Rape is a crime. Report it. Don't wait 20 years and tweet about a bad date.
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on college campus when drugs and or alcohol is involved - there are few clear cut stories - no black n white situations, mostly shades of grey
I've worked on campus with rape victims... I've seen many times people tell one story very sincerely - swear to never being anywhere near xyz - sit in shock watching surveillance camera footage of themselves showing minutes to hours of activity because they were blackout drunk and really had no recall of their activity that night
Multiple times I've seen girls claim assault during an event but 20 witnesses of mixed sex describe them as willing or enthusiastic at the time
I've seen many cases of girls being raped under the influence of drugs n alcohol or unsure of rape occured because they were drugged w/o their knowledge or waking up naked in bed in their own room with a student or 3 or a person they don't know- claim rape but - they signed the guest(s) in and security cams show them making out on the way to the room
Crazy story: white girl on the track team said her boyfriend and her had a fight and pushed her off her 2nd floor dorm balcony (approx 20' off ground)
she had cuts bruises and sprains and visited the ER
Boyfriend got arrested- told public safety and cops that she is nuts and puts hands on him frequently but that he would never touch her - he claimed that she was drinking and jumped....
Public Safety interviews the girls dorm mates - they said she was an angry drink and that she would jump from her balcony every morning- public safety questioned other students outside the dorm and got more witnesses saying the girl regularly made the jump.
2 weeks later the girl and boyfriend were dating again
This was early 90s - so the whole thing just got filed away
In college I volunteered once a month at a women's center on campus that was setup to help students who were the victims of rape and assault or that just needed general help or counseling. It was designed to be a "safe space" for women. White chicks would come in to report rapes and assaults that clearly occurred while they were on dates or at on-campus parties. I went to an almost exclusive white/asian undergrad but every time the "assailant" was a bearded or homeless black man.
They couldn't handle not reporting the rape/assault but didn't want to risk being socially ostracized by accusing the actual white boy assailants. They learn early that no one will question them if the perpetrator is allegedly black or brown. 
Bingo...
Leave the sloppy drunk bitches where they are. Who gets off on hitting unresponsive pussy anyway..?
F-A-C-T-S.
Niggas in general get off on fuckin with comatose hoes for some reason. I never got off on that, but some dudes have no shame.
Oh yeah that storyline made that actor and character pop culture for soap opera. Women ended up loving the rapist on the show too weirdly enough.
Now that I didn't know. Interesting.
Word for the youth.
there were good points made all around in this post. there has to be accountability on the mens side and responsibility on the womens side. Men have to hold themselves, their bruhs, and peers accountable and to a impeccable standard. However, women hae to take responsibility for their situational awareness and bad decisions...NO ONE can do that for you.
I read a lot of these meetooquetoo posts and was disappointed, appalled and dismayed.
We have to start seeing each other as sisters and brothers again truly. the D9 is where this was supposed to start. building bond of brotherhood and sisterhood and building up the community.
we cant get there from here with this type of vile, felonious behavior being conducted/condoned by young men nor the females feelings of regret sex/naivety to real threats/dangers or what doors that alcohol opens; whether you consume it or with people who do.
LIFE GIVES YOU THE TEST, THEN THE LESSON...PERIOD.
if a crime happened, report that shit and let it be dealt with post haste, not years later. I admit that you dont know what happens to a person the morning after or the thousands of morning afters post act...good or bad. Dont wait for the heavy stone to become a boulder and wreck your life or someone elses life years later.
I read a lot of these meetooquetoo posts and was disappointed, appalled and dismayed.
We have to start seeing each other as sisters and brothers again truly. the D9 is where this was supposed to start. building bond of brotherhood and sisterhood and building up the community.
we cant get there from here with this type of vile, felonious behavior being conducted/condoned by young men nor the females feelings of regret sex/naivety to real threats/dangers or what doors that alcohol opens; whether you consume it or with people who do.
LIFE GIVES YOU THE TEST, THEN THE LESSON...PERIOD.
if a crime happened, report that shit and let it be dealt with post haste, not years later. I admit that you dont know what happens to a person the morning after or the thousands of morning afters post act...good or bad. Dont wait for the heavy stone to become a boulder and wreck your life or someone elses life years later.
