Ok im 35 i got some questions?

[badboyyawdie]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

 

[Entrepronegro]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

Cool is getting an education and making something out of yourself. Fuck everything else cause everything else ain't cooler than that.

 

[DirtyCake]

why you tryin' to be cool @ 35? and why you care what other niggas are doin' @ 35?

 

[Dr. Truth]

Do the opposite of what you see everybody else doing. You're 35 you should have been stopped giving a fuck 15 years ago.

 

[havelcok]

doing whatever the fuck you want

 

[RAY V.]

Keep being you playa, don't even think about changing up and being with the times

 

[Dannyblueyes]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

So wearing Jordans is a new thing now?

 

[Esther]

Dont worry about being cool...just be yourself.

 

[crazyace718]

Watch the episode of family matters with cousin Clarence of you want to learn what cool is.

 

[Fright Night]

doing whatever the fuck you want

There is ur answer!!

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

Thank the baby boomer generation, the generation that said they would never get old. They allowed the newer gen. to influence their bitchassness. I see 45 year olds gossiping like fucking women and shit. Men trying to hard to impress other men. Trying to make other men jealous of them.....shit is outta pocket

 

[big enos burrnet]

mann look im damm near 40 and the last thing thats on my mind is what these lil young m-f's are doing...
and for one thang you need to do is watch they ass them lil m-f's are quick wit the steal...dont know how in the
fuck they try to runn with they pants half way down....

 

[DWBass]

Do you, bro. I never conformed to that peer pressure, what's cool shit!

 

[THREAD_CRITIC]

Nothing wrong with keeping up with pop culture.

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

why you tryin' to be cool @ 35? and why you care what other niggas are doin' @ 35?

The baby boomer gen is the one that trying to hold on to they h.s senior year. Remember 30 is the new 20 song? Yeah social engineering. The 40 year olds think they 30

 

[2 ONE 3]

Nothing wrong with keeping up with pop culture.

It is when you're old and don't understand the references

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

cool is just that, being cool and confident in who YOU are,

loving yourself enough to take care of yourself...

staying in shape and lookin good in a tee shirt and jeans no matter what the age...

being able to rock long braids or a bald ass head..

as long as you know yourself and feel good and confident about who you are...

thats fuckin cool!!!!

so what pair of jordans were you thinkin about picking up?? lol

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

I remember when it was considered lame to wear sweat pants jogging pants. Welp! 40 year olds I see wearing that, in the club chasing after women and got a family. Ill be damned if I got a family and still club hopping. Dudes bragging to other men. I see that all the time with the 40 ^ crew. The ones that arent talking about politics or what is going on in their city......those the ones you watch out for. Every 35 and up man usually is very very opinionated about city politics. The ones that are not.....those the ones you watch out for. The ones that dont know shit about who vice president is or the name of the mayor wife

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

why you tryin' to be cool @ 35? and why you care what other niggas are doin' @ 35?

There is a thing in us that we dont want to acknowledge about us men. We observe other men. In ancient times you often would marry your daughter off or would need the approval of the father to marry his daughter. And as a father you better had been caring what niggas doing and what quality traits in a man that you would marry off to your daughter. So you somewhat have had to keep s eye on other men to a extent. Not just the ones that are like you but the ones that aren't like you

 

[dagoon121]

Getting money and social network
There no more rules anymore, all that's require is you have a few followers on social networks and you making loot
Everything gets a pass nowadays
As long as your shoes are brand name, these kids will get you a pass

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

To me cool is your ability to handle yourself in various situations and your timing. How easy you make things look, authenticity and intelligence and humility.

Look at the rock. Coolest black man on the planet followed ali route. When you show you can handle yourself in various situations and know how to respond that makes you cool. It is the difference between someone constantly gossiping about you and wondering how you gonna handle it I.e birdman vs ctg and handling it in a manner like you dealt with people like him before see Dame dash v.s c.t.g on breakfast club interview. You could tell dame expect b.s and deals with it all the time.

