My Ex had a black Eye!!! (No-LOL)

[NativeSon]

Ok....so that makes you....a lonely ass 18yr old virgin. Your at your house, on a Thursday night, sitting on a board board, calling another man a simp, because he has feelings for a chick he was clearly in a long term relationship with. I see that you have never been in love or in a serious relationship before.

As a human being you will always feel remorse for something, its just nature. be it fucked up or deserved. If a nigga beat you ass and then the next day that same nigga was hit by a mack truck and became parallelized, you would feel sorry for him, because he is parallelized, but you wouldn't offer to push him across the street...now by doing that , you become a simp in my book...when you get to the point some of us men are at , then you will understand. Master the Padawan , before coming at a jedi...

who u tryin to impress homie? y are YOU catching feelings over it? i mean, u real quick to get personal. callin me this n that. did someone give YOU a black eye?

 

[kwazdog]

u sound like a simp....SOUNDS like she got what was coming to her.

maybe so... but every straight ninja has had one or two that had they nose wide open. You live and you learn..... You don't wanna see any of your friends, family or former lovers abused in any way... even if you hate the bitch...I got a few I hate but I would never wanna see them fucked up....But thats life....inevitably karma is a bitch..

 

[knightmelodic]

You obviously think you can say whatever you want to a man and then run hide behind the cops. Your mouth is a weapon. Some brothas use their wepons: their meat hooks. And when you get out of pocket....well, you know the rest. Why would you poke a sleeping lion? Why can't ya'll ever learn to shut your mouths?
Yes, yes, it's a free country and you can say what you want. Just be prepared for the blowback. Don't let your mouth write no check your ass can't cash.

 

[Mr chase]

Yea, as much as I love my ex, the last time i ran into her with a black eye, I was just like "yea, someone finally did her right" Bitch had a mouth like nothing else, I just knew how to ignore her which drove her ass crazy

 

[kwazdog]

Oh so am I going to end up with a black eye now?

Stop being all sensitive and anti-polar... the fam on bgol got your back... we aint that nigga that hit you boo. see this is that shit Im talking about... how are you twisting this up in your mind? Relax darlin... Dont displace your feelings about that nigga/boy that hit you onto the fam...

 

[elchoccolatte]

 

[kwazdog]

I don't have anything to go by except what I read hon. And that does not mean I know you. I simply don't.

What I do know is that there are decent dudes around but that's not the issue. What I do know is that you stated:

"Even though this woman made me want to beat her ass many times
I broke down once and snatched her up and threw her on the bed."

IMO, this gives the indication that you feel that a violent response is warranted.

Da fuck! O.M.G PLEASE DONT TELL ME THE FEMALE LOGIC IS THAT TWISTED/SKEWED... HE MADE LOVE TO HER INSTEAD OF GIVING HATE!!!

God... you sounding like some of my crazy ex-girlfriends! Dont think fem.... just let love flow thru your heart.. sit back and let the positive brothers lead you righteously... your statements are supporting the idea that women dont need to be in leadership roles....logic is not your strength and thats ok...

 

[babalou]

 

[Thick Johnson]

Shit.

The anger management classes that I had to go to because of her
were really an asset to my marriage.

Sad

 

[crazyace718]

You make it sound like you dont condone beating women and even emphasized how you shoved your ex but never struck her. Its weird how happy you sound about her having that black eye. You might as well have gave it to her yourself.

 

[seagramsg]

Oh so am I going to end up with a black eye now?

 

[jwilliam85]

Da fuck! O.M.G PLEASE DONT TELL ME THE FEMALE LOGIC IS THAT TWISTED/SKEWED... HE MADE LOVE TO HER INSTEAD OF GIVING HATE!!!

God... you sounding like some of my crazy ex-girlfriends! Dont think fem.... just let love flow thru your heart.. sit back and let the positive brothers lead you righteously... your statements are supporting the idea that women dont need to be in leadership roles....logic is not your strength and thats ok...

femm always seemed cool from what I read but for some reason it seems like sometimes she be talking sideways about the brothers. Like a nigga punched her in the eye and left her ass for a white girl.

 

[BLK FIRE!!!]

You've taken delight.

That is what is sad.

I don't think it's sad that he, "may", have taken joy into her getting her azz whump! I just think it's karma visiting in on her azz and we as men enjoy seeing karma com back on anyone who is deservant of it both male and female. I work part-time at the county 911 data base in Cuyahoga county (Cleveland, O) and I take hundreds of calls a day from woman who have just been "touched-up" as my daddy would say and these females be talking real short to they dudes when they think the law is coming. 45 mins. later, when the dudes figure out that the law ain't nowhere near, boy it be a completely different phone call the 2nd time they call back. I'm just sayin.....

