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Women and accountability?

gw1933

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I was talking to my cousin/coworker a while ago about this..

He was dating a chick and having problems with her, because she couldnt take accountability for her actions. Keep in mind, her ex-bf has a totally different background and upbringing than him.

At the end of the day, both dudes ended up breaking up with her due to her lack of accountability for her behavior (that screwed up the relationships).

If 2 dudes from 2 totally different walks of life break up due to similar circumstances, isn't the dysfunctional woman the common denominator in the equation?


..Your thoughts?
 
Probably

It's all about how her parents were with her. It's best to try to meet the parents early or find out as much as you can about her childhood. If she wants to change she will find the means to. Another thing some dudes want and stress that women do task generally outside of their traditional gender roles. What was she not being accountable for?
 
There are women who don't make good partners regardless of race. That's a human thing - not a race thing.

What? Are Black women supposed to be held to a higher standard than any other female ethnicity despite all the bullshit they have to go through by being Black in a nation full of faggot insecure cacs?

Plus, maybe it is a coincidence. Even though your cousin and her ex come from different walks of life, perhaps, they both failed in giving her proper instructions as men. It's not like it's not possible. It's only two men. Right?

Maybe the third time is a charm and the next nigga will have full cooperation out in public, in the kitchen, and in the bedroom.

And your cousin has nothing to worry about. It's more sisters out here than men. All he has to do campaign again.
 
white/latin/mid eastern women are perfect they have zero divorces ever, never aborted children, never did drugs, all have great jobs, none are whores, none never cheated on their men, all are 5 star chefs, perfect angels, are 100 percent great in bed all the time, all have perfect bodies and never need surgery, none has ever complained in their life, none have ever commited a crime...all women except black women have done these things..other women up black women down..:hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:
 
kwazdog said:
Probably

It's all about how her parents were with her. It's best to try to meet the parents early or find out as much as you can about her childhood. If she wants to change she will find the means to. Another thing some dudes want and stress that women do task generally outside of their traditional gender roles. What was she not being accountable for?
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She comes from a single parent home and has disdain for her father.

Picasso said:
Yes that woman had issues, those issues have nothing to do with "Black Women".

Women in general have no accountability for their actions. They only see the wrong in what you do, they never see what they do.
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Thanks for clearing that up
 
blacktrace said:
Plus, maybe it is a coincidence. Even though your cousin and her ex come from different walks of life, perhaps, they both failed in giving her proper instructions as men. It's not like it's not possible. It's only two men. Right?
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That's all I'm saying, a lot of bros these days be pressing women to work and help pay bills etc. that goes against women's primal instinct, most working women are misirable compared to those that don't. Women don't really want the stress of responsibilities outside of the home, I don't care how much they say otherwise and how strong and independent they proclaim they are, most of them need masculine leadership and help.
 
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blacktrace said:
There are women who don't make good partners regardless of race. That's a human thing - not a race thing.

What? Are Black women supposed to be held to a higher standard than any other female ethnicity despite all the bullshit they have to go through by being Black in a nation full of faggot insecure cacs?

Plus, maybe it is a coincidence. Even though your cousin and her ex come from different walks of life, perhaps, they both failed in giving her proper instructions as men. It's not like it's not possible. It's only two men. Right?

Maybe the third time is a charm and the next nigga will have full cooperation out in public, in the kitchen, and in the bedroom.

And your cousin has nothing to worry about. It's more sisters out here than men. All he has to do campaign again.
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Good advice


sammyjax said:
New poster or old poster with yet another new alias

Don't come round here with that black women this black women that bullshit
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Its not a Black woman bashing thread...This is real talk
 
tallblacknyc said:
white/latin/mid eastern women are perfect they have zero divorces ever, never aborted children, never did drugs, all have great jobs, none are whores, none never cheated on their men, all are 5 star chefs, perfect angels, are 100 percent great in bed all the time, all have perfect bodies and never nned surgery, none has ever complained in their life, none have ever commited a crime...all women except black women have done these things..other women up black women down..:hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:
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They only have to drink water once a month and they get the rest of their nutrients from the sun like a plant. Plus the smell of their farts are seasonal. I was in an elevator with a Latin chick and she let a nasty one rip....

*sniff air*

"I say ma'am....is that...pumpkin spice?"

"Why yes it is."

"Oh."

*two cents *
 
gw1933 said:
She comes from a single parent home and has disdain for her father.



Thanks for clearing that up
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Well there's your answer. The poor thing wasn't taught or show a good example of what works in relationships.
 
Also, she comes from a lineage of single mothers..

Maybe the inability to take accountability was passed down?...I dont know, we are trying to connect the dots on this situation.
 
Picasso said:
Yes that woman had issues, those issues have nothing to do with "Black Women".

