What’s the one thing that turns YOU off about a chick?

[DJCandle]

It don’t matter how bad the bitch is, there’s always 1 or 2 things that send you in the opposite direction and folks lookin at you sideways.

Mines gotta be:

1. Bunions

2. Hygiene

I’ve seen brothas mess with girls with bunions before and I’ve heard that many love diving into the twattiest of twat cheeses.

Idgaf if it’s Beyoncé or whoever. If these two things ain’t up to scratch, I’m out the door.

How about you?

 

[doe moe]

I like petite women, most big women are a turn off for me.

A woman's dress size is the very first hurdle before I consider other attributes.

My preference is this womans size and smaller.

 

[alexw]

1. tats
2. weave

 

[havelcok]

when they put on baby voice

 

[knightmelodic]

There are a few but generally, I find the outside reflects the inside. So if the chick is overweight, feet fucked, personal hygiene lacking etc that'll do it.

If you're not interested in taking care of yourself then I want no part of that sinkhole. Those kinds of people are serenity vampires; they'll drain you dry if you let them.

 

[nworba]

Before we get to how she smells up close and whether she has bunions that you may not see initially, she turns me off if, when we talk, she is loud and vulgar and laughs loudly. Oh, one more thing. Them big ass eyelashes are a turn-off. I went to a Christmas party with a blind date a few years back and while she didn't have those big lashes, she was loud and vulgar. I was immediately sickened.

 

[fwillia]

Substance abuse issues
A chaotic/drama-filled lifestyle

 

[yureeka9]

List is way too long and the older I get the longer the list gets. Any of these could be #1 under the right conditions:

• Weave
• Hygiene
• Entitlement
• Ratchetness
• Being overly religious

 

[dwayne1376]

List is way too long and the older I get the longer the list gets. Any of these could be #1 under the right conditions:

• Weave
• Hygiene
• Entitlement
• Ratchetness
• Being overly religious

All of this.. And LOUD!! I cant stand loud people.. Im okay with a subtle weave. lol

 

[Database Error]

After I fuck. I just be done with chicks.

 

[PsiBorg]

I look at a woman's finger nails. If she has long nails, I know she's not going to help me do anything.

If her nails are busted up, chipped paint, or all of that gaudy glitter and lego shit... she can keep stepping. I wont be interested in her at all.

I don't want any of that shit falling into my food.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

when they put on baby voice

Shorty sounds like Lou Rawls most of the time but they usually hit the baby voice when they’re about to start some shit. You let them know that “That voice is back” and you kind of let them know not only are you prepared for their storm, you know they’re in a fighting mood because you haven’t nutted in their throat recently.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Used to date a woman in the late-2000s who was a heavy smoker. That wasn't much fun.

 

[Hey Julian!]

Smelly pussy is a given so that's not even a thing that needs to be said. I'm not turned on by feet so, I'm not looking at them as a turn off point in particular unless they just look totally jacked up and I notice. Otherwise in most conditions feet don't bother me.

For me: Weave, wigs, and too much make-up. I can't stand that shit. If you look significantly different in the morning. I can't trust yo ass is the vibe I get.

 

[catdaddy]

Attitude and tats.

 

[Dr. Truth]

When they fart
When they take shits
Bad breath

 

[God's Gift]

Lack of class
Lack of intelligence
Lack of social intelligence
Being fat
Immaturity in any way
Weave
Fake toe nails

 

[deputy dawg]

To me, feet only matter when she's in Pussy & Toes pose.

This is some N.Y. Jets running back FULL BACK shit tho~

Tats - still a novelty to me.
I take the challenge to have her let me "take it all in visually".


The turn off is LOUD & IGNANT!!

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

My Wife Is Lazier Than the Most Detached Do-Nothing Dad. But I’ve Discovered It’s So Much Worse Than That.

She said she wanted to be a mom. Did she?

slate.com

 

[HellBoy]

I have a list, but my top turn offs are:

• Nasty Mouth (Literally and figuratively)
  • Busted or vulgar is a non-starter
• Too small or too big
  • I like women 5'7 - 6' (140 to 160lbs)

 

[yureeka9]

Lack of class
Lack of intelligence
Lack of social intelligence
Being fat
Immaturity in any way
Weave
Fake toe nails

Wait, fake toe nails is a thing now?????

 

[God's Gift]

Wait, fake toe nails is thing now?????

I've fucked alot of women.

Telling the real from the fake was easy, however these American women now have a HATRED of being natural or working in the gym.

Fake hair
Makeup
Tooth veneers
Facial implants
Breast implants
Booty lifts
Liposuction
Mommy makeovers
Microderm ablasions
Fake toe nails

Meanwhile as a man, you can't have a fake diamond earring, or Rolex or even eat dessert when out on a date that you're paying for as you'll risk be called zesty.

