Polygamy - The only viable solution for stabilizing the Black family?

[MisterT]

Conceived as a remedy for the subsistence of women during times of dramatic shortages of viable male partners, such as after war, or in fledgling cultures on unexplored land, yet to be inhabited by the masses, it offered protection and a supportive environment to lone women. Similar conditions exist, still today, in many countries around the globe, and reportedly, in some Black, US, metropolitan communities. Why, I ask, is it the business of the government, the church, or anyone else, if a man is able to, and wishes to take responsibility for the care, maintenance and happiness of more than one woman? As for me, I will enjoy partaking in the companionship of as many women as I want, while, of course, signing no government sponsored confining documents. It's a sorry rat that has only one hole to crawl into. And it's a sorry man that has no woman that interests him enough to share, at least, some of his successes with her. OK, that's church for today. I now return you to your regularly scheduled pornography.

 

[TheBigOne]

Interesting and timely. You first...

 

[shaddyvillethug]

I’m all abou ur polygamy

 

[Louis Koo]

save those single moms. do it

 

[godofwine]

I disagree. The only way to save the black family is motherfuckers wearing condoms.

I'm sick and tired of seeing women with 2 or more baby daddies. Then they give man the honor I'm having his last name when they aren't married. Far too often it's a guy who ain't shitt doesn't have shit it has no intention of taking care of that kid and anyway

Last year, my cousin got pregnant again. She already has three kids by three different dudes who pay little to nothing in child support, and she got pregnant again by another piece of shit dude. I gave her $350 for an abortion

Having kids is one of the most preventable shit in the world oh, yet it happens all the time, especially in poor neighborhoods, black, white, Latino, whoever.

I would say that females should expurgate any male with two or more kids by 2 or more women. Why? Because they don't wear fucking protection. What else do they have? Diseases? That's another thing that can happen from not wearing condoms

People ask me all the time why I'm 43 and don't have any kids. I fucking strap up. I hate we're fucking condoms, but I think I would hate having it temporary bitch in my life for 18 years more

Polygamy? Get the fuck out of here with that shit. It's hard for most men to handle one woman with all her attitudes and mood swings and periods and shit, how the fuck could a man handle two or more women, financially, emotionally or otherwise

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Increase the wealth by spreading the wealth? What sort of goofy ass logic is this?

The most successful families are small and nimble where resources are in abundance. But you want to advocate the exact opposite. You want me to increase the family and still maintain the wealth? How the fuck are you going to do that?

Have you ever taken an economics class?

 

[CptMARVEL]

Polygamy as an "answer" for The Black Community....?
This topic seems to always come up on BGOL once or twice a year for some reason.
Dude, most brothers have a hard time being in a stable relationship with and caring for one woman, what the hell makes you think they'll be able to LEGALLY take care of two (or more) women plus multiple children?


Oh, well.
I guess some dudes need a harem full of brain washed females to mistreat and seed up in order to feel like a real man....

 

[MisterT]

I disagree. The only way to save the black family is motherfuckers wearing condoms.

LOL, good one! Please, tell me JUST ONE instance in history that the government has been able to successfully legislate bedroom behavior? JUST ONE! ANY government! I'll wait. La- la, deee, daa dee dahhhhh...... Nope, still no answer, and there won't be. What you gave is not an answer to anything! I guess your solution to drug use is just say no, right? Your solution to drunk driving is EVERYBODY, CUT IT OUT! If it's not something that flies on it's own, or can be made to fly, then why even toss it in the fucking air? Interesting, how the people with the most infeasible and reckless ideas are the most vocal, animated and truculent. BGOL is, ummm, BGOL.

 

[blackpepper]

 

[MisterT]

what the hell makes you think they'll be able to LEGALLY take care of two (or more) women plus multiple children?

I stand at the ready to defend anything that I say, but don't ask me to defend what you think you heard, please. Where did I say "I think they'll be able to take care of " or could or couldn't, should or shouldn't be able to legally do anything? My topic has a question mark at the end of the title. Do you know what those are for? That means someone is ASKING a question! I swear, I spend more time as a reading coach here than discussing the topics at hand. I've in no place, way, shape or form encouraged any man to have any number of wives, even one! Go back and read it again and tell me where I did, if you disagree. Why must I defend what the little man on your shoulder said too? That doesn't sound fair!

