Stop the shaming of Single black mothers
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My boy who is a promoter in NYC , literally fucks different women every single night.... They know how he gets down and yet they don't care, yet they still catch feelings... This is common of Baller type dudes...
Sure there are women who do this, but like I said, she can only get pregnant once a year...
We are trying. We are telling our younger women to choose better. Raise the bar. Have standards. Unless it is rape, females choose who to mate with. In many cases, males just trying to get on. Women are constantly refusing advances of men. It's just more on the woman to say no and choose the right cat.
The average man can go a year without a woman trying to "talk" to him(maybe fuck). The average woman can't go a day. Women are basically approached for sex all of the time. They have to be way more selective of who gets it.
So Lonestar, what's your explanation for this? http://wreg.com/2012/05/16/tn-man-fathers-30-kids-but-cant-support-any/
None of the men in this thread would make excuses for that guy,or defend him in anyway. But what do you have to say about those 11 women?
Mary McLeod Bethune Quotes
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
Sista are guilty of dropping the ball based on some bullshit ass solidarity sistahood smack.
Sistas need a realistic and effective moral code to live by. The status quo is not working.
Acceptance is not acceptable.
On this site.
It is a general rule to ...
. . . not go raw dude in some random chick.
. . . not to strike women.
. . . not to fuck with hood rats.
. . . not to marry based on physical beauty.
. . . not be a deadbeat dad.
. . . not to be an absentee father.
. . . not to have a litter of kids with random chicks.
If a dude comes on here and confesses to these transgressions then he is berated.
This doesn't just apply here. Brothas in general know not to promote foolishness.
Our sistas don't shame each other when they see a chick doing dumb shit.
Brothas on here have berated T.O. and his baby mama situation, Usher and his situation, Tiger Woods and his situation and Chad Ochocinco for his situation.
I don't any know any brotha that support the decisions of the aforementioned dudes.
I rarely hear chicks calling sistas to task for their fucked up choices.
Brothas are always second guessing dudes for making fucked up choices.
Mary McLeod Bethune Quotes
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
Sista are guilty of dropping the ball based on some bullshit ass solidarity sistahood smack.
Sistas need a realistic and effective moral code to live by. The status quo is not working.
Acceptance is not acceptable.
On this site.
It is a general rule to ...
. . . not go raw dude in some random chick.
. . . not to strike women.
. . . not to fuck with hood rats.
. . . not to marry based on physical beauty.
. . . not be a deadbeat dad.
. . . not to be an absentee father.
. . . not to have a litter of kids with random chicks.
If a dude comes on here and confesses to these transgressions then he is berated.
This doesn't just apply here. Brothas in general know not to promote foolishness.
Our sistas don't shame each other when they see a chick doing dumb shit.
Brothas on here have berated T.O. and his baby mama situation, Usher and his situation, Tiger Woods and his situation and Chad Ochocinco for his situation.
I don't any know any brotha that support the decisions of the aforementioned dudes.
I rarely hear chicks calling sistas to task for their fucked up choices.
Brothas are always second guessing dudes for making fucked up choices.
Mary McLeod Bethune Quotes
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
Mary McLeod Bethune Quotes
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
Sista are guilty of dropping the ball based on some bullshit ass solidarity sistahood smack.
Sistas need a realistic and effective moral code to live by. The status quo is not working.
Acceptance is not acceptable.
On this site.
It is a general rule to ...
. . . not go raw dude in some random chick.
. . . not to strike women.
. . . not to fuck with hood rats.
. . . not to marry based on physical beauty.
. . . not be a deadbeat dad.
. . . not to be an absentee father.
. . . not to have a litter of kids with random chicks.
If a dude comes on here and confesses to these transgressions then he is berated.
This doesn't just apply here. Brothas in general know not to promote foolishness.
Our sistas don't shame each other when they see a chick doing dumb shit.
Brothas on here have berated T.O. and his baby mama situation, Usher and his situation, Tiger Woods and his situation and Chad Ochocinco for his situation.
I don't any know any brotha that support the decisions of the aforementioned dudes.
I rarely hear chicks calling sistas to task for their fucked up choices.
Brothas are always second guessing dudes for making fucked up choices.
Mary McLeod Bethune Quotes
“The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its womanhood.”
A good intelligent woman, also a product of patriarchal beliefs.
Everything you said was spot on except for this. Perhaps not on this board, but in everyday life, a lot of dumb, irresponsible shit that brothas do gets a pass from other brothas. Hell, just listen to a lot of the rap that's popular these days.
, especially all that strip club, trap shit.
Patriarchal is a bad thing?
