‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning him —

[Alaskanredman]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I guess I will be in the minority on this board and say I question the sexuality of a motherfucker that thinks homosexuality can be learned. My biology has never made me confused to even utter some shit like that. So it may be a defect or whatever but I believe motherfuckers are born that way and how the fuck can you hold some shit they were born with against them. On some level I admit it would be hard to apply this logic with my own son because of social constructs, but what the fuck else could I do? He is my child.

*Edit: I clarify this by adding that I'm specifically talking about homosexuality dealing with men.

 

[ballscout1]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

One cat had it right when talking about disowning your child when he also brought in other unacceptable behavior like serial killer rapist ect.

This more than anything was a thread in regards to disowning ones child/seed.

It's gone 3 pages and the entire focus is on homo's..

3 pages focusing on a side issue.

The issue is do you support and stick by your child regardless or not.

Doesn't mean you agree, condone or accept their behavior

Simply amazing to sit here and read all these comments while the real focus has been missed totally.

 

[PJN]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I would never disown my child. I would be highly disappointed but would get over it

Yeah, as much as I detest faggotry, I can't see myself disowning my child. Relationship will definitely change but I don't think I'll disown him/her.

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I am curious to hear something


Many of you detest/despise homosexuality

some of you say that you will not disown your child

how do you bridge that gap then? Sooner or later, you will have to meet their mate... how would you handle this?

 

[egatsby]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

What's up with all the gay topics being posted on the board. This use to be a place for warm blooded American heterosexual men. Now I don't know what it is

 

[The Jamaican]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

You always need your parents approval. We as humans do shit for approval all the time.

I'm 26 and successful, and I still want the woman who only calls me a day after my birthday to love me. I know she can't because she has issues. I always hoped that she didn't display her disease to her other sons but she has.

Do you know what kind of person talks bad about their son and depend on that son for money?

I don't know about my other brothers, but I can't dislike my mother. I just hope one day before its too late for us to have a relationship.

This makes perfect sense why you act the way you do here. Since I believe you said that you were from a Caribbean island, let me guess your story.

You left your 'third world shores' for fear of persecution over your homosexual lifestyle.

Your mother, just like the rest in your home town community despise homosexuals, so you head to America, probably applied for asylum and stayed there where you would be met with open arms.

Your moms, not liking that faggot shit, keeps you at arms length and only calls you after your birthday which tears you apart, because all you wanted was acceptance from her. But being poor, she is not afraid to hit you up for a few US dollars.

You in trying to reconcile, calls your mothers natural detest to homosexual activity a 'disease' or has 'issues' as you have called it as do most homosexuals in response to persons non acceptance.

You not being able to stop taking dick in the ass, see the situation as hopeless as no one looks like they will change.

Am I close? Does this sound about right? be honest now.

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

What is the propose of this post? Anyone who believes love is unconditional is foolish and need to stop reading Hallmark cards. If the gay guy was trying to make his father look like the bad guy in this. It's not working!

 

[ballscout1]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

What is the propose of this post? Anyone who believes love is unconditional is foolish and need to stop reading Hallmark cards. If the gay guy was trying to make his father look like the bad guy in this. It's not working!

Your momma don't love you ?

That's to bad but keep your head up ..Be strong

 

[Shotta042807]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I am curious to hear something


Many of you detest/despise homosexuality

some of you say that you will not disown your child

how do you bridge that gap then? Sooner or later, you will have to meet their mate... how would you handle this?

This is impossible for me to answer.... That's the kind of thing I guess if/when you got to that bridge, you'll cross it.

One cat had it right when talking about disowning your child when he also brought in other unacceptable behavior like serial killer rapist ect.

This more than anything was a thread in regards to disowning ones child/seed.

It's gone 3 pages and the entire focus is on homo's..

3 pages focusing on a side issue.

The issue is do you support and stick by your child regardless or not.

Doesn't mean you agree, condone or accept their behavior

Simply amazing to sit here and read all these comments while the real focus has been missed totally.