 

[zod16]

I disagree. The only way to save the black family is motherfuckers wearing condoms.

Wife and I joke that the only solution is to replace the child tax credit with a penalty

 

[xxxbishopxxx]

Wife and I joke that the only solution is to replace the child tax credit with a penalty

A lot of folks see child support as an 18 year penalty

 

[MisterT]

Wife and I joke that the only solution is to replace the child tax credit with a penalty

They tried that in China... it failed miserably and caused a slew of sex-selective abortions.... If people are going to be limited to one or two children in an agrarian society and see that they're about to have a girl, well, GUESS WHAT?!

 

[zod16]

A lot of folks see child support as an 18 year penalty

Before I started college, I had an uncle show me how much of his income went to child support (3 kids, 3 different mothers). That shit scared me straight as intended.

 

[LordSinister]

I would never attempt it with a western woman.

 

[zod16]

They tried that in China... it failed miserably and caused a slew of sex-selective abortions.... If people are going to be limited to one or two children in an agrarian society and see that they're about to have a girl, well, GUESS WHAT?!

They have major female infanticide problems but my understanding is that it has to do with the way their culture is structured. Male children provide for their parents so if you have a daughter, not only do you not have an extra person to help farm etc. she will also not be around to care for you when you are old as she will be helping her husband care for his parents.

 

[MisterT]

I would never attempt it with a western woman.

I doubt many Western women would go for it anyway except for those religious whackos. I don't if would be even workable in anything other than a country where women tend to be more docile and submissive. More than half the married men in Senegal have more than one wife as I understand it. Barring some Covid-19 inspired disaster I will be there in February and will be posting pics and reports from there on BGOL and hopefully get to even record an interview with one or two about it. The major hurdle will be language. They speak French and Wolof languages mostly and my French knowledge limits me to asking for the bathroom and ordering dinner... not doing interviews, but I'm improving little by little.

 

[KunningLinguist]

only men who think this is a good idea are thinking with their penis.

I barely want to sit down with one woman and listen to her go on and on about her day and crazy friends and their bullshit...

Why would I want to multiply that by 2 or 3?

This relationship don't work out for whatever reason...I'm going solo-gamy....

Forever

 

[godofwine]

LOL, good one! Please, tell me JUST ONE instance in history that the government has been able to successfully legislate bedroom behavior? JUST ONE! ANY government! I'll wait. La- la, deee, daa dee dahhhhh...... Nope, still no answer, and there won't be. What you gave is not an answer to anything! I guess your solution to drug use is just say no, right? Your solution to drunk driving is EVERYBODY, CUT IT OUT! If it's not something that flies on it's own, or can be made to fly, then why even toss it in the fucking air? Interesting, how the people with the most infeasible and reckless ideas are the most vocal, animated and truculent. BGOL is, ummm, BGOL.

I don't mean a government mandate. I'm talking about a real personal choice that could truly help the black population

 

[godofwine]

Wife and I joke that the only solution is to replace the child tax credit with a penalty

Even that doesn't make sense for these idiots. What do you get, an extra $500. That's nothing compared to having to raise a child by yourself

 

[MisterT]

only men who think this is a good idea are thinking with their penis.

I barely want to sit down with one woman and listen to her go on and on about her day and crazy friends and their bullshit...

Why would I want to multiply that by 2 or 3?

This relationship don't work out for whatever reason...I'm going solo-gamy....

Forever

I have women in my life I love talking to... Not all of course... It's a process of weeding through them to find the one who shares your interests and passions. I don't always wanna talk about basketball, boxing and man stuff. Sometimes it's politics, family, history, cooking, people and personalities.... My trainer at the gym, I just told a couple months back that she is the first person on Earth I'd choose to be stranded on an island for 6 months with. We're not dating, romantic, or interested in one another as far as I know about. But damn do we click! We spend so much time talking and laughing and enjoying our conversations that physically, I'm still the same bag of shit I was 2 months ago when I joined.

 

[305]

Good post my brother. Dont kow if I agree but I get it. More adults bringing in more wealth into one house. Just sounds like easier said than done. but big up same way

 

[catdaddy]

Niggas will have two wives at home and still be chasing pussy in the streets...ijs