Women in general have no accountability for their actions. They only see the wrong in what you do, they never see what they do.
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Agree 100% I just had this discussion 30 minutes ago. I had a chick cancel on me at the last minute after I made plans with her. I Purposely set up a date and did the samething to her. She got pissed (of course) but I said to her How do you think you can keep doing the same thing to people and it not happen to you?"

Phone went silent.
 
gw1933 said:
Also, she comes from a lineage of single mothers..

Maybe the inability to take accountability was passed down?...I dont know, we are trying to connect the dots on this situation.
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Check this out...
 
kwazdog said:
That's all I'm saying, a lot of bros these days be pressing women to work and help pay bills etc. that goes against women's primal instinct, most working women are misirable compared to those that don't. Women don't really want the stress of responsibilities outside of the home, I don't care how much the say otherwise and how strong and independent they proclaim they are, most of them need masculine leadership and help.
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WHERE ARE YOU FROM? THE 1940S?

Back then WHITE WOMEN went to college to be sure to meet & marry college educated men.
Today, women go to school to learn more to earn more either as a plan or out of need. Certificate/associates/bachelors/masters/Phd/JD - get that paper!
Women I know are ambitious and want to make money for themselves or help build with their man.

Today 2 earners are almost a necessity to get ahead (for most). A couple who decides "man works/woman home maker" do so with a different set of stresses.
A woman home all day may/will get bored or may/will eventually want more. "Why you changing up on me?", he'll mistakenly ask. He thrived in the set routine.
She EVOLVED and he better EVOLVE too or she'll end up taking out the can for the garbage man - if you know what I mean.

I'm reading your post again as I type, and figure the women you speak of are miserable for more personal reasons, or that "never satisfied" syndrome has set in.
 
deputy dawg said:
WHERE ARE YOU FROM? THE 1940S?

Back then WHITE WOMEN went to college to be sure to meet & marry college educated men.
Today, women go to school to learn more to earn more either as a plan or out of need. Certificate/associates/bachelors/masters/Phd/JD - get that paper!
Women I know are ambitious and want to make money for themselves or help build with their man.

Today 2 earners are almost a necessity to get ahead (for most). A couple who decides "man works/woman home maker" do so with a different set of stresses.
A woman home all day may/will get bored or may/will eventually want more. "Why you changing up on me?", he'll mistakenly ask. He thrived in the set routine.
She EVOLVED and he better EVOLVE too or she'll end up taking out the can for the garbage man - if you know what I mean.

I'm reading your post again as I type, and figure the women you speak of are miserable for more personal reasons, or that "never satisfied" syndrome has set in.
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:rolleyes: Ok. I disagree, but you're entitled to your opinion.
 
American black women are fucked up in the head. Not worth the time of day. Tell ya people to make sure she comes from another country if she's black.
 
When I read your thread title, I thought it was going to be about words that don't belong in the same sentence.
 
deputy dawg said:
WHERE ARE YOU FROM? THE 1940S?

Back then WHITE WOMEN went to college to be sure to meet & marry college educated men.
Today, women go to school to learn more to earn more either as a plan or out of need. Certificate/associates/bachelors/masters/Phd/JD - get that paper!
Women I know are ambitious and want to make money for themselves or help build with their man.

Today 2 earners are almost a necessity to get ahead (for most). A couple who decides "man works/woman home maker" do so with a different set of stresses.
A woman home all day may/will get bored or may/will eventually want more. "Why you changing up on me?", he'll mistakenly ask. He thrived in the set routine.
She EVOLVED and he better EVOLVE too or she'll end up taking out the can for the garbage man - if you know what I mean.

I'm reading your post again as I type, and figure the women you speak of are miserable for more personal reasons, or that "never satisfied" syndrome has set in.
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I had to read his post again because at first my reply was going to be much diff than after I read it again....and since he is speaking about black women I will direct my questions toward my beautiful sistas....

First off you can say she is has accountability issues....what you can say is this...she has broken up with men who allowed her to skate by and give her chance after change to challenge them and they failed the test. No matter how good a woman may be she will eventually test her man...again many women get off when you check them and look them in their mf eyes and tell them you aint putting up with the bullshit.

the similar circumstance is she keeps playing the same game and both of them didn't flip the mf board over once they figured out bullshit was going on and start the game over on their terms...of course they will break up with her because she checked out long ago so what else was there to do
 
I'm not black woman bashing at all, we all have work to do, but in response I must admit the American Black
woman has been damaged by oppression and our experience in this land and thus I'm sure the dilemma resonates
worldwide in different aspects, I'm not saying all black women because their are definitely a lot of very good exceptions among us who hold it down and excel at life and love.