Disowning my child, Idk, it would take something ridiculous to do that. I mean you got guys sticking with their wife after she killt their kids (I for one wouldn't), but Idk, I mean your child is your child, you helped cultivate them and shape them. Him/her would have to do something unimaginable or truly detestable for me to cut them off.

I will be honest, it would hurt like hell seeing that shit and being around them and a mate, I would probably be feeling inferior as a parent, like maybe I did something to fuck up. Similar to parents of a murderer, rapist, whore, drug addict/alcoholic, etc.

That being said, I can't say I'd condone another parent for turning their back or dealing with it the way they can handle. Life is short though, and you can't choose your family they always say. Best to make peace somehow and deal with it, fnck what anyone else thinks, that's your fam

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Am I close? Does this sound about right? be honest now.

No.

My mother had me in her early teens. I can count on 4 fingers the amount of times I've seen her in my life. I have little brothers and they hate her. Being the oldest, I understood her- her story isn't uncommon. A person who rather chase men than make herself better.

My beliefs were forged through my life experiences. I saw the evils the elite can do first hand in the name of god. And yet those same godly mothafuckas won't lift a finger to help you with shit.

So when I say I have an issue with god, his laws, and his supporters, take me at my word when I say I am antigod with every breath in my body.

I had a Muslim aunt who spat in my food. My strongest venom is against people who practice that religion.

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Your momma don't love you ?

That's to bad but keep your head up ..Be strong

Lol, Let's get off mommas now because I just got off yours!

-OLD SKOOL PLAYING THE DOZEN DISS!

 

[The Jamaican]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

No.

My mother had me in her early teens. I can count on 4 fingers the amount of times I've seen her in my life. I have little brothers and they hate her. Being the oldest, I understood her- her story isn't uncommon. A person who rather chase men than make herself better.

My beliefs were forged through my life experiences. I saw the evils the elite can do first hand in the name of god. And yet those same godly mothafuckas won't lift a finger to help you with shit.

So when I say I have an issue with god, his laws, and his supporters, take me at my word when I say I am antigod with every breath in my body.

I had a Muslim aunt who spat in my food. My strongest venom is against people who practice that religion.

Thanks for clearing that up. Alot of things can be misread on the internet and I apologise sincerely if I have offended. I wont speak to the religious aspect of your post, but I can certainly sympathize with the rocky relationship with your mother.

I would say, May God bless you and our family, but that might not be appropriate.

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

What is the propose of this post? Anyone who believes love is unconditional is foolish and need to stop reading Hallmark cards. If the gay guy was trying to make his father look like the bad guy in this. It's not working!

The guy didn't have to do anything, the letter says it all, he is a bad guy... its not like the gay dude murdered or molested anyone... he chose to disown his blood because of his sexual preference... not a cousin, not a grandma, the boy which was produced from your loins...

now, that is in the eye of the beholder, because if you are the type to cut off your children because they are gay and that reason alone, then it would make sense why he is not a bad dude... through my eyes, the father is a bad guy... the son could also be a dick for placing it on the net, but like father like son.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Thanks for clearing that up. Alot of things can be misread on the internet and I apologise sincerely if I have offended. I wont speak to the religious aspect of your post, but I can certainly sympathize with the rocky relationship with your mother.

I would say, May God bless you and our family, but that might not be appropriate.

There's two ways to address ones anti homosexuality stance: 1) because god said so and 2) it's not good for evolution. I refuse to debate on the former and the latter is turning out to be bullshit as well.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

now, that is in the eye of the beholder, because if you are the type to cut off your children because they are gay and that reason alone, then it would make sense why he is not a bad dude... through my eyes, the father is a bad guy... the son could also be a dick for placing it on the net, but like father like son.

Family members being assholes

And the gay kid didn't put the letter out to make the father a douche. He put it so other gay kids wouldn't feel like shit because their parents are scumbags.

