tbere we go!Dude is an easy mark. All hail to the con game!!
If her trifling weave wearing ass shows us all the messages, including the deleted ones, then we can make a better judgment of the situation. But bruh, chill out, she's ain't all that. Expend energy for valuable purposes.
that chick is ugly and confused. He's a young mentally unstable dude. He needs to get his mental health together and find a secure natural black queen.
Y'all don't understand. He has a overly aggressive vibe anyway. Men like that often will get a phone number, simply because you don't know if they are going to become abusive in the first place. It's not like the 80's when they wouldn't know they had a bad phone number until they got home, everyone has a cell and y'all call that number immediately on some, "there you go, now you have my number too" shit.
I just had a similar discussion with someone, told them they need to get a Google voice number. A lot of women give out numbers when they don't want to, to stay safe in the moment. Y'all don't even respect "I've got a man" any more.
Getting pissed because she didn't respond shows he is unstable. She could have been at work, studying or anything. He was texting bright and early before 9 am. Y'all always want to complain about women being gold diggers, but always want to lead with your gold. The video he is showing off his jewelry and talking about his car, and will probably complain later women only want him for what he owns and could potentially do for them materially. That said, I find it interesting that she didn't respond until he offered to take her out to eat. She is probably shallow too, but I know BGOL logic, so he wasn't approaching her for anything potentially long term, and y'all would discourage that anyway.
And what's wrong with that?!Type a nigga that will mail a bitch a poem.
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I don't respect that Google voice number shit,have a backbone and just say no thanks or I'm not interested. If he get mad, fuck it, he just gon hafta be mad then
"Stay safe in the moment"? See thats part of the problem too. Everybody scared of getting they ass whooped! Just take your lumps & lick your wounds, you be aight.
Losing fights helps build character.
He flaugh for talmbout what he got, but so was she, so...
Even swap aint no swindle.
No one can trust that bitch, not even herself!Agreed! But the bigger question is why even post a private chat for the world to see? Shit like this is why I'm not a big texter, petty adults. Text some shit in confidence and people will post it on social site for likes, validation or tags on gossip pages. Same chicks who do this will victimize themselves when a disgruntled ex post a private nudes of them. Hypocritical stuff all around. People will look at the dude with the problem which he do but will over look this chick as someone you cannot trust.
Y'all don't understand. He has a overly aggressive vibe anyway. Men like that often will get a phone number, simply because you don't know if they are going to become abusive in the first place. It's not like the 80's when they wouldn't know they had a bad phone number until they got home, everyone has a cell and y'all call that number immediately on some, "there you go, now you have my number too" shit.
I just had a similar discussion with someone, told them they need to get a Google voice number. A lot of women give out numbers when they don't want to, to stay safe in the moment. Y'all don't even respect "I've got a man" any more.
Getting pissed because she didn't respond shows he is unstable. She could have been at work, studying or anything. He was texting bright and early before 9 am. Y'all always want to complain about women being gold diggers, but always want to lead with your gold. The video he is showing off his jewelry and talking about his car, and will probably complain later women only want him for what he owns and could potentially do for them materially. That said, I find it interesting that she didn't respond until he offered to take her out to eat. She is probably shallow too, but I know BGOL logic, so he wasn't approaching her for anything potentially long term, and y'all would discourage that anyway.
What you see? Post why you talmbout.Had to come back for a little more:
Just went through shorties twitter and man!!! I am so tired of this generation with their social media shit!
Ole girl thinks she is some type of star!
Looked at her pics and came to the conclusion that the black community is on its death bed.
Neither do I, don't hit the ladies.I agree and disagree with you here. No guy should be hitting a woman but this chick was wild disrespectful posting this shit of the world to see .
Hoe niggas like Rick Johnson be fucking the game up for everybody else, there is no country for bitch nigga shit like this.
I don't respect that Google voice number shit,have a backbone and just say no thanks or I'm not interested. If he get mad, fuck it, he just gon hafta be mad then
"Stay safe in the moment"? See thats part of the problem too. Everybody scared of getting they ass whooped! Just take your lumps & lick your wounds, you be aight.
Losing fights helps build character.
He flaugh for talmbout what he got, but so was she, so...
Even swap aint no swindle.
I agree and disagree with you here. "Safe in the moment" from men is stupid and a false game a lot of women or specifically feminist like to use to justify women's behavior towards men when it comes to dating. I call it a false game because you're never really safe. You could be walking the streets and something fucked up can happen to you not related to a man trying to holla at you. Or a SO could be abusive and kill you. No man should hit a woman but some women take the "you can't hit me" card and abuse it by doing wild disrespectful stuff like this chick posting all this for the world to see. What was the point of that? Just block him and move on.
Now if this guy were to do something physical to this chick as a cop (DT) I would question him as to why you didn't walk away after no responses. Then I will question her as to why you posted all of the chat in the first place. I will be curious to see what her answer will be because clearly she has no grounds to post any of this especially the video which was uncessary but she just escalating the issue instead of taking an out and walking away. Now expect e-retaliation from him now. Like I tell people, if you have an OUT take the OUT before shit hits the fan and I say this as a Muay Thai practitioner (martial artist) too.