I personally call it the "Kizzy Kinte" effect, using the example from the movie Roots, a lot of black women are
raised wrong and feel that their time is so finite, they must do too much before letting themselves develop into
who they really are, they see other race women living seemingly carefree and careless and sometimes adopt those
traits to fulfil their own inner desires of acceptance, this often leads to philanderous lifestyles, economic ignorance
and failure to build a solid foundation on family, leaving very little in return except personal, momentary, delusional
satisfaction.

The mere fact that the "PERM", "WEAVE" and "BLEACHING CREAM" still makes 100's of millions to multi billions
of black dollars speaks volumes to the underlying problems our women face in dealing with their media, social and political outlook on put on them in a never ending onslaught to effect their psyche enough, that a lot of them forget they are the original human being, the GOD mother of ALL and that bears a lot of accountability before running around calling yourself a QUEEN you've gotta get your Princess game right.

I don't have all the answers Sway, and I definitely have been focused on myself and being a better man who happens
to be of primarily African descent, but my focus on the black woman and her condition is real and far from a footnote
I have a lot of experience with the black woman and I would not trade her for the world but I want her to do better so
I can be better and thus we can be better.

That can't happen when she wants to invoke her pussy powers and feminine charms for bad, because that's what they
do on Housewives of the hood!

If you daughter, girlfriend or wife listens to this type of music all day everyday :smh: you and she have
a lot of work to do.


Not saying that beat and sick but the lyrics are straight poison to a woman's mind.

If you daughter, girlfriend or wife listens to this type of music and focuses of knowledge of self :cool: you and she are on the right track, keep it up and more blessing to you.



:cool:


JMO opinion steal it and make an article, or reflect and put in in your conscience arsonal but nothing
said here will change these facts are some of the truth.
 
dasmybikepunk said:
I'm not black woman bashing at all, we all have work to do, but in response I must admit the American Black
woman has been damaged by oppression and our experience in this land and thus I'm sure the dilemma resonates
worldwide in different aspects, I'm not saying all black women because their are definitely a lot of very good exceptions among us who hold it down and excel at life and love.

I personally call it the "Kizzy Kinte" effect, using the example from the movie Roots, a lot of black women are
raised wrong and feel that their time is so finite, they must do too much before letting themselves develop into
who they really are, they see other race women living seemingly carefree and careless and sometimes adopt those
traits to fulfil their own inner desires of acceptance, this often leads to philanderous lifestyles, economic ignorance
and failure to build a solid foundation on family, leaving very little in return except personal, momentary, delusional
satisfaction.

The mere fact that the "PERM", "WEAVE" and "BLEACHING CREAM" still makes 100's of millions to multi billions
of black dollars speaks volumes to the underlying problems our women face in dealing with their media, social and political outlook on put on them in a never ending onslaught to effect their psyche enough, that a lot of them forget they are the original human being, the GOD mother of ALL and that bears a lot of accountability before running around calling yourself a QUEEN you've gotta get your Princess game right.

I don't have all the answers Sway, and I definitely have been focused on myself and being a better man who happens
to be of primarily African descent, but my focus on the black woman and her condition is real and far from a footnote
I have a lot of experience with the black woman and I would not trade her for the world but I want her to do better so
I can be better and thus we can be better.

That can't happen when she wants to invoke her pussy powers and feminine charms for bad, because that's what they
do on Housewives of the hood!

If you daughter, girlfriend or wife listens to this type of music all day everyday :smh: you and she have
a lot of work to do.


Not saying that beat and sick but the lyrics are straight poison to a woman's mind.

If you daughter, girlfriend or wife listens to this type of music and focuses of knowledge of self :cool: you and she are on the right track, keep it up and more blessing to you.



:cool:


JMO opinion steal it and make an article, or reflect and put in in your conscience arsonal but nothing
said here will change these facts are some of the truth.
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daps on this...
 
Your question is puzzling. You said her problem is accountability and said both of her relationships broke up because of it. ....so what is your question?
 
mcguyver said:
Your question is puzzling. You said her problem is accountability and said both of her relationships broke up because of it. ....so what is your question?
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She likes to frequently cancel plans last minute and engage in other flaky/disrespectful behavior.

Its only natural a man would want a woman to own up to her shortcomings, but with women that dont know how to do that it can get ugly.

They have the capacity to do everything under the sun to you and not feel any remorse, which is immature.


When a healthy adult spills the milk on your rug they apologize. When the dysfunctional do it, its your fault for not being stain-free.
 
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gw1933 said:
She likes to frequently cancel plans last minute and engage in other flaky/disrespectful behavior.

Its only natural a man would want a woman to own up to her shortcomings, but with women that dont know how to do that it can get ugly.

They have the capacity to do everything under the sun to you and not feel any remorse, which is immature.


When a healthy adult spills the milk on your rug they apologize. When the dysfunctional do it, its your fault for not being stain-free.
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A lot of women are like that. The problem is they know the power their pussy have. I had one tell me "I don't need game, I habe a pussy".
 

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