 

[THREAD_CRITIC]

It is when you're old and don't understand the references

Kinda the point. If you keep up with it you'll understand the references . I can go out with 23 year olds at my company no problems just as I can hang with the 40 and 50 year olds. Dude wants to stay well rounded...

 

[kuu]

Cool is handling your business, professionally and in personal terms. Whether Air Jordans or Air gordans...

Integrity balanced with strength, love, intelligence, and a good woman with pretty feet and a phat booty.

That's Kuu...

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

Pretty much. Or atleast living beyond your means or acting like you getting it. Take some selfies talk about your haters and keep up with the latest rumors

Getting money and social network
There no more rules anymore, all that's require is you have a few followers on social networks and you making loot
Everything gets a pass nowadays
As long as your shoes are brand name, these kids will get you a pass

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

Cool is handling your business, professionally and in personal terms. Whether Air Jordans or Air gordans...

Integrity balanced with strength, love, intelligence, and a good woman with pretty feet and a phat booty.

That's Kuu...

thats not what is popular among the concensus.

 

[alexw]

Dont worry about being cool...just be yourself.

this man gives great advice!

 

[kuu]

thats not what is popular among the concensus.

Yeah that's true. The masses are the masses so I try to be me. I only have about 70 years left so fuck following these niggas. I'll listen and apply if you're sharing wisdom though.

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

I remember I was popular for 1.5 years in h.s I went from ugly duckling to handsome. I found it remarkable how fellow men and male peers treated you differently. Thats when I realized this popular thing aint for me.


Having to remember everyone name and shit and small talk with every fucking body to maintain popularity.........naw.....Most people dont know what I look like with a clean shave and crispy hairline.

 

[water]

What the fuck is considered cool,Im lost. I dont try to conform to anything or anyone. But i still see dudes walking around with twist that are an inch long twisting them . I see dudes in tight pants. I see everyone wearing jordans. What is considered cool these days. Maybe im getting old but im lost. I know everyone doing the dab dance. What's considered cool theses days?

Try a passport


the imagery you posted is so myopic

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

Try a passport


the imagery you posted is so myopic

Most people cant afford to travel including some of the people that actually travel

 

[shaddyvillethug]

On foe n nem

 

[^SpiderMan^]

Man forget trying to keep up with the trends. Nothing is more awkward looking than an old dude trying to keep up with new swag. Think about it, when you were young, what if you saw a 35 year old dude with baggy Cross Colors and a Kid n Play Hightop? The best thing to do is find a grown man swag and run with it. Younger women dont date older guys because they act young. Offer a style that these young cats aint up on yet.

 

[#blacklivesmatter]

Man forget trying to keep up with the trends. Nothing is more awkward looking than an old dude trying to keep up with new swag. Think about it, when you were young, what if you saw a 35 year old dude with baggy Cross Colors and a Kid n Play Hightop? The best thing to do is find a grown man swag and run with it. Younger women dont date older guys because they act young. Offer a style that these young cats aint up on yet.

Truth but even these older hoes that still have a body intact arent dressing older classy anymore they wearing leggings and camel toes and shit im seeing selfies at 40

 

[badboyyawdie]

Try a passport


the imagery you posted is so myopic

I from Jamaica we have passports lol

 

[34real]

Nothing wrong with keeping up with pop culture.

Sorry but I'll say that most people say one of the many lines"I just do me and never change"but if you catch a lot of dudes out and about you will see some form of conformity from the fashion to the music to the over sized rims on some of their cars;This is from dudes who were break dancing in the 80's and thugging it in the 90's.

You know what drives me crazy is the Bow-tie craze I see.It isn't ment for everyone to wear a bow-tie.Sock,man if wearing themed socks is your thing by god do you but don't do it just to do it.Glasses,if not shades or prescriptions why the fuck are you wearing Steve Urkels frames on and also what's the point of leaving the sticker of the brands on the lenses?.Designer shoes,don't fuck up your trap money on $600 shoes when you have to eat for the rest of the month.

Most of the stuff done now has been done before,you just have to stick to what you like.