Some of us aren't, its just the culture of BGOL to be extremely traditional and for the most part have a strange boomer mindset where you look down on whores / prostitutes and enjoy them at the same time.
I view everyone as no better than anyone else. We're only given so much time on this earth, so why not enjoy it instead of being hateful. I'm not saying be a bitch and let people bully you, I'm in prime shape and can hold my own, but I don't walk around being hateful and judgmental.
But to be fair I think I do kind of judge prostitutes/whores, etc, like I would never marry one. But I'll hang with them and fuck them.
Like it'd be cool to chill with someone like her on a Friday night when you're about to get lit, but def not taking her home to moms.
I still don't have the ability to react to posts so while I just wanted to like/love your post, I'll have to reply instead.
I really despise people who are needlessly judgmental. To me, we're all just human beings on this earth. Most of us here are posting from within a cruel capitalistic system that exploits ALL our bodies in one way or another and degrades our human dignity. I feel football players and boxers degrade their bodies as much as (if not more than) porn stars, but they are celebrated rather than spit on.
Ultimately, I believe sex work is... just another kind of work. I don't look down on people who do it. I know someone will probably say "B-B-B-But would you want YOUR DAUGHTER to do that kind of work?"
No. I wouldn't. But I wouldn't want my daughter to have to clean the toilets in hotel rooms, either. However, I do recognize that SOMEONE has to clean those toilets, and when I'm in a hotel and the maid comes in to clean the toilet, I'm grateful for it and I don't disrespect her for it.
That's why I went at that other dude who claimed I was "caping" for porn chicks. No, I'm not. But I just feel you have to be a very small, miserable and hateful person to try to tear down some chick just because she maybe made a mistake when she was 19. Or maybe it wasn't a mistake... maybe she wanted to experiment and see what porn was about. And then when she had enough, she moved on, got a square job and seems to be living a good life. I don't believe any well-adjusted man who has a good life himself and gets pussy in real life would waste any time trying to shit on her.
I don't know why other people are in this thread. I assume that for a lot of us, we're just kind of curious to see where porn chicks we enjoyed in the past are now. From what I see, most cats in here are actually kind of happy when they see some of these girls are doing well. Then there are some sick people with hearts full of hate who come here hoping to see the girls suffering because they're so bitter they never got to fuck.
I mean, in some cases I can understand the schadenfreude though... If it's a chick who was inordinately arrogant during her heyday, who was mean to her admirers, or was a scammer who ripped off fans... I can understand being happy to see her doing bad now. But most of these girls ain't hurt nobody (except maybe themselves)... so why you so damn excited to see them get hurt except that you have no real happiness in your own life?