That's why women keep asking "What are we?" if you jump up and down in her enough times...
The man is the notary of the relationship- only he can validate it.
"...I can find another woman who wants to be loved, who wants money, who wants to call me eight times a day. Where's [she] gonna find love? SHE CAN'T. She can find dick and HOPE it turns into love..."- Patrice O'Neal.