Dude I said that twice on this thread..
You say it and get
I say it and it's nigga I ain't reading that shit
Dudes want to hear what they want to hear how they want to hear it...
Are Single BLK Mothers DESTROYING their sons?
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I say it and it's nigga I ain't reading that shitDudes want to hear what they want to hear how they want to hear it...
I was watching Vox machina on Amazon yesterday and I had an idea
There are so many stories about old England and knights in shining armor, this this that and the other
What was 12th century Africa like? Wouldn't it be great if there was a series about 12th century Africa?
But I've got absolutely no idea what the stories would be. I've got no idea a what that part of History was like for the people who lived there.
As an author I would love to delve into that kind of History but I wouldn't know where to start because that part of history, or any history in Africa outside of the Sphinx, time of the pyramids has been wiped from the history books
What's the African equivalent of King Arthur? What was it like for young boys and girls growing up at that time?
I started a blank page for half an hour before giving up because I literally had nothing and I'm a very creative writer
Despite that, no parent on the planet is worse than the so-called white American mother. They consistently raise the worst people that society has to offer. (basically a continuation of white trash being raised for 500+ years in a row)
King Arthur was a so-called black man. What are you talking about? You can’t say you are familiar with history and not know. So were most of the ruling families in Europe until the bubonic plague wiped most of them out.
The Neanderthal man aka so-called white man did not rise to power in the West until recently, historically speaking. This started with Martin Luther and the Spanish Inquisition which also started the push for color coded corporate designations.
Thank you for this. It's amazing, utterly amazing how Europeans view Africans and African descendants as threats when Europeans and their descendants have been the greatest threat the Earth has ever known and ever seen.
It's literally like the dandelion seeing the flower as the threat to the yard, when...yeah what is a greater threat to overtaking the yard, the dandelion or the flower?
She is talking about Shahrazad Ali's book book this is cued up to relavent disscussion
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Yea, I'm subscribed. Good brother that does his research.
Can't really agree with that. Unless you're young (meaning mental) then there is no reason you should just abandon your kids. I dont care how crazy the bitch is. Your kids will know that at least you're trying to make an effort to be in their lives the best way you can and they will appreciate that shit when they get older.
I know its easier said than done but I personally know people in this situation. I recommend therapy first to deal with the emotional pain. But don't give up on your kids man.
Knowing all of that .... and she still let him bust.... then carry to term...bitch must be crazy.soooo..be more like china?
By law, single women in China have the right to reproduce. Children born out of wedlock are also legally entitled to enjoy the same rights as other children and are protected against discrimination.
But the law is widely ignored. “Discrimination is everywhere,” says Liang.
According to Xin Lingyan, a lawyer at Jingxiang Law Firm in Beijing, authorities regularly disregard the current legislation when it comes to children born to unwed mothers. “Local governments often don’t enforce the laws and regulations,” she said.
Liang was 19 when she found out she was pregnant. Her race car-driver boyfriend had cheated on her multiple times, and they had already broken up. After finding out about the pregnancy, he wanted nothing to do with the baby, instead telling Liang she could sell one of his race cars and keep the money to pay for the birth.
For the first seven months of her pregnancy, Liang lived in the nearby city of Shenzhen, a tech hub bordering Hong Kong.
Liang says if she had stayed in Guangzhou, her father would have forced her to get an abortion — a common pressure unmarried mothers face, as the traditional belief that only married couples should have children still dominates Chinese society.
“I don’t think I should beg someone to marry me just because I’m having his child,” says Liang.
Liang’s son was 5 when she applied for his birth certificate. Liang hoped to obtain his hukou before he started school. Back then, the staff at the family planning office told Liang she would need a marriage certificate and information about the father, neither of which Liang could provide. And because Liang’s ex-boyfriend didn’t want to be involved, she couldn’t ask him for help.
But in 2007, there was no such flexibility. The Guangzhou Municipal Health Bureau refused to process a birth certificate for Liang’s son, and the authorities were immutable in the face of her protests. Liang had one last resort: cash. “They solved the problem as soon as they took my money,” she says.
With the new birth certificate in hand, Liang went to the local family planning office. Before she could apply for her son’s hukou, she had to pay a fine called the “social maintenance fee” — the same fine people were charged for illegally having more than one child under the one-child policy.
Searching for an Absentee Father
Chen Xiaoman moved to Shanghai more than a decade ago after leaving her native Qingdao, a coastal city in China’s eastern Shandong province.
While living in Shanghai, the 37-year-old had a relationship with a local man, but when she became pregnant she decided to keep her daughter’s existence a secret.
