My best friend basically ripped off his nuts and gave it to his wifey. It’s the main reason we don’t chill together anymore. His wifey is intimidated by my presence and has self esteem issues and thinks if that he chills with me he gonna be fucking mad broads. If that guy is even in my presence and he notifies his girl she will literally mysteriously call this nig like every 5-10 mins for random things aka she checking to see if there’s no broads around. I remember she was gonna let that dude hang around his parents crib for several hours than he bumped into me and we started chatting it up his broad put the foot on the gas and mysteriously came to scoop that nig in 20 mins. I always laugh how scared she is of me and I always remind my boy that she hates me. He be trying to front like nah man she don’t she just know some of your history and that’s why she acts kinda funny. He don’t want to tell the truth cause he know I could be an asshole and petty and do something like present a lot of temptation aka a bunch of pussy to him and he would risk it all. He know he fucked up by giving her a lot of power and even openly admit it to our other friends( not me)
Society pressure
I'll do that shit one time, but a mf is not about to do that every time I go out.
I look at it this way. It's like having a micro managing boss. You probably wouldn't like a boss always on your ass, especially if you know how to do your work. You'd be pissed off, so why would you want your wife micro managing your moves?
You want to be single in old age?
Less tiresome than being single. Plus children. Plus finances.
Get married, then come to find out you didn't need all that shit. It's nice to have when you happy with it tho...
ok lts run with it....she's been cheated on before and is now more mindful and careful about who she trusts...why is that crazy??
100% facts
because EVERYBODIES fucking around right!!!
why nigga..just tell her you going thru bama country....she'll figure out the rest right?
Who said my mother dosent know that much about me? I said she don’t have me under 24/7 surveillance. She trust I make the right decisions and know how to handle myself. She know 9 out of 10 times her inquiring about my whereabouts was just her being extra nosey and knowing that I knew this and knew I wouldn’t bow down to her traits. my response was always im going out. That was it. She knew that’s all she was gonna get and that’s what it was end of story. Like I said prior the wife wanting to know about my whereabouts had nothing to do with my safety and everything about her insecurities. I’m not gonna change who the fuck I am cause somebody else mental problems. Truth be told should would never get the position of being my wife if that’s how she was in general. I don’t tolerate a lot of dumbshit especially if it means changing who the fuck I am. Like I said do things for a reason . If it’s gonna add more yrs to your life, make you more richer, make you more stronger. Getting my location does none of that. So having mental breakdowns and willing to end our situation cause you don’t have me under 24/7 surveillance sounds like something I don’t want no parts of. So either get over it or don’t even waste my time being within my capacityok lts run with it....she's been cheated on before and is now more mindful and careful about who she trusts...why is that crazy??
youre a businessman.. you have a partner who says I'll hold the money..business is going well so you trust him because he IS your business partner...then he goes around the corner...and never comes back. You either track him down and sue the shit out him or you take the L...
Then you have another business partner...he says I'll hold the money...again this is your PARTNER so you trust him at his word...he goes around the corner and disappears...
some time later youre talking to a third guy about some deals and he seems like he has a lot on the ball...he's a cool dude..it looks like yall could do some good business...then he says I'll hold the money.....you go how about we BOTH put the money in an account and we BOTH can monitor and have access to it. He goes WAIT..YOU DONT TRUST ME?? Then he acts like YOUR the problem.
Similar issue..yeah she's been cheated on and she's more careful of how dudes move around her..
remember you own MOTHER doesnt know where you are most of the time...and thats god so you dont trust god to know that much about you..but you got a problem with your thinking about being your WIFE not trusting YOU??
Now this make sense and individuals do this all the time in general
you didnt answer the business scenario....is it wrong to want to know where the money is going or should you trust your partner's word???
I’m doing a geech we talking about the wife and her comments what does money and bizz partners have to do with anything
you do realize when you get married you sign a marriage contract right....you think thats just a formality??
Yeah because that pinpoints exactly where you at. FOHwhy nigga..just tell her you going thru bama country....she'll figure out the rest right?
if youre going to bama and she dont hear from you for a while.. she can call you and check in...she dont need to track your whereabouts...remember..you need your space..its the prinicple and you said I'm going to alabama I'll be back and thats ALL she needs to know...
A side bitch can live in alabama too..
Do you have to love your bizz partner? Do you take as many yrs to marry someone as the same amount of time to do bizz with someone? Do you meet your bizz partner family like you meet your significant other family? Do you know more about your bizz partners likes, history as your significant other?.. like I said a bizz partner and a significant other are two diff things
there is a thing called due diligence where you find out everything there is to know about a person and the business youre about to get involved in..
