There is a difference between smack on the butt for messing up and grabbing an extension cord and beating them until they pass out. You bugging.
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80% of blacks spank our kids? I thought we were shitty parents?
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There is a difference between smack on the butt for messing up and grabbing an extension cord and beating them until they pass out. You bugging.
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There is no difference. You assaulted your child. And for what? Because she was being a child. Black people still have a slave mentality. They are raising their children like Slave masters raised their great grand parents. They were treated exactly like you treat animals that act up.
You dont have to resort to violence when your 2 year old acts like a 2 year old. Once again I cant think of one single reason to lay a hand on my children. Not one.
i think it varies with the child. Most children do not need spanking. They need teaching. But, and look at all of the other species on Earth, sometimes a son will challenge his father to be the alpha male of their pack, and the father must put his son in place and reassert his place as alpha male.
If this doesn't happen when the child is young, the two will struggle when the son starts to get bigger.
Now, that doesn't have to be a spanking. But some dudes, and I was friends with some, it had to be.
The kid across the street from me growing up never really got in much trouble, he got grounded a couple times but that's about it. Well, one time when he was about 11, he got in trouble and got grounded. We were playing football outside and he wanted to play. He came outside anyway. His mom was a stay at home mom and she came to the door and told him to come back inside because he was grounded.
He waved her off and said he would come back in later. She came out to get him by the arm, he pushed her hand back, not crazy or aggressive, he was laughing like it was a joke. Eventually she went back inside.
Well, I guess she called his pops at work because he came home, walked over and told lil dude to get inside and never disrespect his mother again.
Lil dude looked at his pops then turned back towards us to play and said some shit under his breath and the ass whipping started.
Now, I don't care what anyone says that ass whipping was warranted. Like Latin said above, his pops made it count too
And that was the last time dude challenged his parents.
Not every kid is the same. Some kids are just bad. For you never spank cats, what would you do if you grounded/took something away and your kid just laughed at you and did it anyway?
If this doesn't happen when the child is young, the two will struggle when the son starts to get bigger.
Now, that doesn't have to be a spanking. But some dudes, and I was friends with some, it had to be.
The kid across the street from me growing up never really got in much trouble, he got grounded a couple times but that's about it. Well, one time when he was about 11, he got in trouble and got grounded. We were playing football outside and he wanted to play. He came outside anyway. His mom was a stay at home mom and she came to the door and told him to come back inside because he was grounded.
He waved her off and said he would come back in later. She came out to get him by the arm, he pushed her hand back, not crazy or aggressive, he was laughing like it was a joke. Eventually she went back inside.
Well, I guess she called his pops at work because he came home, walked over and told lil dude to get inside and never disrespect his mother again.
Lil dude looked at his pops then turned back towards us to play and said some shit under his breath and the ass whipping started.
Now, I don't care what anyone says that ass whipping was warranted. Like Latin said above, his pops made it count too
And that was the last time dude challenged his parents.Not every kid is the same. Some kids are just bad. For you never spank cats, what would you do if you grounded/took something away and your kid just laughed at you and did it anyway?
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Here is the thing. You have to know your child and know what motivates and drives them. One of my kids hates it if you tale away phone and laptop. The other hates spankings. So I use different methods for each of them to keep them on line, motivate them to do better, become responsible for their actions to lead them on the right path.
And I never dole out punishment when I'm angry. I will wait a few, think on it, then decide punishment. With one, I swoop through and gather phone and laptop, the other I come in with the belt.
And I never dole out punishment when I'm angry. I will wait a few, think on it, then decide punishment. With one, I swoop through and gather phone and laptop, the other I come in with the belt.
Spanking doesn't do shit but take the stress of your everyday life out on your kid(s).....now taking their PS3 phone Ipad
Exactly!!!
My kid's grades started slipping because he spent too much time on his favorite websites. I keyword blocked them at the router so he can't even Google them. The grades came right back up. I doubt if hitting would do shit except piss him off, that's the effect it had on me.