 

[Thick Johnson]

You make it sound like you dont condone beating women and even emphasized how you shoved your ex but never struck her. Its weird how happy you sound about her having that black eye. You might as well have gave it to her yourself.

Another female twisting words and guessing wrong feelings?

If I didnt give a fuck Id post these pics like these clown nigs be doin to their exes.

 

[femmenoire]

Stop being all sensitive and anti-polar... the fam on bgol got your back... we aint that nigga that hit you boo. see this is that shit Im talking about... how are you twisting this up in your mind? Relax darlin... Dont displace your feelings about that nigga/boy that hit you onto the fam...

I've never been hit hon. I have 5 brothers and even a minor threat to my person would bring wrath.

Da fuck! O.M.G PLEASE DONT TELL ME THE FEMALE LOGIC IS THAT TWISTED/SKEWED... HE MADE LOVE TO HER INSTEAD OF GIVING HATE!!!

God... you sounding like some of my crazy ex-girlfriends! Dont think fem.... just let love flow thru your heart.. sit back and let the positive brothers lead you righteously... your statements are supporting the idea that women dont need to be in leadership roles....logic is not your strength and thats ok...

You a funny dude Kwaz.

 

[femmenoire]

Like a nigga punched her in the eye and left her ass for a white girl.

Maybe in some nigg*r's fantasy.

 

[elchoccolatte]

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

aint nobody, i mean aint nobody above an ass whooping.
i dont know where black women get this attitude that they
can attack a man and not get a smack.

out of all the animals on the face of the earth, every female
respects the power of the male. only one animal choose
to ago against her male counterpart-- that is the black woman.

yall black women better learn some respect from the discovery channel.

negro please.

Dont generalize all black women because not all of us do that

 

[pantha266]

Domestic Violence is not funny, but......

 

[Punch]

Dont know ya situation bruh, but some women have taken that ..."No matter what you dont hit a lady" rhetoric to the Extreme and I for one completely believe that...however as a byproduct of that theyre on some invincible ish..,but always put themselves in a situation where they are either behaving like a bitch or a crazy ass dude and then they get handled in kind...,and your ex possibly due to her lack of training or preparation (some of which is your fault) ran into a dude or (broad nowadays) that was simply not having that mouth.

Im of the opinion ...regardless of gender dont do or say anything to me you wouldnt say or do to a total stranger...cause u might treated you like a total stranger.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

The smoothest punk move I heard of recently, was the dude called the cops first, claiming he was being assaulted, then hung up and beat the woman, after the fact. She never threw a punch, slap, or kick, just all shit talk and covered with bruises and scratches, a concussion & took the rap for domestic violence and battery...

 

[DJB10]

Oh Shit!!!!!!!!! Isn't It Those Little Hands Of Theirs That Have The Hardest Punch???

but to stick to the point, i have this discussion w/ women all the time, NO ONE deserves to be hit, BUT IT MAY HAPPEN. women always say that because men are physically stronger & built differently that we should know better than to hit a woman. but if you know that, why would you put yourself in a position where you may catch a beat down. it's like women go to gunfights w/ sticks & rocks

 

[femmenoire]

aint nobody, i mean aint nobody above an ass whooping.
i dont know where black women get this attitude that they
can attack a man and not get a smack.

out of all the animals on the face of the earth, every female
respects the power of the male. only one animal choose
to ago against her male counterpart-- that is the black woman.

yall black women better learn some respect from the discovery channel.

WRONG AGAIN

Lionesses will band together and kill a lion in defense of their cubs.

And while this is rare, the black widow will kill and eat a male black widow after mating.

And why do you think there is such a thing as the Queen Bee?


Recognize.

 

[Electric Relaxation]

WRONG AGAIN

Lionesses will band together and kill a lion in defense of their cubs.

And while this is rare, the black widow will kill and eat a male black widow after mating.

And why do you think there is such a thing as the Queen Bee?


Recognize.

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[femmenoire]

You need a nap?

 

[kwazdog]

I've never been hit hon. I have 5 brothers and even a minor threat to my person would bring wrath.



You a funny dude Kwaz.

I may be "funny", but I aint no "funny style ninja", but you don't "hear" me tho... So the fact that you have 5 brothers means you can "run game" and talk "sideways" to men folk because you got your own personal security force to get yo fanny out of a bind? Oh I get it.... you should realize that your brothers ain't got nothing to do with your interactions with men..... some sisters jeopardize their male siblings every time they get in a bind because of they mouth. A conscious woman don't ever need to be rescued because of her mouth.....A conscious woman would be out before it got to that point "physical violence"... but you don't hear me tho....just keep skeet skirtin around the jew-wells I'm droppin.

