real nasty attitude, alwaysfinding something to argue with the man in her life about. The first time he put his hands on her with came to the rescue and handled everything but a few days later saw her right back with him and few days after that she's calling again. We did the samething as the first time and just like the first time she went right back, after that we was like fuck this shit. She stayed with dude for another few months and then finally left. She has started dating another guy and used to come brag to her other sisters for like 3 months about how she slapped or punched him when they got to arguing about something has even done it in public. One day i go over to my sisters house and see her sleep on the couch, i ask my sister what she's doing there and she says she left the dude because he acted like he wanted to hit her and NO WAY SHE WAS GONNA BE WITH A GUY THAT ABUSES WOMEN:eek:.
 
That is a totally different situation. She started with the violent act (which again, I am totally against) by picking up the knife.

Arguing is no reason to hit anyone, whether you are male or female.

You need to stop with all this text book human interaction stuff. You know good and well that depending on the person/situation that words can set off a physical response. You can't tell me that from a child on up that you haven't been involved in a situation where someone said something to you that made you fight them. It all comes down to the person, dude was cool enough to not let her words get to him but whoever gave her that black eye wasn't.
 
You need to stop with all this text book human interaction stuff. You know good and well that depending on the person/situation that words can set off a physical response. You can't tell me that from a child on up that you haven't been involved in a situation where someone said something to you that made you fight them. It all comes down to the person, dude was cool enough to not let her words get to him but whoever gave her that black eye wasn't.


I never had a physical altercation in my life.

Once I put some little punk ass bully in a wrestling lock that I can't even remember the name, when he tried to bust into my apartment back in the day in Brooklyn. I threw him out and the next day, the whole neighborhood called him a pussy. That was the end of that.
 
I don't have anything to go by except what I read hon. And that does not mean I know you. I simply don't.

What I do know is that there are decent dudes around but that's not the issue. What I do know is that you stated:

"Even though this woman made me want to beat her ass many times
I broke down once and snatched her up and threw her on the bed."

IMO, this gives the indication that you feel that a violent response is warranted
.



Femm, were cool, but in some cases it is. A dude should never put his hands on a women, not his fault shes reckless with the lips, but if it was a dude talkin the way some chicks do, they would get 150 stitches on their face. Chicks just like to pop off because they know the man isnt gonna hit them. I had a chick I was dealin with, who had a mean temper, we were playfighting in the car and I guess I hit her too hard, this bitch felt the need to kick over the center console, the car cut off, I look down on the floor and I see may keys layin there. This bitch had kicked the keys and broke the bitch off in the ignition. Had that been a dude I may have went to jail. Prime example. I was really this fucking close to playin A Pimp named Slickback and going upside that bitches head. No not all women are bitches, just the bitches.
 
I read his shit like 3 times after I saw this response... Did he edit his post or something, cause I see no delight in his post...
:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:

I'm glad you pointed this out D cause I was starting to think I can't read plain English can someone explain to us the delight part because I've read the post several times and I just don't see it......or maybe part of the post was deleted/edited........ ohhhh !!!!! it's one of those things where you hide it from the lurkers..... my bad.
 
peace
.................................................If yall would start dealing with better quality men it wouldnt
be so fucking hard to believe there are decent dudes out here
.
The Gospel
Am & Got TIRED if preaching, yelling & telling that EXACT lesson to this bird that same shit who'se just a friend;
all that having to hear that boo hooing and feeling lonely over wack ass niggas theyve chosen to pick in their lives doesnt affect me anymore since its a self fulfilling prophecy pf sprts when some actually knew better;

Sounds like a fucked up experience, Fam but @ least she aint call u in the middle of the night, driving in her convertable after her current man just choked her up ( & not in no erotic, freak type way either), asking Me, "Am I THAT Bad??" while crying; same with you, only hit when playfighting got too rough and got out the way when she tried to swing one time; never had or did lay no goon hand on her; the fucked up shit was her pops killed her Moms then himself back in the day

had another Ex who had all the mouth and used to flinch since she used to catch backhands from her drug dealing boyfriend from way back in the day when younger; heard her ass got choked up by police picketing or some shit during some strike shit @ job;

used all types of verbal judo with her to diffuse her dramatic ass, saving all that extra energy for where it belonged;

I think chickneeded me to check her silly ass but wasnt trying to take it down that path of fucking tomfoolery but did have to lireally put chick over my knee one time and spank that spoiled ass for all the times she aint catch it as a younging; Crazy assed shit as chick was bawling, calling me Daddy later on

Not even trying to take it down ill paths like that anymore
Fuck that

peace
 
I never had a physical altercation in my life.

Once I put some little punk ass bully in a wrestling lock that I can't even remember the name, when he tried to bust into my apartment back in the day in Brooklyn. I threw him out and the next day, the whole neighborhood called him a pussy. That was the end of that.

Now THAT'S funny!
 