Hustla let me find out you Don Flamenco'en these hoes en shit.And what's wrong with that?!
Menfolk don't take subtle cues. Y'all think a woman is being coy and playing hard to get. Smiling and walking quickly doesn't work. (She smiled, I got her now.) Saying you have a man doesn't work. (He can't be taking good care of you because I don't see a ring on your finger./He let you out alone. If you were my woman, you'd never leave my sight. - like that is supposed to be incentive./I don't believe you. Call him.- Yes this actually happened to me./ Also while on the phone and telling him it was my man, talking mad shit about how I deserve better. And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass. You don't think drop dead gorgeous women get it worse?) A direct "no" doesn't work either with his type. That is just a cue women want him to try harder and show her how interested he is truly.
And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass.
I see what you mean. But you overlooked what I said about false game and applied it to strictly dating situations. You can get your throat slit anywhere. You can get harmed anywhere. Your life is in danger anywhere man or woman. To limit your safety only to a man asking your for your number is extremely naive and like I said A FALSE GAME. Think I'm lying? Look at all these mass shootings. You're never really safe regardless. You should be cautious but you should still live your life.Y'all aren't women. If you turn someone down, chances are nothing physical can happen to you. Women are out here getting their throats slit for turning men down. Safety is a concern in every interaction we have. Don't take my word for it, ask the women in your lives.
As a cop, you should know this is his behavior after getting the number. You don't think he wasn't as persistent before then? When saying no or walking away could have resulted in a violent outburst or worse?
Menfolk don't take subtle cues. Y'all think a woman is being coy and playing hard to get. Smiling and walking quickly doesn't work. (She smiled, I got her now.) Saying you have a man doesn't work. (He can't be taking good care of you because I don't see a ring on your finger./He let you out alone. If you were my woman, you'd never leave my sight. - like that is supposed to be incentive./I don't believe you. Call him.- Yes this actually happened to me./ Also while on the phone and telling him it was my man, talking mad shit about how I deserve better. And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass. You don't think drop dead gorgeous women get it worse?) A direct "no" doesn't work either with his type. That is just a cue women want him to try harder and show her how interested he is truly.
Rejection also isn't new to him. He was too comfortable making that video to tell her SHE messed up. He just doesn't understand why he doesn't get results when he owns xyz. He didn't say she was missing out because he was a good man or because of any personal traits. He told her she was missing out because he had money. I'm sorry but some things money can't overcome.
I don't think her behavior was any better, if she didn't want to be bothered, she shouldn't have responded period, imo. He will remember her and might see her around town again, which, if he finds out she put his texts on social media, could be worse now. But don't act like men respect "no" to begin with. Do you actually think he was any more smooth and polished in person than he was in the video she posted? He got snippy with her immediately. I know some of ya'll believe she deleted texts but, at least for the first image, it doesn't support that. He says she hasn't responded, and I think he said that in the video, too.
I agree it is our fault to some degree. Y'all think y'alls over aggressiveness is simply persistence and welcomed because it worked, when it only worked because a woman was scared or you were becoming a nuisance and it was the fastest way to move on and get to where she is going without being followed, yelled at, or assaulted . Chicken, egg.
can’t really knock her bcuz we’ve ocked ppl and put all of their info on front street for less of an offense...if dude didn’t act like a complete bitch then she wouldn’t have any ammo to put him on blast
I don't respect that Google voice number shit,have a backbone and just say no thanks or I'm not interested. If he get mad, fuck it, he just gon hafta be mad then
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Perez: they only caught me 15 times, they dont kno about the othersshe drank that shit 15x??????![]()
Dammit @Camille, you ruined my image of you!And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass.
ya man ain’t hitting it right...I can plump that shit up for you...you deserve betterj/p
It's crazy to put that much energy into someone you just met let alone some people you've known for a while. And over what? You hit someone up and they don't reply, keep it pushing. Shit happens. Folks be begging to put up on that Summer Jam screen. Be happy, that broad wasn't a set-up chick or could have been one that spared you. Be happy she didn't trap you with a baby and now she whipping the SS and spending you're G-League millions. Lol. If she's clown then she did you a favor dumb ass.
can’t really knock her bcuz we’ve ocked ppl and put all of their info on front street for less of an offense...if dude didn’t act like a complete bitch then she wouldn’t have any ammo to put him on blast
Damnnn I know dudes that have done/acted like every example you posted. I’m always think to myself “damn dude it’s not that serious”, they be straight stalking these women trying to make them talk to them and then get mad when she doesn’t talk to them
This fam.
Dude was bitch made and couldn't handle rejection. She didn't owe him shit. He knows the world we're in, where people show screen shots and receipts. And if he doesn't, he's stupid.