Married/Co-hab cats, does your old lady have your passwords?

[55th View]

My co-worker is getting married in March and his lady has explained that she prefers full transparency. I have my thoughts here, but am curious about the general consensus from the board. What do you consider off limits as far as passwords for your spouse:

computer
phone
nothing is off limits.

 

[swiftandsilent]

Women will never give you ACCESS to everything. If You think She would then, She has got You right where She wants you.

If I gave phone and computer then she would never get the encrypted hard drives or thumb drives, NO MATTER WHAT

Just saying.

 

[the artist]

Hell Naw!

 

[jagu]

Fuck no. Why even ask this question. If she can’t live with the fact that I won’t give her my passcode, then she does not move in. Life is not this complicated.

 

[ZuluSam]

No, she doesn't. And if I have to give up a password for netflix or something, I immediately change any personal items that may have the same password.

 

[clitsational]

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[aldoogie]

No, she doesn't. And if I have to give up a password for netflix or something, I immediately change any personal items that may have the same password.

What he said.

 

[arlow pear]

Absolutely not.

 

[ZuluSam]

My co-worker is getting married in March and his lady has explained that she prefers full transparency. I have my thoughts here, but am curious about the general consensus from the board. What do you consider off limits as far as passwords for your spouse:

computer
phone
nothing is off limits.

should have had that conversation before deciding to get married.......

 

[REDLINE]

should have had that conversation before deciding to get married.......

True

 

[cincitystudios]

my phone... what phone... oh this

 

[veritech]

i honestly don't see the issue.

 

[ZuluSam]

i honestly don't see the issue.

Then you are blind.

 

[woodchuck]

Nope, and she doesn't want them.

 

[woodchuck]

i honestly don't see the issue.

Then you are blind.

 

[g0nbad real bad]

Is this a trick question

 

[killagram]

This is da first step into becoming testicularless..brah

 

[Eclipse99]

Im married and its an understood rule that she can use my phone, cpu,etc... and vice versa. But that was NEVER a part of the negiotation. And no she doesnt know any of my passwords.

We both live by the code... "dont ask questions you dont want to know the answer to"

 

[Autobot8655]

I dont give a fuck...nothing to hide.

If she sees something that she doesnt like....she will just complain and whine anyway.

and she has access to everything....I dont really give a fuck.

 

[flx2000]

she no longer needs your passwords thanks to FB and Instagram, now on IG, they will tell her if you liked a pic.
so if you guys are following each on both sites, she will know of your movements, she won't know who you DM but she will know if you liked a big booty chicks pic.

i found this out when a chic i was talking to complained about a pic i liked, i was like how the fuck you knew that?
(this was on IG) apparently it was suggesting that she liked pictures that i liked.

if you have nothing to hide, passcodes should not be an issue, if you out here flirting, keep them shits sacred.
i personally have nothing to hide when i'm talking to a chick, i tell them answer my phone if it rings, don't care if it's another female, that could be money calling, (i'm a photographer) They never answer my phone.

i don't want to be with anyone i don't trust and they don't trust me.

 

[killagram]

I will never be this spineless..I'm a mayne..Til I leave this bish..my business ain't herz..we need the old school G MACK kniccaz back..brah

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace,

Only to mutual accounts. We have a shared savings and checking as well as some other stuff. She doesn’t have access to anything other than those.

 

[killagram]

Kniccaz in this thread talkin bout they trust her...who da fuk really trusts a woman..100 percent? Might as well walk with LIONS..brah

 

[4 Dimensional]

Nope, and she doesn't want them.

Only to certain accounts that are strictly business and bills.

Other than that, no.

 

[baboss2212]

Naw...I need my own space as in privacy. We can talk about anything tho.

Edit: Need 2 know basis

 

[PJN]

Phone, bank, investments, email accounts, yes. Business accounts and especially bgol password, fuck no!

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Suppose you went out on a chili cheese fries bender and the next morning your wife demands to watch you take a shit. Would you let her?

Having a reasonable expectation of privacy doesn't mean you have something to hide.

 

[Mixd]

I can tell you right now, any chick you play that open door policy BS with, she got your ass hemmed up. She got closets that you don't even know about and she got your dumb ass wrapped around her finger.

::two cents::

 

[LordSinister]

Me and the wife share a few bank accounts and I can log into her phone. She can't log into mine but I let her snoop if she wants. She knows about BGOL so I have nothing to hide.

 

[woodchuck]

Me and the wife share a few bank accounts and I can log into her phone. She can't log into mine but I let her snoop if she wants. She knows about BGOL so I have nothing to hide.

I don't have anything to hide either, she's just not interested in having the passwords. Weird thing is, I have hers.

 

[KrafMatik]

Wifey has my password to get into my phone and iPad. If I was doing some sideways shit I wouldn't leave evidence on either one.

 

[havelcok]

my wife has my passwords

she never asked for them

It was just an organic thing..easier for her to retrieve stuff and info rather than waiting on me all the time

she doesnt snoop to my knowledge

but i also dont have anything to hide

 

[jagu]

There are privacy settings for that , Chief

she no longer needs your passwords thanks to FB and Instagram, now on IG, they will tell her if you liked a pic.
so if you guys are following each on both sites, she will know of your movements, she won't know who you DM but she will know if you liked a big booty chicks pic.

i found this out when a chic i was talking to complained about a pic i liked, i was like how the fuck you knew that?
(this was on IG) apparently it was suggesting that she liked pictures that i liked.

if you have nothing to hide, passcodes should not be an issue, if you out here flirting, keep them shits sacred.
i personally have nothing to hide when i'm talking to a chick, i tell them answer my phone if it rings, don't care if it's another female, that could be money calling, (i'm a photographer) They never answer my phone.

i don't want to be with anyone i don't trust and they don't trust me.

 

[JimJones]

I always say if you and your wife on different phone plans and y’all been together more than three years, y’all bullshitting and need to admit it. If y’all are on the same plan then she can look up the bill and see all calls and text messages. I don’t have a problem with complete transparency but I do have a problem with being forced as some one said above it should happen organically. Women have a habit of reading about shit that predates them so I would kindly inform any woman I am with looking through anything however I will not explain or answer any question about things that predate you.

This is my current rule now. If a woman go through my shit she is in no position to question about what she find on and if she do she should be prepared to end what ever we have going after she ask that first question.

 

[Mixd]

I always say if you and your wife on different phone planes and y’all been together more than three years, y’all bullshitting and need to admit it. If y’all are on the same plan then she can look up the bill and see all calls and text messages. I don’t have a problem with complete transparency but I do have a problem with being forced as some one said above it should happen organically. Women have a habit of reading about shit that predates them so I would kindly inform any woman I am with looking through anything however I will not explain or answer any question about things that predate you.

This is my current rule now. If a woman go through my shit she is in no position to question about what she find on and if she do she should be prepared to end what ever we have going after she ask that first question.

That's what WhatsApp is for. Also Signal