Problem with most black women is they don't realize that when you pick a scab, it's gonna bleed. I don't advocate violence against anyone, but the fact remains that sooner or later smart mouth women run into dudes who will crack that jaw. Even though it may not be "right" it's satisfying and well deserved. Words can be just as damaging as any other weapon.
Check out Diary Of A Tired Black Man.
COSIGN!!!!
 
You obviously think you can say whatever you want to a man and then run hide behind the cops. Your mouth is a weapon. Some brothas use their wepons: their meat hooks. And when you get out of pocket....well, you know the rest. Why would you poke a sleeping lion? Why can't ya'll ever learn to shut your mouths?
Yes, yes, it's a free country and you can say what you want. Just be prepared for the blowback. Don't let your mouth write no check your ass can't cash.
TRUE THAT
 
Problem with most black women is they don't realize that when you pick a scab, it's gonna bleed. I don't advocate violence against anyone, but the fact remains that sooner or later smart mouth women run into dudes who will crack that jaw. Even though it may not be "right" it's satisfying and well deserved. Words can be just as damaging as any other weapon.
Check out Diary Of A Tired Black Man.

co sign... i don't advocate violence either, but some women take things to far with their smart ass mouth (even though they are wrong, twist shit, and some even have the nerve to attack a guy first WTF?????
 
aint nobody, i mean aint nobody above an ass whooping.
i dont know where black women get this attitude that they
can attack a man and not get a smack.

out of all the animals on the face of the earth, every female
respects the power of the male. only one animal choose
to ago against her male counterpart-- that is the black woman.

yall black women better learn some respect from the discovery channel.
COSIGN
 
I never had a physical altercation in my life.

Once I put some little punk ass bully in a wrestling lock that I can't even remember the name, when he tried to bust into my apartment back in the day in Brooklyn. I threw him out and the next day, the whole neighborhood called him a pussy. That was the end of that.

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[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/bF7HzoGb8hk&rel=1[/FLASH]

Ms. Ex Thick Johnson!:D
 
What you was should have done was mentioned her eye to her like,"DAMN...what the fuck happened to you?"The reason is to let her know.You said it yourself,she put you through some shit.Y'all niggas got to stop letting these hoes off the hook.I had a bitch who fuck around on me with a cop.And that bitch threw it in my face every chance she got.Until, she got pregnant and the nigga bounced.Now the bitch is calling my sister,trying to find out what's up with me and shit.When I finally saw the bitch after she had the baby,this hoe was 30lbs heavier and looked 10 years older.All I could do is laugh at that hoe.I went it on her that bitch with no remorse.And that's the problem with you SWEETBACK ASS NIGGAS.Stop with that Ralph Tresvant "Sensivity" bullshit.For real,Cut that SUCKER FOR LOVE shit out because a Bitch will get killed out here,my nigga.CHUUCH!!!:cool:
COSIGN
 
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Ms. Ex Thick Johnson!:D
:smh: IF he would of been beating the fat bitch ass do u think the cops would of kept going?But it seems ok to as long as shes beating on him.
 
I wouldn't wish abuse on anyone. You should have just kept on movin and not even acknowledge her.. Especially with the drama you said you had with her
 
My man got with this chick that just moved around his way but she was talking to another dude in NY. They were talking for a month but he didn't hit because she was still with dude and she was his sister's friend from school. He put the pressure on her to break up with dude and stop traveling out to NY every few days. She did but she went out there one last time to tell him it was over. Next thing we know she shows up to his house with a black eye - boarded up and closed for business. She wanted us to ride for her on the ex but I was like I will call him up and cuss him out like you should have done.

Sidenote: 'The fuck I look like driving 45 minutes to NY so I can get a jammy too - we would have been 18-30 deep back then but I know I would have been the first to get hit with my main man's shoulder popping out of socket in the first few punches. Dude in the story above was the first one to throw a punch and then go diving into the crowd to followup on the dude he hit - no matter how many of us it was or how big the dude was. He would just pick the dude with the most mouth and steal on him. Next thing I know is I get a couple punches in or on and me and my man are getting pulled out of the crowd so the bigger dudes could do damage.
 
My man got with this chick that just moved around his way but she was talking to another dude in NY. They were talking for a month but he didn't hit because she was still with dude and she was his sister's friend from school. He put the pressure on her to break up with dude and stop traveling out to NY every few days. She did but she went out there one last time to tell him it was over. Next thing we know she shows up to his house with a black eye - boarded up and closed for business. She wanted us to ride for her on the ex but I was like I will call him up and cuss him out like you should have done.

Sidenote: 'The fuck I look like driving 45 minutes to NY so I can get a jammy too - we would have been 18-30 deep back then but I know I would have been the first to get hit with my main man's shoulder popping out of socket in the first few punches. Dude in the story above was the first one to throw a punch and then go diving into the crowd to followup on the dude he hit - no matter how many of us it was or how big the dude was. He would just pick the dude with the most mouth and steal on him. Next thing I know is I get a couple punches in or on and me and my man are getting pulled out of the crowd so the bigger dudes could do damage.

oooooooook???:confused:
 
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