Im tired of girls getting fat!!

man I am going thru the same thing with my girl.
When I met her she was the same size she's now.
She's pretty, Good woman and makes me feel like a king.
I was a bit uncomfortable with her weight, but the pussy is good..lol
Last month she showed me some pics of her about 3+ years back and I was like " damnnnnnnnnnnn "...she had a body like whoa...she tells me everyday that she wants to lose about 30 lbs...she has bought ton of work out material...pilates tapes, ab cruncher...but I dont think she's taking it too serious.

I dont complain much because she's a good woman and I could use a pound or two off my body myself.
:hmm:
 
trinity said:
the good news is that often happens when a woman is happy with the man she has and isnt trying 2 attract the attention of others, she becomes comfortable and doesnt focus as much effort as she use 2 in looks, keeping up is something u have 2 be heavilly inspired 2 do & ud be amazed how much time women will put into it 2 make sure they have a competing chance w. other females when it comes to selection of men, of course the bad effects is u might not longer find her as attractive as u once have, i would confront her mildly about it & since it seems she really respects ur opinions shell prob wanna change but its u thats gotta push her so the notion jus doesnt result in depressing or angering her...

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Studio718 said:
man I am going thru the same thing with my girl.
When I met her she was the same size she's now.
She's pretty, Good woman and makes me feel like a king.
I was a bit uncomfortable with her weight, but the pussy is good..lol
Last month she showed me some pics of her about 3+ years back and I was like " damnnnnnnnnnnn "...she had a body like whoa...she tells me everyday that she wants to lose about 30 lbs...she has bought ton of work out material...pilates tapes, ab cruncher...but I dont think she's taking it too serious.

I dont complain much because she's a good woman and I could use a pound or two off my body myself.
:hmm:
At least you admit it.
 
Sometimes I be in Manhattan and I look at the ratio of white chicks jogging to black chicks and its damn near 10:1... It's sad.. First of all "In the hood" don't none of these broads got a membership at the gym cuz its another bill for they tired broke asses anyway. I switch chicks like white tees and couldn't care less. These lil white chicks was raised watching they moms and aunty go to the gym together everyday so they was raised to keeping they shit tight. It's sad to say the only black females I know that work out are models, video vixens or got a descent job where they can afford a membership because the don't got car notes, insurance etc... They take the subway. But real talk it ain't just the females...niggas need to get they shit together too... I don't go to the gym but I got enough equipment in my basement to start my own. The key to losing the weight is burning more calories than you consume daily...Easy...But the older you fat ma fuckaz get the harder it becomes... Most these broads can't lose the weight and all that nutrisystem shit is bs if u don't workout...Might as well get gastric bypass surgery or a tummy tuck cause if ya fat asses don't get on a treadmill it a take a lifetime...

And someone said they tired of broke niggas
I'm tired off running my fingers through ya'll hair just to realize I'm stroking horse ass or some other humans hair...Most ya'll broke bitches be the fat ones on here tryna defend the bitches like it ain't ya'll we talking bout..
The type that be on myspace with other peoples pictures...get ya'll shit right the white chicks could run laps around ya'll tired asses and I ain't into white chicks.... But my frequent flyer miles is adding up from all these brazil and D.R trips...I'm tired a black chicks getting fat and thinking it's ok.. But if ya'll wanna sit ya'll obease asses on ya'll futon with a tripple burger watching lifetime all day....suit yaself... Just don't wonder why your monsterous obease ass is single and not by choice
 
Retiredyoung said:
Sometimes I be in Manhattan and I look at the ratio of white chicks jogging to black chicks and its damn near 10:1... It's sad.. First of all "In the hood" don't none of these broads got a membership at the gym cuz its another bill for they tired broke asses anyway. I switch chicks like white tees and couldn't care less. These lil white chicks was raised watching they moms and aunty go to the gym together everyday so they was raised to keeping they shit tight. It's sad to say the only black females I know that work out are models, video vixens or got a descent job where they can afford a membership because the don't got car notes, insurance etc... They take the subway. But real talk it ain't just the females...niggas need to get they shit together too... I don't go to the gym but I got enough equipment in my basement to start my own. The key to losing the weight is burning more calories than you consume daily...Easy...But the older you fat ma fuckaz get the harder it becomes... Most these broads can't lose the weight and all that nutrisystem shit is bs if u don't workout...Might as well get gastric bypass surgery or a tummy tuck cause if ya fat asses don't get on a treadmill it a take a lifetime...