“I knew he wouldn’t be responsible,” Chen explains. “He refused to pay alimony to his ex-wife and didn’t want to look after their child.”
When her daughter Miao Miao was born in August 2009, Chen used personal connections to smooth the awkward process of acquiring her birth certificate without the father’s input. But when she tried to secure her newborn’s registration document, the process proved to be more problematic.
For this, Chen needed to go back to Qingdao, where her own hukou was registered, and begin negotiations with the district-level family planning office there.
The office told her she had to pay a social maintenance fee of 100,000 yuan.
Chen knew immediately she was being ripped off. Staff from the community-level family planning office — a lower authority — had already told her the fine would be around 40,000 yuan. But Chen had no recourse and decided to pay, expecting that to be the end of the matter.
The family planning office refused to let Chen pay the fine.
The officials insisted that according to policy, both the mother and father must be fined, and so Chen was told to return with the father to pay the fine.
Four years later, Chen did just that. She registered a sham marriage with a gay friend and headed back to the family planning office in Qingdao with her marriage certificate in hand, hopeful that the issue could finally be resolved.
It still wasn’t enough. An employee at the family planning office told Chen that she would need DNA evidence to prove her husband was the biological father of Miao Miao.
“It drove me crazy,” Chen says. “I didn’t know what else I could do.”
Sixth Tone approached the family planning office in Qingdao, but no one was available for comment.
Single Mothers Forced to Pay Fines for Giving Birth
Unmarried women accuse local governments of discrimination, despite laws in place to protect their families.www.sixthtone.com
and if you read these stories thru out it all the man who knocked up these women (one married so according to you by definition of being married he's not a "jack boy" right?) not one of them is held to ay standard if they choose to not take responsibility..
BUT the kid still needs an education and child care and food etc...you know ALL THE STUFF YOU HAVE TO DO TO TAKE OF A CHILD. And he gets to skate on that.
And you guys think thats fine? or solely her fault?? cuz theres NOTHING in your rules or methods that holds him any way responsible if he doesn't want to be. And theres NO incentive for any man to own up if all thats going to result is a bunch of fines and penalties...wont stop them from skeetin up tho right??
SO youre solution is to punish her MORE in the hopes that will break the cycle...
Well...china's actually doing that...hows it working out??
Yep!!!!
perfect example of WHY THERE ARE SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS IN THE FIRST PLACE
He said he was taking their son to the park fell off into a date instead
the response from bgol???
25 responses so far and the majority of them gloss over the violation of trust and fidelity. In fact most of the dudes there criticize him for getting BUSTED and talk about how they themselves used to do that.
NO ONE is talking about how fucked up that situation is if they are its NOT for the reasons of trust, fidelity and monogamy..you know the things you build a FAMILY on which SHOULD be the reason to get a women pregnant in the first place...
BUT ITS THE BLACK WOMAN FAULT.
Then the excuse will switche to DONT LET LOSERS SKEET INSIDE YOU....if thats the case then half the planet wouldn't exist..the shit would be like Thanos snapping his fingers with the infinity glove on.
the dudes on here blaming single black mothers...CREATED SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS. And we aint talking about stereotypical thug looking niggas you see coming a mile away... its the average guy on BGOL.. If YOU got a kid with a woman you didn't marry then YOU are that guy.
This is a perfect example of LACK of self examination.
He said he was taking their son to the park fell off into a date instead
the response from bgol???
Dumbass sitting all outside. Either she followed him or one of her friends saw him wining and dining some random
Dude's cheating game is weak.
25 responses so far and the majority of them gloss over the violation of trust and fidelity. In fact most of the dudes there criticize him for getting BUSTED and talk about how they themselves used to do that.
NO ONE is talking about how fucked up that situation is if they are its NOT for the reasons of trust, fidelity and monogamy..you know the things you build a FAMILY on which SHOULD be the reason to get a women pregnant in the first place...
BUT ITS THE BLACK WOMAN FAULT.
Then the excuse will switche to DONT LET LOSERS SKEET INSIDE YOU....if thats the case then half the planet wouldn't exist..the shit would be like Thanos snapping his fingers with the infinity glove on.
the dudes on here blaming single black mothers...CREATED SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS. And we aint talking about stereotypical thug looking niggas you see coming a mile away... its the average guy on BGOL.. If YOU got a kid with a woman you didn't marry then YOU are that guy.
This is a perfect example of LACK of self examination.
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I will only speak for myself, but she was a CO-WORKER that what made it awkward. If a black woman gives consent to be "entered", accept responsibility when shit don't work out.