Yes.
On what earth has a matriarchal belief system benefited the community in a way not realized by a patriarchal system?
70% of AA families are functioning matriarchal systems?
How's that working out for us?
No, they're not. And the Iroquois were largely matriarchal. Some african tribes, some others. Then that comes down to definition... But that's not really the point. Anything that's not in balance is not beneficial. And as a community us not working out is not due to any 1 thing. And it's definitely not the fault of black women.
I'm not trying to convince you. You've already got your finger pointed.
Most folks know rap is fiction.
Most folks know the strip club is a retreat from reality.
No one wants to wife a stripper to bear their children.
You don't a scrippa home to meet your grandmama or your pastor.
It is common knowledge that you can't turn a ho into a housewife.
Sista don't say you can't turn a repeat felon to a father or a family man.
We all know what a simp is. What's the female equivalent?
No one promotes going to strip club to find a good woman or the future mother of your child.
Wikipedia is no substitute for real knowledge.
My statement remains.
On what earth . . . ?
Also, as MM Bethune stated, the worth of the race is measured in the character of womanhood.
Every effective program to lift the condition of a people is centered around raising the knowledge base, aspirations and consciousness of the woman.
Wikipedia is a nice place to get knowledge from. Provided it's tempered with other sources. But that has nothing to do with here. Now if your'e trying to be extra dimensional. THIS earth. But like i said, that's a patriarchal view. And that patriarchal view is 1 of excising men from responsibility. Which is ONE of the things wrong with US as a people. Besides being a conquered enslaved people, in a conquered land. Being behind enemy lines and forced to take the ways of those who've sought our destruction.
For future benefit, suggestion. Don't jump polars like that. There's always more than 1 polar option.
Plenty of folks don't know that most rap is fiction, especially children and teenagers.
Plenty of strippers have "regulars" who they feed sob stories to, get money from, and those regulars think they can "save" and wife up.
Point is, much of what you regard as common sense or as BGOL "man-law" isn't necessarily practiced by men in the real world.
On real note my fellow men. We do not have any power when it comes to down to it. Women have always been ruling us from since creation with games. The richest or the poorest man still falls to her feet and wept like a child. She knows this by instinct and we have to deal with it regardless how painful it is to us. Now we trying to cop this power with technology, but we still loose out by laws and the dumb stuff we do to get into trouble.
The mom is certain, but the dad is uncertain.
-Technology DNA.
Law: You still the father(the best interest of the child)
She cheats on you
-Technology Video or pic.
High probability outcome: violence.
Law: You in jail.
Your wealth
Law: cough it up.
But back to my topic, the life of woman is hard, harder than man, so she is always scheming for the best security for herself and her kids. No need to hate, just know the game.
No need to shame her, just bounce and keep your money, and ass out of jail.
The mom is certain, but the dad is uncertain.
-Technology DNA.
Law: You still the father(the best interest of the child)
She cheats on you
-Technology Video or pic.
High probability outcome: violence.
Law: You in jail.
Your wealth
Law: cough it up.
But back to my topic, the life of woman is hard, harder than man, so she is always scheming for the best security for herself and her kids. No need to hate, just know the game.
No need to shame her, just bounce and keep your money, and ass out of jail.
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That's nice. And he's wrong.
No matter what you want to believe. Men and women working together without the man trying to domineer and control is the only way a society can be at peace. The way this country is NOW is due to patriarchy. Show me a society that was harmonious and peaceful, thriving where patriarchy reigned.
That's nice. And he's wrong.
I have one.
Anyuak Kingdom
http://www.sudantribune.com/spip.php?article42276
Good try, but you should look into their history a bit. And day to day life. How the women are treated, so on and so forth. If you're saying what i think you're saying.
Rick Ronson
Banned
my failed marriage aint that bad
I would be fucked up by having to be away from my kid though
that shit is like a nightmare to me...doubt id handle it well
so i always nutted on bitches backs
Sometimes I regret it....
sometimes i be like lemmie go nut in a bitch.
but im so
and i aint even of death
I would be fucked up by having to be away from my kid though
that shit is like a nightmare to me...doubt id handle it well
so i always nutted on bitches backs
Sometimes I regret it....
sometimes i be like lemmie go nut in a bitch.
but im so
and i aint even of death 
People (Men and Women) need to use better judgement BEFORE THEY LAY DOWN.
End of Discussion
End of Discussion
Rick Ronson
Banned
a lot of these niggas just roll the dice and yall know it
You gonna leave your keys in someone's house and then blame them for letting you in??
Rick Ronson
Banned
I hated math
That's nice. And he's wrong.
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