And someone said they tired of broke niggas
I'm tired off running my fingers through ya'll hair just to realize I'm stroking horse ass or some other humans hair...Most ya'll broke bitches be the fat ones on here tryna defend the bitches like it ain't ya'll we talking bout..
The type that be on myspace with other peoples pictures...get ya'll shit right the white chicks could run laps around ya'll tired asses and I ain't into white chicks.... But my frequent flyer miles is adding up from all these brazil and D.R trips...I'm tired a black chicks getting fat and thinking it's ok.. But if ya'll wanna sit ya'll obease asses on ya'll futon with a tripple burger watching lifetime all day....suit yaself... Just don't wonder why your monsterous obease ass is single and not by choice

Gimme a break. I work out with white women and not only do they whine and bitch all the time, they talk themselves out of completing reps and sessions. Especially the smaller ones.

I don't have a problem with brothers going to Brazil to get their freak on. Just don't be mad when you wake up and find out you got AIDS because you actually fucked a man.
 
femmenoire said:
Gimme a break. I work out with white women and not only do they whine and bitch all the time, they talk themselves out of completing reps and sessions. Especially the smaller ones.

I don't have a problem with brothers going to Brazil to get their freak on. Just don't be mad when you wake up and find out you got AIDS because you actually fucked a man.

So a man whose got their shit together, either healthwise or moneywise dont have teh right to demand and look for mates that need to get or keep their shit together, isnt that some sort of double standard

If a man aint careful about where he goes, thats on him, chance favors a prepared mind, if a man does his research, it works out

And the same shit can be said for sistas who go to the Caribbean to get their groove back

I'm not trying to deal with diabetes or heart failures in 20 or so years, so I hope both brothas and sistas get this mindset, eat more vegitables, baked chicken, keep the fried shit out, and stop being fucking lazy
 
Laughing Man said:
So a man whose got their shit together, either healthwise or moneywise dont have teh right to demand and look for mates that need to get or keep their shit together, isnt that some sort of double standard

I don't know how you deducted that from my response.

You should demand from your mate what you demand of yourself and thensome.

THAT GOES FOR MEN AND WOMEN.
 
MissMighty said:
The problem with guys is they constantly encouraging and praising "thick" girls when those girls are 2 hamburgers away from being fat. But then get mad when a girl gains weight to be that ideal image and goes past that line.

That is kind of true especially in the hood...I knew a chic back in BK nice Halle Berry type figure talking about she's trying to gain weight to put more junk in her trunk...I had to think to myself most women are trying to lose weight why is it most sisters try to gain weight...but is it that obsession with "thick" chics that have some sisters letting themselves go...
 
femmenoire said:
I'm tired of men being broke.

Then you need to go make a separate thread about that...what does that have to do with a valid point dude brought up... :rolleyes:
 
Retiredyoung said:
Sometimes I be in Manhattan and I look at the ratio of white chicks jogging to black chicks and its damn near 10:1... It's sad.. First of all "In the hood" don't none of these broads got a membership at the gym cuz its another bill for they tired broke asses anyway. I switch chicks like white tees and couldn't care less. These lil white chicks was raised watching they moms and aunty go to the gym together everyday so they was raised to keeping they shit tight. It's sad to say the only black females I know that work out are models, video vixens or got a descent job where they can afford a membership because the don't got car notes, insurance etc... They take the subway. But real talk it ain't just the females...niggas need to get they shit together too... I don't go to the gym but I got enough equipment in my basement to start my own. The key to losing the weight is burning more calories than you consume daily...Easy...But the older you fat ma fuckaz get the harder it becomes... Most these broads can't lose the weight and all that nutrisystem shit is bs if u don't workout...Might as well get gastric bypass surgery or a tummy tuck cause if ya fat asses don't get on a treadmill it a take a lifetime...

And someone said they tired of broke niggas
I'm tired off running my fingers through ya'll hair just to realize I'm stroking horse ass or some other humans hair...Most ya'll broke bitches be the fat ones on here tryna defend the bitches like it ain't ya'll we talking bout..
The type that be on myspace with other peoples pictures...get ya'll shit right the white chicks could run laps around ya'll tired asses and I ain't into white chicks.... But my frequent flyer miles is adding up from all these brazil and D.R trips...I'm tired a black chicks getting fat and thinking it's ok.. But if ya'll wanna sit ya'll obease asses on ya'll futon with a tripple burger watching lifetime all day....suit yaself... Just don't wonder why your monsterous obease ass is single and not by choice

>>><<<

Real Shit!
 
