When love turns into hate
Damn......
Bitch was a jump off. His weak ass check was prolly only 1100 every 2 weeks
When love turns into hate
Damn......
No. Im fucking with my girlfriend right now. You homos can go fuck yourselves and each other.
Guys complain because they feel they are giving the woman money and not getting anything for it.
All their complaints are about the woman and you never hear them speak of the child
They aren't complaining about the child's treatment nor are the going to court...and let the woman start fukkn somebody else they lose their fukkn minds and want to stop paying
Its about the child period...
Perhaps and perhaps your case doesn't fully represent what some guys experience in the system... Or perhaps if there were no child support system maybe you and the child mother wouldn't had the child or perhaps if you did perhaps you guys will still be together... The statistics sort of points that out...or maybe your uncle was an aberration like the videos you post and this faggot ass that shot his baby
"Dude the vast majority don't get pregnant because it is some diabolical plan to get 18% from some minimum wage worker.
They are either careless or they are in love ( or think they are ) and if you add in the very young ones because they love the thought of having a baby to love because they don't get love anywhere else."
So as soon as they came out with the child support system black women all of a sudden got stupid and careless? The how would you explain the dramatic drop in teen pregnancies in NYC right after they reduced the welfare support for children?
Did they all of a sudden get smart and careful???
Its a lot more dramatic that I thought look at these numbers..I didn't doubt the cause and effect, but as I said before it not as clear as say Jim crow.you can call those men and women dumb but they are still making free choices.not only that but you also have to take into account more women going to the work force and a lot being more educated/paid than men.to your point at one point in time women were more depended on men and it was excepted.when I was asking about numbers, I was more so speaking on your proof that other races/cultures are treated differently when it comes to child support and visitation.
Perhaps and perhaps your case doesn't fully represent what some guys experience in the system... Or perhaps if there were no child support system maybe you and the child mother wouldn't had the child or perhaps if you did perhaps you guys will still be together... The statistics sort of points that out...
I never said you would be together I am saying accordign to the numbers chances are you guys would have been or at least not have a child, because before 1970 most black people who had children did it under wed lock, today I believe 80 of blacks do it out of wed lock... So with out speaking in absolutes according to those figures, chances are you guys would have been married or not have a child, back then..No there have been unwed mothers and outside children forever...Stop thinking it started with child support.
child support was a reaction it was preventive.
and they aren't smart and careful now..
I think a large part of it is this. But i also think they don't want ANYTHING taken from them. That's a part of it i feel. A percentage of it seems to me to be, the powerlessness of it they feel. As i've said before, a bunch of them don't want the responsibility of taking care of the child. And a slightly larger percent know their not properly FIT to take care of a child.
I remember many times telling men to seek custody. And i can't remember how many times i heard enthusiasm or SURE! It was almost always i can't by myself. Their mother... this or that. Or they automatically assume that the court gives a child to the mother just cause. They have no idea how the process works. And also i heard a lot of "Well just give the kids to me then...(after they hear how much the judge tells them to pay in support). Because ya know... that's going to work.
The more compassionate side of me feels it may be all of the above. But regardless. They do not know how the system works.
I didn't ask about that and one of your original statements was that (correct if I'm wrong or I misread) blacks were treated differently when it came to child support and visitation rights. That's the data I'm asking about but that doesn't change the part men play in creating life.[/QUOTE]Its a lot more dramatic that I thought look at these numbers..
And yes it does effect other races also, but not as much as us blacks, so I am not so concern about them as I am my people...
My question is, if welfare is supposed help black mothers and children, why is it the stats are saying the opposite..
Bitch was a jump off. His weak ass check was prolly only 1100 every 2 weeks
I didn't ask about that and one of your original statements was that (correct if I'm wrong or I misread) blacks were treated differently when it came to child support and visitation rights. That's the data I'm asking about but that doesn't change the part men play in creating life.[/QUOTE]Its a lot more dramatic that I thought look at these numbers..
And yes it does effect other races also, but not as much as us blacks, so I am not so concern about them as I am my people...
My question is, if welfare is supposed help black mothers and children, why is it the stats are saying the opposite..
I never said you would be together I am saying accordign to the numbers chances are you guys would have been or at least not have a child, because before 1970 most black people who had children did it under wed lock, today I believe 80 of blacks do it out of wed lock... So with out speaking in absolutes according to those figures, chances are you guys would have been married or not have a child, back then..
Then that would show up in the unwed children statistics, don't you think?bullshit......all you gotta do is read obituaries and you'll see how many cats had kids from different women the same ages or withing they marriage to another woman.
dude....you have no clue what you are talking about...
you also had more family taking the children from their unwed pregnant relatives and raising them..
Then that would show up in the unwed children statistics, don't you think?
The problem I am talking about isn't fathers taking care of their children, because in my opinion every father should... The problem and real cause of our problems in America, is that women are having babies by men who don't want to be fathers..and most of those cats would not take custody for a couple hundred dollars a month...and have their lives dominated by the needs of a child.
it sounds good to say fuck that she ain't shit ima get my daughter/son until they realize that couple hundred ain't no reward and it takes a lot to be a parent and do it alone.....
You are right , but guess who will not raise their kids to think like this.... The same bugar bear that some poor sap condom broke off in.... The ugly fat chick with the three kids and no baby daddy to be found...so do a better job of raising your sons.
bad parenting and lack of resources takes time to show the consequences..
do a better job of raising your daughters and give them a male role model to strive to get......if the males she sees growing up ain't shit she will end up with a cat who ain't shit
Not just your kids but kids in general. White man does this and does that to our communities but they live by the whites rules of everything though. If you want to build a black community you can't just let it end with your kids. Everyone's kid is your kid in the community.so do a better job of raising your sons.
bad parenting and lack of resources takes time to show the consequences..
do a better job of raising your daughters and give them a male role model to strive to get......if the males she sees growing up ain't shit she will end up with a cat who ain't shit
I know a lot of Russian sluts who like to party and fuck, a lot of time raw dog, but guess what, they never wind up pregnant...Not just your kids but kids in general. White man does this and does that to our communities but they live by the whites rules of everything though. If you want to build a black community you can't just let it end with your kids. Everyone's kid is your kid in the community.
Not just your kids but kids in general. White man does this and does that to our communities but they live by the whites rules of everything though. If you want to build a black community you can't just let it end with your kids. Everyone's kid is your kid in the community.
How much is your check?
You and lexx diamond are"Girlfriend"? You?![]()
how would everyone fell, if the kid wasnt his? (and he had to pay child support on it)
how would everyone fell, if the kid wasnt his? (and he had to pay child support on it)
Not so fast playa!!! Lets check how the real world works...