My boy recently ended his marriage of 23 years and is slowly getting his feet underneath him. He's starting to date, but stated that it feels odd after so long. At 50, what would be your age range for dating? Not chicks you're simply fucking. I mean seriously dating.
At 50, what would be your age range for dating?
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The bigger question is why would I seriously date instead of just fucking?
35 to 50.
What is his goal with the dating? Does he want kids? Does he want to get married again?
If he wants kids, I'd say mid 30's with a woman that doesn't have kids but wants one. If he doesn't want kids, I'd say mid 30's- early 40's. The more you increase the age range, the harder it is to find a good woman. Good women get scooped up. Some good divorcees come on the market but most of them have issues and you have to be extra critical of what they are showing you.
That said, I'm in my mid 40's and if I was to be single again, I'd go out of the country. Whether looking for a wife, or just having fun, women are way better outside the US now.
If he wants kids, I'd say mid 30's with a woman that doesn't have kids but wants one. If he doesn't want kids, I'd say mid 30's- early 40's. The more you increase the age range, the harder it is to find a good woman. Good women get scooped up. Some good divorcees come on the market but most of them have issues and you have to be extra critical of what they are showing you.
That said, I'm in my mid 40's and if I was to be single again, I'd go out of the country. Whether looking for a wife, or just having fun, women are way better outside the US now.
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In my observations, the good women in that age range are already married. The rest either have issues or baggage.
That leaves the question as to why is "she" single at that age. A lot of women "still" single at that age can't or don't want put in the work to stay in a relationshit. Just not putting in the work of catering to her man.
And to answer the OP, your friend has to know what he wants in a female, a partner who's going to help him build or just a fuck buddy. Either comes with maturity, not just age.
Most people want a companion and teammate in life. The player life aint for everybody. Especially later in life.
He's a professional and I would not be shocked if he gets married again. At his age, he's not looking to fuck 25 year old chicks after the club. I didn't ask him, but assume he wants something meaningful, based on his history.
I found a woman in that age range that I love to def! Relationships are hard AF no matter what the situation is.
I agree with this
Only because under 35 they would call the police on ur ass for choking em !!!
Also begs the question, why is the man single?!
Used to have a friend that was ultra critical of women over 50 that were single. Dude used to drive me up the fuckin' wall with all his fuckin theories and comments about older single women.
He was in his early 60s and SINGLE and never married or no kids his damn self!!!
Nigga, what is wrong with you?!!! Hard to look in that mirror and be honest about your own faults.
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They exist, but women that are still single in their mid 40's are usually set in their ways, uncooperative, and/or have alot of emotional baggage from previous failed relationships. I have dozens of good looking female acquaintances that have asked me to hook them up and pretty much all of them have some major red flags.
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25 and alive. Fuck a relationship, after marriage he should just be fucking and dumping and keeping a few on the team to satisfy him. Why would anybody divorce and jump right back into a relationship like a woman? Fuck that. Even when I’m 80 I want bitches no older than 30. I don’t want to see that old body hoes get. I want that youthful 20’s body to cum all over
This.
Also, these cats equate 25 with being a bird.
Find yourself an educated, cultured 25 year old, ready to travel, explore cultures and the arts and you found yourself a winner. Without the baggage.
Of course you need to be an elevated type man yourself.
Most these niggas are ugly and have no game. I got mad flack because I let them know bitches approach me on the street asking for my number . Also when we meet up to fuck they ask if they can lick my ass. They think it’s some lie or something that a woman wants to eat my ass when in reality just like we want to eat the ass of gorgeous women , they want to eat the ass of a gorgeous man.
If you have something to offer, there are some real winners out there. Some will probably be good with just a committed relationship outside of marriage.
Believe it or not, some just married bums at a young age and outgrew them emotionally and professionally and divorced them....
Believe it or not, some just married bums at a young age and outgrew them emotionally and professionally and divorced them....
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Yep I have a friend like that now. He over 40 and never been with any chick longer than a few months always chasing chicks who want nothing to a relationshit, ignoring good women. At this point the issue is you, now starting to see that and listens to all this self help stuff. Always sending me relationship posts on IG lolAlso begs the question, why is the man single?!
Used to have a friend that was ultra critical of women over 50 that were single. Dude used to drive me up the fuckin' wall with all his fuckin theories and comments about older single women.
He was in his early 60s and SINGLE and never married or no kids his damn self!!!
Nigga, what is wrong with you?!!! Hard to look in that mirror and be honest about your own faults.
I'm 54....at this point I probably wouldn't go lower than 35...if that opportunity even came about, cause I would need her to understand that I ain't hanging out until 4am if I gotta be at work at 8am, etc. I got outta that mindset around 30.
My wheelhouse is 43-48 as far as who I deal with when I feel like dealing with females on that level. Don't think I would go higher than 56, but I haven't dated a woman older than me since my early 30's. That 56 year old would have to be a pretty physically impressive 56 year old.
My wheelhouse is 43-48 as far as who I deal with when I feel like dealing with females on that level. Don't think I would go higher than 56, but I haven't dated a woman older than me since my early 30's. That 56 year old would have to be a pretty physically impressive 56 year old.
Because in general most men have to meet women and get to know them before they can just fuck them.
Walking up to women and saying "I just want to fuck you and that's it" works for some, we'll include you in that "Some".
But it doesn't work for most.
First things first is he wants some pussy and obviously doesn’t wanna go the prostitution route!
You can get to know someone, have a great time dating them and not be in a serious relationship with them.
Impressive over 56 is out there... However once you see the network of stitches, punctures and keloid scars from the body lift, tummy tuck, liposuction, fat injection, cold sculpting, ablasions, breast augmentation, breast reduction, vaginal tightening like I've undressed. Long ass eyelashes, painted on eyebrows, wigs, and weaves will be excuseable.
Very true but Op stated that his friend had just started dating, not in or looking for a serious relationship.
Mid 30's is as young as I'll go maybe up to late 40's, a lot of women are still looking good in this age bracket.
I had a tax guy years ago... he was an Enrolled Agent. This dude was a savant when it came to doing taxes. He could look at your taxes and tell you shit about how you're living and how you get along with your spouse just by looking at the taxes. He told me once, "The numbers are always talking. People just can't hear them or they don't understand the language."
Anyway, dude was in his late fifties, and he had been married 7 times to all younger women (30-45). He said all of the wives were preacher's daughters. He said that they were freaky and brilliant, but they all had something wrong with them. After his seventh marriage; he said that he would never marry again, only date. But I was like, the only thing that those seven preacher's daughters had in common other than their dads being preachers was you.
So when marriages break up, I'd say take some stock in yourself, and be honest with yourself... are YOU marriage material? It's not for everyone. And sometimes, depending on who you are, you may need an older woman.
Anyway, dude was in his late fifties, and he had been married 7 times to all younger women (30-45). He said all of the wives were preacher's daughters. He said that they were freaky and brilliant, but they all had something wrong with them. After his seventh marriage; he said that he would never marry again, only date. But I was like, the only thing that those seven preacher's daughters had in common other than their dads being preachers was you.
So when marriages break up, I'd say take some stock in yourself, and be honest with yourself... are YOU marriage material? It's not for everyone. And sometimes, depending on who you are, you may need an older woman.
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