Spanking usually doesn't do anything but send messages that you truly don't care and that it is okay to solve things with violence. It doesn't work on anyone but it is the quickest way to assert control.
People also have this fallacious notion that because they survived the beatings that it is okay, but many people have survived all types of trauma that still doesn't legitimize them.
Hitting is the non-thinking man's way to resolve a problem. No 2 ways about it.
I can see your point, but when you're dealing with a 5 year old a swift pop on the behind can be a lot more effective than a dissertation on why it isn't a good idea to run full speed through the house like it is an obstacle course.
I can probably count on one hand how many times that I've spanked my 6 year old, where the spanking consisted of more than one pop on the behind to get his attention.
If I actually kept track of my 'threat of popping him on the butt' to 'actually popping him on the butt', the ratio would end up being like 20 to 1.
But I'm lucky and I have a very well behaved son. However he does try his mom a lot more often because he knows that all she is going to do is complain and he's not going to have to face any consequences for his actions with her.
Spanking doesn't do shit but take the stress of your everyday life out on your kid(s).....now taking their PS3 phone Ipad
Yes, taking away something the kids cherish will teach them more in the long run. If the power company gave you the choice of, 1)taking an ass kicking and keeping your electric on, or 2)cutting you off for not paying your bill, I'm sure we would all take the ass kicking, but what would it teach us?
i need a age range to have a proper discussion cause trying to rationale to a 2-3 year old?
I DO NOT CONDONE SPANKING BUT...
would ACTUAL PARENTS respond to this,
Is there an age where spanking is completely unacceptable and at what age is spanking and time-out, punishment acceptable to YOU???
I DO NOT CONDONE SPANKING BUT...
would ACTUAL PARENTS respond to this,
Is there an age where spanking is completely unacceptable and at what age is spanking and time-out, punishment acceptable to YOU???
My wife has the "evil" look that stops even my bratty jr. dead in his tracks. I take after my dad, talking and screwing with ya mind. My daughter is no problem at all but my son requires evil look, talking and spanking (1 so far
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at this day and age.....punishing kids by taking away any ability for them to socialize via internet or phone is more than enough. my kids feel like the world has come to an end when i take away their phones, laptop, and ps3. but back in the day.....me and my brothers used to get our asses killed. my mama used to come home from the grocery store with switches tucked down in the bags with the rest of the shit.
If you have children then you're probably failing them as we speak because you're too scared to discipline ur kids..I know you think ur know what you're talking about..But from the outside looking in you're failing
I've heard so many white parent say the verbatim then their drive them so mad at times that they instead curse them out like the were the KKK facing a full black audience on jerry springer..
Dude these guys either don't have kids or their kids don't whatever they want(kids run the house)
If you have to spank ur child after the age of 6/7 then ur failing
At 2 to 3 yrs old if you get to a point where you have to spank ur child it shouldn't be more than one smack, you shouldn't be angry, you should spank on the butt or the wrist, and you should always explain why they were spanked
Spanking is not acceptable at any age. Only a Monster would abuse their own child. If you are watching your children, how much trouble can they get into. And what ever little trouble that happens. Put some bass in your voice, or give em a good stare.
NO sir...a spanking is necessary..In order to set the tone for future looks stare and threats...I'm sure your kids will grow to not respect you..
Every child doesnt need spankings but most do atleast one
Getting rid of spanking is like being the President of the United states, and you get rid of all your nukes. Sooner, or later, shit gets crazy.
You're an idiot. Your kids will work for mine. I wanna thank you ahead of time for beating them into submission.
This all day!
My moms was just sayn to me she is proud of how i explain things to my daugthers.. u have to, cause it may not sink in today, but it does! It definitely work for me when moms n dad brought me up!!!
SPoken like a true cracka...I dont beat shit into submission..White boy and My kids won't be working for your asswhipe because their trust fund will make sure of that...As a matter of fact my kids will be richer than i am when it's all said an done..So what the fuck are you saying but some cracker shit...