 

[pookie]

Before we get to how she smells up close and whether she has bunions that you may not see initially, she turns me off if, when we talk, she is loud and vulgar and laughs loudly. Oh, one more thing. Them big ass eyelashes are a turn-off. I went to a Christmas party with a blind date a few years back and while she didn't have those big lashes, she was loud and vulgar. I was immediately sickened.

All of this.. And LOUD!! I cant stand loud people.. Im okay with a subtle weave. lol

I have a list, but my top turn offs are:

• Nasty Mouth (Literally and figuratively)
  
  • Busted or vulgar is a non-starter
• Too small or too big
  • I like women 5'7 - 6' (140 to 160lbs)

I don't care how fine she is I can't stand a vulgar and loud talking woman, add bad attitude to that list too, but loud and vulgar tops the list. When I say vulgar I mean all that cursing and the sexual talk, women these days have no filter and will talk about how good their pussy and head is, I told a young chick at work that if me and a woman have never had sex then that type of talk is a turn off to me

 

[Tdot_firestarta]

A lot of stuff listed in the thread already...

on a superficial/appearance level, I fucked with plenty of ballet dancers, track & field sprinters, cheerleaders, crossfit competitors etc. who can have some pretty hardworking injured feet so that don't bother me too much unless she's completely neglectful with taking care of them.

other ones...

Pale skin
bad skin/acne
Tattoos
Bad Wigs/weaves
flat asses
No Calves - straight up and down calves looking like Peg legs
a completely sedentary, sloppy body with no muscle tone
smoking
excessive drinking
Substance abuse

Most importantly.. character traits I hate

Ignorance
Self hatred
No knowledge of self or interest in black history/empowerment
Lack of intelligence or intellectual curiosity
Lack of class, couth, manners
Rudeness, bad attitude, Lack of kindness/empathy

 

[34real]

1.An immature women from 20 to 60+ I don't give a damn how old they get you and your ignorance is never acceptable.What you thought when you were 20 is the same way you think when you're 60+, you are retared and you fucking up generations cause you have kids that's got kids.You better thank God you made it to 60+....

2.Liars,Theives and just trifling behavior

3.Know-it-all's....if you knew it all you'd be in a better place in life and it's ok not to know it all it's apart of life,living and still learning.


Everything else could be worked on but usually once you're stuck in that frame of mind it's dam near impossible to get them out of it.

 

[Sango]

- Poor hygiene. You stink. Yes, that's you.
- Lacks standards. What's your political stance on...
- Wilfully ignorant. So, you're just gonna double down on an unsupported theory when we can look it up?
- Loud and obnoxious. STFU! Loud and wrong ain't cute. Matter fact, suck on this...
- Negative levels past 0 and lower than lower self esteem. Saps your energy by the minute.
- Lazy. Get yo ass up. Sleeping 15 hours is for newborns and toddlers!
- Not goal/s oriented. Unmotivated. Fuck i look -like a dedicated eternal life coach.
- Not about the next money lane as a couple.
- Did I say Lazy? You need a nap!? Again!?
- Talks too much. That was your cue to shut up and let someone else talk.
- illogically uneducated and sadly stupid. Fuck you mean trust you? That's money laundering, girl!
- Not about better health. We trynna live awhile and fuck everywhere possible.
- Ultra sensitive. The tears just appeared for no reason? Again?

 

[Bumpee]

Being unnecessarily loud

 

[yureeka9]

Meanwhile as a man, you can't have a fake diamond earring, or Rolex or even eat dessert when out on a date that you're paying for as you'll risk be called zesty.

Just damn!

 

[Tdot_firestarta]

Meanwhile as a man, you can't even eat dessert when out on a date that you're paying for as you'll risk be called zesty.

hold up.....WHAT?! lmaoooo

bitches out here dumb as fuck nowadays....

Man I'm grateful that I'm married

 

[smoovejazz]

Lack of accountability is a big one.

Also -

Too many tats
Smoking
Too much weave
Manicure/Pedicure game not happening
Loudness (or not talkative)
No sense of humor
Need to be right all the time
Substance abuse
A negative outlook on life

There are a few more, but that's all for now.

 

[cashwhisperer]

I was bout to make a good list but yall got all the bases covered...

 

[CptMARVEL]

For me, everything begins with personality & attitude.

Looks, sexiness, body type or even hygiene don't matter if she's a bitch with a negative attitude or a fucked up personality.

Bitchy women or chicks with unpleasant attitudes are automatic shark repellant...

 

[tanks1]

When they fart
When they take shits
Bad breath

I brought up the farting thing and got blasted for being too sensitive..

 

[Dr. Truth]

I brought up the farting thing and got blasted for being too sensitive..

Only ugly hoes fart

 

[APOPHIS]

1. Bad Teeth
2. Unkempt Hair
3. Body Odor (all areas)
4. Self Pity
5. Lack of Ambition
6. Aggression
7. Attitude
8. Self Absorbed.
9. Doesn't Cook
10. Feminist (this is a growing threat and very prevalent amongst women 35 and under)