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

The guy didn't have to do anything, the letter says it all, he is a bad guy... its not like the gay dude murdered or molested anyone... he chose to disown his blood because of his sexual preference... not a cousin, not a grandma, the boy which was produced from your loins...

now, that is in the eye of the beholder, because if you are the type to cut off your children because they are gay and that reason alone, then it would make sense why he is not a bad dude... through my eyes, the father is a bad guy... the son could also be a dick for placing it on the net, but like father like son.

Spoken like someone who doesn't have any kids. When you use words like LOINS, PRODUCED, BLOOD, and CUT OFF. I don't know about you but I like my family tree with alot of branches.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Spoken like someone who doesn't have any kids. When you use words like BLOOD, PRODUCED, LOINS, and CUT OFF. I don't know about you but I like my family tree with alot of branches.

I would propose artificial insamination but god hates that too right?

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Spoken like someone who doesn't have any kids. When you use words like BLOOD, PRODUCED, LOINS, and CUT OFF. I don't know about you but I like my family tree with alot of branches.

I've always used words like that... its called a vocabulary and the choices of words which I choose to use...

that needs to be explained to you?

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Family members being assholes

And the gay kid didn't put the letter out to make the father a douche. He put it so other gay kids wouldn't feel like shit because their parents are scumbags.

dual purpose, still same results.

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I've always used words like that... its called a vocabulary and the choices of words which I choose to use...

that needs to be explained to you?

Ok? Its obvious you missed my point.

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Ok? Its obvious you missed my point.

No, your point is too idiotic to address...

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

No, your point is too idiotic to address...

Your response further proves to me it went over your head.

 

[LSN]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Brutal? Hate? The father is entitled to his opinion/feelings just as much as dude is entitled to choosing to take dick up the ass...father made it respectfully clear he doesn't accept that lifestyle for his son...and that's all it is...a lifestyle...

 

[Deacs]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Your response further proves to me it went over your head.

Laughing at your own jokes, pathetic...


Look... you could use any phrasing imaginable... I choose to use that because its not a personal issue... plus, I am apathetic to the whole thing.

You like many people and branches in your family... do you want a cookie for acting on the natural imperative? No, celebrating natural stances is again... idiotic.

So.. .let's see... since any child could be a ward of a male through varying circumstances... the use of the word blood, means you produced him... same as loins.

Cut off... as this father placed in his letter...

then you responded with an assumption... one which I ignored...

Get back to the subject...

 

[ouruko]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I'd take him on a trip to de Islands...

 

[crossroads]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Laughing at your own jokes, pathetic...


Look... you could use any phrasing imaginable... I choose to use that because its not a personal issue... plus, I am apathetic to the whole thing.

You like many people and branches in your family... do you want a cookie for acting on the natural imperative? No, celebrating natural stances is again... idiotic.

So.. .let's see... since any child could be a ward of a male through varying circumstances... the use of the word blood, means you produced him... same as loins.

Cut off... as this father placed in his letter...

then you responded with an assumption... one which I ignored...

Get back to the subject...

Again spoken like a person who doesn't have any kids.

 

[BigDaddyBuk]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I guess I will be in the minority on this board and say I question the sexuality of a motherfucker that thinks homosexuality can be learned. My biology has never made me confused to even utter some shit like that. So it may be a defect or whatever but I believe motherfuckers are born that way and how the fuck can you hold some shit they were born with against them. On some level I admit it would be hard to apply this logic with my own son because of social constructs, but what the fuck else could I do? He is my child.

*Edit: I clarify this by adding that I'm specifically talking about homosexuality dealing with men.

the only reason you think homosexuality cant be learned is cause you haven't asked any gay dudes.

because THEY WILL TELL YOU IT'S LEARNED.

now im not saying they can't be predisposed to homosexual behavior, i'm not saying no man is born with an extra x chromosome.

what i'm saying is you dont have to LEARN how to fuck a woman. it would happen all on its own. the male physiology is designed to naturally align with the woman's, the male erection is autonomic, making procreation a thing you can do without being conscious, or in some cases even ALIVE.

you HAVE TO LEARN to engage in man on man...hell i wont even call that shit sex.

also, perfectly straight boys have been turned gay through molestation. gay older men seek out preteens who lack parental supervision, are disadvantaged socially and financially, and become their benefactor, eventually sexually abusing them.

these kids weren't gay from birth, they were indoctrinated into the LIFESTYLE. later they ALSO tend to identify themselves as bisexual, because once their secondary sexual identity manifests itself, they want to be WITH WOMEN, but all they KNOW is being with A MAN.