Truth is your kids will grow up being disrespectful and not knowing what consequences are...I can tell what kids don't get spanked at home....
RTM862 before i respond to you anymore please post in that steelwill thread because i strong believe you lack melanin
Spanking worked when I was growing up. Now 35 and times have changed. Spanking isn't as effective as it once was. I too take privileges away from my son. He's twelve now and when he starts feeling himself too much and being disrepectful, talking back, he knows that a jab to chest could come his way. No more spanking. I recall a few months back when I was getting on him and his voice went up one to many octaves and before I knew it, he was on the floor cus I'd punched him in the chest. He freaked out but i was like, I didn't even hit you hard because if I had you'd still be on the floor. Haven't had that problem since though.
Don't tell these dudes nothing it's clear that they either dont have kids or they're raising snot nosed faggots
Nah. We're just not raising wild animals that need to be beaten from time to time. We're raising civil human beings.
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NO dude u are not listening you shouldn't have to spank your kids more than a few times in their lifetime..U dont spank with anger also..And spanking doesn't work with all kids I've only had to spank 1 out of my three kids more than once..(every time it was something serious that needed to stop right away or it could lead to serious injury)
My one daughter had a thing for trying to stick object and toys in electrical sockets..After being lectured and told no severals times what am I to do when she still try to do it anyway..Well she got a nice pop on the behind and another lecture..And sure enough she stopped doing it
Maybe you're blessed with children who listen and dont knock a parent for trying to be a parent...And i should take a step back and apologize for talk greasy because i speak from a parent who does not WANT to spank his children but I will if i feel it's necessary...
Spanking is a LAST RESORT so i really dont understand why you all have a problem...
And really "wild animals"? So i'm whipping my kids with sticks and such now...Some of you dudes are hella homotional
Pretty much.....kats talking about hitting 2-3 year olds wtf
Too lazy to try anything else and its sad.
Your comparison is absurd.
Basically
I got away from spanking my kids once they grew out of the toddler phase. I'm a single dad with 2 girls, and it just feels wrong... I also don't want them to grow up subliminally thinking its acceptable for a man to hit them...
But a cold stare, menacing tone, and taking away the Wii does WONDERS homie
Respect to you, sir, on raising girls and doing it alone.
Rick Ronson
Banned
I had to fuck my son up this morning for trying to be grown. (10yo)
Nigga actually tried to swing on pops not realizing his dad is an excellent counter puncher.
I slipped his jab and caught him with the body head combo and he wilted like a rose in November.
I may have cracked his lil rib cage.
I told him to go lay down for a while and gave him some Motrin.
I dont give a fuck about the police this is my kid.
I dare one of you mothafuckas to call the police on me.
Nigga actually tried to swing on pops not realizing his dad is an excellent counter puncher.
I slipped his jab and caught him with the body head combo and he wilted like a rose in November.
I may have cracked his lil rib cage.
I told him to go lay down for a while and gave him some Motrin.
I dont give a fuck about the police this is my kid.
I dare one of you mothafuckas to call the police on me.
I had to fuck my son up this morning for trying to be grown. (10yo)
Nigga actually tried to swing on pops not realizing his dad is an excellent counter puncher.
I slipped his jab and caught him with the body head combo and he wilted like a rose in November.
I may have cracked his lil rib cage.
I told him to go lay down for a while and gave him some Motrin.
I dont give a fuck about the police this is my kid.
I dare one of you mothafuckas to call the police on me.
Stop taking your Beyonce hate out on your kid Rick....
Rick Ronson
Banned
I aint mad at the bitch......we do what we have to in order to survive.
She exploited the man against woman shit....even while married.
That shit is kinda clever for real...or these bitches just slow.
They probably dont give a fuck that they werent her personal tales
just the fact that many of these poor choice making bitches could
relate to the shit so she sold big.
But shit is what it is....im learning to accept this more lately.
Who the fuck am I to judge the bitch she already has a fucked up Uterus?
Bless her heart.
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