 

[femmenoire]

miss, the key word in your response is: "in defense of their cubs."
are black women defending themselves by initiating a physical fight with men???

furthermore, in my previous statement, i said the strength of animals... do you know the difference between a bee and a mammal????

for future references, dont twist your words with me. i went to school for a reason: to shut black women like you down!!!! pick the next black man who doesnt have a clue about rhetoric!

See there you go assuming. Who is picking a fight? That is not what the OP mentioned hon.

 

[kwazdog]

Dont know ya situation bruh, but some women have taken that ..."No matter what you dont hit a lady" rhetoric to the Extreme and I for one completely believe that...however as a byproduct of that theyre on some invincible ish..,but always put themselves in a situation where they are either behaving like a bitch or a crazy ass dude and then they get handled in kind...,and your ex possibly due to her lack of training or preparation (some of which is your fault) ran into a dude or (broad nowadays) that was simply not having that mouth.

Im of the opinion ...regardless of gender don't do or say anything to me you wouldnt say or do to a total stranger...cause u might treated you like a total stranger.

Co Fuckin Sign!...

If you only think about yourself, don't be surprised when thats all you have.

No man/woman is an Island huh? If you burn all of your bridges what have you become? A deserted island!

 

[femmenoire]

I may be "funny", but I aint no "funny style ninja", but you don't "hear" me tho... So the fact that you have 5 brothers means you can "run game" and talk "sideways" to men folk because you got your own personal security force to get yo fanny out of a bind? Oh I get it.... you should realize that your brothers ain't got nothing to do with your interactions with men..... some sisters jeopardize their male siblings every time they get in a bind because of they mouth. A conscious woman don't ever need to be rescued because of her mouth.....A conscious woman would be out before it got to that point "physical violence"... but you don't hear me tho....just keep skeet skirtin around the jew-wells I'm droppin.

First of all I believe in respecting all humans. I gives a fuck about your sex, age, race, religion or creed when it comes to that. Perhaps that's what separates me from the rest of the mongrels.

 

[brohammus]

move on man, just move on. find a real woman that will love you, and put that girl in your PAST. and leave her there.

 

[femmenoire]

move on man, just move on. find a real woman that will love you, and put that girl in your PAST. and leave her there.

Now someone gets it.

 

[cbm_redux]

You must not have a kid by her. I don't care how much I have, at times, hated by ex, if a nigga had put his hands on her, and it got back to me, I'd have reverted to the Eastside and made him dig his own grave.

 

[UniqueStyles82]

The only thing I would have done differently in Thicks situation was just give her the "wassup...how are you...cool(while noticing the eye)" and keep it moving...fuck a hug and all that unnecessary shit...He aint a simp for what he did though...but yeah karma does come back full circle so stepped out there with someone and someone put her back into her place...I absolutely dont condone hitting a woman and never would but I have to agree that some women (just like some men) love drama, infact thrive on it and live it to the fullest...fuck that if a chick gonna be mouthy with me Im going to do like the other poster said and straight up ignore her...and if it persists then the relationship is over...like I always say Im getting to old for the bullshit and drama queens(never had to deal with it yet thank god)...peace out...I just have a question for femme...what do you think about the womans actions in Thicks case or any scenario similar?

 

[femmenoire]

The only thing I would have done differently in Thicks situation was just give her the "wassup...how are you...cool(while noticing the eye)" and keep it moving...fuck a hug and all that unnecessary shit...He aint a simp for what he did though...but yeah karma does come back full circle so stepped out there with someone and someone put her back into her place...I absolutely dont condone hitting a woman and never would but I have to agree that some women (just like some men) love drama, infact thrive on it and live it to the fullest...fuck that if a chick gonna be mouthy with me Im going to do like the other poster said and straight up ignore her...and if it persists then the relationship is over...like I always say Im getting to old for the bullshit and drama queens(never had to deal with it yet thank god)...peace out...I just have a question for femme...what do you think about the womans actions in Thicks case or any scenario similar?

What actions are you referring to sweetie?

 

[UniqueStyles82]

What actions are you referring to sweetie?

Sorry I should have been more clear..What do you, as a woman, think of the actions brought on by the women who ultimately end up in a situation such as Thick was describing? When does a woman become somewhat culpable for what transpires in an abuse situation?

Reason Im asking is because we all know in some abuse situations, someone got provoked which led to someone else getting their ass beat down...you have already stated that respect should always be present (which I agree with)regardless of disagreements in relationships but you make it seem like women have a no fault policy when it comes to domestic abuse situations and that us men should keep our hands by our side when the woman gets "out of pocket"..thats where it seems like you and other people who have commented in this thread seem to be in disagreement about...I agree that if it comes to a point where physical violence is a thought that crosses the persons mind due to a "mouthy female" then its time to get out of dodge and leave her to her own devices..when a female threatens my person then thats when force is warranted...questions and thoughts at the same time...