.......exactly......Wha?
.......exactly......Wha?
No real man would divorce a lady while she's pregnant.
All the men in the world and she choose this loser.
.......exactly......
A real man takes care of the baby, inspite of paternity.
That's why I think there's more to it. Buddy must've stumbled across a hidden cache of dick pics and texts in here phone and some explicit texts detailing what she wants to do and setting up plansNo other way around it, he's just too adamant.
exactly , what? Thats fraud.
EXACTLY!!!
So how is he expected to stay?
Nah, he was engaged to another woman before he rushed into a marriage with Keisha. He probably back with the other woman. Also, Keisha was taking care of his kid with Lisa while he's out being lame.
I agree. I'm speaking of mindsets tho. My brother works with a guy that cheated and bragged daily, and didn't do much to hide it. His wife cheated once for revenge, and he divorced her. Long story short, he is in a worse situation, has to hide money and everything. He's actually burying money in his father's back yard. This is a white guy, but I've seen the same sentiments expressed around here. (not by you personally)
How?Yout just dropped a nuke on Esthers ideals in this 1 post...![]()
Yout just dropped a nuke on Esthers ideals in this 1 post...![]()
No. FRAUD on his part.
White men don't cheat, they most certainly would never do something less than honorable and chivalrous to their women. Cheating, hiding money, divorce??? White men don't do those things. Only the bruhs...How?
No. Belief ain't facts.
He's a bitch and he's in his feelings.
So, could I divorce my husband and ask for spousal support if I believed that he cheated on me even though I have no proof/facts/receipts?
White men don't cheat, they most certainly would never do something less than honorable and chivalrous to their women. Cheating, hiding money, divorce??? White men don't do those things. Only the bruhs...
Could you? Hell yeah, you could. People do that every day.
Now, who knows, this guy may be a bitch and in his feelings... and he may be totally off base about the kid. OR... he may know something and maybe the kid isn't his.
No woman in any race in the history of all womankind believes that. There are no vices or virtues that aren't present to some degree in every culture. If there were any doubt the Ashley Madison fallout should have shut that nonsense down.
I don't know if Esther belives it, or trolls. Butugh of her rhetoric revolves around this belief that white men don't fuck women over. That's only what we do...![]()
Patriarchal control. I don't buy the mess you all are all "seed sowers". And don't use a biblical reason for a religion y'all don't believe in. I don't feel like a discussion right now, tho.
Wha?
yall do know that women both cheat and initiate divorce in greater numbers than men, right?
i don't know where this myth that women don't cheat started. women get away with cheating much easier than men because the dude she is cheating with makes it 10 times easier to do so. he knows his place and plays his role.
most times the side chick wants to do everything possible to get to the wife/committed girl so men have to "play the game."
i tire of the bullshit very easily when people have false outrage. both of you know married women with with side dudes right now that are happy as hell and have no intent of leaving their husbands.
Actually he is smart to not marry her until he gets the DNA test. If he is already married he might have to spend quite a lot to get out of it if it isn't his
If he marries her the law has a stipulation called the presumption of paternity and he would be stuck with support regardless if he is biological or not.
If he has reason to doubt then he is obligated to himself to be sure.
The marriage was so short neither would get anything as there is no community property is that period of time
yall do know that women both cheat and initiate divorce in greater numbers than men, right?
i don't know where this myth that women don't cheat started. women get away with cheating much easier than men because the dude she is cheating with makes it 10 times easier to do so. he knows his place and plays his role.
most times the side chick wants to do everything possible to get to the wife/committed girl so men have to "play the game."
i tire of the bullshit very easily when people have false outrage. both of you know married women with with side dudes right now that are happy as hell and have no intent of leaving their husbands.
Actually he is smart to not marry her until he gets the DNA test. If he is already married he might have to spend quite a lot to get out of it if it isn't his
If he marries her the law has a stipulation called the presumption of paternity and he would be stuck with support regardless if he is biological or not.
If he has reason to doubt then he is obligated to himself to be sure.
The marriage was so short neither would get anything as there is no community property is that period of time
Also, out of all my friends there is only one of them that rolls like that. She didn't cheat when she was married, but had multiple partners when single. I can't say for sure or not if she was supposed to be exclusive tho.
and that raises the other issue.
women know that if they are found out they will be branded with a "Scarlet A," even among their friends. so depending on the relationships that they have with their friends they may or may not spill the beans.
i went through my side dude stage in life. those women will go to their graves not telling a single soul that we were smashing for years. they appreciate me being discreet because we run in the same circles. and part of the reason i got to smash anyway is because they know i was discreet.
They are already married. He's filing for divorce and requesting a paternity test.
Presumption of paternity is a motherfucker, but I think he'd be good in this situation. He caught this early and it's always based on the best interest of the child, different story if the kid is 6 and only knows him as his/her "Dad".
I don't know if Esther belives it, or trolls. But most of her rhetoric revolves around this belief that white men don't fuck women over. That's only what we do...![]()
I don't think she believes that, but she's here so ask her. Not only do they cheat, they are not above killing the wife and unborn child when things sour to avoid divorce proccedings, even as the wife isn't aware there is a problem.
IDK....quicky marriage might be taken as he knew she was preggo and doing the right thing..
It's gonna cost him and hope he don't get a woman judge in family court..
Mine was just like Judge Judy.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I hated that woman