Complete and utter bullshit. The reason many say the Civil war was so destructive is because it pitted brother against brother and divided families who had differences of opinions about slavery.
Robert E. Lee CHOSE to fight for slavers......FOH
Robert E Lee lived in the south idiot..
Pited brother against brother ? you mean like the bloods and crips ? vice lords and disciples ?
And who is the many that said that ? old post some made up bullshit and act like you got it from a reliable source.
ANd according to your logic those rednecks are right to harbor animosity for the L cause that war was destructive and pited brother against brother and General Grant CHOSE to fight for the north.