I am married and my wife is the mother to all 3 of my kids and she aint Black. So that settles that, LOL!
Signed,
NO Single Mother Creator
Bully for you... but that doesn't change the general point.
LOL, since I have been here I have never made a disrespectful comment about black women. Now I admit I shit on single mothers anytime I can, but that is colorless. I work in Brooklyn the white single mother headquaters, and they get my wrath equally!
I think it was just jokes bro.
What that fool did was foul as hell.
Obviously the brother was very very wrong.
God forbid something bad had happened and he had to tell his friends family and doctors the reason his son was where he was NOT supposed to be was because of some random women he sneaking with.
Nothing means more than the kids
I wouldn't engage in such fuckery
The woman was well within her right to be furious
and in court something like this could effect the father's attempts at custody.
I also wish she had not made such a scene, easy to say yes, but that is the burden of being an adult a parent a mother and a black woman.
Again I BELIEVE the responses were jokes.
Nothing more important than children's safety. And we ain't trying to be out disrespecting the mother of our children.
Also respectfully please do not ask if I have ever personally engaged in such shenanigans
I would have to promptly block you and report your activities to the proper bgol authorities.
Listen Oprah....
We are on a porn board having fun.
Here you come firing off like you are a guest on the "The Talk" or some shit.
Have you not cheated? Has your father ever cheated?
You super self righteous soldier of God
you know who doesn't get your wrath..the dudes who got them pregnant then fucked them over..literally..just sayin
look at the title of the thread your in and read the posts...does any of that sound like jokes?
Listen Oprah....
We are on a porn board having fun.
Here you come firing off like you are a guest on the "The Talk" or some shit.
Have you not cheated? Has your father ever cheated?
You super self righteous soldier of God
NOW its just jokes??
I'm not the one saying black women are the worst mothers God put on the earth tho...
and you wanna talk about being judgmental...youre judging black women on their situation while giving the dude all kinds of passes.. welcome to the judgmental platoon buddy
I believe this very first response
Summed up everything
Everything else is just inciting bullsh*t
I didn't even notice this thread before today
And which I hadn't
NOW it's just jokes and THEN it was just jokes.NOW its just jokes??
I'm not the one saying black women are the worst mothers God put on the earth tho...
and you wanna talk about being judgmental...youre judging black women on their situation while giving the dude all kinds of passes.. welcome to the judgmental platoon buddy
I didn't give him a pass. I said he sucked at cheated. I was very hard on him. He needs to get with some pros and learn how be a sneakier muthafucka
Calm down Whoopi.... Damn!
NOW it's just jokes and THEN it was just jokes.
I didn't give him a pass. I said he sucked at cheated. I was very hard on him. He needs to get with some pros and learn how be a sneakier muthafucka
Calm down Whoopi.... Damn!
I wouldn't say that I was blaming anyone. I think that everybody needs to take their part.
I feel like you want to assign all this blame. Well, if you want to do that, then there is enough to go around. Him for going in raw or not even really knowing how to use a condom. Her for letting that nigga fuck in the first place. If he ain't shit now, he ain't been shit for a minute. Worst part, she prolly gone let him fuck again. Women don't escape accountability from me, bruh. This nigga should have also got that plan b going if he nutted in this broad, but I bet he don't even think like that. When I saw he fucked up getting caught, it's because if you going to cheat, you need to at least have the respect and common courtesy to do you dirt on the low. At least try to minimize the damage done. That OR you could just be honest. You'd be surprised at how many women will hang if they just know you're not lying to them. Shit, some of them might even be down to share.
I'm not assigning all the blame to one side but when theres a topic that says are single black mothers destroying their sons thats definitely assigning blame to one side. I'm just presenting another perspective. And I was with you until the bold...
how about we try.....to NOT CHEAT?? Why is that never an option considered?
How about niggas not cheat in the first place... that way she wont blow your shit up in public in the second place and you wont be dragged into family court in the third place and she won't try to poison your child against you in the fifth place just to get you back for fucking her over to begin with... How about niggas try that for a minute and see how it works???Some niggas cant keep their hands out the cookie jar then wanna blame everyone but themselves when their world blows up.
When i said ninjas love drama i was talking about the bruh taking his son on a date while married like that wasnt going to blow up into some shit even if she didnt pull up then we know some way some how their son would of mentioned it and it would of been drama he was fucked up for doing that shit some bruhs put their significant others through so much trauma but then turn around and call the chic crazy shit is nuts and very disturbing.
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