Is Father's Day dead?

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I spent it with my kids even got in touch with my daughter who I haven't seen in years(her mom remarried and her husband cut off contact) but I've heard from too many men that it was non-existent.
One guy at the gym I train at said his wife woke him up early with a to do list, another said his gf completely forgot about it even though they have kids together, guy on my football team said his wife volunteered for work. I spoke with my sons and told them why the date is important but even they said nobody cares about Dads unless dads aren't around. What does the board think, will Father's day be soon erased?
 
Gentlemen, and the few Ladies, I had a beautiful Father's Day!!! My youngest daughter prepared an absolutely beautiful meal for the entire family, by herself, including a dessert from scratch. My oldest daughter along with my wife got me some special nick-nack-snacks that I like. It was a beautiful day !!!
 
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No it's not and no it won't.

I don't think it will ever be as...

How can I say it?

Beloved, universal, celebrated as mother's day and I think that's okay

The father's day messages I receive are few but they are always so kind and personal and heartfelt that it's not the number.

I do think especially in the black community black women should do more to celebrate fathers and father figures

But I think even more so it should MEN CELEBRATING MEN.

there are MANY MANY good black fathers and we need to highlight them more.
 
I don't think it will ever be as...

How can I say it?

Beloved, universal, celebrated as mother's day and I think that's okay

The father's day messages I receive are few but they are always so kind and personal and heartfelt that it's not the number.

I do think especially in the black community black women should do more to celebrate fathers and father figures

But I think even more so it should MEN CELEBRATING MEN.

there are MANY MANY good black fathers and we need to highlight them more.
Right I played c.o.d. and 2k with my sons ate pancakes in bed with my youngest daughter and caused all kinds of terrible with my oldest before she leaves for college. I legit cried.
I told them all I wanted was peace and to be appreciated
 
Right I played c.o.d. and 2k with my sons ate pancakes in bed with my youngest daughter and caused all kinds of terrible with my oldest before she leaves for college. I legit cried.
I told them all I wanted was peace and to be appreciated

Damn you bro

I ain't really cry yet since my mom passed and you got me getting teary.

I've just been posted crazy the last few days to distract.

But you got me.

This is the very first time my mom hasn't called me to wish me happy father's day and tell me how proud she was of me.

I will never ever hear that again.

I have all her cards and even a voice message I think.

Hearing the greatest mother ever tell me that I did good? That she saw me as an adult. And that she never knew her own father but I made her realize how great a father could be. And I kept telling her it's all because of her.

Damn you bro you hit my heart.

Okay I gotta go.
 
Damn you bro

I ain't really cry yet since my mom passed and you got me getting teary.

I've just been posted crazy the last few days to distract.

But you got me.

This is the very first time my mom hasn't called me to wish me happy father's day and tell me how proud she was of me.

I will never ever hear that again.

I have all her cards and even a voice message I think.

Hearing the greatest mother ever tell me that I did good? That she saw me as an adult. And that she never knew her own father but I made her realize how great a father could be. And I kept telling her it's all because of her.

Damn you bro you hit my heart.

Okay I gotta go.
Bruh I haven't deleted my deceased family members numbers and never will


But I legit called my pops and told him after my case done I'm on the first thing smoking back to the boot just to play chess and crack jokes



Fuck, now I gotta go outside and call him
 
I don't think it will ever be as...

How can I say it?

Beloved, universal, celebrated as mother's day and I think that's okay

The father's day messages I receive are few but they are always so kind and personal and heartfelt that it's not the number.

I do think especially in the black community black women should do more to celebrate fathers and father figures

But I think even more so it should MEN CELEBRATING MEN.

there are MANY MANY good black fathers and we need to highlight them more.

No it won't be as big as Mother's Day and that's ok. Mom's actually have the kids and many times have more of the responsibility of and for the kids so they're entitled to their day.

Regarding Father's Day. It's a celebration of Father's. If the children of those Fathers and the Mothers of those children don't celebrate him, who's to blame for that?

In each scenario it's different and a different answer for each family, household and situation.
 