TWO guys confided in me about this shit, and the first one REALLY broke it down.

this is why i cant cosign none of this "gay is okay shit", cause once you see the lifestyle from the inside out, you'll realize nothing is healthy about it.

 

[PJN]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

I am curious to hear something


Many of you detest/despise homosexuality

some of you say that you will not disown your child

how do you bridge that gap then? Sooner or later, you will have to meet their mate... how would you handle this?

That bridge would have to be crossed...eventually, I guess with time. The other guy/gal comes with the territory, I'm not going to shun the other person knowing it will hurt my kid. If I do, I might as well shun them both.
I enjoyed and still enjoy the love of my parents and have seen the damage starving a child of parental love can do. I'm not going to deny my kid that love even though I might be bitterly disappointed. Just don't do that lovey, kissy thing in my presence.

 

[David Game]

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Is this what you've come to now?!?!? Creatin' faggot ass threads several pages on BGOL?!?!?

Is this what it's come to for yall dumbass dick~ridaz?!?!?

Which part of BlackGIRL do you fail to understand? OR is that fail to comprehend?



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[Alaskanredman]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

the only reason you think homosexuality cant be learned is cause you haven't asked any gay dudes.

because THEY WILL TELL YOU IT'S LEARNED.

now im not saying they can't be predisposed to homosexual behavior, i'm not saying no man is born with an extra x chromosome.

what i'm saying is you dont have to LEARN how to fuck a woman. it would happen all on its own. the male physiology is designed to naturally align with the woman's, the male erection is autonomic, making procreation a thing you can do without being conscious, or in some cases even ALIVE.

you HAVE TO LEARN to engage in man on man...hell i wont even call that shit sex.

also, perfectly straight boys have been turned gay through molestation. gay older men seek out preteens who lack parental supervision, are disadvantaged socially and financially, and become their benefactor, eventually sexually abusing them.

these kids weren't gay from birth, they were indoctrinated into the LIFESTYLE. later they ALSO tend to identify themselves as bisexual, because once their secondary sexual identity manifests itself, they want to be WITH WOMEN, but all they KNOW is being with A MAN.

TWO guys confided in me about this shit, and the first one REALLY broke it down.

this is why i cant cosign none of this "gay is okay shit", cause once you see the lifestyle from the inside out, you'll realize nothing is healthy about it.

I would think that a gay man would say "yes" to being able to learn that shit because they are predisposed for that attraction.

I as a straight man, can find no way to be attracted to another man. My thought process, my feeling and my biology doesn't lend itself to that attraction. We may differ in that aspect, but I can't even comprehend the attraction to a man so I can only conclude that it can't be learned.

On the molestation point, how the fuck do you know a boy's sexuality? A boy or girl shouldn't have any sexuality until puberty.

I don't know what you mean by an erection is automatic... I never had the same reaction when I see a beautiful women when I've seen any man so you lost me with that. If you can learn that to change that attraction element, I don't know how it is possible. I think it is very possible for a homo to want to be straight and learn how to accept their attractions, but for a straight man to learn to be attracted to a gay man...

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Re: ‘You’ve made your choice’: Gay man posts dad’s brutal farewell letter disowning h

Peace,

Why is this news? The son is attention whoring. Shit probably happens everyday in America. Again, if this is old, why is it newsworthy? Better yet, why is it on BGOL?

I hate this new-age, everything-I-think-or-do-needs-to-be-shared-with-the-world generation. Gay cat should deal with that shit with himself and his friends, not with the rest of the world.