Leroy Soup Nutz said:
Then you need to go make a separate thread about that...what does that have to do with a valid point dude brought up... :rolleyes:

I'm afraid that went over your head.
 
m2m said:
Even so, in our society a guy doesn't have to be in shape to make demands if he's making bank and anybody who says differently is in denial. The older a guy gets, if he takes care of his assets and limits his liabilities his value skyrockets. The older a woman gets, no matter what the hell she does, her value plummets but that's a whole nother topic for another day.

Bottom line a fat ass guy can still demand his girl stay dyme status or trade her in for a new model.

Co-sign. I tell my female friends this all the time. Women --by in large-- are judged on looks and men on earning potential. If men or women don’t like that fact, who gives a fuck… it ain’t changing any time soon. For some reason black women refuse to acknowledge this... instead they deflect or redirect the discussion. If you don't believe me see comments in this post from female posters
 
:( That Afrothick board is crazy....I thought it was a board for posting pics of thick females.........boy was I wrong!! :puke: they had the nerve to call those fat bitches sexy.... :smh:
 
MissMighty said:
Well if you got with her because of her personality and not her looks all of that wouldn't matter right? :hmm:



Personality? If 90% of females didn’t have a pussy, 100% of males would have no reason to even speak to them!
 
I've had many "end of the party" type convos with several chicks about this same issue. Many "professional" women complain that it's expensive to train 3 times a week, because of the hair issue. Now I think its more important to have a tight body, (health etc.) than nice hair do, in the professional world appearances matter. Most black chicks don't have "wash and wear" hair, or braids aren't an every day option.

Also about the jogging issue, most black women live in black neighbor hoods. Now would you have your wife, woman, girl friend, sister, mother, aunt, etc. running in the hood with a sports top, and shorts? Shheeeet. The zombies from the hood would be on her like white on rice.

But fuck it, my girl has a Bally's membership... and uses it too.
 
trstar said:
I've had many "end of the party" type convos with several chicks about this same issue. Many "professional" women complain that it's expensive to train 3 times a week, because of the hair issue. Now I think its more important to have a tight body, (health etc.) than nice hair do, in the professional world appearances matter. Most black chicks don't have "wash and wear" hair, or braids aren't an every day option.

Also about the jogging issue, most black women live in black neighbor hoods. Now would you have your wife, woman, girl friend, sister, mother, aunt, etc. running in the hood with a sports top, and shorts? Shheeeet. The zombies from the hood would be on her like white on rice.

But fuck it, my girl has a Bally's membership... and uses it too.


I'm afraid that's a poor excuse not to exercise. You can go to a gym with a track to get your jog on. It can be expensive to see a trainer but there are always work arounds. Plus, men are always trying to help females in the gym.

I know when I try to talk to sistas and convince them to go to the gym, they seem worried about their hair more than anything else. :smh: I've never been big on hair but most sistas are.

Besides that most just have a strange fear of it, some think they will be embarrassed and then for some, it's just plain ole laziness.
 
femmenoire said:
I'm tired of men being broke.

I like this statement cause it exemplifies a point I have been triung to make for a long time...

Women /hos have become like commodities to men like all other material things we desire! The only difference is they are more simmilar to realy fancy "pets" than say a car!!!

i will now compare them to cars.

The honda dealship welcomes broke men into the dealership and will try realy hard to get them in a nice cheap POS economy car ie. - An ugly fat woman will be happy to get with you and will actualy treat you nice!

A Benz dealer often keeps security and bouncers on hand for when broke men come in to waste time looking at shit they aint "qulaified" for!!! ie. - Fine ass hos have been taught to see them selves as Benzes and do all they can to avoid broke men also. Yeh yo umight can get a fuck off one but dont expect a deep meanig full caring relationship if you broke.
 
Birdsfoot said:
I like this statement cause it exemplifies a point I have been triung to make for a long time...

Women /hos have become like commodities to men like all other material things we desire! The only difference is they are more simmilar to realy fancy "pets" than say a car!!!

i will now compare them to cars.