You pointing out extremes I’m telling you in general stuff.. how many bizz partners you had in your life? In my bizz i can throw parties and another person throw parties and we collab cause we heard if we could combine we’d do great numbers at a certain location. Tons of people have done bizz with each other and made 4 , 5 or more figures in one night and split it down 50/50 without knowing each other last fucking name or even each other govt name. There’s quite a few people on here from nyc that was in the adult entertainment game that can attest to this. Everybody going by diff nicknames and not knowing each other backgrounds, birthdays, families, etc.. we just getting money with each other and at the end of the day we all go our seperate ways. That actually happens more in bizzness than you actually know. I can talk about this cause I actually have over 2 decades in experience in this field and various other fields of bizz. Told you , you’re talking about a field you know nothing about. So once again biz partner and married couples are two diff things. dont speak on subjects you don’t know about cause a lot of people on here actually are entrepreneurs and biz owners and will tell you they can and have done biz with individuals who they definitely know lil info about and definitely knew less about the person they did biz with than their fucking spouse.. see how you tried to move the goalposts again co-workers are employees those are not bizz partners. bizz Partners are not employees/ co-workersthere is a thing called due diligence where you find out everything there is to know about a person and the business youre about to get involved in..
And people can spent more time with their co worker/partners than they do their spouse. That happens more often than not...in fact that can be a reason for problems in a marriage. Business takes precedence. All those questions you asked CAN APPLY if youre spending enough time around a person. Thats why companies encourage dinners and outings and vacations and team building activities and after work parties etc. And spouses can get jealous or feel left out and isolated. Relationships are relationships overall.
But you know this...youre a business man yourself.
Soo DO YOU TAKE YOUR PARTNERS WORD AND TRUST HIM TO HOLD THE MONEY AFTER THE LAST TWO PARTNERS YOU HAD CHEATED YOU??
its a yes or no question?
if not why not??
your talking about street level strip club clubbin shit and I'm talking about how corporations and midlevel and high level businesses functions. And what I'm talking is NOT extreme in the least. Its how wallstreet and law firms and tech companies function. And there are MANY married couples that complain that their spouses are more involved with their business partners than they are with them. But all that is beside the point.
You talking out your ass and completely went off subject to try to convince people your opinion is right. You keep moving the goalpost cause most people didn’t agree with your original statement in falling in line with a person who’s not mentally all there to make her happy. Should’ve stayed on topic instead of making shitty comparison. Who said anything about street level clubbing? some of these spots bring in millions in revenue and have all kinda diff people from walks of life in them.. in fact there’s was a particular group who all worked for Wall Street who each generated 8 figs a piece. Oh you thought millionaires didn’t enjoy pussy? Hell some of my first consistent clients that I did private events for were millionaires that own medical facilities, real estate, owned diff businesses, etc, they actually couldn’t be seen or were to scared to go to certain spots cause of their big pockets or who they were so they brung the party to them. See if you were in my biz you would know how lots of big money individuals actually liked private situations for themselves and partners. Told you , you know nothing about this subject. lol at street level. Most of my clientele earn 6, 7 or more figs a yr.. there’s many genres of bizz in this world and once again u’ll be surprised how many partners aren’t all the way buddy buddy they just get money together
And there are MANY married couples that complain that their spouses are more involved with their business partners than they are with them. But all that is beside the point.
And there are MANY married couples that complain that their spouses are more involved with their business partners than they are with them. But all that is beside the point.
You said that woman in the vid didnt trust and been cheated on...so why are you surprised and offended she's being more discerning in future relationships?? Isnt that what you WANT her to be doing??
someone said: you don't bring BAGGAGE from old relationships to new ones... but thats NOT how anyone conducts their life...if you learn ANYTHING from bad relationships and experiences is to NOT make that same mistake twice. Thats why you look for red flags in a persons behavior.
Hell dudes on HERE have absolutely FUCKED UP views on women based entirely on their past dealings with skeezers. Getting involved with a big butt and a smile....wasnt there a song about how NOT to trust that?? what was the name of that song?? oh yeah POISON...based on what..past experience??
Isnt that old boy did in that playstation thread I made??
he trusted her.... think he's going to trust the next cute face with a big booty he meets???
You want a woman to make better choices and when she tries dudes get offended by it and call her a cunt.
thats why your DODGING the question because you KNOW the answer...we all know the answer...HELLZ NO YOU AINT TRUSTING YOUR NEW PARTNER TO HOLD THE MONEY...youve been burned by that shit TWICE so this person isnt going to get as easy a chance to do that...
thats how it works in business AND personal relationships..its HUMAN NATURE. Shit its ANIMAL SURVIVAL NATURE. If a dog has been mistreated and abused by two humans..what do you think theyre going to do when the 3rd human shows up with that hey boy shit extending their hand?? they growl and bare their teeth...why would they do that...based on past experience with these two legged fuckers. But youd give that dog more understanding and empathy than a human female.
The dog you'd make an effort to show they can trust you...the woman...fuck that bitch...i do what i do... if you dont like it kick rocks.