No it won't be as big as Mother's Day and that's ok. Mom's actually have the kids and many times have more of the responsibility of and for the kids so they're entitled to their day.

Regarding Father's Day. It's a celebration of Father's. If the children of those Fathers and the Mothers of those children don't celebrate him, who's to blame for that?

In each scenario it's different and a different answer for each family, household and situation.
True I think social conditioning for lack of a better word has something to do with that as well
I've seen hateful women say"you don't congratulate a fish for swimming" in regards to men
 
Fathers day will be around....sometimes the one's doing the most shouting need to shut the fuck up cause real ones are doing what they have to do and there's no time to sit around and complain.

It's just different than mothers day but I'm not going to complain about it because it's really about the home and what may not be appreciated today will later on and I can attest to that.
 
There were several Father’s Day cookout… went to two.. got my dick sucked multiple times that day , made money cause people wanted to make them frozen daiquiris for several occasions.. almost had a 3 some.. in talks with 2 chicks that’s curious about doing porn.. that was my Father’s Day… man this summer already starting off great with scouting season
 
True I think social conditioning for lack of a better word has something to do with that as well
I've seen hateful women say"you don't congratulate a fish for swimming" in regards to men

If women have a bad experience with their Father or the child's Father, then they'll definitely have that attitude and outlook.

I'm talking about ones that have good relationships.
 
There were several Father’s Day cookout… went to two.. got my dick sucked multiple times that day , made money cause people wanted to make them frozen daiquiris for several occasions.. almost had a 3 some.. in talks with 2 chicks that’s curious about doing porn.. that was my Father’s Day… man this summer already starting off great with scouting season
Gone live thru you my guy
 
I enjoyed mine. The "kids" brought gifts and balloons and the wife rented us a room downtown overlooking the city. We had dinner, drinks and were amateur porn stars that night
:cheers:

ps. One of my daughters bought me an Echo 15. This thing is kinda cool. I mounted it next to my desk.
 
There were several Father’s Day cookout… went to two.. got my dick sucked multiple times that day , made money cause people wanted to make them frozen daiquiris for several occasions.. almost had a 3 some.. in talks with 2 chicks that’s curious about doing porn.. that was my Father’s Day… man this summer already starting off great with scouting season
Im hating. Nigga I'm in Li tag these hoes location.
 
I'm laughing because that sounds like me. Don't get me wrong, I can go out and kick it with the best of them, but I can chill and have the time of my life. :lol:

Youngest daughter made me something and I hung it up, we played roblox, and had a good time. Then I chilled.

I went to my mom’s house and ate. She cooked one of my favorite dishes. My wife made me some banana pudding. All was good.
 
Mines was lovely
Wife overspent on me
Son and neph killesit during the fathers day AAU game (Saturday)
Kids cooked me breakfast
Nice dinner at Kiss in Houston ( Every waitress was thick as hell) steak was better than Perrys and Ruth Chris
 
I spent it with my kids even got in touch with my daughter who I haven't seen in years(her mom remarried and her husband cut off contact) but I've heard from too many men that it was non-existent.
One guy at the gym I train at said his wife woke him up early with a to do list, another said his gf completely forgot about it even though they have kids together, guy on my football team said his wife volunteered for work. I spoke with my sons and told them why the date is important but even they said nobody cares about Dads unless dads aren't around. What does the board think, will Father's day be soon erased?
the holiday is only relevant to men who take the role seriously
 
My Father's Days be lit, folks wishing me Happy Father's day left and right. I'm getting texts and dms, and I'm sending them out to all the Father's I can. This year I spent Father's Day at Disney World with my family. My wife bought me a handbuilt lightsaber from Disney. I'm extremely blessed and thankful for my family and friends.
 
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I don't have any children and I got a couple fathers day card from two single moms I use to date.

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I was listening to someone and they spoke about this. I think Father’s Day was 33rd on the list of holidays.

Behind shit like earth day, pets day and some other shit…


I’m on the road working sooooooooo but I got a text from my crew
 
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