GODIVA
I’m reading your post on here and you seem to be extremely bitter. Your harsh down talk about black men is not some kind of way to make up for the down talk about black women on this board, a porn board at that, lol show’s your intelligence. People have opinions as do you.
I’m sorry from what it sounds like that you have not met a black man worth a damn. Dating is very hard. Most of us when coming up really only worried about getting an education or making money. Being able to find a mate wasn’t really on the radar because we figured that shit would just happen. As we get older and fall into our lives we look up and realize that damn its about that time to find some one real. We didn’t figure it wouldn’t be hard, but its harder than mostly every thing we’ll have to do.
Believe it or not most black men aren’t thugs, gay, down low, gangsta, low lives womanizers ect. I know that’s what BET/media pumps in our heads all day but that’s not the truth. People, dudes and females, like that are totally foreign in my circle.
It all starts with self respect, and loving your self. Why would you put your self in a position where you would even be around people like that? If, from how you talk, you are so against people of that ilk than don’t put yourself in a position where you meet people of that ilk, unless you are of that ilk your self, and that’s IS your speed. If you haven’t upgraded your self ( not saying you have or haven’t) than don’t expect to ever pull a upgraded man.
Venture out, leave your area, experience different people. If you feel you are too good for the city you are in or the dudes who are in it, its pretty simple leave it. It sounds like the dudes you meet ain’t shit or can’t challenge your intelligence. Upgrade yourself.
But coming on here talking all harsh and cussing doesn’t drive any point you attempt to make home. It only make brothers who don’t date or think highly of black woman happy that don’t have one, lol. And makes you sound bitter and ignorant.
As for the white dude who voiced his opinion, I’m glad you’ve found happiness regardless of what race she is. But to say that we as black men don’t appreciate black women is some straight up bull shit. Nothing in the world, as you know, is sexier than a beautiful intelligent black woman and black men know and really appreciate them. But we aren’t going to appreciate a woman who doesn’t deserve to be appreciated, black white, yellow or brown. Being a bitch hoe or what ever don’t have nothing to do with race, it has to do with a bitch being a damn bitch, and she should be called out on that, that’s another story so I’m going to go ahead and digress on that. LOL