The honda dealship welcomes broke men into the dealership and will try realy hard to get them in a nice cheap POS economy car ie. - An ugly fat woman will be happy to get with you and will actualy treat you nice!

A Benz dealer often keeps security and bouncers on hand for when broke men come in to waste time looking at shit they aint "qulaified" for!!! ie. - Fine ass hos have been taught to see them selves as Benzes and do all they can to avoid broke men also. Yeh yo umight can get a fuck off one but dont expect a deep meanig full caring relationship if you broke.

I guess it went over your head too.
 
femmenoire said:
I'm tired of men being broke.

I like this statement cause it exemplifies a point I have been triung to make for a long time...

Women /hos have become like commodities to men like all other material things we desire! The only difference is they are more simmilar to realy fancy "pets" than say a car!!!

i will now compare them to cars.

The honda dealship welcomes broke men into the dealership and will try realy hard to get them in a nice cheap POS economy car ie. - An ugly fat woman will be happy to get with you and will actualy treat you nice!

A Benz dealer often keeps security and bouncers on hand for when broke men come in to waste time looking at shit they aint "qulaified" for!!! ie. - Fine ass hos have been taught to see them selves as Benzes and do all they can to avoid broke men also. Yeh yo umight can get a fuck off one but dont expect a deep meanig full caring relationship if you broke.
 
femmenoire said:
It's the "demand a dime, when lookin like a chipped token" phenomena.

I have a 4 pack. I did have a six. But I hurt myself so I couldn't work out for almost a year. I put on some weight. Since my surgury I went back to excercising and am almost back to where I was. I think most men just want the same effort from a woman that they give. And if a guy is pretty much tricking on a chick he has the right to ask for whatever he wants no matter what he looks like.
 
richlove said:
I have a 4 pack. I did have a six. But I hurt myself so I couldn't work out for almost a year. I put on some weight. Since my surgury I went back to excercising and am almost back to where I was. I think most men just want the same effort from a woman that they give. And if a guy is pretty much tricking on a chick he has the right to ask for whatever he wants no matter what he looks like.

I agree with you wholeheartedly.
 
thoughtone said:
Personality? If 90% of females didn’t have a pussy, 100% of males would have no reason to even speak to them!


Then I guess that would make you either immature or a homosexual you pick.
 
badboyyawdie said:
Why is it everytime time I get with a with a girl at first she's fine and everyone wants her. Then she gets comfortable and gains wait. What am I doing wrong? How do I tell her im tired of her looking fat. Its like she's happy weighing as musch as me and im 6' 225, she's 5'8 200lbs wtf. When I met her she was 130.
======================================

First, learn the difference between WEIGHT and WAIT.
Secondly, if she's your steady girl, why you trippin' like that? So what she put on some pounds. If you wanted a project, don't date a human. Either their emotions or their bodies ARE going to change. She did what she needed to do to hook you. She's comfortable now.
Third, women put up with and accept FAR MORE b.s. and faults of us, so to be picky about her figure, even AFTER y'all invested in the relationship is silly. :hmm:
 
if everybody in this thread could stop trying to be
smart asses for a minuite, maybe, just maybe something
positive could be concluded.
 
TEN said:
if everybody in this thread could stop trying to be
smart asses for a minuite, maybe, just maybe something
positive could be concluded.

Trying to be smart asses?

Why you're incredibly generous this evening!
 
MissMighty said:
The problem with guys is they constantly encouraging and praising "thick" girls when those girls are 2 hamburgers away from being fat. But then get mad when a girl gains weight to be that ideal image and goes past that line.

I agree 100%...

i heard some dude at the club yesterday syaing they fuck fat girls now cause fine fit hos be too much attitude bitching and trouble..
 
thoughtone said:
Personality? If 90% of females didn’t have a pussy, 100% of males would have no reason to even speak to them!



:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: damn this thread is too funny. Thoughtone I think your just talking from a young dude perspective.
 
TEN said:
if everybody in this thread could stop trying to be
smart asses for a minuite, maybe, just maybe something
positive could be concluded.

I agree with you but there is just too much tension between black american males and females now for anything positive to come of these types of "finger pointing" dicussions...
And a black american female will always throw in that "broke black men " comment even though she is fully aware of the crippling hurdles the white man they love so much has put in front of us...
:hmm:
 
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