I don't doubt that it happens. However, I went to a LOT of Frat parties back in the day and there was a never ending supply of hoes who were willing to do anything. No one had to be drugged to do crazy shit including trains. What I remember happening is days after the party muthafuckas having a LOT of buyer's remorse.
good post - the thing is for many (victim and assailant) they aren't sure what really happened - because what victims and sjw never really address is the likelihood that in most assaults, date rape, etc most if not all present were intoxicated -alcohol and drugs.
Some have no recall or only bits of memory even with video or other witnesses helping - some victims go months or years with just getting bits and pieces coming back them because of other trauma triggering them or through therapy
Let's start from the beginning: women have been considered property longer than Black people in America have been slaves.
That means rape is pretty old, pretty pretty accepted, and pretty common.
Put it this way, for every chic that has "lied on a nigga," there are at least two dozen women to that one, that were raped.
We need to recognize how patriarchy can be toxic for men and women alike. Men think it should be that way and women are taught it should be that way.
Not having balance is what has the world looking the way it does now.
How much power do any of us have to reach out to white women willing to speak on rape in PWI fraternities over the last 45 decades?
Surely someone will come forward. In this instance, we can create the same environment for them that they created for us.
It's past code red.
They are willing to protect their whiteness to THAT degree?!?!?!
And it is SO illogical.
That means rape is pretty old, pretty pretty accepted, and pretty common.
Put it this way, for every chic that has "lied on a nigga," there are at least two dozen women to that one, that were raped.
We need to recognize how patriarchy can be toxic for men and women alike. Men think it should be that way and women are taught it should be that way.
Not having balance is what has the world looking the way it does now.
No, not necessarily...at least according to the campus I attended.
Well, let's be solution oriented.
How much power do any of us have to reach out to white women willing to speak on rape in PWI fraternities over the last 45 decades?
Surely someone will come forward. In this instance, we can create the same environment for them that they created for us.
True indeed.
You’d be surprised.
Some dudes been in the frat but never had a process and went to join another chapter years later just for the underground process. Dudes be late 20’s 30’s 40’s.
Do you understand how problematic this is?In college I volunteered once a month at a women's center on campus that was setup to help students who were the victims of rape and assault or that just needed general help or counseling. It was designed to be a "safe space" for women. White chicks would come in to report rapes and assaults that clearly occurred while they were on dates or at on-campus parties. I went to an almost exclusive white/asian undergrad but every time the "assailant" was a bearded or homeless black man.
It's past code red.
They are willing to protect their whiteness to THAT degree?!?!?!
And it is SO illogical.
Shit was wild back in the 80's. All of them frats would be done now.
I believe it's a combination of both...someone mentioned that some women need to take more responsibility and some men need to take more accountability.
Despite people on different sides trying to make things black and white, these things almost always have lots of shades of grey. Bottom line though, I can only control what I can so I don't engage in the bullshit...no sex with chicks who are wasted, no groping, no inappropriate conversations.
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Reading some of these post have a Brother scare to send both my son and daughter off to school....Naw but real talk....I've told my son since he was old enough to start looking...if alcohol is involved leave her along get a number and call tomorrow....As for my daughter I've told her dont trust people (male/female) to have her back and that's a shame because both will set you up....
It is good they are being pro active and getting out in front of this. The other frats need to follow suit.
Man shut your cherry picking ass up bitch!
This sucks. Chicks like that are fucked in the head.
There is a reason his ass didn't pledge undergrad. He thought he was going to skate in, fuck that coward.
If the DP is weak, anything can happen because the process is out of control. My Dean carried a 9mm to our sets. When he said the set was over, the bruhz knew it was over.
This, Ques make no secret how they are. These women saw the behavior and chose to be around them because they liked it at the time.
Note: I only read the first page.
Yep. The truth is that white dudes are the main ones sexually harassing and we’re the main ones getting women drunk to fuck in college. But straight bruthas are the ones getting attacked.
D O P's that are strong do matter. However I still feel that members need to not be extra. The line that went over has a duty to protect the line they are making when getting set out to the old heads and other chapters, and most importantly themselves. I think the bros and sis can police themselves better. Doing people greasy never turns out good for anyone involved. The person with the claim against a frat or soro will never get in and have a bad rep, no greek organization would touch that person. The chapter that is involved receive sanctions. No one wins.
He a pussy. (lol)
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