Not in my 50s, but I couldn't see anyone younger than 40
At 50, what would be your age range for dating?
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Forget an age range. I'm not sure I'll even want a relationship at age 50.
When my last "relationship" (really more of a covid buddy situation) ended about a year ago I realized just how tired I am of the whole mess.
Spending money to go on dates I don't enjoy. Constantly discussing couples goals. Arguing over love and feelings. Mad that I wouldn't give up my DJ clients, and the thousands of dollars they pay me, to take a trip with her to Paris. Wasting time watching shitty romcoms, etc.
The sex is good, but now I'm at a point where it's more of a perk than a goal. After a month or two I get tired of fucking the same chick anyway.
So since then I've put that focus into taking care of my career and children. It's made life a lot happier.
Last weekend I was DJing and after hour party filled with off duty strippers. My set ended at 4:30 and the first thing I did was rush to the VIP lounge and take a nap on the couch. I'm surrounded by gorgeous woman, ass hanging out everywhere. They're trying to holler at me and I'm like "you're cool, but I got to pick up my son in a few hours. Let me sleep."
When my last "relationship" (really more of a covid buddy situation) ended about a year ago I realized just how tired I am of the whole mess.
Spending money to go on dates I don't enjoy. Constantly discussing couples goals. Arguing over love and feelings. Mad that I wouldn't give up my DJ clients, and the thousands of dollars they pay me, to take a trip with her to Paris. Wasting time watching shitty romcoms, etc.
The sex is good, but now I'm at a point where it's more of a perk than a goal. After a month or two I get tired of fucking the same chick anyway.
So since then I've put that focus into taking care of my career and children. It's made life a lot happier.
Last weekend I was DJing and after hour party filled with off duty strippers. My set ended at 4:30 and the first thing I did was rush to the VIP lounge and take a nap on the couch. I'm surrounded by gorgeous woman, ass hanging out everywhere. They're trying to holler at me and I'm like "you're cool, but I got to pick up my son in a few hours. Let me sleep."
Are you talking about Chloe Bailey? No. She’s basically a child. I don’t want anyone that young.
Hey, she’s in her low 20s and she has a full grown woman body so she is fair game to me
i can definitely relate....
they all want to be wifed up....and i agree the sex isnt worth the headaches....the 'where is this going?' discussions....
not to mention that the vast majority of them arent interesting at all beyond sex....
50 is the Big Bio quinquagenarian era. Enjoy yourself and fuck everyone else feelings.
Ummm… ok.
Stateside 28 to 40
Overseas/International 22 to 35
Overseas/International 22 to 35
I remember one time she invites me over. Says we're going to order in and watch a movie on TV. Okay cool.
I'm on the way to our apartment and she says "changed my mind, we're going to see my friend's salsa band in the parklet." I asked "what about dinner?". Her reply was "it's okay, I already ate."
Problem was I wasn't dressed to spend all night outside. On top of that I hadn't eaten since breakfast. So now I'm sitting here listening to music I don't even like, snot dripping out of my nose, hungry as hell and miserable. Then she want to get mad at me for not socializing with her friends.
Finally get back to her place after. She pulls down her pants and the whole room smells like roadkill. I didn't want to be anywhere near that.
Before I can make an excuse she passes out drunk. Snored so loud I had to step into the living room and lay on the couch to get any sleep.
When she wakes up the next day I'm in the middle of smoking a blunt. She rolls her eyes and says "I wish you would stop doing that and at least make an effort to be present."
It took everything I had to not yell out "bitch you were too drunk to realize that to that your ass stank, your man is hungry and cold because of plans you broke at the last minute and now you want to talk about me?"
Instead I just walked out the door and never walked back in. Shaking my head wondering if this shit is worth it anymore.
I could have told her about herself, but why spend all day fighting just so she can do her soul searching and get it right for the next man?
All this time, I thought you were bullshittin about being a CAC. After these stories, I believe you.
this was all your fault - there were multiple opportunities for you to course correct or exit that bullshit
I'm the same age as you and my range is 33 - 45. I'm actually thinking about moving it up/down a year, but thats it for now. Honestly, I'm surprised about the number of women, especially black women that dont want to have kids
From my observations, they will wait right up until it's almost too late (36-40) then they'll grab a last-minute sucker to have the kid and usually bounce and toss the dude on Child Support or make his life hell, and in some cases the depression of missing out on babies kicks in around mid 40s
if it was about meeting someone seriously dating and having a realtionship with her and maybe having a child with her I would look for around 33-37 if it was just sexual probably 30-35 if it was just someone to have as a dating friend with the ocassional sex 35-45 sounds right
It is a natural progression where you slowly lose functionality where you won't notice but you girl can tell quite easily. I didn't know I had it until I put it in my girl, than she was saying I have ED. They can detect that shit way before you, like a dog can sniff out cancer.
There are new things that are accelerating it, so these number could be far worse in the future. You won't be pressed to be with a women if you have ED, since those blood filled, hyper sensitive, full on erection are gone.
I just think it is wrong for some old dude to mess with a youngling and aren't pressed for kids. I am 50 and want to start a family with a younger women, than I don't see nothing wrong with it. If you are just trying to companionship, fuck her with your limp ED penis than don't mess with them.
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We were in a relationship so it was either stick it out or add fighting to the list of miseries.
28/29 - 38/39/40......
I want to have kids w/ a woman who doesnt have kids. Im not cut out to be a step daddy....
I want to have kids w/ a woman who doesnt have kids. Im not cut out to be a step daddy....
Pointless question.
You hit it off with someone who has their life together then you're good. If they're too young they won't have their shit together anyway. If they're too old, they're likely past having any interest in dating.
It's pretty self-selecting.
You hit it off with someone who has their life together then you're good. If they're too young they won't have their shit together anyway. If they're too old, they're likely past having any interest in dating.
It's pretty self-selecting.
Good advice.
I'm not really sure why a 50+ year old dude would want to remarry though.
I know if I get divorced there is no way in hell I'd remarry again.
A 73 year old friend of mine just went through his second divorce. Chick took him to the cleaners. I knew the shit was on the roller coaster to hell when he told me that his wife stayed out all night with her "friends" at CIAA in Baltimore last year. Now they divorced, he's depressed, and trying to pick up the pieces.
At 50+ I don't want to be starting over with nobody. I'm enjoying whatever time I got left. At 50+ I'm letting the ho train take me on up outta here.
At that age you minus whale have a friends with benefits type situation. I mean it can be more intimate but each person should keep their own place and just stay over the other person's every once in awhile.
The trouble starts when you try to live with somebody because both parties are set in their ways. It doesnt work out usually.
I am getting alot of young women coming at me all the time, they see the success and wealth. They don't want to be on WIC due to a bad choice with some young buster, it is too risky. They see me driving my Rivian or Tesla and fantasize about being in it.
They hear their friends complaining, talking about their babies not having formula, struggling.
I try to tell them to be patient, give him a chance to grow, he might pan out. He won't be as great as me, but he will meet your basic needs. Many of them are forced to work to offset his failures. I got upset with the Kanye disrespect bagged one of them and posted a pic of me laying in the bed with my shirt off on Twitter.
They hear their friends complaining, talking about their babies not having formula, struggling.
I try to tell them to be patient, give him a chance to grow, he might pan out. He won't be as great as me, but he will meet your basic needs. Many of them are forced to work to offset his failures. I got upset with the Kanye disrespect bagged one of them and posted a pic of me laying in the bed with my shirt off on Twitter.
18 to 29
39+
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