Peace,
Let's be honest: it's white cats. As much as we'd like to believe otherwise, they're not operating against as many stereotypes and negative perceptions as we are. They don't have any problem picking up Asians, Latinas, Indians, etc.
And let's be honest again: whenever they show interest in sisters, they can catch them too.
Let's be clear without their ill gotten gains white males would rank below black and latino males. When you destroy other peoples history and place yourself in their place you can rewrite history and therefore influence reality favorable to yourself. Resources and power play a lot into this equation.
The black male is the most maligned yet non black men have to threaten their women to stay away from us.
Patrice O'Neal said it best:
"Black men are the most wanted to be fucked but can't be fucked."
If you took economic status and social stigma out of the equation, there's no doubt we pull women easily. But put in racism, perpetuated negative stereotypes that are reinforced world wide and mix in the lack of economic power, that shit works against us heavily.
And yet, despite all the odds, still we rise.
Just have your shit together, be well groomed and respectable and 99% of women are approachable. White men are at the top of the totem pole in terms of "acceptance" but I'll be damned if that stops me smashing.
White guys.
they control their own media and can pump out the most positive image about themselves.
as it pertains to power,money,success,standard of beauty etc...
Listen man am not disagreeing with you on some of the things you are saying.
all am saying black men needs better PR...
Since white men control their own media they can put out whatever positive image they want of themselves,period.
they will say they are the most successful,desired,handsome,better of every damn thing.
if black men are not the ones promoting themselves in media on a global level we will always be at others mercy who control the media.
since white males are our historical and direct competition,well am sure you can see how this will go.
Bang!