If that was my daughter, after seeing that video... no matter how old she is, I would whip her ass and then take her with me to that drivers house and apologize to him and make her apologize too.
For other relation I would be in their corner and support or ride UNTIL I saw that vid... then it would be a REAL sitdown with her father or oldest brother, and another elder in the family with the video, and have a real talk about our NAME
as long as these chicks that have family that will retaliate/condone their behavior... they will forever act the way they do.