Singles events are stupid. Most events be 70-80% women no matter what it is. Women go out in groups. Comedy shows, concerts, education events all women. Literally if I go out anywhere and see single women.
I love going out and 95% of the time if it's not business related I'm hanging out with women. I encourage brothers to expand their horizons go out to things that aren't in clubs. Go to all types of events and just have fun. I'll be honest a big change in my interaction with women came when I was old enough not to be thirsty. When I was in my 20's 80% of my motivation to go out was getting pussy. Once I hit my 30's and I started actually going out to have fun I started doing shit I wanted to do. I go to restaurants I like to eat, comedy shows I want to go to, concerts ect. and I always got a bad chick or chicks with me if I go solo and it's always a good time.
I think as a culture we got to get back to having fun together. Black men and women need to find ways to have fun together that don't involve fucking. lol We got fucking down let's figure out how to be happy together. I love women, I really love black women, I ain't got an ounce of hate in my heart for all the joy they have given me over my life.
Stop looking at your interactions with women as transactional. Love the process of interacting with women. Love the company of women you will learn so much about the world and yourself and attract the type of women you want.
